#queer group therapy

[always-reading]

YALL just finished reading oh, my, love is a lie! by artiest on ao3 and it was AMAZING literally incredible highly highly recommended

#marauders #wolfstar #remus lupin #sirius black #jegulus #james potter #regulus black #rosekiller #barty crouch jr #evan rosier #dorlene #dorcas meadowes #marlene mckinnon #lily evans #pandora is amazing #fabian prewett #minerva mcgonagall #ao3 #queer love #queer group therapy

[myceliumbutch]

Can the "trans men are oppressors" crowd do me a favor and try to find mental health resources for trans men in their area? And I mean real resources not just videos and articles. Any support groups for trans men? Any therapy groups? Are local queer centers reaching out for specific resources to trans men? Does the local sexual health center have information about birth control, abortions, fertility? Is there a shelter for trans men that they can be safe in without misgendering themselves? Are there any social groups for trans men?

If they're so privileged, where the fuck is it?

#babble babble #Cant find group therapy that would help #cant find anything for people like me #this is NOT an online take im so mad #im in a big queer city and there is NOTHING #transandrophobia

[vanhelsingapologist]

but if the silence takes you, then I hope it takes me too

-

wip that I may never finish but then again maybe.

#Curse of Strahd #dungeons and dragons #dnd #dnd character #godfrey gwilym #we met Godfrey and uh I’ve determined that we need to get Kasimir and Godfrey together for some group therapy #just two queer men with more problems than a worksheet #sorry 4 death cab posting it will happen again #dnd npc

[luminarai]

took a swan dive into the kent parson tag and rediscovered @bittysthesis ‘parse doing a house tour like matthew gray gubler’ posts and it’s exactly the type of low key but deeply chaotic energy I like to imagine him having

#kent parson #omgcp #omgcheckplease #check please #my mental timeline of Kent parson’s inner development looks approximately like this: #parse at 18: nobody can know I’m gay #parse at 28: if you haven’t figured out I’m gay then that’s your personal problem not mine #does it take a shit ton of therapy and a strong support network? obv but hey #that’s what most of us need anyway #just imagining Kent making queer friends who are like ‘oh you have issues?? bish join the club’ #’we have brunch once a month and an over active group chat that vacillates wildly between hilarity and soul baring vulnerability’ #me holding a under developed character like a potato: I just think they’re neat #cecil continues her lurch down the memory lane that is check please #my art

[sepulchritude]

Why is my mom trying to insist on sending me tuition as if she didn’t tell me multiple times that they’d stop supporting me if I transitioned. As if I didn’t say okay and have been transitioning and covering my own tuition for two semesters already. Why is she saying “we intended to pay for your tuition” like nothing happened and as if we haven’t already had this conversation. What happened to my parents why do they always use money like this.

#i know this isn’t like relatable but WHY all the financial manipulation!! #how about using that money to go to therapy!! or go attend support groups for parents of queer people!! #just stop with this! #if you want to repair things then put in the fucking work!!! #sepulchritudinous

[shititsarobyn]

A little sketch drawing on touch starvation because GODDAMMIT AO3 revealed something about myself to me again >:c

(Unscanned version)

#traditional art #artists on tumblr #no I will not tell you what fandom I was reading from #i am embarrassed #and I know I shouldn’t be but shut up I’m being vulnerable #touch starved #touch starvation #vent art #kinda #ink art #ink drawing #trauma ig #this lil artist has lore (; #aka deeply problematic group relationships with my friends at a young age #queer #gay #nonbinary #enby artist #art therapy #original art #my art #horror art #art

[gender-euphowrya]

damn the ''queer kids can sniff each other out'' thing is so true fr my entire middle school friend group is gay

#just found out my primary school bestie's boyfriend i keep seeing pics of her with on facebook is actually a butch KGJFJDS #i'd only ever seen pics of them really up close like just their faces and she's got that buzzcut & glasses Classic look #but this time she posted a pic of them together as like full body shots and i did a double take like. BOOBS????? #so yeah wow #the FUNNIEST part though about this #is the one guy who was openly gay in my friend group at the time is now a straight jehovah's witness GKFJD #the one guy we Knew was queer turned out not to be #everyone else who we thought was straight turned out not to be!!!! #welcome to my old friend group we have the trans bi me the 2 bi girls the lesbian and the femme4butch gal #and the conversion therapied guy we don't talk about #hhhh

[gxlden-angels]

Your girl calling me Abraham the way I stay sacrificing my children to her

#Me penisless: what if I made a joke based on having a penis balls and sperm #'Me penisless' has become my favorite way to start sentences now #but yea I haven't been very active here in making my own original posts #cause I've been mostly working thru shit with my abusive ex in therapy #and some of it is religious/spiritually based but most of the current stuff isn't #the main reason I stayed so long was the idea of the marital due and the fact it was drilled into me that I was at fault for any break ups #I also lived at home with my bio family still so I couldn't talk about it and get feedback I needed to get out yet #they'd prob blame the premarital sex and queerness #so yea that's been on my mind #uh gay ppl real I helped with a drag show and it was incredible #there was a queen who did a fire show #and I love all of the performers they're all so sweet #If any of you have heard of the Les Vixens I'm in love with the leader of that group she's so sweet #and absolutely stunning #she stood over me and had light behind her I thought I was seeing an angel irl #I just love it when women #ex christian #religious trauma

[jamesunderwater]

after all the drama from this silly little comment, the overarching important detail of today was

i got the internship!!

#and tomorrow i find out about the job which i am not hyperventilating about at /all/ #the internship i was much more confident in #but also it's a HUGE relief to know what my internship will be next year and that the content and the hours of it aren't gonna kill me #also i'll get to lead therapy groups with incarcerated individuals (in and out of jail) and even do 1 on 1 therapy with those who want to!! #AND possibly create and lead trainings on trans/queer birth and parenting (bc that's what my thesis is on) #like this internship is kind of whatever i want to make it and i'm so excited #charlie chats #me

[byler-alarmist]

I want a girlfriend but I'm an ugly lesbian :(

Hey, Anon! Well, first off, I doubt you're as unattractive as you think. We're usually our own worst critics (I can attest to that).

But even if you aren't physically attractive by conventional standards, so what? I see people walking around and online all the time who I wouldn't consider conventionally attractive yet are in relationships. And they look happy!

It's true that as a lesbian, your dating pool is smaller than if you were straight, but the sapphics are out there!!

Some people have success finding dates on apps, but if you're comfortable going out, I'd recommend joining some groups/clubs/doing social activities you're interested in, since getting to know like-minded women in person is a great way to show off who you are. Your interests, your skills, your quirks that someone will fall in love with. And who knows? You may meet new friends or pick up a new hobby in the meantime!

Final thoughts: you are enough. And as my grizzled and surly old coworker used to say, "There's a lid for every pot!"

I try to remember that for myself.

#i'm mostly ok with my looks atp #there are plenty of heavy or plain ppl that are happily married or dating #i can get dates if i wanted to #it's my brain that i fear that makes me unlovable #that's going to take a lot of therapy to work through but i'm trying #also maybe therapy could help you deal with neg self-talk too anon? #there are queer-friendly therapists out there #but anyway i wish you luck in your search!! #lmk if you decide to join any groups or take a class to meet ppl! #some ppl find each other via discord etc but i'm old fashioned i guess 💗 #thank you for the ask! #lovely anon #asks #sapphic dating #lesbians #i've been voluntarily a hermit and celibate for some time now bc of reasons #but who knows maybe i'll follow my own advice and try to be more social this year

[lost-and-created]

You're posting anime high schooler panty shots uwu and sending death threats to your ex, while calling them delusional.

I'm tripping over that ex's panties while rearranging the furniture and offering them a comforting hug while they struggle to keep up with the amount of spam accounts/posts you and your friends keep making.

We are not the same.

#stop it. get some help. #get a grip #therapy is needed #bullying a group of queer people for defending their friend? kinda phobic if you aks me.

[crossovereddie]

I need to read an Eddie centric fic to hold me over bc I already miss that man more than anything 😩😩

#i wanna reread that one where he hooks up with off brand bucks #and that one where he sucks dick in the club bathroom and later runs into the guy on a call #and the one where he goes to that queer group therapy #and ladf updates man #but I don’t remember any of the names ever lmaoooo #i just finished rereading the amnesia one #but I also wanna read some I’ve never read before

[lilies-are-azules]

I could make a whole essay about why Future State! Jon is the best version of Jon. Like, nothing can top him

[Maybe Jay... But that's not what we are talking about]

#jon kent #dc comics #superman #future state: superman of metropolis #dc #Hear me out #Jon best friend in FS is Wonder women (Yara) #His team its a group of queer people and Batman #He has daddy issues and goes to therapy #And I could keep talking why he is the best #In my hater fanon era

[amurderof-crows]

can i convince my therapist to get ao3?

what happens when you put two neurodivergent queer people in a room for therapy?

currently? i persuade him to engage in my hyperfixations and special interests. so far, he's listened to some of the magnus archives, and read red queen (victoria aveyard)

i wonder. what else can i convince him to do? maybe, read the six year special interest that i've been writing and publishing on ao3?

should i?

#authors #book blog #therapy #neurodivergent #actually autistic #adhd #ao3 writer #creative writing #writeblr #writers on tumblr #gay and mentally ill #neurodivergent queers group together without realising

[lonelyheartsmotel]

i’m looking for advice from other queer poc especially asian ones but im not even sure i’ll find it 😭 how do u guys open urself up to strangers/practitioners like therapists? the one time i had one trauamatic events were literally happening while i was seeing her and i could never bring myself to talk about anything other than surface level insecurities and feelings. how do u combat the insurmountability of being known?

#a first step is looking for a queer asian therapist too but LOOOOOOL #did anyone else connect a little to hard with netflix beef’s western therapy line #my last therapist was queer but white #i don’t think white porple ever truly understand the reasons for the distinction #it’s hard to understand and articulate myself #but i’m increasingly realizing how culture and identity and even language made me as a person more legible to certain groups than others #when i talk to asian people i feel more like me than ever and it comes as a shock bc i spend most of my time in…another mode #i’m not a different person but i’m in a different mode entirely #there’s something about being around people who share epistemologies with u #share knowledge and common ground

[bigbihatemachine]

The problem with hanging out with terminally online folk is that there are different kinds and there's nothing like the slow realisation they're the uh opposite kind to you

#personal shit #Ppl in my clan keep discussing the wizard game and how much they love it #And also today were discussing how they skipped bill's episode of tlou because YKNOW #And were like I HEAR IT HAD SEX SCENES IN IT and I'm like it's hbo and it was a fade to black you big babies #Man I enjoy my clan less these days #I feel like I'm too queer too trans too left leaning and like... Have had too much therapy #We don't discuss politics in the group but ppl still make comments like the one above which go unchallenged #I'm aware I could have guessed this from runescape but it was super chill in the beginning :(