One thing I’d rather not receive are compliments on “how I actually seem serious about My craft” or how “I’m actually a real Dominant”. Many times it's due to something like My knowledge of kink or because they presume I don't Pro-Dom for monitary pleasure. It's similar to the “not like other girls” sentiments that other people use to degrade Women they don't like or aren't compatible with. . It makes me question whether you're truly complimenting Me or using this opportunity to degrade someone else. Or worse, a pathetic attempt to entice and coerce me by degrading the other Woman who wouldn't let you manipulate Her. I fear, I’m not that Woman either and I don't do anything to impress those who think I must fit their fantasy of a perfect Dominant. There are frauds in every field, but far more authentic Pro-Dominants.
If you're going to compliment Me, do that and only that. Choose something like expressing what it is about Me that actually inspires your submission. Or how moved you are by my dedication to My unique craft. And I should note, if you're inspired because you don't think I require financial sacrifice for the experiences I create, kindly keep it pushing.
The only reason I don't write that in neon flashing lights or tweet about it 24/7 is because it's a given expectation with Me. I'm a Professional, a Goddess and a Business owner, I make that very clear. I also love Financial Domination both in and out of My professional space. In case you're unaware,
Yes, I do this for monetary pleasure.
Yes, I do this for reparations.
Yes, I do this for cathartic self-exploration.
Yes, I do this to honor My authentic Dominance.
If the idea of all these motives coexisting baffles you, it's safe to assume I will as well.
Sometimes you can't judge yourself using other's morals. People will say your wrong and maybe you are wrong. But humans are animals just like any other. We just have the ability to recognize and improve ourselves. But any animal gets lost in comfort, after all comfort is comfortable isn't it. So we lose ourselves, we lose our way. But we can navigate our way back.
Except there's no map back, no GPS. But there's no need for one. There is only one path, laid right in front of you, but every step on that path you feel the glass beneath your feet. Like the mermaid, who apparently was only skin deep. The question is will you stand there in comfort.
The pain will help you grow, but it's painful isn't it. You don't have to walk the path, it's your free choice. But one day you may be thrown forward. On that day you will wish you had walked the path and became familiar with the pain. For you I hope such a day will never come.
Maybe that's what they try to teach us, the people who hurt us. The people who yell at us, the one's who instruct us to be disciplined. They try to get us to walk down the path ourselves. Instead of being pulled along the path because as you stood in your comfort you missed the rope wrapped around your waste.
When the rope begins to pull you can't fight it and you can't see who's pulling the rope at the end. Until it's too late and you see the person who pulled the rope was you. A different you, someone who looks like you but you can't face that version of you. Because the pain is too unfamiliar, it is too agonizing. It's hard to make out the silhouette behind the tears in your eyes.
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The Wealth Mindset: Cultivating Abundance in Your Financial Life
Introduction
Welcome to the journey of cultivating a wealth mindset. In this article, we'll explore the power of mindset in shaping your financial reality and uncover strategies to foster abundance in your financial life.
1. Understanding the Wealth Mindset
At its core, the wealth mindset is a belief system that focuses on abundance rather than scarcity. It involves adopting a positive attitude towards money and viewing financial success as attainable and within reach.
2. Shifting from Scarcity to Abundance
The first step in cultivating a wealth mindset is to shift your perspective from scarcity to abundance. Instead of dwelling on what you lack, focus on the abundance that surrounds you. Practice gratitude for what you have and believe in your ability to create more wealth.
3. Embracing Positive Affirmations
Positive affirmations are powerful tools for rewiring your subconscious mind and reinforcing a wealth mindset. Repeat affirmations such as "I am worthy of abundance" and "Money flows to me effortlessly" daily to internalize positive beliefs about money.
4. Setting Clear Financial Goals
Goal setting is essential for creating a roadmap to financial success. Set clear, achievable goals that align with your values and vision for the future. Break down your goals into smaller milestones and celebrate each achievement along the way.
5. Adopting a Growth Mindset
A growth mindset is the belief that you can continuously improve and develop your skills and abilities. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and learning, rather than setbacks. Stay open to new ideas and strategies for building wealth.
6. Taking Inspired Action
A wealth mindset is not just about positive thinking; it also requires taking inspired action towards your goals. Take proactive steps to manage your finances wisely, invest in yourself and your future, and seek out opportunities for growth and expansion.
7. Practicing Financial Discipline
Financial discipline is crucial for maintaining long-term wealth and prosperity. Practice mindful spending, live within your means, and prioritize saving and investing for the future. Avoid impulsive purchases and focus on building wealth steadily over time.
8. Surrounding Yourself with Success
Surround yourself with people who inspire and support your financial goals. Seek out mentors, coaches, and peers who have achieved the level of success you aspire to. Learn from their experiences and emulate their mindset and habits.
Conclusion
Cultivating a wealth mindset is a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. By shifting your perspective from scarcity to abundance, embracing positive affirmations, setting clear financial goals, adopting a growth mindset, taking inspired action, practicing financial discipline, and surrounding yourself with success, you can unlock the abundance that awaits you in your financial life.
"A penny saved is a penny earned." - Benjamin Franklin
Sanjay Mohindroo
Sanjay Mohindroo. stayingalive.in
Discover the transformative power of saving and investing with the timeless wisdom of “A penny saved is a penny earned.” Learn how to prioritize saving, harness the power of compound interest, cultivate financial discipline, and build wealth for a secure financial future.
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