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nld-as-insights · 10 months
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What is Alexithymia?
Alexithymia (Uh-lex-uh-thigh-me-uh) is a medical term for difficulty recognizing and expressing one’s own emotions. It can be a part of various diagnoses such as non-verbal learning disorder.
For example, once, I took a test and wondered why my hand was shaking as a was writing the answers. I wondered if I had suddenly acquired a neurological disorder that causes tremors. Then I realized that my hand was shaking because I was nervous about the test. While many people experience moments when they do not know how they are feeling, most would recognize their own nervousness if it was strong enough to make their hand shake. 
Another time, I noticed that for a few days, it was taking me longer than usual to eat my sandwich for lunch. It took cognitive effort to realize that it was taking me a while to eat lunch because I was losing my appetite, and to then realize that I was losing my appetite because I was anxious about a specific situation. 
If these experiences seem familiar to you, you might want to work with someone who has experience helping people learn to recognize their emotions.
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memoriae-lectoris · 9 months
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Upset people often cannot formulate for themselves what they are meaning to say. They ramble on and on, not even knowing that they are in stream-of-consciousness mode. This is called associative processing, and it occurs when one idea triggers another idea, which triggers something completely different, which diverges onto another thought, and so forth. Essentially, the autonomous part of the speaker’s decision-making system is spewing forth whatever comes to mind.
She starts to repeat herself, she is blocking. Blocking occurs when someone cannot process consciously a set of emotions. She repeats herself over and over as she tries to make sense of what she is feeling. Your response is to affect label, even if you repeat yourself.
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imentiv · 1 month
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thetejasamale · 1 year
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elbdot · 5 months
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Here comes a very special mare Her name was "Ode". She was like mother nature incarnated. Visiting her was special. She had an incredibly soothing, calming aura to her. Petting her made you feel grounded, as you stood next to her incredibly massive body and her enormous hooves. And she was as patient and kind as ever to every soul who came to spend her a visit.
We loved her dearly. But the farmer who owned her didn't take care of her well. After selling his other horses, Ode was standing alone on a paddock for over half a year. No one brought her into the stable, no one gave her any shelter and no one took care of her hooves. We tried everything to get Ode away from her owner, but in the end, the only solution was money. After we collected enough from friends and family and invested some of our savings, we bought her free and found a new loving home for her.
Ode lived another beautiful year owned by a loving family on a big farm with lots of other horses and instantly became the new leader of the herd. We stayed in contact with the family and heard how well Ode was doing, how much she blossomed in her new home. But one winter morning, she refused to get up. Through the neglect of her former owner, she had developed arthrosis in her legs and she was unable to stand without pain. Her family decided to release her. That was a couple of years ago. I still miss her dearly. She has left a lasting impression on me like no other horse ever has and I wouldn't be surprised if she was a Goddess of nature in disguise. Despite her life being cut short, I am glad we were able to give her one last year full of love and joy.
Cheers to you, Ode, on whichever plain you're now running free💖
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ourflagmeansgayrights · 9 months
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community that has only seen themselves represented in a small handful of romance stories that aren’t explicitly about their real-world oppression, watching a new show or movie where they are represented in a romantic story that isn’t explicitly about their real-world oppression: getting a lot of “that other show with a queer romance that isn’t explicitly about real-world homophobia” vibes from this
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thelostgirl21 · 4 months
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One thing I really want to see happen in Season 4...
Valdo Marx: Nice to see you again, Joseph!
Jaskier: *Heavy sigh* That's -
Yarpen: *Stepping in front of him protectively.* Julian Alfred Pankratz to you, you dying sounding beached whale! Only his friends call him Joseph!
Jaskier: Ah, actually, that's Jaskier.
Yarpen: *Dismissively.* Yeah, I KNOW.
Jaskier: *Getting all teary eyed.* I know you do.
#The Witcher#Jaskier#Yarpen Zigrin#Their friendship is legendary#Valdo Marx#Their rivalry is a legendary#Does Valdo know Jaskier is a honorary member of a fierce dwarven mercenary company yet?#No but seriously I kind of headcanon that the reason Yarpen is so pissed at continuously being reminded that Jaskier's named#Julian Alfred Pankratz#Is because he noticed that Geralt and even Yennefer were calling him “Jaskier”#While Jaskier introduced himself to Yarpen using his whole freaking name!#Jaskier just wanted to be respectful and polite#Yarpen took it as a desire to put some emotional distance between them and imply he hadn't earned the right to call him by his#Chosen / preferred named#And then despite all they went through together on that mountain and claiming to be a friend#Jaskier still continues to insist on introducing himself using his full bloody name!#Like what does a dwarf have to do to get some familiarity and recognition of kinship from that bloody bard?#But then Jaskier puts his life on the line to help Yarpen's men...#And Yarpen realizes that Jaskier cares enough to take an arrow to the back (or to the lute at least) to keep them safe..#He's not a warrior that revels in the rush of battle!#He's just a scared bard rushing headfirst into the fray just because he wants to help any injured dwarves#Even if that means potentially sacrificing himself...#So maybe human customs are weird...#Maybe Jaskier has been waiting for *HIM* to start calling him “Jaskier” and officially signal the start of a friendship...#Maybe that formal introduction wasn't a slight on Jaskier's part and that overgrown puppy of a bard has been waiting for Yarpen to finally#adopt him like an idiot!#And so Yarpen chooses to skip the formalities and go straight for “thank you JASKIER” to make it clear that he does consider him a friend..#My Posts#My thoughts#In tags form
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daily-hanamura · 7 months
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Ted: I gotta go!
Bill: Aren't you forgetting something?
Ted: Uh *Turns back and hesitantly kisses Bill's forehead and runs out the door*
Bill: Pay your tab! Damn who raised you?
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memoriae-lectoris · 9 months
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The class of insults involving “You don’t care about me” generally means the opposite. Friends and family who say things like this in anger feel abandoned and unloved in the moment. Your strategy is to label those feelings so that your friend can process them. You know what will happen if you deny, excuse, or rationalize the emotions. Because you are invalidating your friend’s feelings, you make matters worse.
When people are fired up about your mistakes, they are not ready for your apology. They have to be calm for an apology to have any meaning. Likewise, problem-solving to make things right can only happen when emotions are cooled down. Frequently, emotions under insulting language between friends include sadness, grief, loneliness, and abandonment. Either due to fear of vulnerability or lack of awareness, upset friends do not easily express these deeper emotions.
Remember that most people, including your spouse, are emotionally incompetent. An early-twentieth-century philosopher, Thorstein Veblen, coined the term trained incapacity. That’s what we have in our relationships: a trained incapacity to listen to each other at a deep level. That incapacity was programmed into us by our parents, our peers, and our culture. Emotions are bad; rationality is good. Mr. Spock is admirable.
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imentiv · 1 month
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aro-culture-is · 5 months
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Aro culture is wanting to scream at your friend to just dump their hateful racist asshole boyfriend, while at the same time knowing that they won't listen to you because they are in love and apparently, that erases their ability for critical thinking
While also not saying any of that because it would be rude
A "hateful racist asshole boyfriend" sounds ripe for a situation in which your friend could be dating someone actively grooming them for domestic abuse.
In those cases, individuals often already have poor boundary control, and it's not the critical thinking actually missing: it's the security that creating boundaries doesn't mean losing someone who they feel cares about them. Judgements on their ability to "think clearly" are both misplaced and encouraged by the abusers, as worsening self esteem leads to an abuse victim seeking comfort... often from the abuser.
I think it's very, very important to recognize that the best thing you can do for them is to be there, continually reaffirm that they can always tell you anything, and rather than pressure them to break up... ask them to tell you about the relationship. You can guide them to red flags, but also try to present possible communication elements. There are guides online by great resources talking about how to best support these conversations.
And, of course, it's always possible it is simply that your friend actually is racist and they put up with the behavior because of that. It's not hard for some bigots to find an in through less overt bigotry. But I strongly encourage folks to realize that "in love with no capacity for critical thought" is a very dangerous warning sign that someone may be unable to recognize healthy boundaries, and worse - to recognize unhealthy boundaries.
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dustyfairywings · 3 months
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So you know how Takayoshi gifted Akemi two songbirds in a cage together as a sincere apology for his mother?
I think those two birds are meant to symbolize both Akemi and Takayoshi. They are both marginalized in some way despite their privilege. Akemi as the daughter of a lord and Takayoshi as the disabled second son of the shogun are both denied agency in their roles despite their privilege. Takayoshi and Akemi both are song birds in a gilded cage. Two pawns to the political and social machinations of their parents. Akemi a victim to her father’s political aspirations and Takayoshi evidently a victim to his mother’s social manipulations.
(Aside: and possibly emotional abuse/neglect, with the way he was forbidden from speaking to women and who knows what actually happened to this first wife. I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that it seems to me like this is all in service of maintaining a “respectable” image of the family, and cannot risk having people know he has a stutter. just spitballing here)
If I were to make a prediction for season 2, or a wish, it’s that I would like to see Akemi and Takayoshi form a genuine bond and alliance as two privileged-yet-marginalized individuals having to navigate a politically fraught and rigidly hierarchical society, and I think there’s at least some textual evidence to support this being a real possibility.
They demonstrate in the show Takayoshi is no fool and that he’s clearly an educated and well-read man. Take how he engages with Akemi’s poetry during sex compared to Taigen as an example. He simply has a disability and is somewhat submissive and subdued (likely due to being shamed or ridiculed for his stutter and getting little to no support as a child). They are capable of being intellectual equals. Any sort of power or control Akemi would gain over Takayoshi is by virtue of the kindness and empathy she is showing him, not because she’s outsmarting him. I believe Takayoshi is willingly surrendering himself to his wife and cognizant of this fact.
I think we may see a dynamic where Akemi will both advocate for her own political ends but also at times advocate for and try to protect her husband where she can where familial and interpersonal relationships are involved. I really really hope their union will be one that grows in political power through the healing power of love, compassion, and solidarity between two marginalized individuals.
They can acknowledge the humanity in each other and see each other as equals in their shared pain and victimization, and find empowerment through each other. If they cannot be their own masters at least they can be each other’s sole masters.
Takayoshi and Akemi may be two songbirds stuck in a gilded cage, stripped of their freedom and humanity. But they at least have each other and together they can harmonize.
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holdoncallfailed · 20 days
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i do like to teehee and haha about mclennon especially now that it's not as #stigmatized but at the end of the day it just makes me so fucking sad man. like...someone killed him straight up murdered him out of nowhere...40 years old...imagine that happening to your best friend across the ocean from you without any sort of notice or opportunity for closure...wouldn't you also want to talk about him every chance you got for the rest of your living days
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