#don’t do dangerous shit

[tariah23]

This is such a harmful sentiment to push considering that you don’t necessarily have to be “attractive,” (beauty is subjective, yada yada) in order for men to want to harm you in the slightest… like man, what…

#the lady talks about being followed and harassed and so on as if every woman and girl in the world regardless of their age and #‘good looks’ #hasn’t experienced this and will continue to #I hate when these girls especially ones who are conveniently attractive talk about stuff like this under the guise of speaking for all #women while x-ing out most women #this easily leads into the realm of ‘you’re too ugly/fat to be assaulted ANYWAY-‘ #talk that I see spread by misogynists and bird brained women like it’s such a natural thing to even say it’s actually rly scary #especially when it comes to the assault shit which is usually about power and control anyway #they don’t care what you look like #you could be covered up head to toe and someone would try to hurt you just because #I hate when women like this go online thinking that they said something open their mouths I really do #rambling #tw assault #got dudes in the comments going ‘she’s not even pretty anyway she’s like a 4 out of 10’ #completely missing the message (as if they care) and see #these are the kinds of people that stuff like this attracts #stuff like this coming out of a woman’s mouth especially is so dangerous #I don’t think I’m the most good looking person in the world and I’ve been followed sm times I had to run away from a guy once and luckily #my bus was right fucking there!!! #then the guy who was harassing me years ago at a bus stop and forced me to hug him and touched my butt and no one else was around to help #me… #and he kept on trying to get me to go back to his apartment around the corner like that was so #the man who followed me into the store as I was shopping and I noticed that he kept on staring at me #then tried to holla and he looked way older than me and I think he was a pastor or something too he had a nice car and tried to get me to #come with him #sm more incidents over the years like this is crazy pls don’t say stuff like this and act like it’s normal #someone in the comments said that people like the woman in the video think that being pretty will free them from the patriarchy and like… #YEAH 😭 #it’s so obvious too lmfao #these be the same women calling themselves ‘girls girls’’

[poebrey]

this generation of kids is so fucked and it’s so depressing to watch in real time. the amount of parents that are like “my preschooler got covid/rsv/had to be hospitalized but it’s ok because kids get sick all the time” is so……in 20 years or so when these kids are in early adulthood we’re going to have an increase in autoimmune diseases and chronic respiratory illnesses along with heart conditions and strokes due to repeated covid infections and researchers are going to be scratching their heads on the cause and ignoring that we let kids go back to schools mid-pandemic with no disease mitigation and then ignored a second respiratory disease resurgence

#it’s **alarming** that between the pandemic and rising pollution #we’re soon going to have a generation that’s less healthy than the previous #we’re failing our youth #also I say covid but before this a lot of schools have mold asbestos shit food lead water etc etc #like we are FAILING these children a lot of them are in worse environments during their school week than most adults #they don’t get a choice or a say like some of these kids are sick nonstop because they’re in dangerous unventilated buildings #but no one realizes because it’s ‘just a cold’ #I know I sound dramatic but a good chunk of my family is in teaching some of these classrooms don’t even have windows??? #meanwhile as adults we have wfh set ups and osha lawsuits and unions doing a tiny bit

[sinistersuns]

I hope more people who feel they’re leftists begin to realize that genuinely hating men AND/OR immediately assuming a man (or someone you perceive as a man) you don’t know is out to harm you is t3rf behavior. This belief will not keep you safe, it’s meant to isolate you and put the marginalized men around you in danger. Hating men will not do shit to the bigoted cishet white men in power, but it’ll tell the marginalized men around you that they aren’t welcome around you. This extends to anyone who looks like cis society’s idea of a man, but isn’t actually one, too - do y’all really think trans people of ANY gender say “okay I’m x gender now” and are immediately treated like that gender by society as a whole? Do you think your fear of anyone with facial hair and a deep voice will stop at dangerous cis men, and that only dangerous cis men have those traits? And I’m specifying DANGEROUS cis men because cis men as a group aren’t inherently dangerous. The way someone looks or identifies says nothing about whether they’re “safe” or not! I thought we fucking learned this!!

#I’m tired of being looked at like I’m a danger and I’m tired of nonpassing transfems being looked at like they’re dangerous #I can’t trust anyone who says they ‘hate men’ because I genuinely don’t know if y’all are joking or not anymore #I used to be someone who genuinely hated cis men because of how I’d been treated by them. but I cut that shit out when I realized how terfy #it is. and beyond that it isn’t fair to cis men as a whole and especially not marginalized cis men #having compassion for a group of people who’ve hurt or even traumatized you is hard. but you have to do it or you’re going to fall into #some form of bigotry that will only hurt the people you claim to support #TO BE CLEAR. ‘a group of people who hurt you’ doesn’t refer to bigoted groups like transphobes or racists etc etc #I’m specifically talking about neutral identities like gender #bigots can go die #transphobia #transmascphobia #transmisogyny #transgender #trans

[canon-gabriel-quotes]

In an interesting coincidence you first mentioned living in Florida the day it was revealed to me I may have to move their and now everytime you mention florida more news about this comes to light . Have you cursed me?

This is not the place for me to go into my insane ramblings but

I’m warning you.

If you can avoid it. Don’t. Don’t. Do it.

Don’t curse yourself.

If at all possible. Don’t. The state is actively running itself into the ground.

#I understand things are sometimes out of your control #but if you aren’t making 100k+ or already rich #you will suffer. immensely. #a shitty bug infested musty ass one bedroom apartment is 2k to rent #the wages here are in the dirt #the traffic. the drivers. #THE WEATHER.. #I can only speak for central and south fl #north fl is the south.. idk what goes on up there. #the more north you go the more south it gets #also if you are anything but mega straight or cis HOLY SHIT. DONT DO IT. #like it’s actually dangerous. #don’t. #ask me how I know.. ha. hahaha. get me outta here. #non voice post #ask #asks

[prodogg]

Can’t even speak your daughters name, please just spare me the false pretense, it’s sickening Heuchlerisch/Scheinheilig . Why "care" suddenly now hours later after she could be dead in some jungle but not right then and there when you still were at Hiraa and got your memories back…. okay vent over it continuous in the tags

Edit: Since people like to miss the point here, the writing decision of making Ursa suddenly care out of nowhere without showing any interest or care after getting her face in Hiraa for Azula or Zuko’s face is just very shallow to me, they can tell me all they want how Zuko searched, and apparently Ursa "helped". Her reaction upon seeing them for the first time again told me everything I as reader have to know. Then, seeing her crying on the boat is like a slap since it’s then feels very shallow, especially since she can’t even name Azula by name and says the "other" one.

#if you can’t tell I despise Comic’s Ursa #and don’t come with the 'but she was abused shit' it doesn’t excuse being a shitty character #or do you hear me excuse Azula killing Aang because abuse or Zuko stealing from The EK civilians #Zuko has a scar?! eh nothing wrong about that #My daughter running in a dangerous jungle ?! all fine #Smoke and Shadow is irredeemably bad #the search could be salvaged but Smoke and Weed shot the bird from the sky #anti comic Ursa #anti atla comics #azula #zuko #we have a word in German for how I felt she said this false pretense ihre heuchlerische Art #okay vent over #Ursa #atla #avatar the last airbender #pd talks #it’s feels just shallow

[panic-in-the-multiverse]

… So I just watched the two episodes of Bad Batch and I… I need some time to process that last episode, not just the content of it but what it means for the future of the last 4 episodes

#well Hunter’s gonna be mad #was lowkey scared for Hunter’s life #omega I love you but please stop with your plans if they put you in danger #I knew crosshairs hand shaking would make something bad happen #to be fair tho he was stacked and the ship had already started ti fly away #Wrecker baby if you’re not fine by the next episode I will personally attack the clone #even if it is tech #btw the clones voice sound like Cody and tech but I don’t think it’s Cody tho #Cody lives somewhere with a somewhat happy life #Hunter baby please don’t do anything stupid next episode #missing Echo tho #can’t we get a happy ending for once #and not just something that looks like defeat on defeat #guess I was right when I said the last few episodes had been the calm before the storm #holly shit there’s only four episodes left #the bad batch #the bad batch spoilers #tbb hunter #tbb spoilers #tbb omega #tbb wrecker #tbb crosshair

[whump-queen]

begging someone to hold a gun to my head so my brain will finally make me do my dishes, laundry, vacuuming, job applications, emails, messages,, just to get anything done at all without constantly wanting to die

#executive dysfunction is a fucking hellscape and I want out I want out I wantoutoutout #fuck my liiifee #seriously the threat of imminent immediate danger is the only way I can do fucking anything #executive dysfunction #the kind that makes me wanna BANG MY HEAD INTO THE NEAREST HARD SURFACE UNTIL I CANT SEE ANYMORE #death sounds preferable !!!!!!!!! #all those bullshit articles written by nt ppl like ‘MAKE A LIST!!1!1 BREAK DOWN UR TASKS!!!1!’ #THANKS BRENDA BUT ID RATHER PLUCK MY EYELASHES OUT ONE BY ONE #I literally gave my coworker $100 in cash the other day and said #’if I don’t have that report for u by tomorrow you get to KEEP THE $100.’ #because I COULD NOT DO IT OTHERWISE ID BEEN RIPPING MY HAIR OUT FOR WEEKS OVER THAT ONE THING #if u have exec dysfunction and have any tips for me other than putting myself in danger like - pls help ohmygod #legit a cry for help I don’t know what anyone would do but like #god damn a button that lets someone shock me remotely if I don’t do the shit i’m #supposed to do #I ACTUALLY NEED THAT IT WOULD SAVE MY LIFE HHAA #tw mental health #tw suicidality #adhd #tw implied suicidal tendencies #vent #personal

[milimeters-morales]

(NOT ATSV) my ideal miguel and miles friendship (bordering on enemies) dynamic is where Miles is sort of a Mean Girls figure where he’ll say the worst things to Miguel, who actually has no problems dishing that shit right back out, is usually too fed up or somewhere else mentally to reply. They fight a lot, more physically than verbally, usually in a slapstick comedy type of way. Miles is banned from Nueva York once a month and got a restraining order against Miguel in his own dimension. His parents fucking hate him and Miguel hates them right back. Rio has tried and failed to poison him via food and Jeff is considering hiring a hitman. Gabriel is beloved by them. Miles takes Miguel’s money at least twice a week to go spend it just because he can. Miguel has tried (and succeeded once) to get Miles sick with a future illness because he figured out the lesbian bar Miguel liked to perform at in drag. Miles has cried at least once in every room of Miguel’s apartment and Miguel has been confused on what to do each time besides an awkward hug and pat on the back. People are rightfully worried for Miles’s safety at least 80% of the time but when they aren’t they’re shaking their heads at the two’s antics. They need to be separated until they have a healthy “this is a grown ass man / this is stupid little girl i don’t like at work” relationship and it’ll take an act of god for either of them to realize their current one isn’t healthy at all and has extremely negative impacts on their mental state.

#i wanna write this so badly bc like . this type of relationship with adults as a kid when you can’t 100% trsut them and place your safety + #in their hands is sooo interesting to write esp considering Miguel’s past and what Miles is used to #which is dangerous fights from adults (his villains) but also the loving ones like his parents his neighbors ripeter and peter b etc #and this miguel (imo) wouldn’t hurt miles on purpose because he knows the pain BUT he also doesn’t realize some shit is pain-causing both+ #mentally and physically bc yknow some abused kids grow into adults who subconsciously do similar shit #and for Miles and Miguel to finally realize beating the shit out of each other almost constantly and the negative back and forth (if miguel #feels like talking that day) is just. not a good thing #it’s sort of like the way i write pavitr and miles’s relationship regarding their fighting because it’s genuinely helpful but #can seem borderline awful and physically abusive to each other #peter b is so fucking worried sometimes bc he sees Miguel in a completely different way than other people. like he’s off in lala land #like. he’ll see this 15 year old stickbug of a kid fighting his buddy Miguel who has been known to kill #he’ll say some fights tou just can’t win Miles… and Miles is setting Miguel’s apartment on fire #like they have good moments. okay. trust me. but a toxic friendship like the kind you see that people take too seriously from a show like. #idk bluey. or some kids show like that. #spiderverse fans DNI ‼️‼️‼️🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️‼️‼️‼️ #not ship never ship don’t even tag is as such bc i’ll just delete the post #miles morales #spiderman #spider man #gabriel o’hara #rio morales #jefferson morales #miguel o’hara #m&m posts

[bitter-sweet-coffee]

i think my problem with a lot of the tails and wave content that’s out there (besides the ship content we all know that’s the bottom of the barrel) is that people… LOVE to make tails win in the end. and like. i’m so sorry but no the fuck he would not LMAO

listen, LISTEN. i know i’m biased as a wave girlie, but seriously. wave’s whole thing is that she not only gets under his skin and outdoes him, but that he’s just simply not at her level when it comes to mechanics. inventions? whole other story, there’s a mandate restriction shimmied in there somewhere about eggman and tails. mechanics? EXTREME GEAR??? run, dude.

in the end, wave is very clever and also mean. tails isn’t going to get a last minute victory or upper hand, he isn’t going to “school her” or put her in her place… he is going to get bullied by her. sure he can land a few hits back but unfortunately wave isn’t going to give him the time of day required for him to even rebuttal.

“but in his spinoffs—“ i am so sorry to break it to you but wave is a rival, not a villain. tails can’t murder her, hell, their fight is of an intellectual nature not a physical one! tails does not win by fighting wave, the whole point of her character is that she’s older, more experienced, more specialized, and more cutthroat than him in her field. die and stay mad at it guys, tails isn’t coming out of this one unscathed

#semi vent #wave the swallow #tails the fox #it is SO dangerous putting this in the tails tag #tails fans you are so cool and real. i am a tails fan too just not on main i promise #do NOT come for my formatting and capitalization here. let her stay informal and messy and ugly <3 peace and love on planet earth #btw don’t even get me started on the extreme gear shit #TAILS CUSTOMIZED GEAR HE DIDN’T MAKE CUSTOM GEAR. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE #WAVE’S GEAR IS EXPLICITLY STATED TO BE HANDMADE AND FULLY CUSTOM. HER DESIGNS AND COMPLETE ENGINEERING. #IT IS IMPLIED TAILS USED A SHELL THAT HE WENT ON TO MODIFY. WITH MOST SHELLS BEING MASS PRODUCED BY EGGMAN #ok sorry for yelling i’ll stop now i promise. but like. riders lore goes insane y’all trust me

[bloogers-boogers]

I was choking on a chip today while a family member was bad talking about their partner. It’s typical of me to just listen while they rant all their anger out but i was eating these bag of chips and my dumbass swallowed it without chewing lmaoo (my brain was kinda disconnected idk what the hell was going on in there) i didn’t even bother to yelp i just grabbed some soda and chugged it down hoping for it to get thin and easy to swallow

#random shit post ☆ #im good just don’t actually do a bloog and ask for help if you’re actually chocking on something so dangerous

[fishyartist]

Ok.

#photomatt #‘’if we should continue to invest tumblr at all’’ ok man whatever #sure. #I’m not denying genuine death threats happened I’m sure they did #and like. don’t send direct death threats or death wishes to the people in power u hate. #you’re putting yourself in unnecessary danger for at best some mild catharsis. not a good trade off #don’t get it twisted #predstrogen didn’t do that for the record they dug through her blog to find vent posts #which is what the real problem is: she and many other people have been harassed on or off of this site for over a decade now #which is a problem that’s been with this site since at least 2015 and almost certainly earlier #but man. u can tell when someone doesn’t know how to handle public relations when they sound this fucking condescending #w/o Actually saying jack shit #I’ve got a migraine I’m just gonna post this and hope someone w/ a brain (unlike me) can explain properly why this is #the worlds soppiest nothingburger

[selfconsumerofmywoes]

okay i like the split outfit thing but honestly that’s the only part of that whole bi-generation thing i was into

#doctor who #like okay that bit was fun #but i’m not into the whole 2 doctors thing #i get why people like it though #really i do #just not for me #like there’s 2 doctors and 2 tardis’ now?? #so like if there’s ever danger people don’t need to try and get in contact with 15 and hope he shows up in time #because they know they can just go knock on donna’s door and find 14 there??? #also this ending is very parallel to 10s ending right?? or am i remembering wrong?? #like there was 2 of them and one got to go live a normal life with rose??? #very similar #and i honestly just don’t get how 14 chilling means that 15s all rested and healed #like they spilt before the healing happened??? the memories will be different from then on??? #maybe ?? might be wrong i don’t understand this stuff #also you know if 15 has a tardis he’ll be off doing doctor stuff anyway not just travelling #like shit always happens no matter what right?? that’s the whole thing??? #please do correct me if i’m wrong though #i’m bad at following everything that goes on #i talk and its probably something weird

[branffro]

@staff boldness to assume i am not aware of just how much time i spend on this god barren wretched hellsite

#601 limit breaker #601 badge #601 posts #tumblr upgrade #i’m unfuckable with #I fucking know and that’s why I do it! #I don’t do this for you #I do it for my mutuals I never speak to but deffo want to see their dicks and massive balls #not forgotten (booty) -of course 🫡 #(respectfully) #to hunt and gather only the sublime of experiences #and sometimes said experiences can cause irreparable psychic damage #only to scroll down to a destiel post or some shit #this is the tumblr experience #this is the tumblr way #a dangerous and fertile environment #welcome to night vale #that being said… I am really chaffed with my badge of honour in clownery

[suffcring]

Spicy (but sfw) Sunday thoughts—

I’ve been thinking about the drama that’s plagued the RPC for like ten years and I recently saw a tiktok about how a lot of terminally online (which most of us are) people are like Liz Lemon from 30 Rock— specifically the episode where we go with her to her school reunion. She leads us to believe she was ostracized and bullied for being a nerd and it turns out she was actually the bully herself

And I feel like tumblr RPC is a little like that in that a lot of us were ostracized and bullied (maybe for not being bullies, maybe it’s just because we are nerds or autistic or shy or any number of things) and then as late teens or 20 something we come into the RPC where we can make friends with other fucking weirdos who like the same weirdo shit we do

And the smallest taste of having influence over a group of people goes straight to some people’s fucking heads and they think they’re suddenly the main character of RPC Euphoria or something.

Nobody here knows how to deal with arguments among friends (and I have been guilty about this myself) or how to deal with friendships falling apart simply because sometimes people do not get along. You are NOT going to get along with everyone.

So many Fuckin callouts and calls to cancel are people’s personal beef plus something said out of accidental ignorance or a stretch.

Idk man I’m just like. Real tired of coming on tumblr dot com to read the newest fallout in the same group of a hundred or so individuals we have always been since 2012 that’s just Mean Girl (gender neutral) Shit

#ooc #there’s nothing currently but I’ve been bothered by that last batch of rpc wide drama #y’all need to realize you matter but not that much #you are probably not the center of some rando on the internets world #nobody is stalking you from tumblr RPC *PROBABLY* #we have had some cis dudes do some fucked up shit but 90 percent of the time #it’s the equivalent of all of us just checking up on our exes instagrams #nobody is stealing your oc #and even if they were who cares #I don’t care about what someone did to you seven years ago that hurt your feelings #that sucks cause friendships ending always sucks but it’s probably not my business #it really isn’t anyone’s fucking business what happens between two people unless there is REAL abuse or danger

[pepprs]

genuinely so angry and scared im shaking. how many other times this week this month this year have i been exposed without knowing it. do people even tell each other anymore. it’s just so grim. it’s so fucking grim

#purrs #delete later #covid19 #i am fighting for my fucking life every day to stay safe and to keep the people around me some of whom are disabled / chronically ill / #immunocompromised / medically vulnerable safe. i am fucking fighting for my life. it’s already hard that i am usually one of two people in #any given room still wearing a mask let alone an n95 mask. hard and bad enough that we get looks for wearing masks and people think im crazy #for my life still being on hold and for my family still basically never going anywhere. ITS FUCKING WORSE that we are still very much in the #throes of all of it and we are in constant physical and quite frankly EXISTENTIAL danger not only of getting sick / becoming (more) #disabled / literally fucking dying but also returning to the absolute hell of lockdown which while important was psychologically damaging in #ways that are difficult to even articulate. like not only have we as a society decided to not give a shit about unpacking all of that and #healing from the trauma and assuming everyone went through the same thing when we very much did not and to just send everybody back to #school and work because 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑capitalism🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑 but we have ALSO decided to pretend like the freakish unceasing danger just doesn’t exist #anymore and to get rid of every tool we had available to keep us safe or at minimum make people have to pay exorbitant amounts of money to #access them because 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑capitalism🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑 !!!!!!! im TIRED. im so fucking tired of it. i am so fucking exhausted and angry and scared. and i #HAVE the luxury and privilege of being able to afford n95 masks and covid tests and to be able to work a job that i can do remotely if i #need to and to not be disabled or immunocompromised. what makes me fucking furious is we decided to throw all the people who don’t have #that access or privilege under the fucking bus and forget about them lol. but what do you expect from a country rotten to its core the way #it is lol. im fucking despondent. why are we living in an incinerator. #* the lockdown(s) werent just important they were necessary. and arguably we should have another one even though if we do i genuinely fear #for my mental health both during and afterwards and quite frankly before. im tired. i am grateful for the life i live which has resulted in #part from the different things that have happened because of the pandemic but i also so desperately wish this never happened and every day I #think about what life would be like if it hadn’t happened. the grief of it all is unspeakably big.

[stackthedeck]

What kids these days don’t understand about coming out is that you’ve always gotta have an exit strategy

#don’t come out to family members ever. #this isn’t inspired by recent events btw I’m fine #but I just think about it a lot #wait until you’re financially independent #don’t do it when you’re away from home #call a friend who can pick you up if it gets dangerous #have your shit packed #if at all possible have a way to walk it back