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traveller-of-the-knight · 5 months

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green-blue-heller · 2 years

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I don’t think we are talking enough about the fact that this past weekend, Jensen Ross Ackles’ response to a 15 year old boy asking for advice was “like general life advice? Or professional advice? Or do you mean girl advice? Or boy advice? What are you looking for?”

He was ready to give this kid boy advice!!

Boy advice.

Boy. Advice.

BOY! ADVICE!

🥹🥰

I want to hear his boy advice!!

If there are any gay/bi teenage boys on SPN tumblr who are going to a con soon… this is your mission! 😂

#reminds me of dean telling Charlie he would walk her through flirting with that male security guard #because she was a lesbian and didn’t know how to flirt with him #and his first reaction was ‘just say what I say’#jensen ackles #jib12 #BOY ADVICE #🥹

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femmefatalevibe · 1 year

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Guys tend to only see me and a girl who could be a best friend and never nothing more, it’s suck because sometimes I want to be seen as a girlfriend. What could help me to a stop being seen as like a girl friend, to being a actual girlfriend? 😕

Hi love! Ugh, this can be frustrating. It is not a nice feeling to not feel desired by those you're attracted to. Sometimes, the chemistry and attraction just aren't a match, and it's better to just be friends. However, for the times you sense a spark or feel sexual tension with someone, here are some tips to make your desirability more obvious to your object of affection:

Be more open and playful: Smile, laugh, and lightly touch their shoulder or arm in a playful, consensual manner. Make it clear you're open to a connection.

Show interest in their life: Hobbies, daily activities, career, values, etc.

Respond to messages/plans to hang out directly and promptly: Nothing makes you look more disinterested than ambivalent around hanging out

Send fun or thoughtful photos: I don't mean sexual, but about inside jokes, interesting things that happen throughout your day, meals or places they also enjoy, etc. Build the emotional connection

Compliment them: Their outfits, accomplishments, smile, intelligence, athletic capabilities, etc.

Ask engaging questions: About their friends, family, hobbies, career, life goals, etc.

Find ways to talk about their turn-ons: What they look for in other girls, such as the qualities, hobbies, values, lifestyle habits, etc. they've found really attractive or endearing, etc. This can help them picture you in this role if you're compatible and have mutual interests or allow you to know you're both better off as friends without having to go through the saga or looming insecurities that comes with an incompatible relationship.

Hope this helps xx

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fka-aj · 8 months

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ISO BOY ADVICE

Ill try to explain this without too much extra bs.

So 3 years ago i met a guy from Grindr and we were attempting to do a fwb during COVID to limit interactions with others. It was ok initially but i found him insanely attractive and became increasingly anxious bc i couldn’t fathom someone that hot being interested in me. So much so that i had a very embarrassing panic attack mid-penetration. He actually handled it really well and we agreed to stay friends after.

So now we’ve been friends for 3 years and have def gotten closer. In this time he started dating a guy, but they recently broke up. I liked his bf and it was almost a nice block bc it was easier for me not to have feelings knowing he was in a committed relationship with a good guy.

I always struggled with having sexual and romantic and platonic feelings for him. He’s been an amazing friend and positive influence on my life, but now that he’s single again it’s hard not to think about being more than friends with him.

I feel like he’s not into me that way anymore, but it’s harder for me to be around him without being flirty. I really like him as a friend and would hate to jeopardize that, but it’s just so hard for me not to want to act. I feel like it’s unrealistic (we share the same name and have 7 yrs between us), but i can’t tell whether i need to just come clean and risk losing him or just work on mitigating these feelings to remain friends. We talk often but we haven’t spoke in a bit bc I’ve been so eaten up about this.

#boys #boy advice #gay dating #dating advice

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jaesdolphin · 1 year

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i need advice

okay guys✴️

so WHAT IF you were friends w a guy who had previously dated your friend

and then said guy confessed to you but later got back w your friend

but it’s been 2 months and he still hints and acts sus around you

it’s like we can never just be friends after he confessed

like when it’s just us two he acts so different and ugh i can’t explain

it’s not like i still like him but something is off

help

#nct fluff #jaehyun #nct #help plz #boy advice #mark fluff #mark lee

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ultimateboy · 3 months

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ive been considering swapping from fortnite to a more adult game, but my parents say rainbow six siege is too adult for me :( 12m

Have a talk with your parents about swapping to more mature games. You need to let them know that you can be responsible, mentally well, and stable enough to play mature games. You have to prepare yourself to play with adults who are not as nice and forgiven as the ones in Fortnite.

If you can't convince your parents to get you Raindow Six Siege, I have some other games that I would recommend telling your parents about. Apex Legends and Halo are both family-friendly FPS games that I would mention to your parents if you can't get Rainbow Six Siege.

If both of these methods fail, you still have other options. For example, you can always go look in the custom games for more adult content, or you can go to roblox. Roblox has a lot of customs FPS games available that are like Raindow Six Siege and still being more mature than Fortnite.

Here are some affirmations to say/keep in mind while trying to swap from Fortnite:

I have the strength to break away from Fornite

My parents will listen and understand me

It's going to be okay

I can always try again

I am mature enough

#boy blogging #boy blogger #just boys being boys #boy advice #boy question #fortnite #apex legends #Halo #Raindow Six Siege #video games #mindset #mental health #affirmations

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barnes-bestgirl · 11 months

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I need help here please. If I a guy is texting you pretty much non stop from 9-10pm and then 8am until 12:45pm the next day.

That’s a good sign right?

#help #Aston dilemma #boy advice #men advice #guy advice

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whispersfromlolita · 10 months

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Back on it

Today I didn't count calories. Trying to ease back in...

2 eggs

1 orange

2 cups of coffee with 1-2 teaspoons of sugar

1 mini cupcake (no icing)

2 cups of apple cider vinegar water

I moved around a lot today as well.

I'm hoping to go on a morning walk tomorrow, but we'll see

Little update

I started talking to this guy and it's been almost a month now. I really like him.

He's so sweet, funny, smart... tall😏😂

I bought him chocolate like yesterday, and today I made cupcakes and really want to give him a few but my sister advised not to. My love language is gifts and quality time, so I enjoy giving gifts but my sister said that since he hadn't given me anything, I should just chill with the gifts. I'm slightly overthinking that he's using me 😂even though he never asked for anything and I'm willingly giving..

idk, I just really like him.

#diary #tw depression #girlblogger #tw ed relapse #talking stage #boy advice #boyfriend

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westsidedolly · 7 months

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I feel like he does care for me in his own little fucked up way…. Ik for a fact he really wants me to b sober but it’s sooooo 🫥

#boy advice #sneaky link #delusional #delulu

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mikithehands · 1 year

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akira's been acting really strange lately and im genuinely concerned for him. it's like he's hiding something from me. the fact that he's in gay love with his other friend? i know this already. he doesn't need to hide this from me! how should i talk to him about this?

#boy advice #friend advice #gay advice

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hereiamletmebe · 2 years

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Need some boy advice maybe?

So. Maybe semi ish long story.

The guy I like. Can't tell how much he likes me back. He's been real quite since he went home for the summer. I know he's working on himself. Maybe wants space? Right before he left we spent two cute days together he thanked me a lot for (it's been two weeks since then)

We have barely talked since and haven't in two days and even then it wasn't really talking he didn't say anything that encouraged conversation and before that he semi ignored me for two days

Some think I should wait till he talks to me

But I have the hardest time with that

He's talked about girls ghosting him and playing games and I don't want to do that or for him to think I'm doing either

But I can't give energy to something that's not giving me energy back ya know?

So idk I'm tempted to tell him something like "girls who ghost him are dumb because I miss him when we're not really talking or seeing each other and can't imagine how someone could ghost him"

Is that too much/needy for the situation or does that sound cute/nice?

He did say we would be in touch this summer so should I give him more time to get in touch? It really hasn't been too long I just like and miss him so much I'm impatient haha

#advice #help #me #hereiamletmebe #boys #boy advice #dating #dating advice #need help #anxiety #overthinking

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cosmicmagicbitch · 1 year

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How do you not text him saying you miss him when you're aching to? I feel like it was such a fleeting amount of time but it burned so intensely that I accidentally fell for him.

He's staying back because he doesn't want to relapse in a relationship again, he knows his track record. I fell for him so hard.

#boy advice

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puppys-tiny-space · 6 months

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🩷How to tell someone about your regression🩷

🧃This is just some tips on how to do it, aka how I usually do it. If another way works for you that's great! This is just some idea on how to do it and be comfortable with it!🧃

🩷videos and online resources, if you are shy about explaining it yourself there are some great Textposts and videos online that explain regression and what it is, I have some myself on my tik tok and Instagram (I'll link the TikTok below) and there is a short film on YouTube called "too little" that's awesome🩷

🧃explain, I like to start by explaining what agereggression is, or even ask if they know something about it already, sometimes they do and that can be a great point to work from🧃

🩷be open, be open about why you regress at least as much as you are comfortable, people are kess likely to react poorly if they know why and can understand it🩷

🧃text message, preparing a text message or letter in advance, maybe even with a friend or cg, can be super helpful, especially if you experience going nonverbal🧃

🩷be sure, do not open up to someone because you feel forced or scared, be sure you feel safe with the person and exposing such a vulnerable side to them, nobody is entitled to your safe space🩷

🧃test the water, I like to hint at regression and test the waters first, wearing jewelry with kiddo nicknames or similar on it or having merch from more well known brands, if someone recognizes them and asks about it you know there is base knowledge🧃

🩷open up, I like to let people know about my trauma and other trauma-responses first, once they are aware of certain things it helps with the talk later on as it won't be as much if a shock that you might have to cope in unconventional ways🩷

Fun fact of the day: it would take 19 minutes to fall to the center of the earth

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marlenacantswim · 2 months

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girl has got that harry du bois swag, complete with incongruous hat

#what skill buffs do we think the ballcap gives him?#since he's not got anything in the neck slot we can conclude that david tennant has a high enough inland empire stat to hear the tie #and took that bitch off hc he Did Not Vibe With It #and samesies; i did NOT fuck with the advice my tie was tryna give me and i cut that bitch out of my life on my first playthrough #running my mouth #david tennant #disco elysium #harry du bois

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luna-lovegreat · 2 months

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Currently obsessed with the idea that the boys go to Time for love advice, since "he's married so he knows this stuff right?"

I mean they couldn't recognize a wedding ring??? And neither did he???

And time was saying this in his youth I mean cmon

Twilight: So ancestor. What would you do if like. Malon left to another world and never came back

Time: ... bro Malon called me fairy boy and then we were married like what

Hyrule: So uhh old man. How does one. Meet a girl.

Time: By speaking to her I guess? Or not, Malon did the talking for me

Hyrule: riiiiight...

Wild *no tact*: Hey so like... what if your redheaded wife who's name started with M died.

Time: what?!?!

Wild, undeterred: but like before she proposed.

Time: ...

Wild: and you don't remember if you would have said yes. What's your advice for dealing with that?

Time: ... vent to a fairy?

Warriors: hey old man

Time: no no no not this one asking me please

Warriors: how do I get women to stop coming after me. So I can ya know. Choose without war trying to force me into relationships

Time: I can safely say I've never had that problem captain

Wars: of course not *smirks*

Wars: ok but seriously how do I make them go away

Time: ... wear a wedding ring so they think you're taken, I've got a shiny extra

Time: no no why- they won't stop, I don't know how to do love!

Time: ok well at least I have legend. That kid would never ask for advice, I'll sit by him.

Legend: so old man.

Time, looking forward to a normal conversation: yeah?

Legend: hypothetically, what would you do if you found out Malon didn't exist.

Legend: And her whole world didn't, but it did, and now it doesn't

Time: ...Excuse me for a minute.

Time, writing a letter as fast as he can: MALON HOW DO I GIVE LOVE ADVICE THEY THINK IM WISE

Malon: lol

Happy Valentine's Day guys, have a headcanon :P

The boys go to Time for love advice and Time spouts whatever wise-sounding bs he can, before shoving them all on Malon for therapy when they visit the ranch

Art and comic by Jojo @linkeduniverse! :D

#I'm just??? we have like three different times they went to him with love problems? guys he grew up in a forest raised by a tree #he proposed with a cosplay ring #Malon laughs her head off when he says they're going to him for advice #'babe I had to force you into understanding marriage'#'give me the boys I'll talk to them'#to the boys: 'listen Links don't stop going to him for love advice. ask about the most wierd traumatic shit you've been through'#'cook record his reactions this'll be hilarious'#'he's seemed wise...' 'he don't know shit kids he's quoting me'#Lu time #lu #linked universe #linkeduniverse #little did he know legend was the worst of them all #wars wears the glittery engagement ring he recommended with pride 'sorry I'm taken ladies in case you missed the sparkle'#technically Valentine's Day was 43 minutes ago but shhhh it's ok time doesn't know what love is either #I do not have several of the games or complete information #if I said something incorrect (or offensive ever) let me know :)#love you guys #:)

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ultimateboy · 3 months

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i 26m am struggling to stay dedicated to my call of duty camo grind. do you have any advice on how to stay focused?

Are you dedicated to the grind or not? Ask yourself this, and you will find the answer to your question. But I will also add that you should keep in mind the end results of your camo grinding. Because when you finish your camo grinding, you will feel a huge sense of accomplishment and finally get the master camo. This makes it all worth it.

Here are some affirmations you can say to yourself/keep in mind while camo grinding:

I can do this

I can do anything I set my mind to

I will finish my camo grind

I will find the strength to finish my camo grind

It's okay to take breaks from my camo grind

#boy blogging #boy blogger #just boys being boys #boy advice #boy question #mindset #mental health #affirmations #call of duty #video games

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