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bathroomflooder · 2 days
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hot take: there is no way that empathy is actually a real thing. you're telling me that when you see someone crying, your immediate reaction is to... feel the pain they're experiencing??? what kind of made up concept is this??? you don't only do 'good' things so people see you as a good person? you just. want to help??? this isn't a persona you put on?? you're just like this??? I am being 100% honest when I say that I thought empathy was a made up concept, and people just used it as a term for some made up mystical ability where you can feel others emotions and genuinely want to help, because it just sounds so fake to me
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Npd culture is misspelling "npd" as "nod". We all are nodding at each other in here.
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nyanfever · 3 days
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i hate having npd and getting ignored in social situations like hello hi everyone please pay attention to me or else i'll explode
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Symptom poll time. You know the drill. Self-diagnosed people are welcome to this poll, reblog for a bigger sample size.
Please share your experiences in replies and reblogs. I made this because usually HPD is left out of the empathy conversations about our cluster so I am hoping to see why, and maybe help boost HPD experiences with empathy a bit.
I forgot a fluctuating empathy button despite experiencing it myself. Please go with what you experience most often.
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autopsyfreak · 2 days
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i don’t see the point in apologising, it seems pointless and hypocritical.
the only thing that would warrant an apology is an action that hurt/negatively affected someone, which i either didn’t mean to do or i did mean to do.
if i meant to do it then an apology would just be lying. if i was intending on hurting you and then apologised for the pain i caused, i wouldn’t actually be sorry because i got the outcome i wanted.
but at the same time if i didn’t mean to do it then why should i apologise? accidents happen so really there’s no reason to apologise, even if i have caused you accidental hurt.
apologies just have no value.
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NPD + BPD culture is just being so tired of being nice and composed. I cannot express any bit of anger or frustration. I want to blow up but I know it won't end good
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npdtea · 1 day
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psychopathicfreak · 3 days
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I’m not emotionally unstable in the pitiable, sad, damaged little bitch way . I’m emotionally unstable in the WILL beat the fuck out of you over the slightest perceived criticism and not feel at all bad about it ( in fact, it’d probably turn me on ) way, thank you .
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livingfictionsystem · 5 months
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A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.
Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.
What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.
Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.
What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.
Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.
What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.
Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.
It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
-Xanthe
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solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist
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unbearable-swagger · 9 months
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I will be like "I'm fine" and then another fucking event will occur
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bathroomflooder · 2 days
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people with low/no empathy don't need to "make up" for it by having sympathy. It's completely okay to have neither :)
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NPD culture is being so frustrated that egotypical people don’t seem to understand that motivation does not matter.
I did a good thing! I do lots of morally good things! Stop getting pissy with me just because I did them to make myself feel good. That’s why most people do ‘altruistic’ things anyways.
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*mom voice* You can get these words back when you know what they mean
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autopsyfreak · 1 day
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i hope at least some of you are obsessed with me or idolise me to some degree
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Cluster b culture is being like "yeah that makes sense" when you get diagnosed.
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