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thebibliosphere · 4 months

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It's an ingrained reflex in me to apologize for my living space not being perfectly neat and clean (thanks, mum), but it's so funny when I do it with my friends who have children.

"Sorry," I say over Facetime, "I didn't have time to clean up before you called. Anyway, there's the tree. Ignore the mess."

And all my friends with kids are starting at my slightly cluttered space with tears in their eyes because it looks amazing to them. Like bitch you live like this? Holy shit! You can see the floor! You're living the dream!

Meanwhile, my childhood trauma is screaming that we can't let people know we sit, and also, there's a smudge on the windows that people are definitely going to see and judge me for.

A smudge, which, of course, my mother sees the instant my camera connects and feels the need to point out because why comment on the beautiful, glittering tree when you can focus on an insignificant imperfection and let it consume you 🫠

#this is why I'm fucked #well #it's one of the reasons #but it's a very big one!#hidden in case family are snooping #tw parental issues

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finleyforevermore · 1 month

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Hey guys! How've we been since I've been away? Hm? Not good? Yeah, I thought so.

I was AFK (which means Away From Keyboard for those who weren't aware, or didn't think to Google it /nm) because my mom had taken away my phone for a bit but I could still use it to help with my math homework.

I did lurk around Tumblr a bit, and I did "officially" come back online for a bit, but I mostly lurked.

And how delightful it was to see (can not clarify enough how sarcastic this is) that someone I follow but am not moots with decided that March 20th was the day they were doing to commit suicide. They did not succeed. But they sure as hell scared the fuck out of me. Same story I've seen before with my other friends, abusive parental figure, and possibly SA'd like some of my other friends. Lovely.

And then ANOTHER friend as it turns out has an extremely abusive mother and got fucking strangled by aforementioned mother, then said in the posts of a vent post, "something something maybe she should've killed me".

Being technically AFK I had to go on anon for a bit and try my damndest to prove to my friend that their mother is beyond saving, and there's no use seeing her in a positive light, and they by no means deserve what happened to them. I don't know if it worked. If you see this, I'm sorry if I came off as rude. But that really was the straw that broke the camel's back.

I'd been trying to keep together fairly well but I had been thinking of Liam, Nex's death was ruled a suicide (and now his murderers will not be charged), all of my other friends are traumatized and now I've discovered another friend has an abusive parent, and someone tried to fucking kill themselves.

And so, we have this. This song has been my coping mechanism for the past several weeks and what I can best describe as my theme song. Whenever I see something tragic with either my friends or someone else my first thought is the words of this song. Largely because of the themes of getting salvation for the unjust wrongs done upon Sweeney or in this case my friends.

I really don't know why I was blessed to know such wonderful incredible beautiful people only for them to suffer relentlessly and have gallons upon gallons of trauma.

Do bad things happen? Sure. But with my friends it's non-stop. One traumatic event after another after another after another and I'm. Just so done. I'm so sick. And I'm so tired. Of everything. Of all the pain and suffering. Of the fact I can't do anything. Of the fact I feel too much. This probably shouldn't be impacting me so much but for some reason it is.

I would've been apprehensive posting this because I'm kind of self-conscious about my voice but some of my friends are suffering 24/7 so I think my voice is the last thing I should be worrying about.

Enjoy if you want. Or don't. That's ok too. Love you guys.

@literatureisdying

#voice reveal #tw abuse #tw sa mention #tw sa #tw parental abuse #tw parental issues #tw child abuse #tw sui ideation #tw sui talk #tw sui attempt #tw suicide #epiphany #sweeney todd: the demon barber of fleet street #sweeney todd the demon barber of fleet street #sweeney todd #epiphany sweeney todd #finley sings a song! 💚🎧

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donutdrawsthings · 4 months

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🦋 Your mother will remember that.

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ravenwitch45 · 8 months

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Can you make a part two to your m&m parent headcannon where they meet their parents and the parents what their kid back and the reader has a panic attack

Oh god well this is some drama for sure, AND a panic attack, full disclosure I've never written a panic attack before, but I'll try my best cause I like this idea. Sorry for the delay on answering.

M&M Meeting Reader's Parents who want "their kid" back and cause Reader to have a panic attack.

It was just a day at the office, Blitz and Loona were out doing something so it was just the three of you, chatting while doing menial stuff as a family would when the door bursts open, a very done up woman strutting in angrilly, followed by a much more messily dressed man, who seems very grumpy being here compared to the woman.

"Y/N! So this is where you've skulked off to, without telling us may I remind you!"The Woman rants crossing her arms, your eyes going wide at their presence "M-Mom? Dad?! What are y-"

"Mother and Father Dear, Be respectful, least you can do after this stunt..."The Snooty woman interjects bitterly, making you frown, looking away, unable to get a word in.

"Y/N here was being respectful, now what are you doing here? This is a buisness establishment, you can't just barge in."Moxxie points, crossing his arms, glaring at the woman

"I'm here for my child, and this is a family matter, so butt out"She replies with a sneer, looking back to you, only for Millie to get up and stand between you too.

"Well you haven't seemed interested in them at all for literal months, you can't walk in like you own them all of a sudden"The wrath Imp notes, her tail flicking aggresively, your birth mother tensing up in annoyance before her husband put a hand on her shoulder

"Look theres no need for this. Y/N... Your mother wants you to come back, she has a position at her firm she thinks you can fill, you should do what she wants."He states tiredly, his wife nodding

"Yes, should be easy enough so that even you can manage dear~"She says passive aggresively, making both Imps glare at her further before you explode

"B-But... No! I don't want to work with you, you can't just ignore me in favor of arguing with eachother and then come back just cause you think I can make you more money to spend on yourselves! I left you guys for a reason!"You state angrilly, finally having the courage to say that with your actual loving parents at your side. Your mother's eyes twitching.

"Oh no..."Your father whispers, looking at his wife in fear

"You BASTARD PARASITE! I give up so much for you and you throw it all back in my face, now you are going to come with us, and EARN some goddamn worth, cause as usual you prove you have none! I should have thrown you away like the trash you act like!"The woman rants loudly, almost loud enough to hurt as tears prick at your eyes and you start shaking, putting your hands on your head to block out the echoing screams, breathing heavily

"Y/N...?"Moxxie says, looking to you and putting his hands on your shoulders in concern, as Millie bares her teeth at your abusers

"Crybaby, come along al-"Your mother states snobilly, reaching for you before Millie slaps it away, hard

"There not going anywhere with you! You toxic bitch! You are going to leave and if you any smarts in that pretty head of yours, you won't come back for OUR CHILD!"Millie yells angrilly, pulling out her knife, just making the woman scoff as her husband tried to tell her to leave, but was swiftly ignored

"They are-"She begins before a bullet wizs past her face, cutting a hole in her finely done hair and she's stunned silent as she looks at Moxxie, holding his kid close with one arm and the other holding a smoking gun as he glares at her

"They aren't your child , you don't deserve the gift they are if your going to treat them like this, and you wonder why they left you..."The Weapons expert says with aged bitterness, readying another shot before the woman screams and storms out, her husband quickly following after another growl from Millie.

The two immediately shifting gears to trying to calm you down while trying not to crowd you, just wanting to assure you, you are safe and loved and safe from them. In the back of their heads there considering figuring out a restraining order or whatever to make sure they don't disturb you ever again. Holding you close and softly.

Okay there it is! I am SO sorry this took so long, I was just having trouble figuring this one out as well as some other stuff going on that delayed me getting to this. I jut hope you enjoy it XP

#ask reply #helluva boss #helluva boss x reader #platonic x reader #gn reader #tw parental issues #tw parental abuse #tw parental neglect #helluva moxxie x reader x helluva millie #helluva moxxie x reader #helluva millie x reader #tw panic attack #I really hope I did that one okay

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djsherriff-responses · 23 days

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Another Laserhen thought actually is I think Dolph would struggle with not losing his temper at his kids , at least when Troy and Lucy were babies/toddlers. Dolph got more patient when Leo came into the picture and Leo as a result had a different set of early memories compared to his older siblings (I mean, Leo also didn’t spend his first few years raised in the super max either so 🤷‍♀️)

To be clear I don’t think Dolph would ever hurt a child, but even within canon I think Dolph struggles with intrusive thoughts of hurting people he cares about and becoming suddenly responsible to two very small, very fragile living creatures would’ve made those thoughts so much worse to deal with

Especially when he has barely any energy and he has no idea why they won’t stop crying oh god why won’t they stop crying-?!

It sometimes got so intense that Dolph would ,just, put the crying kid on the floor and lock himself in the bathroom to scream or whatever , maybe even break the mirror (a common occurrence actually) before being able to look anyone in the eye

Dolph wonders if this what his mother felt when she had to take care of him, if she ever felt like she was going to hurt her own baby from the stress and maybe that’s why she did what she did, thinking that letting Dolph go into Eden’s care was the only way to ensure that she could never hurt him

#captain laserhawk #dolph laserhawk #Captain laserhen #tw parental issues #let me know if this needs any Tw tags #Sorry to anyone who thought this was going to be a wholesome au #these kids are going through it #And they‘re not coming out the super max unscarred #Dolph is so traumatised by his childhood and being taken from his mother the fandom should do more with that

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roseredsnow · 4 months

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Shout out to all my older siblings where one parent never went to your parents evenings but had been to most of your siblings.

Shout out to all my older siblings where one parent has never watched you preform so the younger siblings wouldn't get bored.

Shout out to all the older siblings who never had their school projects shared on Facebook but when the younger siblings does it years later all your parents friends are praising them.

Additional shout out for all the older siblings that are late diagnosed (or self diagnosed) for any kind of neurodivergence, when a younger siblings was diagnosed young so they got accommodations and understanding where you didn't.

Because they were disruptive in class due to symptoms, and you were just deemed too quiet.

(Not blaming the younger sibling)

You're not alone in that feeling of resentment, one that you can't blame on your younger siblings because it's not their fault, but can't completely feel like you can blame your parents for either.

#oldest sibling #older sibling #vent #eldest daughter #siblings #tw family #tw parental issues #tw siblings #vent post #late diagnosed autistic #late diagnosis

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joelsgreys · 22 days

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Hi vee,

if you don't mind I'm answering to the nonnie who asked why age-gap Male/Female fics are so sexy:

It's an emotional therapy to comfort ourselves to the "dad" figure we never have. I personally gravitate myself towards age gap fics because my dad left for work when I was 6-ish and he rarely returned until i was about 13. By then, the harm was already done and I still cannot properly connect with him up till this day - he's not being the best dad in the world anyway, tearing my books in front of my face was always something I would remember when I lay awake and ask myself why the father-daughter relationship between me and him is such a huge piece of turd.

I suppose age gap fics assure that there's a "daddy" figure that is mostly reliable and trustworthy, unlike my own. And on the other hand, it proves that aged men could be proper fathers who could take up responsibility, very much the way I wanted my future spouse to be.

The part that age-gap fics have more fun is that having more life experience than reader/ofc does, the male character always comes in as a bit of a saviour position, whether from work, school, or other aspects of life, the traditional "damsel in distress" would oftentimes apply and it's always comforting knowing that a knight with a shiny armour is going to guide you through all the misery and to a better life.

-and the sex, of course, they know how to do it better

this was sent in last night, but to the non who had asked me about it, here’s another pov for ya

and to this nonnie, hugs. i know it’s hard when you don’t have a good relationship with your dad. or one at all. :(

#vee answers #tw daddy issues #tw parental issues #tw absent parents

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traumatizedjaguar · 3 months

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Advice: I do recommend if you're being stalked or live with abusers, change your passwords every month or so and always use backups or authentication apps on everything, and make sure to find an impossible hiding space which means that even if you think a hiding space is so discreet it might not be. Think outside the box, really ponder on it for awhile before deciding where to hide stuff. And obviously don't hide anything in front of a camera where they could check it.

#my text #actually traumatized #actually cptsd #actually abused #actuallyabused #actually bullied #actually traumatised #tw parental abuse #tw sibling abuse #tw stalking #tw harassment #tw abuser mention #parental abuse #tw parental neglect #tw parental issues

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chiwhorei · 2 months

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I think I just went no-contact (actually I guess it’s low-contact??) with my only living parent so tHAT’S FUCKING FUN

#babble.dollie #tw.vent #idk how to tag this #tw parental issues #???? I guess that works

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zoeyslament · 2 months

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Oh yeah want some Noel angst? Here take some Noel angst.

This was it. He was 11 years old and finally ready to tell his parents these feelings he’d had for years, for as long as he could remember. He gathered all his courage and stepped into the living room, greeted by his parents’ faces.

“So…mom, dad…” he gulped. “I just wanted to tell you that…I don’t…I don’t like girls. I like boys.”

The loving looks on his parents’ faces turned to outrage in his father’s case, fear in his mothers. She urged him to get away.

He scrambled away to his room, listening as his father screamed and yelled at his mother. Some of the words said were new to him, but he KNEW they were offensive.

“I will NOT be raising some fairy boy as my son.” He heard his father say. And then, the door slammed.

Now, at age 18, that was the last of his father Noel had seen in 7 years.

#rtc #ride the cyclone #noel gruber #tw abuse #(kinda)#tw fighting #tw parental issues

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cult-of-the-eye · 3 months

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*grits teeth* I love being a cycle breaker I love being a better parent than mine ever were I never ask myself why they couldn't have done the same for me I only am grateful that I can give her a better life

#cycle breaker #rant #tw rant #tw parental issues #generational trauma

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hier--soir · 4 months

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just spent two hours with my dad, whom i’ve been estranged from for years. shocker, it made me feel Awful! would hardly recommend that i do that again! smoked my first full cigarette in over a year directly afterwards! sunday scaries are raging in full force folks i will not be held liable for any devastating poems i reblog over the next 72 hours

#ignore me i'm talking to myself this is my diary #i will now spend the next 6 hours watching daniel craig james bond movies to make myself feel better #goodnight ew #tw dads #tw parental issues #personal

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cavalrysystem · 6 months

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Don't you just fucking love when your mother expects you to know where every dish she owns is because "you're the one who puts away dishes" and then she just refuses to admit she likely either gave said dish away or got rid of it?

Don't you fucking love when your mother or other parent expects you to constantly be okay with being a parent stand-in when they don't feel like being a parent for the kids they decided to have?

Don't you fucking love when your expected to cook dinner almost every night because your mom is "just so exhausted from work" and "doesn't feel good" despite being a fucking senior in high-school and on top of that being expected to watch your autistic siblings and not being allowed to complain about being stressed ever in your life?

Don't you fucking love when your parents refuse to do anything about the fact that you're burning yourself out trying to keep up with school, your siblings, the dishes, cleaning the house, and taking care of yourself all at once?

Don't you just love it?

(This entire post is using the word love in a sarcastic way)

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samijami · 22 days

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Trigger warning in tags, especially for people with auto-play on videos

My mother called for me, to help her clean out the fridge

I already heard my father being pissy or something, he actually is still yelling rn as I'm typing this

I was going down the stairs and stood there and he was just yelling at my mum, apparently about her just wanting to take his garbage for him, and ended up like expressing pain (she has scoliosis) whenever she stood??

And then he said 'you should've been born a man, cuz you're a dick' then kept calling her things repetitively and saying 'fuck you', and she snapped saying that she shouldn't have to deal with him, and that there's a 'thing called verbal abuse' and he twisted it back on her and

Theyre still arguing since I came upstairs

He's used the 'I'm dying' card for 12+ years. We all know he has a lotta health issues (he caused to himself) but he's lying about half of them to get prescribed medicine he sells to people. whenever there's gets cop involvement in domestic issues, he uses the excuse of his health issues and how he's actually the victim

Recently he's been more irate and has been verbally abusing mum everyday, because his doctors found out he was not taking his medication, so they dropped him

Since I could remember, he has never been a father. Drunkard when I was younger, then once off the damn alcohol, all he does is sit around and tell everyone to do things for him

If you don't? He gets even more pissed off, he screams at the top of his lungs. Apparently that's his hobby

Now he's saying he's gonna leave within the week

He's threatened to leave every 4 or so months ever since i was 4, lets see..

Stick to your word old man then I'll believe you but in the meantime, don't get my hopes up

Please leave, I will cry in joy

#tw abuse #tw emotional abuse #tw verbal abuse #tw screaming #tw yelling #tw arguing #tw parental issues #tw vent #verbal abuse #domestic abuse #emotional abuse #tw sexism

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fl0werfieldz · 9 days

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(also, if this is too much please let me know, i dont want to make anyone uncomfortable)

#tw parental issues #my ocs #my art

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traumatizedjaguar · 2 years

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I TOLD YOU EVERYTHING AND YOU CALLED ME A LIAR FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU

#angercore #ragecore #traumacore #tw #tw trauma #tw abuse #actually traumatized #my trauma edits #traumatizedjaguar #family abuse #tw family abuse #parental abuse #tw parental issues #tw parental abuse

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