#eldest daughter

[fluffy-anna]

Made another one. All hail the Richard Grayson aka Nightwing wallpaper.

He may be a man but he's the best eldest daughter I know.

I literally love this man but he gets screwed over so many times that I kind of find it funny.

I will make more.

#dca y/n #fanfic #aesthetic #nightwing #richard grayson #nightwing fluff #dick grayson #nightwing x reader #dc x reader #dc comics #nightwing angst #nightwing smut #nightwing headcanon #richard grayson x reader #richard grayson fluff #nightwing wallpaper #dca fandom #dc universe #dcu #batfam #batman #incorrect quotes #incorrect batfamily quotes #eldest daughter #cassandra cain #tim drake #bruce wayne #detective #batman and robin #only in gotham

[luvalsworld]

a canon event for every oldest daughter is being told “you would be a good lawyer”

#oldest daughter #lol #eldest daughter #lawyer #i don’t need to elaborate #no need to elaborate

[millersamour]

I am my father’s daughter - I only know how to let people take

#on fathers #web weaving #eldest daughter

[lovely-abeille]

on being the daughter of the family

if my body could speak, blythe baird // i put the coffin out to sea, lisa marie basile // @/belovedbi // ? // been a son, nirvana // elektra, sophokles; translated by anne carson // ? // churching, kristin chang

#web weaving #web weave #parallels #fragments #poetry fragments #poetry #poem #eldest daughter #family #toxic family #girlhood #quotes #anne carson #sophokles #bad mothers #toxic mother #mother #toxic father #bad fathers #father #parents #grief

[muskaanayesha]

Peace be upon the daughter who helped her parents grow up. Accepted their cold shoulder, excused their anger, pardoned their mistakes, taught them how to be human. Peace be upon the sister who paid the price of rebellion. Screaming to her fullest, shaking like a leaf but standing tall, never letting the dictatorship go without a fight, paving the path for her siblings to breathe easier. Peace be upon the first child of an immigrant father. Aching to find their own purpose in life, firm in their own beliefs, contradicting generations and generations of cultural values. Peace be upon the girl who shouldered her mother's trauma. Swindled it into her own, morphed herself into an image of the womb she once resided in, immersed herself into troubles that weren't even hers, covered up scars that she couldn't even recognize. Peace be upon the woman who forgot who she was. So determined to be the savior of everyone, to fix her family, to nurture and love everyone around her. So deeply lost that she forgot she's just as worthy of love. Peace be upon you.

#desi women #poets on tumblr #women writers #authors #poetry #spilled poetry #literature #poetic #writeaway #booklover #mommy issues #daddy issues #black sheep #immigrant parents #eldest sister #eldest daughter #first daughter #unlovable #generational trauma #trauma #trauma dump

[pain-is-my-game]

Parents really do traumatize you and then force you to reparent yourself instead of being a capable human being who can contribute to society like a normal person. Sorry I can't get a well paying job right now I'm trying to learn coping mechanisms.

#i will never care if you reblog #vent #tw vent #cw vent #parentification #toxic parents #emotional trauma #trauma #childhood trauma #trauma coping #childhood emotional neglect #eldest daughter syndrome #eldest daughter #parentified child #childhood neglect #thoughts to throw into the void

[x3nshit]

another shitty thing about being the eldest daughter who based her worth on academics and how useful she can be to others is that it physically hurts to ask for help even when we desperately need it. it's an internalized belief that we should we able to figure out everything on our own and it sucks

#eldest daughter #eldest sister #eldest #older sister #the eldest daughter #mommy issues #parent issues #academia #dark academic aesthetic #dark academism #academia aesthetic #art academia #chaotic academic aesthetic #chaotic academia

[sonicspeeddemon]

The only 48 year old man to suffer from eldest daughter syndrome

#one piece #charlotte katakuri #katakuri one piece #eldest daughter #eldest daughter syndrome

[goonflower]

nancy wheeler textposts (except they get progressively sadder)

#stranger things #nancy wheeler #character text posts #nancy wheeler core #karen wheeler #barb holland #eldest daughter #nancy and barb #ronance #< target audience #guncy #shes so real

[aahanna]

Mom's emotional trauma

+ Dad's anger issue

+ their best features.

= ELDEST CHILD IN THE FAMILY

#desiblr #desi girl #desi tumblr #desi shit posting #being desi #eldest daughter #eldest sibling

[staltheoneandonly]

i feel like there's a point being the oldest sibling where you stop being your parents' child and start being just some person who happens to live in the house

#eldest daughter #eldest son #toxic dad #toxic family #toxic parents #toxic mom #mommy issues #daddy issues #parent issues

[raisunii]

Eldest Daughter; Surrogate

After the Ball, Carl Thomsen / Light of Love, Florence & the Machine / God Complex, Rachael Allen / The Split Man, Victor Langheld / A Poem for Women in Rage, Audre Lorde / on being chi hai, Kimberly Nguyen / The Convalescent, Willard Leroy Metcalf / Swear to God the Devil Made Me Do It, The Front Bottoms

#eldest daughter core #eldest daughter #eldest sibling #eldest sister #web weave #web weaving #webweave #webweaving #carl thomsen #florence and the machine #rachael allen #victor langheld #audre lorde #kimberly nguyen #willard leroy metcalf #the front bottoms #lyrics #literature #song lyrics #quotes

[sarayu-sunrays]

being the gifted elder daughter be like: *is strong* *works hard* *overworks* *burns out before uni* *wants to move out* *hates mother* *loves mother* *hates father* *loves father* *unfair expectations* *breaks down* *I can make them think I'm fine* *someone help* *has three panic attacks but gets an A*

#gifted child burnout #i hate that thats a tag #eldest daughter #desi eldest daughter

[exmojoe]

Is your love language really acts of service or were you raised with the sole purpose of being a caregiver for all of eternity??

#afab and raised Mormon trauma club #also let’s add eldest daughter psychology to that too #exmo #exmormon #eldest daughter #ex fundie #ex cult #ex jw

[filtercoffeeonsteroids]

why do I relate to every line

author: @jing-le-bells

#desi academia #desi things #south asian #desi dark academia #desi memes #indian aesthetic #desi aesthetic #desiblr #desi tumblr #spotify #eldest daughter #family #. darkacademia darkcottagecoreaesthetic desicottagecore cottagecoreaesthetic brownaesthetics tumblraesthetic tumblrquotes #writers on tumblr #tumblr memes #artists on tumblr

[muskaanayesha]

I am the eldest daughter, which is to say that I am a sponge that absorbs all the trauma of the household. Life is spilt milk and I am a kitchen cloth burnt at the edges. I am falling apart at the corners, threads coming away, rips and ripples like I am torn and trembling in an ocean of nothingness. I am the eldest daughter, which is to say that I emphasize with everyone. The love of my life marries someone else, and I find myself hoping that he loves her the same. My brother wishes death upon me and I toss and turn in my sleep over the tears I saw in his eyes. Life is an accidental fire and I am water. I attempt to stop a tragedy I did not start, to go blindly into a catastrophe that I cannot halt. I am the eldest daughter, which is to say that I am silent in my needs. My father asks me what I'd like to eat and I say that I am not hungry. I will chew on my guilt and swallow my pride before I even think of asking for anything. I buy myself a sweet and nothing tastes as bitter as it. Life is a metaphor for debt and I am drowning in the desire to be as insignificant as possible. I demand nothing and nothing demands me.

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