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justproshiprants · 5 months
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"omg waah the puriteen antis harass us proships 🥺🥺🥺 #anti harassment!!!!" my friends were sexually harassed and groomed and told to kill themselves by pro shippers. Your community is ass
I've said many times I don't support harassment. I block proshippers who I see going out of their way to harass with antis, especially ones who make death threats or suicide baiting comments.
I acknowledge that the culture may be different on tumblr today than it was elsewhere- From my knowledge the twitter proship community can be way more toxic than the tumblr proship community- but personally, I haven't had to block that many proshippers because they were pro-harassment. I've had to block too many antis to count because they told proshippers who were minding their own business to kill themselves. I've had antis tell me I deserved and was as bad as my childhood sexual abuser. If your reaction to this is that you don't support that, then we have the same opinion that we don't agree with everyone on "our side." I don't support harassment of any kind when anyone does it.
I do not, under any circumstance, support grooming or sexual harassment. The fault of these crimes is on the perpetrators of said crimes, not on any community they belong to. If you have any actual argument that doesn't revolve around, "I've had bad experiences with people who label themself as proship" or just hurling the word pedophilia around like it means jackshit, feel free to send it, preferably off of anon this time.
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thedigitalwave · 8 months
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Hey I don't know if this helps, but coming from a person who is VERY strongly pro-rehabilitative/restorative justice... there will always be people who are willing to forgive you. What's important is to just keep trying to be better. You know that suibaiting was wrong, same with "watching stuff" (I'm not sure I understand what that means but trust your judgment).
While it's not an excuse, you were in the middle of an intense mental health episode while this all went down. That's really important to know, because it will help with making less hurtful choices in the future! I'm of the firm opinion that responsibility isn't a binary, but exists on a sliding scale.
When going through a mental health episode without proper support/treatment (as is usually the case in our world), I do think that sometimes in those exact circumstances it isn't possible for someone to have acted differently THAT time, so the responsibility is to apologize and to work on making sure it doesn't happen again, not to beat yourself up over the idea you could have done differently and just chose to be shitty for the fun of it.
Like I said, it's not an excuse, but it does help to differentiate "I pressed the big red button because a mental health episode made it difficult or even impossible not to" and "I pressed the big red button for the lulz of it".
Anyway, I truly believe that not only CAN people be better, but that we NEED to support people so they can do so. I'm on anon because I'm a closeted radqueer, but I'm here for you as ⭐ anon. You deserve that support because you're a person (or the equivalent of such if you identify as a nonperson).
Also, you definitely didn't betray radqueers. If someone chooses to use a member of a marginalized group being shitty to justify their oppression, they were always a bigot and were never going to be kind even if we were all perfect angels who never did one thing wrong.
I don't know how to respond to that, you don't know how much this means to me and is helpful in my situation. Thank you!!!
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just-antithings · 2 years
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Antis be like “you can’t write this stuff it’s so triggering!” *goes into graphic detail about how they want someone to kill themself*
truly no self awareness whatsoever
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revenant-coining · 1 year
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re tumblr brackets: as a fictive of something pretty popular people get REALLY NASTY about the opposing side in an "unfair" bracket and it's hard to watch, I've seen people call for suibaiting people who vote the more popular option or going on long tirades of victim blaming over the "character" (me)'s personal trauma. please help /lh
eck sorry that's happening 2 u. fandom spaces can be so. weird to put it lightly sometimes :/
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shieldofiron · 1 year
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He’s a legend
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cometstry · 6 months
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🐕 barkinginthe-night Follow
wait wait wait wait you’re telling me all night wolves are related. how do y’all reproduce wtf
🐶 the-most-correct-dog-ever Follow
This is why we need to make a come back for Night Wolf exterminators, they are literal pests that do disgusting things.
#follow for more tips! #NIGHTWOLVES KYS
🌹 night-wolfboy ☑️ Follow
nah i did not almost die to make schools teach about night wolves a thing for you to say this 😭😭
🔁 night-wolfboy ☑️
@barkinginthe-night op, what happens is that people w/ night wolf genes get with normal werewolves or humans and have kids if they wish to, that’s where most night wolves come from now
🧛 vampussy-wait-no Follow
but nightwolves are literally a result of a werewolf king m*ting with a vampire king?
🌹 night-wolfboy Follow
yea! It’s like a half chance if a night wolf were to mate with a human or werewolf, but 100% if they get with a vampire
🔁 night-wolfboy Follow
@/the-most-correct-dog-ever blocked me 💀
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fearofahumanplanet · 2 years
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If someone without a Cluster B disorder (especially a neurotypical individual) manipulates others, yells at others, gets aggressive and/or violent, intentionally crosses boundaries, or makes white lies and small mistakes knowing they will be fine, they are almost always instantly forgiven.
If someone w/ a Cluster B disorder manipulates others without being aware of doing such a thing, panics and yells, gets aggressive out of fright and insecurity, unintentionally crosses boundaries, or accidentally makes a mistake or compulsively lies (these are all results of subconscious symptoms that it takes years to even notice for us, much less control, btw), we are treated as abusive monsters that need to be "starved of attention/supply" or "removed from your life" (actual terminology I've seen from medical websites, btw).
I have spent most of my twenty-one wretched years of life completely unaware that I had BPD, NPD, and ASPD, and I have been constantly gaslit, harassed, guilt-tripped, victim-blamed, mistreated, witch hunted, suibaited, attacked, and had my life threatened for symptoms that I have only cognitively been aware of for maybe a few months at most, because there's no goddamn resources for these disorders. Yet no matter how much work I put in to be aware of others, no matter how much work I put in to compensate for my brain that is quite literally programmed completely different than a regular human being's, and I don't mean that in a "something went wrong here" no I mean my brain is practically that of an alien's, I am still treated as some monster that is out to ruin the lives of everyone around them.
It's getting a bit sad to realize that I will only ever be sympathized for or loved when I'm six feet under, because nothing coaxes out lip service like a gravestone.
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sophieinwonderland · 2 days
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Twitter Sysmed tells me to hang myself after I state the fact that anti-endos are a hate group...
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Really wanting to prove the point there, huh?
So, yeah! Here's your reminder that anti-endos are a hate group, and that there are not two equal side in syscourse. There is one side that is supported by actual science and research, a marginalized community that is just trying to exist in peace. And then there's a hate group that wants us gone, which hides behind "science" as a buzzword despite not one paper anywhere supporting their beliefs.
Sometimes in life, things are black and white. There is no validity to anti-endo positions or beliefs. There is no justification for the hate they spread. And there should be no tolerance for them anywhere.
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nocturnixx · 7 months
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my friend asked me to draw this
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craycraybluejay · 8 months
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Saw a Reddit post about a cis woman infantilizing trans men, and this is why I think cis women are THE most annoying version of transphobia in the world. Like yeah a cis man will tell you "kys tranny" but he's not very well going to take the time to psychologically torture you for the heck of it by treating you like you are exactly [three] years old.
#im sorry but cis women are so much more likely to be really fucking weird to trans people#i cannot stand them#tw suibaiting#mentioned#transphobes#infantilization#transandrophobia#bite kill maim#look im not a misogynist BUT i dont trust women for shit#they are literally taught never to talk straight at people which results in some of the most convoluted psychological warfare ever#also on one side there's transphobic misogynists on the other side there's terfs#and very few women i've met cis OR trans have been normal about trans men and transmasculine people#even the tumblr trans community is chock full of either trans women telling us we're oppressing them and also us being hated doesn't matter#and spouting transandrophobic bullshit#but the cis women 'allies' who are like 'i know trans guys i have a trans friend who most definitely isnt scared to tell me off for my#fucked up behaviour'#the thing is this is very much how women bully other women so actually#newsflash#transmascs are not 'tme' and literally all fucking trans people are endangered by transmisogyny#some of you gals just have a superiority complex about it bc you want to have someone to look down on#almost every man I've met who is not old as hell or a borderline nazi is just. normal about it.#if a woman is too interested in your transness? run for the fucking hills#no she most probably won't physically attack you but she will try her damnedest to psychologically ruin you#not sorry if i come off as an asshole#these people are WAY too comfortable making us uncomfortable#i have had it up to here#if anyone tries to infantilize me for any reason i will scare them till they beg ME to leave them alone#idk how other people tolerate it but i sure as hell won't#and i am absolutely not above hitting a woman if she's touching me against my will#you want to baby me and constantly touch me and shit you are getting slapped into sunday
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scientistservant · 27 days
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Fucking **KILL** yourself!!!!!!!!
Do it. Youll **NEVER** win!!!!!!!! Everyone hates you including your mom and whole family,They want you dead. Youre better off dead,Ugly fucking nympho faggot ass worthless ugly fat disgusting pedophile fucking whore!!!!!!!!!
You look like your mom fucked a pig and a goat getting its cum in her cunt then 9 months later she gave birth to you,a disgusting fucked up fetus who should have been aborted! XDDDDDDD You are a dirty fucking little parasite who has no fucking life. **KILL YOURSELF UGLY WHORE**!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*touches you sexually,sensually and very SLOOOOOOOWLY all the way down to your tits,bounces themand stroking slowly and sensually all the way to your ass and spanks your ass and tickles it,strokes your ass and squeezes your boobs and plays with them sexually and sensually licking my lips looking straight into your eyes while i get wet and rubs my fucking pussy on your face and tits hard,raping the absolute cunting SHIT out of you extremely fucking hard,moaning loud and spanking your ass really fucking hard*
This is what happens when everyone you know leaves you because they can't stand your insane outbursts. Have fun getting laughed at on 4Chan, Chloe. I'm off to play some Wind Waker.
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just-antithings · 2 years
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can someone (or perhaps has someone already) compile a list of animal blogs that don't start off with 'proshippers go die'? like damn it I'm just looking for some cute puppies and marmosets and gila monsters not to be fucking suibaited
anyone have recommendations?
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scorchrend · 1 year
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the full doodle page from my first day of irl classes
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