#suibaiting

[adorablereactionscollection]

i think the internet, especially teens, have gotten a little too comfortable with suibaiting and telling others to kys in fandom spaces when they don't agree with something they do or like, and i think that should really get pulled back... like... a lot.

it doesn't matter if someone ships something you hate. block them, filter their username, filter the tags for the ship you hate. it doesn't matter if they like a character you hate. do the same thing. block, filter, filter.

i can understand some people might want to debate stuff but that's an entirely different cup of tea than suibaiting bc ur angry or disgusted or triggered by something. i understand being triggered is extremely hard to deal with. flashbacks are awful things i deal with all the time. however you also need to know how to take responsibility for yourself and find coping mechanisms or someone to help you when you're having them instead of lashing out at the people around you or online.

i will tell you this: no fictional character or ship is worth more than someone's life. ever.

when you go to send "kys" to someone, you need to consider the even SLIGHT chance they might actually do that. you need to consider the weight of having someone's life end because one more "kys" message drove them to the edge. you don't know what their life is like irl. you don't know what they're going through. what they do online with fandom is none of your business.

this isn't directed toward anyone or any group in particular, just anyone who does this sort of thing. if you're sitting there thinking something like "it's okay if they actually do it" then you need to seek help and talk to a professional about how to cope with things that make you feel this way.

this post is not about irl stuff, just fandom, because those kinds of things need to be handled in a completely different way from what i said above.

i think it's also important to remember that a lot of people in your life are the types that would upset you if they were more open about what they like. next time you consider going to send hate to someone that they should hurt themselves over something fandom-related imagine that person being your best friend or a family member that you love and then think about how horrible it would be to lose them. these people have family and friends who would miss them, too.

a life is not something you can replace. you can easily block and avoid people online but when they're gone irl that's it.

just think everyone needs to be more kind and learn to help themselves when they find something they don't like. you can take care of yourself without hurting those around you.

it's okay to not like things. it's okay to hate things or have squicks or triggers. it's NOT okay to suibait someone just because you don't agree with what they like, however.

#discourse #fiction discourse #suibaiting #this was brought to mind bc of someone who said that suibaiting shouldn't be enough to get banned on a site #and i don't really agree with that #something to think about

[scientistservant]

Fucking **KILL** yourself!!!!!!!!

Do it. Youll **NEVER** win!!!!!!!! Everyone hates you including your mom and whole family,They want you dead. Youre better off dead,Ugly fucking nympho faggot ass worthless ugly fat disgusting pedophile fucking whore!!!!!!!!!

You look like your mom fucked a pig and a goat getting its cum in her cunt then 9 months later she gave birth to you,a disgusting fucked up fetus who should have been aborted! XDDDDDDD You are a dirty fucking little parasite who has no fucking life. **KILL YOURSELF UGLY WHORE**!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*touches you sexually,sensually and very SLOOOOOOOWLY all the way down to your tits,bounces themand stroking slowly and sensually all the way to your ass and spanks your ass and tickles it,strokes your ass and squeezes your boobs and plays with them sexually and sensually licking my lips looking straight into your eyes while i get wet and rubs my fucking pussy on your face and tits hard,raping the absolute cunting SHIT out of you extremely fucking hard,moaning loud and spanking your ass really fucking hard*

This is what happens when everyone you know leaves you because they can't stand your insane outbursts. Have fun getting laughed at on 4Chan, Chloe. I'm off to play some Wind Waker.

#rape mention #sa mention #suibaiting #pedojacking #death threats #actual horrible fucking shit

[kasumingo]

Not related to anything in particular, but:

suibaiting = someone baiting someone else to commit a suicide

suibaiting =/= someone expressing how much they want to kill themselves, even if you receive it/consider it manipulative

The more you know!

#suibaiting #death threats #social media #abuse #harassment #because i see this term thrown around as an accusation #especially said in incredibly stressful situations that naturally lead to someone's mental state worsening <3 #and others accusing and worsening their state further by saying they're guilt tripping them #i need you to know that you're ableist #tw suicide mention #txt #i feel like some of you just want an excuse to be cruel

[alwayscraftynight]

Got suicide baited over an old ass poorly drawn philuz post that isn't even in the main tags so fuck it, I'm drawing philuz today out of spite.

Congratulations, I don't even draw a lot of stuff like that anymore but you've motivated me to do it again. 👍👍👍👍👍👍🎉🎉🎉🎉

#philuz #proship #anti anti #belluz #suicide baiting #suibaiting #tw suibaiting

[sophieinwonderland]

(In ref to that one "anti traumagenic" person) I literally split a headmate because a Dr Who roleplayer was grooming me and now I hate Dr Who??? And I'm a mixed origin system so???? They're just incorrect and also definitely not endo safe lol

This! And I'm really sorry that happened to you.

I still can't understand what @sweet-sloths-sys actually thought is unbelievable or even implausible? Is it that a headmate could form through roleplaying? Pretty sure that's an incredibly common origin. Is it that there would be abusive people in fandom spaces who would take advantage of vulnerable people? I'm sorry, but have you seen most fandoms? Is it that someone who was abused in a fandom might not like that fandom anymore?

It's just... absolutely none of these things are even remotely unbelievable or even unlikely.

Having said that, despite how terrible the things they've said are, I also feel I need to say this because of something else I saw on their page...

IT DOESN'T GIVE PEOPLE AN EXCUSE TO TELL PEOPLE TO KILL THEMSELVES

@khanivoris Please knock it off. This isn't helping anything.

It doesn't matter what they've said or done. Encouraging someone to take their life is never acceptable. It just makes the whole environment that much more toxic.

#ask box #syscourse #multiplicity #systems #system #tw suibaiting #suibait #tw suibait #suibaiting

[beetlebrownleaf]

are twitter refugees actually asking if it’s against the rules to say kys here............ I hate y’all go away 

what is this, 2014

#suicide mention #suibaiting #holy shit what is wrong w y'all

[ylfva-remade]

tumblr now blocks commenting “kill yourself” BUT you can bypass this by adding an extra word, for example: “kill yourself nerd” is NOT blocked

#suibaiting #sui tw #for context i wasnt actually suibaiting i was testing something 4 a mut

[pr0shipcorner]

Tumblr what are these suggested tags

#proshippers live challenge #proshippers are welcome #proshippers please interact #i love proshippers #proship #proshipping #anti-anti #suibaiting #tw suibaiting

[svnmouth]

why is tumblr's filtering like this.

#like it makes me laugh sometimes but hey man. #world class filtering system. #suicide baiting #suibaiting

[scientistservant]

KILL YOURSELF 50 YEAR OLD UGLY FAT WHORE!!!!!!!!

YOUR FOS ARENT REAL,THEYLL NEVER LOBE YOU NOBODY WILL EVER LOVE YOU YOUR FAMILY HATE YOU FUCKING DYKE PEDOPHILE ASS BITCH,FUCKING KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!

IM

14

YEARS

OLD.

Damn you said I was 70 before, now I’m down to 50 :(

#funny anon hate #suibaiting

[kasumingo]

Oh and one more thing is that if your friends are suicide baiting someone and you encourage them, like their posts, say nothing or later deflect that "it wasn't me!!" when someone accuses you of being complacent about targeted harassment, you're in fact guilty as well, hope that helps!

#txt #tw suicide #suibaiting

[sw33tb0d]

if you're going to call me anything can you just cut out the middle man and call me a sissy faggot or tell me to kill myself instead of calling me a corny ass queer

#q slur #f slur #< for blacklist #i do not like being called the q slur in the slightest if it wasnt obvious #suibaiting #ask to tag

[1800queeragenda]

kill urself proshitter

Guys, Gals, and Nonbinary Pals. We've done it. I got my very first suibait from an Antishipper! It only took a few posts in the Proship tags to get this! OvO

...Honestly though? This is like the lamest first suibait I could've gotten. I was hoping for something more...I don't know, creative? Something that's up to par in quality with my own old suicidal thoughts.

Besides that though anon what the actual fuck is wrong with you? Like no, seriously. What the actual fuck is wrong with you? This is some horrid shit to spell out and send into my ask box. Never do this again to anyone ever. Period.

#proship #profic #pro ship #pro fic #profiction #pro fiction #suibaiting #tw suibaiting #harrassment #tw harassment #antis being antis #suicide #tw suicide #antishippers stop suibaiting people challenge

[princess--bongwater]

kill yourself immediately

#suibaiting #<for blacklist #anya.text #FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GO AWAY