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scribblesofagoonerr · 1 month

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The journey to recovery begins now.

Heres the next part! ✌🏼

Let me know what you think? I have a lot of time on my hands currently unable to move much, so this is the result!

Credit to @alotofpockets for giving me the courage to continue to write!

Pairings: beth mead x teen reader, vivianne miedema x teen reader, arsenal wfc x teen reader

Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5

You never truly appreciated how much you took your knees for granted until it was too late, leaving you to confront the stark reality of their absence during the grueling weeks that followed after your surgery.

The initial stages of your rehabilitation post-surgery, each day felt like an uphill battle against the constraints of limited mobility. Every single step was a painful reminder of your body’s fragility, which left you teetering on the edge of frustration.

The simple tasks you once took for granted now felt like insurmountable challenges, even the thought of walking a few steps sent a wave of discomfort radiating through your knee, serving as a constant reminder of your newfound vulnerability.

Reflecting on the moment that led to this predicament, you can’t help but regret it as your knee injury could have been avoided. Perhaps if you had chosen a different path that fateful night, the outcome would have been drastically different.

“Where are you off to?” Viv’s concerned voice broke through your thoughts, she had virtually been watching over you like a hawk since your return from the hospital.

“I’m just going to the toilet” You muttered, struggling to get up from the sofa but you were just too stubborn to ask for any sort of help.

Vulnerability was something you’d never dealt well with, it was a trait that was deemed unacceptable in your previous harsh upbringing. Weakness was a luxury that you couldn’t afford, it was a lesson that had been ingrained in you from childhood.

You could practically hear the stern cold voice of your biological father as if he were standing directly behind you, whispering into your ear.

“Do you need a hand?” Beth’s offer was laced with genuine concern, finding it difficult to watch you struggle unwillingly.

“No” You snapped, the frustration bubbling to the surface; You hadn’t meant to be so horrible, it was just sometimes easier to revert back to a defensive coping mechanism that you had been conditioned to over the years as you grew up.

“Just know I’m here if you need me” Beth’s reassurance hung in the air, a lifeline amidst the uncertainty.

“Just shout for us if you need anything, okay?” Viv chipped in, reminding you as she watched you limp off in the direction of the bathroom, although there was a weight of worry lingering incase you somehow hurt yourself in there.

Beth noted her girlfriends’ vigilant gaze and softened her expression, “She’ll be alright, Viv. She’s only gone to the loo, remember?” she joked, amusedly.

“I know, I am just worried in case she aggravates her knee or something” Viv admitted her concern, anxiously biting her bottom lip, “She really needs to be cautious” she added.

“It’s okay to be worried, but we have to let her do things for herself” Beth replied, offering comfort to alleviate her girlfriend's anxiety about you, “If needs help then she’ll shout, remember?” she reminded her.

Viv folded her arms, still visibly worried for you as she tried to listen out in case there’s a sudden slip in the bathroom, “I just can’t help but feel anxious, Beth. What if she hurts herself in there?” she repeats her worries.

“I understand, liefje” Beth placed a comforting hand on Viv’s shoulder, “But we have to let her have some independence too. We can’t smother her with our concerns” she explained to the Dutch woman.

“You’re right, I just need to remind myself of that– I just hate that she is going through this. It’s not fair” Viv mumbled, shaking her head.

Beth gently took a hold of Viv’s hand and squeezed it, “It really isn’t fair, but we’re going to do all that we can to support her, every step of the way, no matter what” she declared.

Deep down, you knew your injury wasn’t anyone’s fault, yet your reflex was to just continuously push your loved ones away once more.

Despite your attempts, it seemed futile, especially with surprise visits becoming a regular occurance.

Apparently, today was no exception.

Unable to start your rehab anytime soon, you found yourself wrapped up in self-pity on your bed, cocooned in blankets and lost in a Netflix TV show that you had zero interest in but since your remote has gone AWOL, it left you with no choice but watch it, but at least Myle was there for company.

“Y/N/N/! We’re here!” Kyra’s unmistakable voice cut through the air, announcing her arrival.

“Kyra, she might be asleep” Alessia’s voice followed through, a touch of caution in her tone.

“Well, she might not be” Kyra retorted, barging into your room with her usual typical energy to find you awake, “See, Less? Told you that she wouldn’t be asleep!” she grinned back at the blonde.

“Wouldn’t have much chance with the way you’re shouting” You mumbled, acknowledging both of their presence.

Alessia offered an apologetic smile, “Hey, Y/N/N. We just wanted to come and see how you’re doing” she explained.

“Oh, you know? I’m fantastic” You words are laced with sarcasm.

“Well, we brought snacks” The blonde attempted to lift your dampened mood, gesturing to the bag of the treats that they had brought you.

“Wonderful” You barely entertain the idea of the sugary treats as you keep your gaze fixed on the ceiling, disinterested.

“I can tell she’s definitely excited about that” Kyra mocked your enthusiasm, taking hold of the bag from Alessia’s hands.

Alessia shot Kyra a warning look before turning back to you, concern etched on her face, “Hey, Y/N/N, are you okay? Truthfully?” she questioned.

“Just fuckin’ peachy” You sighed dramatically, still refusing to meet their gazes, dismissing them with a wave, “How’d you guys get in, anyway?” you asked, changing the subject.

“Beth let us in before she left” Kyra explained, perching on the end of the bed.

“Oh” You mumbled in agreement.

“Someone’s feeling grumpy today” Kyra teased, her tone dripping with sarcasm as she started to delve through the bag and pull out a packet of sweets.

You snatched the packet away, tearing it open with unnecessary force, “Wouldn’t you be if you couldn’t walk with out assistance?” The frustration was evident in your tone of voice.

Kyra raised her hands in mock surrender although the mischief still sparkled in her eyes, “Noted. I’ll steer clear of touchy subjects” she quipped, exchanging a glance with Alessia.

Undeterred, Alessia took a seat beside you, mindful of your injury, “I get it that you’re frustrated, Y/N/N” she said softly, attempting to connect with you.

You rolled your eyes with the irritation simmering, “Well, excuse me for not being in the mood for a pep talk” you remark, your tone sharp.

“Come on, lighten up, mate” Kyra interjected, reclining against the bed’s end with a playful grin.

Ignoring her, you continued to sulk, stuffing more sweets into your mouth with unnecessary force, not in the mood for conversation.

Alessia sighed as her concern deepend, “I just… I thought maybe you could use someone to talk to. We know what you’re going through is difficult right now” she ventured cautiously.

“I don’t want to talk about it” You snapped, your frustration boiling over, “I just want to talk, that’s all I want. I want to be able to get out of this damn bed and feel normal again!”

“Well if you’re looking for a miracle, I think you’re in the wrong place” Kyra couldn’t resist a quip to wind you up.

“Kyra” Alessia’s reprimand was gentle but firm, signaling an end to the teasing.

A tense silence settled over your room, broken only by the sound of your frustrated sighs and the crinkle of the sweet packet that Kyra continued to help herself too.

“Listen, Y/N/N, we’re here for you, okay?” Alessia told you with a gentle voice, “Whatever you need, whether it's someone to talk to or just in silence together, we’re here” she stated, determinedly.

You met her gaze, your eyes reflecting a mix of frustration and gratitude, even if you were sometimes way too stubborn to admit it, “Thanks, Alessia” you muttered, the harshness of your voice starting to dull as you realised that it wasn’t any good to take your anger out on your team mates, who only wanted to help you.

Sensing the shift in atmosphere, Kyra leaned forward as her playful demeanour was replaced with genuine concern, “Seriously mate” she said, her voice uncharacteristically serious, “We hate seeing you like this. Is there anything we can do to help?” she asked.

You hesitated to answer, you were torn between your desire for independence and the comfort of having your friends by your side, “I don’t know” you admitted finally, your voice wavering slightly, “I just… I just hate feeling so helpless, you know?”

Alessia reached out, placing a comforting hand on your shoulder as she gently pulled you into her embrace, “It’s okay to feel that way” she said softly, “But you’re not alone in this. We’ll all help you get through it together” she promised you.

For a moment, the weight of your injury felt a little lighter, the burden now shared amongst your friends who refused to let you face it alone.

“Thanks, Lessi. Thanks, Kyra” You mumbled, burying your head in her chest as you allowed yourself to lean on them for their support, knowing no matter how tough the road ahead might be, you wouldn’t have to walk in alone, “Could one of you please pass me the remote? I don’t know what I’m watchin’ but it’s so boring” you muttered, complaining which made the two of them laugh.

#woso x reader #woso fanfics #arsenal x reader #woso #woso imagine #woso one shot #arsenal women x reader #beth mead x reader #vivianne miedema x reader #arsenal wfc x reader #scribblesofagoonerr

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cannibalhellhound · 3 months

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I feel like I'm going to regret this because backgrounds are the ban of my existence

But if I'm on a roll so I'm trying anyway ✌🏼

I'm doing this for the Air Gays™ I can do it

#help how do backgrounds work #tg #tgm #top gun #top gun maverick #top gun 1986 #HelloI'mHayden #traditional drawing #traditional art #traditional illustration #watercolor #planes #f 14 tomcat #fighter jet #Air Gays™

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nattinatalia · 2 years

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Urban Wyatt x Reader Instagram AU

Liked by yourbestiename, jackharlow, neelamthadhani, urbanwyatt, and 7,667,345 others

yourusername What I came home to 🥺 I love youuu so much @ urbanwyatt 💕

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yourbestiename So cute 🥺🫶🏻 happy birthday bitchhhhh, can’t wait to celebrate this weekend. Ilyyyyy 😘

yourusername It’s gonna be crazy, hope the guys are ready for us 😈 I love you 💕

urbanwyatt I love you my baby 😚😚

yourusername You’re the best 🥹 te amo.

maluma Feliz cumpleaños hermosa 😚

urbanwyatt ⬆️ He’s asking for it

yourbestiename Relax!!!!! It’s y/n birthday week. Our only focus is her.

urbanwyatt You’re right . I’ll handle his ass next week.

cozane Happy birthday annoying ass.

yourusername Thank you airbender

jackharlow 💀

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urbanwyatt Happy birthday to my little mama. I love you, thank you for being a ride or die. For always loving me, but also setting me straight. No one I would rather do this with. You and me against the world. 💕💕💕💕

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yourusername 🥺🥺 TE AMOOOO

yourusername Our relationship hasn’t been easy at all. But I’m forever thankful to have you in my life.

urbanwyatt We’re only going up from here, are you ready?

yourusername With you? Always 🥹😊

girlfromvideoname 🥱

yourbestiename ✌🏼🖕🏼

druski2funnny Happy birthday wild one see y’all this weekend 🥳 ps ya need better pictures

yourusername Never a compliment without you coming at our necks huh? 😅 but thank youuuu.

neelamthadhani HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAWTY 🖤 we’re going to fuck shit up!!!!

yourbestiename I’m so excited!!!!

yourusername Me tooo!!!!!! & thank you boo.

urbanwyatt Man I’m not ready for y’all’s crazy asses!!! Clay is coming with and him and y/bestie/name are wild together.

claybornharlow 😈😈😈😈

jackharlow 😩😩😩😩

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urbanwyatt Safe to say little mama had a great day 1 of birthday celebration 🍾 🎥 by me

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yourusername ITS JUST THE BEGINNING!!!!

yourbestiename 1 down, 2 to go 😈

druski2funnny you two are wild!!!!! & this is barely night 1

urbanwyatt 🍾🍾🍾🍾

ynupdates Benito 🐰 🫦

cozane You killed it with this video 🔥

yourusername He really did 🥺🖤

ynupdates Oh Urban is brave brave for having her birthday weekend in Miami out of all places 🙈 iykyk

urbanwyatt 😩💀 it was only for night 1. We went to Vegas and Cabo but those were too rated r to post about 😈

yourusername 🤫

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yourusername Birthday photo dump 🥳🤪 had a blast. Thank you to everyone who celebrated with me all weekend long. Extra thanks to my man because he made it happen @ urbanwyatt I love you papi 😘💕

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yourbestiename So much fun, you outdid yourself Urby 🥺

urbanwyatt Thanks for helping me out with some stuff.

cozane Look guys, I made it in the photo dump 😂 she likes me

yourusername Oh I’m regretting it now!!!!

druski2funnny Can we talk how Clay and y/bestie/name almost got us kicked out of the club on day 2??

claybornharlow How is it our fault? Dude tried copping a feel on sis in law. She poured her drink at him and I stepped in. So in our defense, ITS NOT OUR FAULT 😇

yourbestiename WHAT HE SAID ⬆️⬆️

urbanwyatt Ok you guys didn’t tell us this. Where the fuck were we???

jackharlow Wait what????

yourbestiename All you guys saw was me throwing my drink and Clay pushing the guy and that’s when all hell broke loose. After everything calmed down, we didn’t want to ruin the night so little bro and I decided not to mention it. Sorry 😣

jackharlow I swear, you two always stressing me out 😩😩😩

claybornharlow You love us tho

urbanandynupdates Can we talk about the 2nd pic? How it’s a screenshot from the video Urb posted to his stories 🙈 Y/N grinding all up on him 🍑🍆

yourusername It was to éxplicit to post it on my feed 😩😩😩 but I was just showing love to my man’s 🤤

urbanwyatt 💸💸💸 on that ass🍑

cozane I have come to a realization that money, dancing and ass is your guys thing.

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urbanwyatt Now time for our private celebration 😉 😈

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yourbestiename I’m so happy Jack and I are catching an early flight back home.

cozane TAKE ME WITH YOU I CANNOT HANDLE ANOTHER NIGHT WITH THESE SEX FREAKS!!!!! The shit I be hearing

urbanwyatt 🤫🤫🤫🤫

druski2funnny Shit I don’t mind the noise. Can I stay and watch? 😎😎😎🤓🤓🤓

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#instagram au #urban wyatt #urban wyatt x yn #urban wyatt x reader #jack harlow #mature label

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elonmuskfansgossipblog · 6 months

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resharing one of the commens on her other sub, since I see her lovely attempts to get back at E (girls would know what I am talking about) it's so obvious what she is doing but whatever, if he it's fine by him and also being dragged like that and have his reputation destroyed the way she did unlike his previous gf/wives, whatever.. it's his life

"If Elon snuck into anyone's DMs around then and was like, "you can go to Mars and fly in my private jet and never work again bc I'm the richest man. They'd be googling in the background while texting, "yeah I totally know what that is". then hang up and hang with all the people, only talk about it, write songs about it, read books about it, brainwash themselves.

Ofc she's heard of AI though bc of the circles she's kept in her life pre Elon. Everyone knows what it is bc it's tech that's been discussed since like probably the fifties if not, before then. It's just how she made it her thing to impress him and yet rn they are fighting for custody of X. I think rn she wants to not back down as the face so he 'regrets" his choice. But there is a big difference in being a face vs having the education while working in the development of AI." (beautiful-pool-6067 on reddit)

Also, I am throwing a little whenever I see Ashley's attempts, I really don't know what to think (we are gossiping now..) are they or not together? Did he "blondify" her and asked her to go back to brunette? (she is rocking that brunette hairstyle btw). Every post she has made is calculated as fuck, she knows how to hit the right topics to appeal to him. I sure hope he sees through that..

I get so annoyed whenever I see these attempts because I've been in the same place as him (with even family members actually try to steal my business in sketchy ways) I see people take advantage of him and I see what these ladies do as well, just to be financially stable in the end, because that's what they ALL are after).

Rent is over.. agree or disagree but I had to share this. ✌🏼

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willowser · 1 year

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will!! hello!!! ✨💫 u have many versions of bakugou running around on both of your blogs and i am here to ask—which one is your favorite? god of war bkg? nerd bkg? android(?) bkg? bkg from and you take me the way i am ? the whole world wants to know!! 🎤

shay !! a darling, hello !! 🥺✨️🌱

i. do have so many versions of him, don't i ? ahfejrbbsma i'll tell you one thing, i WILL talk about that man in any situation i can stuff him in LOL it never ends, i fear 😔✌🏼

oh, gosh, my favorite !! 🥺 how do i choose, how do i choose !! 🥺 each of my lil bakugou's have had their spotlight in my brain for far longer than could be considered normal, and i love them all dearly, will always be able to go on and on about them BUT !!

man, i do have to say that right now, i am really into ex husband bkg 🥺 literally days ago, i said it was nerd bkg, but idk !! something about the pining and the yearning and the sorrow and the regret and the still-burning love, it's like 🥺 it just gets to me 🥺 i love to see a man win it all back !! 🥺

nerd bakugou is a real close second though 😩 especially after anon's adult bakugou question !! and the fanart of bakuglasses from joops !! 😩 i wanna shake him around like a ragdoll 🥺 i wanna kiss him stupid 🥺 he's such a dork 🥺

honorable mention is cowboy bkg too, bc my love for him was reignited after another anon question 😔✌🏼 haven't though about him for a hot minute, but. wow. what a handsome man 🥺

do — 🥺 do you have a favorite, shay, my dearest ?? 🥺 i would be so curious to know !!

#wow. i really never shut up about this man do i.#i get ideas from everywhere i'm sorry 💀#watched tlou now thinking about apocalypse bkg #android bakugou is so fun and heartbreaking and mysterious #and fantasy bakugou is always chef's kiss #god of war bkg too bc he's so GRUMPY #but i want our lil witch to help him be a bit less grumpy 🥺#ex husband bkg just does something to me tho 🥺 he's so sad LOL #thank you for asking !!! i feel special 🥺✨️#bnha #✿ ask willow

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jamesunderwater · 2 months

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if you get this, answer with three random facts about yourself and send it to the last seven blogs in your notifs! anon or not, doesn’t matter, let’s get to know the person behind the blog <3 (no pressure, though, feel free to ignore! 😘 Love, PC)

Hmmm okay. I'm always so bad at random facts, so I thought hard on these, lol.

I went on a solo trip to Ireland for Christmas in 2022, but because I didn't realize my passport had expired until 5 days before the trip, I had to go down to Puerto Rico to get it changed last minute, then up to Canada, then finally to Ireland. Ended up stranded at the airport when I was trying to return home, sick with what I later found out was bronchitis, and had to find a last minute room for the night to catch a different flight home the next day - which meant that completely on accident, I got to experience two midnights on New Years' Eve. No regrets though ✌🏼

As a teenager, I was so in love with Sirius Black that I started filling out forms with Black as my last name. I even started getting mail under that name, including, somehow, from the U.S. Marines...?

I sang karaoke with a live band at an emo night last year - the song was Hands Down by Dashboard Confessional (and it was wayyyy too high for me, lmao)

#me #ask game #pc tag #the post is here

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voxyldy · 6 months

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12.11.2023

[WEVERSE]

🐯: I think I'll miss you so much. Actually (If I’m) being honest, I am regretful about not being able to make happy memories with ARMY for a while. Everything else seems okay if you take this one thing out; not being able to see Armys, which is the hardest part of it all. 18 months is a long time, and I promise you I will come back much healthier, so please you too take care of your health, ARMY, and if you are looking for something to be happy about every day, voila! I'm here/I’m coming back! And I've prepared a lot of things (for you to watch) in these 18 months so please look forward to them🙋🏻‍♂️

Let's make this as an another special memory/precious memory of ours like we always do. I miss you so much. I love you so much

So you have to just wait until then. 🙇🏻🥹✌🏼❄

I'll be right back! Bye!

Source: WeVerse

Translation: The Tae Guide

#taehasmysoulinhispocket #bts #v #TaeHyung #Tyung #my sweet potato #my prince #my honey #open letter #weverse #military conscription #mint choco line #triptych #1/3 of my 삼총사 #내 고구마 #내 여보 #프린스태는 #December 2023

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paddockbunny · 1 year

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Y’know the fact I let silly little girls drive me away from TT when I know I’d have been invited to launches and PR shit by now, is probably the biggest regret of my life.

But hey, I’ve just been nominated for a women in business award so ✌🏼

#f1 girls #like seriously there still probably still being c*nty toward other females #standing up for a disgraced male tiktoker then calling out pitstop boys podcast like #hunnnnnnyyyyy I have the receipts!

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dispatchpodcast · 1 year

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rachel. friend. sorry to be presumptuous about our one-sided parasocial relationship but I am in the middle of a menty b cuz I am writing to u now having watched the 6x11 clip of them bringing buck to the hospital and (EDDIE!!!!!) restarting his heart.

u are so correct in saying this sort of torture should be illegal bc it in fact violates the geneva conventions. I regret being all haha heehee joke joke about buck getting struck by lightning cuz I think this is genuinely the most physiologically stressed I have ever been about the show.

shoutout to ur sibling who is no doubt hearing about the current unhingedness we are witnessing on fox's nine one one ✌🏼

I am going to attempt to fold my laundry while listening to the podcast to take a break from any new content dropping bc if I see one more clip or still of the 118 looking agonized and shellshocked or hear eddie deliver some absolutely bonkers husbandcoded line about buck I am going to have to take a dive into the mariana trench :)

hope ur doing better than me x

We’re all friends here! And we need all the friends we can get at a time like this!

I too am SufferingTM. I cannot get over Eddie’s face 😭😭😭 How will we ever cope with seeing in the the episode? How will we cope with seeing CHRIS at Buck’s bedside??? It’s all too much for me. I have seen simply too many gifs and read too much spec fic and achieved absolutely nothing else. How am I expected to work in these conditions?!

And yes, my sibling is (unfortunately for them) definitely getting unsolicited unhinged thoughts and screenshots of the best of 911blr from me. It was particularly bad on Tuesday night after I’d finally seen the ep, as evidenced by this message they sent me the day after:

So unappreciative.

I hope we survive till 6x11. At this point that feels like a big ask!

#answered #anon #911 spoilers

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cannibalhellhound · 3 months

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Yes

I drew Ice and Mav as dogs

I regret nothing

Drawing feathers is amazing but a pain so I'm drawing comfy things aka furry things because fur doesn't hate me like feathers might do ✌🏼

Mav is a black border collie because he's Fast as Fuck Boi™ and kinda small.

Ice is a Siberian Husky Wolf mix, because Soviet! Ice supremacy . His fur is white with gold undertones (he's got a black spot for his mole).

They're beautiful and I love them 😌

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duhwritemind · 2 years

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Journal entry: July 10

Hello world,

It has been a whole ass week since a personal entry has been submitted on this forum so, I think I let my non-existant audience go on without me for long enough.

Since last week, I got a sunburn, possibly a promotion (I got more hours at work so, I think that's something), a new perspective on love AND I just finished a book I have been reading since last month.

I think this week has been productive as fuck. A little stress came from my landlord when he mentioned we were wasting too much electricity after he pointed out our neighbor has been paying $300 more than his average electricity bill of apparently $500 (which I think is still a lot in my opinion).

I am now cursed to live in a 70° to 72° Fahrenheit efficiency in Miami because my boyfriend and I realized the energy was being wasted on our A/C unit constantly running.

Anyways, I learned a lot from this experience:

I'm still an overthinker, but I tend to suppress my thoughts until I don't need to focus on work or school.

I need to consider electricity and water costs when I move into my next place (I do not pay those costs at the moment). I only pay a flat fee of $1,000 per month to my landlord.

I'm surprisingly doing well in cutting down my debt.

My boyfriend and I considered moving out after this whole ordeal with my landlord, who also suggested we get rid of our fish tank.

My boyfriend insisted we keep them because that is not where the electricity is being wasted. To put it into perspective, the average cost of power to have a fish tank is only $30 to $40 per month, not hundreds of dollars.

We talked to our friend, who is unsure of a lot in his life right now, to move into another place with us, but that was a whole other headache in it of itself.

I need more patience. I have worked on myself a lot throughout the years but in moments where I am aware of how much work I still have to put in to myself humbles me.

Main takeaway of this entry: Everything takes time.

My boyfriend and I discussed our plans for the future (as couples should every so often in the relationship) and it made me realize just how little I know about life.

Living alone -- I've done it before, but I couldn't help but feel so clueless when I was asked if I wanted to rent or buy a home.

There are pros and cons with both but I felt so stumped.

I know we can be better than before.

When I look back on my life, I almost don't recognize the person I was. But, I acknowledge her and appreciate her presence.

I hope whoever reads this gains some sort of comfort in knowing that you do not have to know everything there is to know about the path you take.

Life is full of mistakes and regrets. Don't let them hold you back.

Bad life choice are meant to be a learning experience. Always, always, always continue to reflect and understand what went wrong in the past because it can only accelerate your growth.

Well, that's all for now folks. I hope you all shine like the beaming miracles of light you all are.

Ok, bye. ✌🏼

#duhwritemind #writer #journal #thoughts #personal entry #mistakes #ramblings #love #mental health #growth #learning #people

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hoghtastic · 8 months

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Alright:

First of all, I'd like to apologize on behalf of the other anon for dropping the F-bomb in CapsLock on Ida. 🙏🏼 Let's not be rude to each other✌🏼

Ida, don't take it personally, as you can see we get passionate and sensitive about this topic (of bullying) because as you may have noticed many of us here have been bullied, wether in school or at work, as I said on another post here from my experiences.

So, I have to agree with the other anons. Survival of the fittest is NOT a good reason/excuse to bully others.

As the owner of the blog pointed out, being bullied does not make (the majority) of the people want to become a bully themselves; I think our empathy to the pain of others would be much more evolved than those who haven't been bullied. That's why we find it implausible that she did it "because others did it to her". I'd say it's just another ploy to excuse her behaviours (in the past and maybe present) by playing the 'victim card', to be more relatable, accepted and included by her social circles.

And who better to use this kind of ploy on? Alex is an advocate for mental health (Danish Red Cross) and he himself has been in dark times mentally. He is more than empathetic to the woes she has probably told him from her "bullied" days. Probably makes him want to take care of her or enable her... we never find fault in people we care about.

But I digress, being bullied often results in social awkwardness/ineptitude, social withdrawal, introvertedness, asocial tendencies, anxiety, isolation, etc the list goes on. Never have I met a bullied person where they go Batman on others from one day to another. Unless, maybe they turn out to be mass shooters, another extremely grave consequence of bullying.

Perhaps, she was made fun of ONCE because of her hair color and she took it so badly being ganged up on, she decided to turn the tables and focus the heat on some other poor kid for the rest of the school years? It's also possible. Another point: Teachers bullying a child for being ginger? You'd think her parents would have caught up on that and said or done something about it, if it's true about the "strong values her affluent family has", and not encourage her to harm others instead (if they did do that, not so great family values I guess)?

In summary, kids are mean and they will say/do anything to make themselves feel better or be the bee's knees. The problem now, is if she carried this bad habit with her into adulthood, hasn't learned anything or regretted it and is just covering her tracks in her new found fame.

Yes, I used 'bee's knees'. 1920's slang is great.

Anon to Ida. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this! 😊 I personally agree with everything you wrote! (And thank you for teaching me a new expression! I’d never heard “bee’s knees” before! 😆)

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