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dishsaop · 26 days
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does anyone have recommendations for fictional media that has like. actual lesbians in it. not like supergirl Two White Skinny Girls, One Blonde and One Brunette Kiss media, or "its implied lesbianism!!!" but just regular fucking lesbians
#i say lesbians but i guess i mean sapphic#im just like. tired of gnawing#and of men also. sorry men in my life i love you but on god if i have to pretend one more man is butch just to get#content that isnt m/m or m/f im going to turn into a horse and run into the wilderness until im saved from the glue factory by a plucky#young woman except instead of letting her have her formative summer where she trains me and bonds w me and wins a competition w me#im going to commit horse suicide in front of her & change her life forever. just because im so tired of bland CW-marketable women kissing &#digging for scraps in a refuse bin while brushing aside 7002993829292929939292929399394 gay and het romances#m text#i will also take nonfictional lesbians if its like a story#not to be whiny on main but one of the hardest hurdles i had to jump wasnt realizing i was a lesbian. i came out to myself and to friends a#lesbian multiple times. but i would always walk it back when a friend would express doubt or a male friend would ask me out#bc i dont and especially then didnt know very many lesbians in person. and so i had to turn to examples#and all i fucking had were fictional women who liked men. or fictional lesbians who were so cleaned and sanitized and prettified#(you all know what i mean right. the 2 skinny white girls one blonde one brunette. im not crazy right)#and i would be like. i dont feel things when i look at these fictional lesbians so i guess i belong back here#(this is also bc my gender ended up being fuckier than i realized but shhhhh)#I WAS GOING SOMEWHERE WITH THESE TAGS but theyre too long and im lost.#anyway the point is if people werent so fucking weird abt fictional or onscreen lesbians maybe thered be a lot more people comfortable bein#out as lesbian#like sorry but this awful ouroboros of 'all lesbians onscreen have to be cute and sanitized' meaning that people write and believe wlw has#to be cute and pure and sanitized (OR a 'badge of honor' bc good for u u doodled two women together or had it as a background in ur fic)#meaning that therefore all portrayals of lesbianism continue to be like this. is just#and im also gonna be honest theres probably a lot of good sapphic media im just in the wrong circles to have stumbled into lol. so#yknow. personal viewer bias here#but i still like swing wildly between overly brandishing my dykeness as a badge to feel like im proving im lesbian#and like. backing up under a blanket bc i dont wanna be weird or annoying or freak people out#but if people just Saw Normal Ass Lesbians. aough.#im going to watch revolutionary girl utena one of these days even if i struggled w the writing style the first few episodes#I JUST WANNA SEE AN OLD BUTCH ONSCREEN GET SOME PUSSY.#like it also doesnt help im mostly femme4butch so seeing 2 femmes on screen is like. okay cool so what. but only femmes are 'marketable'
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suiheisen · 6 days
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studio trigger understood the assignment. i would let her wreck me.
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cassandragemini · 2 months
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19th DC Gay Pride Day Festival, Washington DC, June 5th, 1994, by Elvert Barnes Photography
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emi4ks · 7 months
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For the love of tongues you will love it 🔥👅👅🥰
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hattersarts · 8 months
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im already at the south downs cottage guys, catch up
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greenflamethegf · 10 months
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TBH that might even thiner they avrage
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queerism1969 · 10 months
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civetcider · 6 months
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i wanna be fishing right now part 3
Oakley the black bear and Traver the kit fox, she/her for both!
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alexandriad · 6 months
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back to the antiquity with these ancient grecian gal pals
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7roaches · 7 months
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sorry that took like an hour i stopped to eat dinner heres my idea
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luaminesce · 4 months
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It's nearly 2024; can we not do ace discourse this year.
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cassandragemini · 4 months
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Aimee, from Leonard Nimoy’s 2010 photography series Secret Selves
Aimee — tattoo and body piercing
I like being a girl…no one knows I am a woman, let alone a lesbian. My beard is natural, there is no imbalance.
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bootdork · 10 months
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alienxbonezz · 23 days
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to all my trans mascs:
who have many other gender identities
who identify as lesbian
who are nonbinary
who are binary
who are feminine
who are masculine
who don’t fit into the stereotypical idea of trans masc (eg. tons of masc traits and instead have fem traits)
who love being feminine
who love being masculine
who are androgynous
who are genderfluid
who are aspec
who are allosexual
who are bisexual
who are straight
who are poc
who are chubby
who are fat
who plan on transitioning/or have already done so
who don’t want to transition
who kept their birth names
who changed their names to something different than their birth name
who are neurodivergent
who are disabled
who are deaf/blind (was originally dead by accident but hey if ur transmasc and dead shoutout to u)
who are wheelchair users
who use canes
SHOUT OUT ALL TRANS MASC!!!
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dykepunch · 2 months
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i-am-a-fish · 4 months
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this year I will become a powerful lesbian
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