#not ed culture

[ed-culture-is]

hi not an ed culture ask but i wanted to share. today i realized i don’t feel guilty for eating ice cream anymore. i remembered we had some and i got excited to eat it, it didn’t even occur to me not to :)

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#not ed culture #anon I am so happy for you!! #thank you for sharing - that made me smile! #mod Olivia

[crippledpunks]

i wanna say fuck you to anyone who shame disabled, chronically ill & neurodivergent people, especially homebound folks, for "spending too much time on their phone/on the internet/etc." when it's the only (Somewhat) accessible way for them to experience the world. many people don't get to get out much even if they want to because of their disabilities. shaming someone for trying to connect with the world, make friends and engage with hobbies in ways that are accessible to them is beyond cruel and unnecessary

#cripple punk #cripplepunk #crip punk #cpunk #actually disabled #chronic pain #disability culture #fibromyalgia #disability rights #disability advocacy #physical disability #c punk #angry cripple #queer cripple #cfsme #chronic fatigue syndrome #chronic fatigue #arthritis #diabetes #neurodiverse #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #autism #autistic #adhd #actually autistic #hypermobile eds #hypermobilty syndrome #our writing

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Another piece of diet culture to unlearn: that eating an "unhealthy" food negates the benefits of other nutritious things you've eaten. Put bacon and ranch on your salad? Congratulations, you still got a lot of fiber, that's great for your gut biome, and the veggies still contain nutrients. Finished up your dinner with a dessert? You still ate the dinner. You don't have to eat "pure" to take in nutrition from your meals.

#diet culture #food m #food mention #ed recovery

[neptunes-cunt]

i love you consistent meals i love you steady blood sugar i love you little snacks i love you non-diet foods i love you full-fat yogurt i love you sugary drinks i love you intuitive eating i love you full stomach i love you breaking free from diet culture i love you body that just wants to keep me alive

#intuitive eating #anti diet #ed recovery #fuck diet culture #body neutrality #body positive #fat body positivity #midsize #feeders dni pls

[fatphobiabusters]

That person the other day who said they love seeing photos of thin people holding up 3XL jeans to show all of the "hard work" they put into living "the life they want," there's so much I could say about that.

I could explain that any fat person you see has almost certainly put in that same amount of "hard work" to become thin and then watched as their body refused to stay that way.

I could explain basic, unbiased weight science proving that weight loss is only temporary for the 4 millionth time.

I could explain that fat people are human beings who deserve to be treated with dignity, respect, and humanity, again for the 4 millionth time.

I could explain and explain and explain, but I'm tired of explaining to people who don't listen and pull their views out of their ass. So instead, I think we should applaud photos of fat people holding up the jeans they temporarily wore as a thin person.

Let's celebrate the fat people who once were a size small. Let fat people hold up their old tiny jeans in celebration of:

Beating an eating disorder

No longer experiencing food insecurity

Recovering from an illness that had caused weight loss

Accepting their fat body instead of abusing themself to become thin again

Leaving an abusive family/living situation where they were starved and/or forced to conform to prevent abuse

Having the genes of ancestors who survived famines

Knowing that there is not a single scientifically-proven method of weight loss

No longer wasting time fighting their body's weight gain from health conditions that cause weight gain, like PCOS

Accepting their body that changed due to pregnancy

Accepting their body that changed due to puberty

Accepting their body that changed due to transitioning

Allowing themself to take the medicine they need to treat mental or physical illness no matter the weight gain side effects

Not listening to harassment from bullies, friends, family, or anyone else who demanded they be thin to deserve peace from mistreatment

Literally just getting older and having a body that has changed with time

Loving themself despite the entire world believing that fat people do not deserve love

Existing, because fat people do not need to justify their body and existence to anyone

And so much more

-Mod Worthy

#fatphobia #thin privilege #fat liberation #fat positive #Mod Worthy #ed mention #diet culture

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

#talkin #tik tok #food #recipes #thisisiona #ed mention #diet culture #1k #2k #3k #4k

[magnusthepuppet]

“the merman scene was corny”

shut tf up it was ed’s coma-induced dream about the love of his life no shit it was gonna be corny

#did you even SEE the wedding toppers? #shut uuuuup cringe culture is so stupid and infectious that some of y’all can’t realize that things have meaning outside of #whats on the surface #y’all are so bitter like #enjoy the silliness #because in the end it *is* a comedy #it’s not meant to be taken seriously all the time yk #ofmd #our flag means death #ed teach #stede bonnet #blackbonnet #gentlebeard #ed x stede #10/10 scene btw

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#eating disorder recovery #ed recovery #logic meal #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery #fuck diet culture #food freedom #you deserve to eat #you don’t have to earn food

[still-suffering]

I tried to make a meme!

#@n0r3xia #@na #@n@ buddy #@na buddy #st@rving #st@rve #@na trigger #tw ed diet #pro @na #@nor3×14 #⭐️rve #i want to ⭐️ve #⭐️ving #ed culture #3d memes #tw ana shit #ed not sheeren #@nor3xia #f@st1ng #f@sting #tw ed rant #⭐️ve #3d f4st #ed relapse #tw disordered eating

[serialunaliver]

it's crazy how different doctors approach you when you lose weight, like now when I go I unlocked the ability of "talking about many different aspects of your health". before it was just like, are you exercising enough? ok appointment over👍

and the real kicker is I didn't even lose weight by being healthy. in fact eating healthy and exercising was perhaps the most inefficient method. anyone who lost weight very quickly secretly knows this but it's easier to lie and accept praise--except there's two kinds of people seeing your weight loss transformation pics: the kind of person who sees you as inspiring, and the kind of person that notices how much your hair has thinned

#diet culture #ed tw

[ed-culture-is]

Hey what's up with the icon? Is that intentional or no?

Oh lmao I'd forgotten we did that

It's intentional yeah. Part joke, part commentary. Couldn't think of anything better to put instead so here we are

#mod f #not ed culture

[crippledpunks]

shoutout to every person who deals with incontinence. i dealt with bedwetting up until my early teens, and now deal with stress and urge incontinence and for years never wanted to talk about it because of the shame and stigma other people place on not being able to control your bladder or bowel movements.

incontinence is a disability. it's not gross or wrong to talk about incontinence. incontinent people are not dirty or disgusting. if we could control these parts of our body, we would. we're not an inconvenience for being this way, and we don't have to be treated like a burden or like we need to be "fixed".

whether or not you use incontinent products like briefs, pads, diapers, plastic bed sheets, or whatever else, you are loved, important, and deserved to be seen when there are conversations about disability awareness and acceptance. we don't deserve to hide in shame when all we need is to be accommodated and accepted.

#cripple punk #disability culture #cripplepunk #incontinence #disability #disabled #physically disabled #hypermobile ehlers danlos #actually hypermobile #hypermobile eds #arthritis #chronic illness #chronically ill #chronic pain #crip punk #our writing #chronic fatigue

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Boundaries for ED recoverers can look like this:

"Please don't talk to me about your diet, diet culture is not good for me."

"If you continue to make comments about my body, I'm going to walk away."

"I know you're trying to be helpful, but hearing about your diet tips is not good for me. I am stating a boundary."

"I know you meant it as a compliment, but please don't focus on my body so much. It makes me feel self-conscious."

"Please don't make comments about what I eat. It makes me feel extremely self-conscious. If you continue to do this, I will not have meals with you in the future."

"You're not my therapist/doctor/nutritionist, so your advice is not relevant or helpful to me."

I might post more as they come to me. Feel free to use these freely and don't worry about offending others. Your health is your priority!

#ed recovery #boundaries #diet culture #body image #health #ed cw

[spirker]

I actually think Taika here is wearing a perfect Ed-coded outfit and I would have loved to see it in the show.

Ed fishing his leathers back out of the ocean and putting them back on to go get his man is all about him reconciling Ed and Blackbeard - the two parts of his character that have felt in opposition in the past but are finally able to come together to fight for love.

So the leathers are the right outfit for him to be wearing when he chokes out those soldiers while reading his love letter - he’s wearing Blackbeard’s clothes, he’s ‘being’ Blackbeard, but he’s being spoken to as Ed by Stede through the letter, he’s being told how loved he is by the man he loves. So it’s a moment of reconciliation with that leather outfit.

But this moment here, when they’re standing on the porch of the inn, looking at each other so softly? Yeah, Ed is wearing his leather jacket, he still likes some bits of the old Blackbeard look and he knows he looks good in it.

But Ed also likes softness, and being comfortable, and expressing his identity.

So the lavalava with the leather jacket - that’s the perfect encapsulation of Ed. It’s the two sides brought together in harmony.

#just my two cents #ofmd #our flag means death #ed teach #taika waititi #ofmd bts #stede bonnet #ed and stede #edit to add culturally appropriate name

[cinnamonsikwate]

"why couldn't shuro have just been honest about what he felt with laios and falin it's not that hard" are you. are you White

#dungeon meshi #shuro #toshiro nakamoto #look you can hate him for other things but this is very clearly a case of cultures (& personalities influenced by these cultures) clashing #shuro is japanese/east asian-coded and laios is european white boy #i am not japanese but i also come from a collectivistic society #pakikisama is a filipino value both prized and abhorred #it relies heavily on being able to read social cues and prior knowledge of societal norms #shuro being from a different country/culture is important to his character #his repressed nature is meant to contrast with laios' open one like that's the point #they both had similar upbringings but different coping mechanisms #shuro explicitly admits that he's jealous of laios being able to live life sincerely #anyway the point is they were operating on different expectations entirely and neither had healthy enough communication skills #to hash things out before they got too bad #re his attraction to falin i personally believe he unfortunately mpdg-ed her #she represented something new & different. a fresh drink of water for his parched repressed self #alas not meant to be #i'll be honest the way ryoko kui handles both fantasy & regular racism in dm is more miss than hit for me #i don't doubt that a lot of the shuro hate is based off of marcille's pov of him #marcille famously racist 😭 #characters' racist views don't often get (too) challenged #practically everyone is casually racist at some point #anyway. again if you're gonna hate shuro at least hate him for being complicit in human trafficking & slavery #he couldn't help falling for the wrong woman goddamn 😭 #calemonsito notes #edit: upon further reflection i take back what i said about toshiro mpdg-ing falin! #i'm sorry toshiro 😭

[bakedbakermom]

The amount of self-fatphobia I encounter in my female friends regarding holiday treats is too damn high and it pisses me off. Twice this week I have told friends that it's okay to eat more in the winter (or when the fuck ever) because we are mammals and that's what we're supposed to do and both of them were like, "Teehee oh that's a great excuse!" And I'm like NO IT'S TRUE your body is responding to rhythms deeper than our modern concept of shame and it's absolutely fine to honor them and listen to your body! You don't need to generate some excuse in order to justify eating and being hungry and enjoying food.

I have had to do so much self-work regarding food and permission to eat and learning to be okay with enjoying food beyond its purpose as mere fuel. Like that was such a huge part of my recovery. My nutritionist once held my hand while I ate cheesecake and cried. And every time I encounter (milder versions of) those same food-phobic fat-shaming feelings in people I love I want to burn down the whole world because WHY ARE WE MADE TO FEEL LIKE THIS!?

Can we as a society just. Shut. The. Fuck. Up. about dieting and thinness and the morality of certain body shapes and just live in these physical bodies with their needs and desires and cravings!?!??

#i mean FUCK #fuck diet culture #fuck fatphobia #fuck fat shaming #especially when it comes from within #you are a physical being with physical needs MEET THEM DAMMIT #ed recovery #fat positivity #body positivity #bodypos #fatphobia #diet culture