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#my therapist said
soulinkpoetry · 2 months
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THANK YOU.
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The ones who did right by you they’ll appreciate it. Let the rest wonder what it is you’re thanking them for. Hopefully they’ll get a little humbled by it.
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craycraybluejay · 4 months
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My therapist says the "all codependents are narcissists" (insane statement from an ex-mutual) is bullshit and also that diagnoses are made up for the sake of streamlining treatment/certain disability benefits/accomodations.
And also that pop psychology people are the most annoying people on Earth. Like when someone goes "hes such a psychoooo lol" about someone they've talked to once I think they personally should never be around other people for everyones sake. Or shouting "traumadumping"/"emotional labour" when someone is telling you how their day went. It's irritating as hell and no, saying "narcissist" about your makeup obsessed friend doesn't make you sound smart, it makes you sound like a weird and rude person.
Anyway my therapist has been in her profession longer than your famous youtube psychologist who is probably not a psychologist. Never believe anything anyone says about psychology, especially if they're armchair diagnosing someone they don't know, especially if their source is not a primary source who isn't making money on views, especially if they are making polarizing and generalizing statements about stigmatized conditions.
To reiterate: if it smells like bullshit, it probably is bullshit. If it doesn't, it's probably still bullshit and you're noseblind to it. Your hot takes are hot garbage and you need to stop pathologizing everything and agreeing with the first/most persuasive person to say something before your brain turns to mush. Also, always run reactionary-sounding ideas through at least 2 people not personally involved. Everyone needs a few impartial sets of eyes that are trustworthy and preferably have real experience in the topic at hand.
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hearth-and-veil · 1 year
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"I'm a priest/ess of ___"
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"I had sex with ____"
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"I'm god spoused to ____"
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"I'm a child of ___"
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"I was chosen by ____"
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"I spoke with___"
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"____ told me"
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"I receive visions from _____"
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Blocked, blocked, blocked. You're all blocked.
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haxzie · 8 months
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MOM LEAVE ME ALONE I WANNA BE FAMOUSSSS
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kinda-buggy · 5 months
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my therapy session today: a summary
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"Your way of dealing with your mental health is inspiring"
- My therapist
Looks like I'm not the big disaster I think I am...or at least not completely...My therapist helps me to see myself in a new light, and I'm thankful for him.
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marandina-001 · 4 months
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so the other day at the therapist - bc thats something i have to do now, apparently - i found out how hobbies werent supposed to make you feel stressed
what.
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actual-changeling · 9 months
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somehow the only thing that helps with my bpd episodes is replaying ellie's seattle days in part 2 and killing every single wolf and scar i come across, preferably with her knife but any bloody and violent way will do
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Therapist: Why are you doing that?!
Me: To make myself suffer I guess
Therapist: *laughs* You have a suffering kink?
Me: Only if I'm having sex with my mind
Therapist: Well you're definitely fucking yourself
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xmsorx · 2 years
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A feeling is just a feeling. It is not your reality.
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happyhourisnow · 1 year
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I think I've made my therapist, thera-pissed
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craycraybluejay · 7 months
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My therapist be making my eyes well up by listening to me and being so fun and kind and genuine like an actual normal person on top of being a therapist who is clearly paying attention to the things I say and has her own opinions and stuff to add and engages me like I'm an actual person..
Also, to quote her out of context: "it's a cute codependent"
^this why I love this woman she be spitting fire shit like this
The Validation that I'm not crazy for loving my hoomans very hard. And also the quote genuinely sounds like a fandomblr shitpost. It IS a cute codependent actually!! Love is not lost on heavily pathologized attachment styles. Love is real love is strong its okay to love someone super hard and have them love you super hard back. I just. Damn. Having a moment here
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soliel-et-lune · 2 years
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thinking about how my therapist told me to forgive myself before seeking forgiveness from others because even if i do get the closure / forgiveness from them it won’t be convincing enough for me because i wouldn’t find myself worthy of it. and once i’ve given the forgiveness and love and validation that i need - to myself, i wouldn’t ask anyone else for it and i would be okay.
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pavlovschekhov · 2 years
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me: hey! how are you?
shea, my therapist, already typing something:
me: shea.
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theemmtropy · 1 year
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Nothing has been so relieving as telling my therapist "It's hard to cry" and having her respond with "yes, it is".
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