#men taught me to hate men

[sashathethundercuhntofficial]

#misogynist #misogynistic #feminist #female rage #feminine rage #feminism #patriarchy #proud misandrist #radical feminism #bystander #game of thrones #abortion #abortion is healthcare #pro-choice #my body my choice #straight cis white men #men taught me to hate men #relateable #accurate

[temeyes]

i,, i don't know what possessed me,,

#i was supposed to write a ghost fic i had in my mind for days now but then... something possessed me to draw ghost naked instead LOL #SOMEONE TELL ME TO WRITE IT IT'S ANGST-TO-FLUFF KIND OF IDEA #BUT ANYWAY. I ACTUALLY LIKE THIS LIKE WOW #as an person who rarely and struggles to draw men n00d?? this a major win for me ahsahsh #ghost taught me how to draw so many things i hate drawing godbless #my art #2023 #call of duty #call of duty modern warfare #call of duty: modern warfare 2 #call of duty: modern warfare #call of duty: modern warfare ii #cod #codmwii #codmw2 #mwii #mw2 #ghost #simon ghost riley #simon riley #art #fanart #digital art #digital drawing #sketch #video games #activision #infinity ward

[craycraybluejay]

Saw a Reddit post about a cis woman infantilizing trans men, and this is why I think cis women are THE most annoying version of transphobia in the world. Like yeah a cis man will tell you "kys tranny" but he's not very well going to take the time to psychologically torture you for the heck of it by treating you like you are exactly [three] years old.

#im sorry but cis women are so much more likely to be really fucking weird to trans people #i cannot stand them #tw suibaiting #mentioned #transphobes #infantilization #transandrophobia #bite kill maim #look im not a misogynist BUT i dont trust women for shit #they are literally taught never to talk straight at people which results in some of the most convoluted psychological warfare ever #also on one side there's transphobic misogynists on the other side there's terfs #and very few women i've met cis OR trans have been normal about trans men and transmasculine people #even the tumblr trans community is chock full of either trans women telling us we're oppressing them and also us being hated doesn't matter #and spouting transandrophobic bullshit #but the cis women 'allies' who are like 'i know trans guys i have a trans friend who most definitely isnt scared to tell me off for my #fucked up behaviour' #the thing is this is very much how women bully other women so actually #newsflash #transmascs are not 'tme' and literally all fucking trans people are endangered by transmisogyny #some of you gals just have a superiority complex about it bc you want to have someone to look down on #almost every man I've met who is not old as hell or a borderline nazi is just. normal about it. #if a woman is too interested in your transness? run for the fucking hills #no she most probably won't physically attack you but she will try her damnedest to psychologically ruin you #not sorry if i come off as an asshole #these people are WAY too comfortable making us uncomfortable #i have had it up to here #if anyone tries to infantilize me for any reason i will scare them till they beg ME to leave them alone #idk how other people tolerate it but i sure as hell won't #and i am absolutely not above hitting a woman if she's touching me against my will #you want to baby me and constantly touch me and shit you are getting slapped into sunday

[uncanny-tranny]

I think abandoning diet culture and favouring the function of my body versus the ~aesthetic~ of my body has really opened my eyes and given me a new chance to be one with myself.

It is hard to get through this, but I honestly think it's worth the investment it takes to unlearn the idea that your body must serve others and must be out of the way, and must only take up so much space to be valued and for you to be loved.

#anti diet culture #celebrating what my body can do in the here and now has only taught me good things about myself #it's taught me how strong my body is and how i can push it further on my own time #like it can be really hard because the double whammy of dysphoria and body shaming of men but. fuck it i ball. i will continue to ball #haters mad i can ball and cry at the same time (joking) #also like... it will be a personal journey for everybody and there isn't the ~final stage~ where you'll pnly be happy with yourself... #...i don't think that's reasonable or fair to expect that from yourself... #...the important part of unlearning diet culture is that no matter what your body can/can't do and no matter how it appears... #...no matter all of that you're still worthy of love and respect and nourishment and happiness #you don't have to adore your body to recognize its worth *and* your worth #you could hate your body and still recognize that you deserve all those things #and lord knows sometimes we do hate our bodies and that is morally neutral at *worst* #i just hope that you all are able to internalize your inherent worth <3 #and i wanted to post about this because i think this conversation is important and unlearning these expectations is also important

[disneyanddisneyships]

no yall bc I find it so interesting how women started mortality in the Bible.

Bc Lilith was the first woman but because she didn't wanna submit, God cast her out. Then he created Eve out of Adam's rib. And even then she took a bite of that apple.

Mortality happened because women realized they were too metal to submit to men and I love that. My role models fr.

@gyubby99

#Disclaimer- (1/2) even tho I'm Christian I have never actually read the Bible. This is just my understanding of the story as a whole based o #(2/2) My parents have taught me. And as far as I know; that's the story. #No hate. Not trying to be offensive. Men yall are still cool. #bible #christian #christianity #adam and eve #lilith #god

[dearest-valentine]

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#religion talk up ahead mostly of the lds (mormon) church #but anyway if you post/reblog anything that's critical or demeaning towards the church i would appreciate if you tagged it #i understand and acknowledge and criticise the church for actions they've taken and words they've spoken #and know that several queer folk and people of colour have had negative experiences with it #organised religion will be corrupt #that is the way of men #however #i really love the gospel that it teaches #and it makes me sad when the men who lead the church misinterpret it #the church i was raised in and taught from gave me only positive experiences #even if i do not officially associate it i do consider myself lds/mormon because of my religious beliefs being heavily affected by it #i was not raised in a war or stake that preached hateful speech of any groups #and i am very thankful for this because i know others have #it comes down to experiences #but if you reblog anything that is demeaning or hateful towards the church i ask you to tag it #because i have to be in the right mental space for that lol #i do not ignore these things but i don't want them to be the first thing i see when i open my dash either #smth like anti-mormon or exmo #i have those blocked

[drarrymylove]

this is complete bullshit and i will not stand for it. why is it i have to gaslight myself every 4-5 weeks that i'm not feeling the way i'm feeling because no, i do not in fact want to die and no i do not want to cry for six weeks, and no it is not possible that i am the most insignificant person in existence, and no i am not unworthy of the air i breathe, and no it's not insane that TLC's banger "no scrubs" is stuck in my head after typing this out, and no i don't deserve to feel invisible and left out and ugly and stupid, and no my therapist doesn't hate me and no it's not the end of the world because all of this feels incredibly true, and yes i'm on my fucking period.

#and why do i feel guilty #the last few remaining crumbs of internalized misogyny is telling me i should be ashamed of this #so many of us struggle with the monthly menty-b's #i have been taught to feel like if i cry and i'm on my period i'm the reason men think women are weak and unstable #goddamn it i hate it here

[beardedhandstoadshark]

What are your pronouns? I’m sorry if this is personal 🙏 Don’t kill me

Ok!

I‘m gonna kill you AND pair all your socks together wrong >:)

(Jk jk) Yea no worries! If anything, asking is considerate, is it not?

Anyways, in your mind just call me whatever you feel like fits best ^^ while there is a specific set of pronouns I also genuinely do not mind or care if the terms I get called are meant for guys gals or non-binary pals lmao. If someone goes "Hey bro“, another one "Hey sis“ and a third one "Hey sib“ that is all perfectly fine and cool for me!

(Except the last one but that’s only because sib sounds weird >v<)

#another anon ask #…but if that is not a satisfactory answer #we *are* on the internet here #so I usually just refer to myself by they/them #1/3 privacy #1/3 vibin with it #1/3 shielding myself from judgement based on the connotations of the binary pronouns #years of internet usage have taught me that if you don’t disclose certain personal info #or certain knowledge/strong opinions about topics #that can help people depict you in their head #they more often than not tend to depict you as someone similar to themselves #which in turn helps you get taken more seriously and judged with less bias #if I say ^yea it’s he him^ then any prejudice against men will be assigned to it #same with she her #and anything else will get *everyone* addicted to hate after you #but if someone makes assumptions you can always play the ^but who said I am?^ card lol

[margoshansons]

Rewatching the Indiana Jones movies and holy shit they are way more racist than I remember

They are like…really bad

#indiana jones #anti indiana Jones #temple of doom and kingdom of crystal skull especially like holy fuck #‘indigenous people weren’t smart enough to come up with farming or irrigation on their own so aliens taught them’ #not the Pristine Myth #fucking hate that shit #AND DONT GET ME STARTED ON THE ABSOLUTE BULLSHIT THAT WAS TEMPLE OF DOOM #stereotyping Hindu culture as one of violence and using fucking voodoo dolls #it makes me sick #using Kali in a way that made them look like savages #honestly fuck Lucas and Spielberg for these movies specifically #I’ve grown uncomfortable with the idea over Indiana Jones as I’ve grown older but these movies really make me hate him #I wanna see my reverse indiana Jones in action #give me a woman who returns artifacts from the British museum to their original cultures and fucks old men #where’s that movie? #also I forgot Shia was in it and holy shit did I get whiplash

[spaceandfiction]

I cannot wait until we’re on year eight of this show and we all have to pretend that Sam Reid’s 43 year old face still looks eternally youthful

#Magnus made me a vampire when I was 21 which is why I will always look 21 #of course life was tough for a 21 year old back then… #interview with the vampire #I’m not commenting on Jacob because I’m sure he’ll still look good #if supernatural has taught me anything it’s that white men will wither on the vine and I will watch it happen #iwtv stuff #txtpst #this is not!!! hate! I’m sure he’ll still look good but he will CERTAINLY look different

[ishedadordaddy]

Sometimes healing from religious trauma is looking back and going “HOLY FUCK! YOU SAID WHAT? JESUSSSSS CHRIST! I WAS A CHILD YOU SAID THAT TO, THATS JUST BLATANT HATE! MY GOD” and then hating yourself for ever believing it because you weren’t taught any different and had to on your own time realize that the adults in your life were just casually spouting hate speech with the excuse of religious texts.

And by the way. Feel free to vent in the tags or comments. Just PLEASE, don’t come onto here and try and argue why any points anyone tries to make about things they’ve been through aren’t that bad or should be ignored. Right now this is a safe space for people who have been through religious trauma. Not for people who are happy in their religion and want to convert others.

You have your own spaces. Use them.

#looking at you lds/Mormons #you know. I don’t care about the whole “oh we don’t want to be called mormons that’s disrespectful” thing #cause like. you know what’s more hateful? #ANTISEMITISM #Not even like “well it’s not our fault you interpreted it wrong type either. just blatant antisemitsm and being like and they had it coming #like no????? also like your religion is the fannon/fanfic of all Christian religons #no one treats you seriously you fucking crack ship of a religion and leave #the things that I was just casually taught that when you look back on it with like even the slightest bit of rose colored glasses removed #is just blatant hate speech man. #like no. don’t go around saying the native Americans are Jews who were forsaken by god #that’s racist #and also FULL of antisemitism #the amount of “and remember god is a white man who only loves us and only loves white men” speeches I’ve had is far too many #like I’ve been told to become a mom because god made me that way and it’s disrespectful to want a job cause god made us nurturing unlike men #and like all the anti-gay rhetoric and anti-trans #like if you’re not an old cishet white man from the 50s you are FUCKED in the eyes of their god #and people wonder why I think that the idea that god died years ago is preferable to a god existing #cause like. an all loving god wouldn’t allow for THIS SHIT especially not in the one true religion as some churches believe #tw vent #tw religion #tw homophobia #tw antisemitism #tw transphobia #tw racism #tw lds church and lds church beliefs #tw xenophobia #kinda? but I’m just gonna say yes to be safe #the amount of trigger warnings when I’m not even going IN DEPTH about any of the shit I’ve heard is honestly concerning and talks for itself #tw sexism #religious trauma

[lesbianpegbar]

why are we sooooooo reactionary against women saying that they hate men. we are so quick to coddle every guy on this planet before we ask ourselves why women might feel and say that. “ugh i hate women who say they hate men men are so beautiful and wonderful don’t forget that” like do you guys go outside. do you know what it’s like to be a woman. maybe i say i hate men bc my entire life i’ve been sexualized and harassed and talked over and ogled and infantilized and followed and yelled at and treated like a lesser human being. idk maybe that’s why. but sorry that’s mean i love men so much i’m kissing and holding all the kings out there so gently

#‘well not all men—‘ I FUCKING KNOW. IM SOOOO SO AWARE. I KNOW #‘but gender essentialism—‘ YES GENDER IS A CONSTRUCT BUT MEN ARE TAUGHT TO HATE WOMEN. WOMEN ARE THE VICTIMS IN A MISOGYNISTIC SOCIETY #PLEASEEEE GO OUTSIDE #y’all are so much faster to bash on the fact that women say ‘i hate men’ than call out misogynistic behavior #where’s this anger and energy when women are treated like shit everyday #you all wanna say that we need to be equal and that means women can’t be mean to men on this site when the real world hates us so much #get off tumblr.com and look around. jesus #sorry. i’m tired of this shit that’s all #where’s that post that’s like we asked ten men if they think that women are people with thoughts and feelings #bc that post exactly #sorry i’m pissed off. i’ll shut up now #might delete this later but it makes me so mad #i don’t usually get mad but!! i’m tired!! #mine

[mxtxfanatic]

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#quiet as it’s kept the last option on the sex poll #told me exactly what op’s opinions on mxtx sex scenes would be #which is why i neither voted nor reblogged it #i hate the bad rep mxtx’s sex scenes get #but i also hate what feels like an emerging fandom trope #that queer men need to be taught by other people how to have enjoyable sex #i know a good deal of the other couples and they also have really good sex #plus all (the couples that i know) have sex they enjoy #so the poll is really just about whoch sex YOU find hot #and if a couple is more popular maybe it’s because people DO find it hot #and not just because ‘well nobody’s heard of the others so obviously there’s bias’

[eroguru]

i want to make history, not learn it

#agnus dei #i have a exam in a couple of hours #im studying painting so i understand i need to learn art history but one proffesor has a stick up his ass #i have list of 140 works of art i need to know the name #the author and date. also i have to know dates of some random historical events barely linked to the works #and then a list of men that are also apprently important and finally like 300+ art specific and religious terms like #basically almost had to learn latin just for this class #it's way too much #he needs to chill #i do not need to know the names of 50 random italian churches to make paintings #ALSO THE FOCUS ON ARCHITECTURE #we don't even have classes with the architecture course so why does the professor focus on ittt #i study paintings why is there only like 5 painting i need to know but i need to tell apart cathedrals just by looking at their plans #also by the profs face i can tell he's not able to satisfy anyone in bed. just has that vibe yknow #and the way he talks is sooo infuriating #his pronunciation is so deadpan and boring i slept through his classes #the prof who taught ancient art histort had so much more charisma #and one last thing i hate medieval history the most so the combination with the worst professor ever is deadly to me

[idiosyncraticrednebula]

Feminism has brainwashed people so much to the point that people think of men speaking about their own problems as "misogyny". Like????

#text #you could have dudes talking about how certain societal expectations emotionally harm them #and feminists are like 'yeah but women suffer more :/' #WHY ARE Y'ALL TRYING TO MAKE EVERYTHING A FUCKING COMPETITION #y'all be like 'but women have been oppressed and mistreated' yeah according the feminist revisionists of the 20th century #this is why feminism needs to be stopped. it claims to wanna help erase gender inequality but no all it does is create animosity between #the sexes. if we wanna be honest men generally do worse in life. women are more beloved and cared for than men are #but feminism has brainwashed women into seeing their sex as a burden on them and that they will always be victims no matter what that a man #talking about his own issues is seen as a problem. feminism does this crap to you #feminism has taught women to not see anything good in being a woman because that is a pathway to being treated like less than human which is #why they need to behave like a man or whatever. how the fuck is this ideology supposed to help women?? it tells them that they are WORTHLESS #i don't believe in the concept of 'male privilege'. it's based on a lot of bs specially when you consider the fact that men are generally #viewed as expendable and tools for society. so miss me with that nonsense. i hate that concept because of the fact that it's not based on #reality and in a way implies that women will always suffer because they have a vagina. this is what feminism tells women #when in reality we all suffer and go through hard stuff. this is not a competition #it seems as though that women suffer more because of feminism and also because women are far more vocal about their problems than men are #men are just told to swallow it and shut up about it. women are not told that #but as i said before. this is not a competition. we should help each other instead of discussing whether WomEN oR MeN suFFer mORe. god i #hate feminism. this is what it has done

[drum-bot-brian]

trying to explain what this word i made up means to my friends

#yes i know i made it up 5 miunes ago but you sould know this #its the word mascel #its for femcels who are trans man/masc #its not an incel its about who sexism is ingraned into our culture #less kill all men more very short temper with men #aand kill all men isnt serious anyway #but im just very frustrated at the men in my life #even the people who think they arent sexist #so mascel it is like i regonise that men are taught this way because of our society and can unlearn it but im fed up that most dont #its like this bc its a term i made up for myself for my feeling #its not saying women dont feel like this it bc im trans masc and i feel like this #i was calling myself a femcel but it made me feel like shit #so i had this whole thing tonight #idk why im explaining myself #its a transmasc who hates men to put it simply #but as ive just said its more that that #if none of this makes sence its bc im way too tired and way to caffinated #tldr i hate society and the way it effects me in the form of sexism so i made a funny little word t