#might delete this later but it makes me so mad

[lesbianpegbar]

why are we sooooooo reactionary against women saying that they hate men. we are so quick to coddle every guy on this planet before we ask ourselves why women might feel and say that. “ugh i hate women who say they hate men men are so beautiful and wonderful don’t forget that” like do you guys go outside. do you know what it’s like to be a woman. maybe i say i hate men bc my entire life i’ve been sexualized and harassed and talked over and ogled and infantilized and followed and yelled at and treated like a lesser human being. idk maybe that’s why. but sorry that’s mean i love men so much i’m kissing and holding all the kings out there so gently

#‘well not all men—‘ I FUCKING KNOW. IM SOOOO SO AWARE. I KNOW #‘but gender essentialism—‘ YES GENDER IS A CONSTRUCT BUT MEN ARE TAUGHT TO HATE WOMEN. WOMEN ARE THE VICTIMS IN A MISOGYNISTIC SOCIETY #PLEASEEEE GO OUTSIDE #y’all are so much faster to bash on the fact that women say ‘i hate men’ than call out misogynistic behavior #where’s this anger and energy when women are treated like shit everyday #you all wanna say that we need to be equal and that means women can’t be mean to men on this site when the real world hates us so much #get off tumblr.com and look around. jesus #sorry. i’m tired of this shit that’s all #where’s that post that’s like we asked ten men if they think that women are people with thoughts and feelings #bc that post exactly #sorry i’m pissed off. i’ll shut up now #might delete this later but it makes me so mad #i don’t usually get mad but!! i’m tired!! #mine

[fairygeek777]

Not to overshare or anything but what do you do when your mind has decided you are an Asexual but your body continues to perform a pointless lunar ritual?

Like- I'm sorry but this serves me no purpose.

#asexual #aroace #I'm like constantly reminded of the only purpose my body has and it just makes me so so mad #personal #might delete later

[xskyll]

I just need to vent. Someone made a podfic of one of my fics a short while back. Yesterday, they told me they were monetizing their channel and asked permission to put ads on their podfic of my story. I'm very glad they asked permission, so I could say no, but all the same, I can't help but feel so angry. I would never go to someone and say, "Hey, do you mind if I make money reading aloud your story that you spent months and months slaving over, while you don't make a single cent? Do you mind if I throw ads on this thing you poured your soul into, turning your love letter to fandom into another cog in the capitalist money machine?" I just imagine someone listening to my description of Shouto fighting Bakugou and listening to him bare his soul about his toxic behaviors—I scene I tried to craft with such care—and just before Izuku kisses Shouto's black eye, an ad for a Kia plays.

Part of me is wondering if I'm overacting—I know some people would say, 'it's just fanfiction, calm down'—but a larger part of me is like, "The absolute gall! YOU making money using MY heart???"

#i'm just #ahajahdjshhwjsjd #i feel like an ass complaining in a public space #but it's also not like i'm a huge account or anything #i'm just so mad!!! #and i feel like i shouldn't be because they did ask permission and didn't fuss when i declined #when they asked permission to do the fic i felt really complimented #but now it feels like it was all just a scheme to make money down the line #did they even like my fic or did they just notice it was a little bit popular? #and i hate that i let myself stew over these kinds of things #this is literally a stranger making me mad with a sentence #that's dumb #i might delete this later #i just needed to scream into the void #get it off my chest and whatnot

[animecreator3000]

Every time I rewatch some episode of Boueibu HK I wonder again how the staff even planned this season. Like. Almost nothing meaningful happens with the characters

TLDR the characters with the most developement in HK are the monsters

Kyoutarou is there as a complete contrast to Yumoto while keeping the battle speeches so his characterization doesn't make much sense. Nanao is mere fujoshi bait. Taiju and Taishi have random bits of dialogue that hint at possible arcs for s2 but not enough to tell us what it really is. Maasa has an unfinished arc in his episode, where supposedly he's putting fatty butter in his cookies to make everyone else overweight because he resents Ichiro not defending him when they were little, but then his friends tell him it's fine and then he can move on??? This would work with Ichiro's theme of not wanting to be immature or dense anymore, except they only ever used this theme as a gag (misunderstanding the meaning of whatever the others have said) or to straight up humilliate him (ep4) and continue treating him like a stupid baby. At the end of the season Maasa and him have made peace somehow and that's it. Ata gets in my opinion the closest thing to a complete arc, even if it's just staring angrily at Kyoutarou for ten episodes, then explaining his problem while fighting him and finally getting his apology and reconcilliation. At least it's something. And poor Ryouma is just there to be the butt of a few jokes about how he lets Nanao and Kyoutarou use him, be in a couple of cute shippy scenes, and also for Ata to completely dismiss him from the flashbacks to the point where if they had first met in high school nothing would've changed.

The relationships barely have developement either. Love had anime episodes and manga chapters dedicated to the different close friendships solving their conflicts and becoming closer. There were also many instances of seeing how close the Hakone brothers-defense club and Beppu brothers' relationships were, and even though they didn't have any conflict between themselves, they made them strong sides for the final fight. Yumoto didn't get a character arc but through the entire anime he was revealed to be strong, considerate, forgiving and mature, willing to kindly befriend the Beppu twins for his brother but not let them walk all over him; contrary to how he was presented in the first episodes, like a stereotypical magical girl protagonist. Anyway in HK there's no meaningful conflict between any of them besides Kyoutarou and Ata. Taishi and Ichiro argue constantly but don't show to genuinely like each other after all like IoRyuu or EnAtsu did. Ichiro and Maasa never make any progress to be together again, Maasa hints once at liking Taishi and nothing comes from it, and Nanao and Taiju have the most artificial friendship in the cast that I just do not understand. They just ran an ice cream shop once with again unexplained success and make sassy remarks at each other ever since. And I guess Karurusu and Furanui had a bit of developement thanks to Kyou and Ata in ep12. Idk about the aliens, this time it's like they didn't do it completely well but also not as bad as with the rest of the cast. Maybe bc they didn't appear as much as the humans in most of the episodes

I'm realizing now that a few of these complaints are related to Nanao acting weird

Idk where to put this but I'd like to point out Kinshiro's principles of halting the fight with the Battle Lovers as soon as he finds out that the s1 conflict was set up for a reality show and actively defending them from an attack because they're Binan students, despite still not having received his apology from Atsushi. Ata might've done the same if the HK finale's events had gone in the same order (travelling to Honyalaland to fight Wao, then Kyoutarou apologizing to Ata), but he doesn't feel as a character as deep as Kinshiro in that sense bc they didn't really show him to be in other ways.

Love feels more like an actual group of people while HK feels like they were filling in friendship group roles or something

#boueibu #binan koukou chikyuu bouei bu happy kiss! #marine talks #sleepy rant might delete later #this is all talking about what happens in canon not what could happen in fanwork #how do y'all write kyou correctly in fics with how little sense he makes in canon? props to everyone that does this #anyway pls tell me i'm wrong bc i'm unimpressed abt all this #i get that some media don't need character developement bc it's not the point #but boueibu has proven that it worked well with the rest of the material so what happened with hk? #i haven't written in so long i constantly shift between wanting to write and to throw my fics in the trash #well writing this post made me wanna write a proper story for hk #this rant is all messy bc it's just thought vomiting but whatever #sorry #problem is love has a lot more media than hk but even if we just had s1 to compare i think that might've still been better in this sense #i think the only time ata has talked to ryouma directly was when he yelled at him for defending kyou in ep11. very close friendship i see #i'd say even ranmaru and juka in f-ran have more character developement than some of the guys in hk #i'm still mad about the way ichiro got humilliated in ep4 and didn't defend himself and there were no consequences #good friends don't do that to you! like please edelstein are the angry bad guys and still treat each other better than the defense club do

[howlingdemon13]

I do not know how I could possibly be the result of my parents…

#im so fucking mad guys #I cannot fathom the lack of compassion these two humans have #oh wait… #*sits there in i had to unlearn almost two decades of indoctrination and mental abuse* #just… fuck man im so tired… #i just want to believe that deep down they’re capable of being decent #i know I am not my parents #but it makes me so scared that i could fall into that mindset #i know that’s irrational to think #but that doesn’t make the fear go away #i just want people to be good #i can’t stand being surrounded by so much needless suffering #and people who don’t care because those suffering are somehow responsible for the horrible things being done to them #i want to cry #vent #might delete later

[anemoflower]

Can't believe I finally found a Wrio playlist on yt that's not all se//xual

#;babbling phia #ace rant incoming sorry in advance #There are good playlists don't get me wrong #but I'm SO annoyed that it's just all about sp!ce #also feeling like everyone in the fandom just talks about his 'cake' aka butt #which makes me a lil bit mad because THERE'S MORE TO THIS CHARACTER THAN JUST YOUR SE//XUALISED IDEA OF HIM #What about the TEA what about the way he thought about to keep some little pets in his office #but gave up on it as it's not right to keep them in a place where they can't see the sun HUH #I wanna see him being a badass and punch someone in the face without going 'oh wish that were me' #seriously I don't get this kind of thinking I rather want him to hug me and drink tea with me #sorry for the rant #I need to work more on my Wriowyn playlist so I can listen to that instead #might delete later #(Elowyn and Wrio... do have more sp!cy interactions than my other ships tbh but it's not all about THAT) #cw suggestive #idk how to tag this waah

[archaeolitikum]

one thing that makes me absolutely furious is when gym bros and diet freaks on the internet refuse to admit theyve got a raging eating disorder, and when people call them out on it and tell them theyre actively harming others by perpetuating this idea that their diet is just being healthy, tiktok teens will go "oh so now youre shaming them for having eating disorders 🤨🤨" NO??? believe it or not but even mentally ill people have responsibility over their actions regardless of if theyre done because of their disorder or not, stop fucking babytalking them like that what is wrong with you

i just saw some stupid tiktok of a guy bringing a fucking kitchen scale to a restaurant to weigh his food being like "wuuhhh always on the grind or whatever" and then someone else called him out being like "okay this is still not an eating disorder? okay. okay!" and the comments are filled with people being like omg you are shaming people with eds..... ARE YOU STUPID? shut the fuck up

#sorry for getting so passionate about this but its downright triggering seeing shit like this #ive long since recovered from my ed and today i have a very good relationship to food but this shit gets me riled up #like. idk man its so fucking filthy of these gym bros and diet idiots spewing their disordered eating habits all over tiktok #which is you know. a platform widely used by impressionable kids and teens #had i seen those kinds of videos in my teens it couldve fucking killed me probably #im sick and tired of gym bros and shit going on the internet acting like they have a doctorate in this shit #god im so. ugh whatever im just so angry about this #ed mention #tw disordered eating #← just in case #fuck it makes me so MAD. so many young boys listen to these gym bros talking about the 'right' diet or whatever #YOURE LIKE 16. YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO GO ON A FUCKING DIET AND BODY BUILD AND LOSE WEIGHT AND STARVE YOURSELF #i want to bang my head in the table i have 4 younger brothers and the thought of them listening to these kind of people is sickening #i dont even want to imagine what that couldve done to them like. god #ive been on tumblr for roughly 10 years i used to endlessly scroll ed blogs like my life depended on it i know what this shit does to teens #fucking hell #sorry for the rant i might delete this later im just. god im so mad

[foggysirens]

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#tag rant #not to get negative on main but every time i think i might be doing okay something happens and i just get so fucking tired again #like this month has been super stressful so far and next month isn’t looking any better #it’s been thing after thing just weighing me down #and i don’t even talk to my friends that much anymore cause im just so tired and sad all the time and like i know talking to them #or engaging in fandom stuff will make me feel better and less lonely but i just feel so bad all the time and i can’t #and today some asshole just blew up at me over a fucking bag charge at work and hunted down my manager to complain about me #and like it’s fine cause my manager trusts me when i said the customer got mad at me and i just disengaged #but it just feels like another thing on me and just wrecked the semi good mood i had today #im just tired and lonely and nothing feels like it’s gonna get better and i just wanna lay down #and i just don’t want tk be that person that’s only ever talking about the bad stuff that’s going on so i pull away #delete later #personal #negative #mj.chatter #me: *disappears from my blog* #also me: *returns to complain*

[dank-meme-legend]

me: writes the most beautiful, thoughtful, intelligent paper in existence

my professor: sorry hun, that's a D for you 👍

me: why :(

professor: you forgot this tiny detail in your citations

also me: pulls a paper out of my ass while half-asleep and in another world

also my professor: wow 10/10 so well written Great Job. A+

me: why -_-

professor: you're so well spoken and your citations are GORGEOUS 🩷🩷⭐️✨✨#slaygirlypop

#might delete later #joke post #shitpost #college #first semester is almost done woo!! #and my seminar professor taught when the dinosaurs roamed and he is an Unfair Grader who makes me Mad #he also spends every lecture ranting about elementary level grammar which is... fun (condescending) #this hellsite would put him in a coma because there's improper grammar (sometimes lol) and also gay people so i'm fine posting this #at least I sure hope so 0_o #he only cares about proper formatting and not the actual CONTENT of papers/assignments/projects #which is SO FRUSTRATING

[glamjrwi]

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#gosh the oc stuff has made me find out about wyvern for the first time #like it’s been a month but I barely peruse twt #but that’s so fucking sad #like honestly do they have anything better to do over there than get mad at well meaning ppl??? #like her jokes weren’t even bad I’d say some of them were even funny #like they took the most bad faith takes with her and it makes me genuinely so sad #she is such a good artist and has done so much for the community #I hope the boys stick by keeping her work and commissioning her more often #it might be much to ask but I’d love if condi as the resident Queer person on the show said something defending her #but honestly twt can go fuck themselves aren’t they fucking tired of the shitting on people for no good reason #sighhhhhhhhhh #anyway I might delete this later because it’s not particularly helpful commentary plus it’s old news #but aghhgghhsjdjidhwjdugid I’m gonna naw on a chair over this

[franzmasc]

i would love ace attorney if people could be the slightest fraction of logical about it come on guys

#sorry. my friend keeps sending me screenshots from the aa5 video essay and it makes me so incredibly mad #just 5 hours of repetitive vapid points with little to no meaningful insight delivered in the most mind-numbing format possible #5 hours. no audio. you have to sit down for five hours to receive takes about juniper and clay being good characters actually #about how the issue with apollo in aa5 is. misogyny ? but actually turnabout academy is the best case... #moth gets tumblr cancelled arc. i don't CARE #i DO love ace attorney but i wish i still wanted to actually talk about it publically #mothposting #might delete later ^_^

[crackinwise]

My entire fyp: "OMG a famous person is a Holocaust denier! They hate Jewish people and would probably agree with hitler!"

me: "Shit, another person with a platform denied the Holocaust happened or that it wasn't as bad as historians and survivors say? [X] Lemme go see this mess."

Famous Person: *did not deny the Holocaust* *protested to someone saying they are supporting Nazi ideology with no sources* *called out antisemitic & homophobic people miscommunicating or rewriting history online that Nazis specifically targeted trans ppl first/mainly* (the vague context might have only intended to be about Dr. Hirschfield's clinic—targeted for being Jewish and gay—which still might be ignoring the clinic was for studying and advocating for sexual freedom, gay rights & safety, "transvestite" support & a few surgeries we don't know the outcome of, and women's equality, including birth control & abortion)

me: "uhhh?"

Hey guy? Real talk: It's so iffy to use a serious problem with an actual important meaning like "Holocaust Denial" [X again] without AT LEAST some ***astrix heavy explanation that you're not using it to mean what 99.9% of people know it to mean! It's so gross and dangerous to take that antisemitic meaning away and for non-Jewish people to compare their plight exactly with the plight of all Jewish, disabled, gay, and Roma peoples during the Holocaust.

Remember this is the "how dare you say we piss on the poor" website! This is the "if you cut a candy bar like this you get infinite candy" website. You KNOW what you're doing by deliberately withholding information and stretching a red flag term like that! Wtf is wrong with you?

#don't mind me #gentile disclaimer #the place makes me despair so much istg #might delete later i'm just so mad

[beneaththegildedmoon]

*BIIIG fuckin rant hours btw (esp. in the tags) so I guess scroll on if you're not down for that. Might delete later but I need to vent*

So I identify as nonbinary and gender queer (though not really trans, doesn't ring true for me personally) and tbh I'm very sick of the Online Queers talking shit about enbies whose partners identify as straight or gay/lesbian rather than bi for "settling for someone who doesn't respect" us.

My partner loves me more than I ever thought humanly possible and respects me possibly even more than he loves me. He also happens to identify as a straight man. When we met, 6 years ago, I still identified fully as a cis woman, and he viewed me as such. About a year ago, I came out to myself and to him, and tbh he doesn't fully "get" all of it because he's literally never had to question anything about his identity in his life up till now, but he tries his best and has never once made me feel like he doesn't see me for the person I've come to realise I am. He is also, obviously, still attracted to me and still loves me just as much, despite our outwardly incompatible clusters of labels.

Maybe the relationship wouldn't have held up if I decided to present significantly more masc or had any inclination to physically transition, etc. but I really don't. Maybe if I'd come out much earlier in the relationship, we would have amicably gone our separate ways. Maybe not. We'll never know because after 5+ years into a serious relationship, you dont really see your partner through the lens of social constructs like gender. You just see them as your person. So there was never really a question for us of how my nonbinariness would or wouldn't affect things. It just didn't factor into it.

If we weren't already together, my partner would likely only approach women. He has only dated women in the past, and apparently never really thought about other options. I am the solitary exception to an extremely strong trend. I'm not insecure enough in my identity to demand he change his whole concept of his sexuality and identity to fit the specific edge case I represent into it. In much the same way that I wouldn't demand a lesbian suddenly identify as bi just because they were attracted to me. Other people's perceptions of my gender, and the interaction their stated sexuality has with that is their business. As long as my partner can reconcile the two in his own head, that's good enough for me.

Identity, and especially queer identities, are so much more nuanced and complicated than a single word can fully capture. It's unreasonable and frankly patronising to assume you know the intricacies of someone else's relationship dynamics based solely on those words. It's also condescending as fuck to tell me my partner doesn't respect my queerness just because he's straight when you don't actually know either of us and I'd thank y'all to butt the fuck out.

#rant #enby #nonbinary identity is complicated #and im really fucking sick of this shit #we're all just out here living our lives #why do some of y'all feel the need to insert yourself into other people's business like that #he's seen all this shit online and got really worried i felt disrespected by him identifying as straight #this man straight up broke down crying when he brought it up bc he was so scared it would hurt me #he told me he understood if i felt like i had to leave and he never wanted to hold me back from who i am but that he still loves me #all bc you idiots couldnt keep your uninformed stupid ass opinions to yourselves #i am so fuckin mad ab this tbh #like #pissed as HELL #would gladly hunt y'all down and drag you in front of him to make you apologise kind of mad #this man is my whole entire universe and y'all made him think i would hate him for being straight wtf is even happening #and yeah yeah yeah i know the straights are hardly the victim on a broader scale #but the point is that i am a grown ass person and dont need internet teens with the capacity for nuance of a toddler speaking for me #might delete this later #just needed to get this out of my system bc the rage was consuming me from the inside

[pumpking64]

I will write these exams in pure spite, I will be absolutely foaming at times, so I am honestly a bit concerned about my keyboard. if it survives my angry exam-writing this may I have no other requests to my computer in it's final years (except maybe don't delete everything when you stop functioning)

#yes i am very very pissed at my exams please don't get personally affected by it #this is very much me letting off steam that would otherwise end up in the final assignment. and i think there's enough of that already #own post #feel free to just ignore this if you so please #but also. if you have any tips on how to write an exam when you dont understand the assignment and are mad at the lacking outcome #AND have insane time pressure due to huge amounts of executive dysfunction #then please. let me know. i'll take any advise that might make this exam somewhat bearable #i will probably delete this later as well...... sorry guys it just needs to be said SOMEWHERE <3 #i just want to pass these two exams. the third one is good and i have spent way too much energy to be happy with a minimal pass #(but i will take it if it just means leaving this semester behind me) #but the other two exams? fuck them. i really just need to never take this semester again

[sweetonmeclarence]

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#personal #vent #delete later #pls ignore if ur not up to seeing someone’s personal life vent shit #putting the disclaimer first so the two people who don’t count in this complaint think im talkinf abiut them #there are some exceptions ofc. i’m making very sweeping statements here. #namely the people i’ve low key forcibly attached myself to very recently. in case u see this thx for tolerating me. ur awesome ❤️❤️❤️ #idk i guess it’s kind of good to know i have zero irl friends who will 1) check on me and 2) not get mad at me when i spiral out of control #nice to know when i’m at my lowest lows no one notices #good to know everyone who WAS close to me didn’t bother asking how i was. they were all ok with jjst. not talking to me. #heavens forbid we recall all the times i made sure to never leave them hanging like that but okay fine #a bunch of you barely tolerated being around me just because people you liked cared about me #so when they stopped…u dropped the mask. the disguise. u can tell urself u cared but it’s clear you didnt. #if you did you would have done something by now. you would have checked in on my mental physical whatever state within the past 10.5 months #but nope. nothing. a simple message passed along that u didnt want to be friends anyway. a simple radio silence or #an ‘i dont want to hear about it/i dont want to be involved’ #ok. fine. you might not understand what you’re saying but i do. #rip my goddamnheart out i guess #fuck off #happy fucking new year i guess

[sideblogforcrimpy-plus]

Not being able to get over a small, annoying thing that's happened feels like knowingly tripping over the same uneven ground again and again

#i am pacing around in my brain and this small annoyance is tripping me up every lap #like #HRUHFHGH #It's not even that terrible on its own it's just because it keeps happening #so it makes each instance wildly frustrating #this is abt work and reading comprehension btw #might delete later but yelling in notes is so cathartic idk #I'm already less mad than when I started #amazing