#lesbophobia mention

[total-drama-takes-the-squeakquel]

why are people so weird about ppl that hc julia lesbian😐😐😐lmfaooo. like the lesbophobia i see is kiiinda weird! i dont even think people that hc her as bi and ppl that hc her lesbian need to coexist and hold hands but i see absolute shit thrown at lesbian julia hcs and even mkulia to a certain degree for being like.... wlw lol. saw someone unprompted say not everyone needs to be a lesbian refering to them hcing julia as bi😭. like hooollly shit no one likes you dude. ill be the first person to block people over headcanons i dont like but going out of your way to say that is loser ass behavior and hm quite lesbophobic

and the excuse that its "stereotypical" and bad representation to hc her lesbian bc shes a bitchy character actually makes me want to mald. like you do realize another lesbian stereotype is that we're all perfect and nice. cottagecore is an epidemic. anyways hcing characters that just so happen to fit stereotypes isnt fucking bad if youre even an ounce of respectful, and by saying it is youre implying 0 lesbians on the face of the planet are mean which is disgusting amounts of one dimensional. and anyways being honest, lesbians are the ones that are gonna be hcing characters as lesbian bc no one else likes us lol. i swear to god ive been on this tirade more than once in this fandom and people listen exactly 0 times. fun!

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#total drama #julia td #fandom takes #lesbophobia mention #long post

[pookiethebloodsucker]

sometimes when new people join fandoms for podcasts that ended years ago they end up dragging with them the worst discourse seen by man

inspired by seeing a post that argued, "hcing this woman as a lesbian is fetishistic, instead you should ship her with the man that killed her"

#river rambles #also i am under no circumstances tagging the podcast i do not want to bicker with people #also like people ARE fetishistic to the character but hcing her as a lesbian is not the fucking problem weirdo #lesbophobia mention #homophobia mention #just in case #their main complaint is that no one ever talks about her backstory which both isnt true and also the SHOW doesnt talk about her backstory #all that much #like they mention it but we dont get like three episodes about her childhood or something #its mentioned in passing #anyways thank you this has been my bitching time

[lovelylycanthrope]

Hi lavender! If ur comfortable can u help and explain some of your experiences or tips on how to know if you’re attracted to a gender or not?

sure!

in my experience it's been pretty straightforward, from a young age I found myself just not attracted to and often confused by my peers' attraction to men. I was only ever attracted to non-men.

I had to keep myself closeted for a long time, and tried to force attraction, mostly from my own internalised lesbophobia. but doing this only strengthened what I already knew, I didn't like men.

I do not recommend forcing yourself to be attracted to people, it hurts and is bad for your mental health.

the best way I can put it is my attraction to non-men feels natural, and correct. and I think whatever attraction to a gender feels natural and correct is generally what you like.

of course, having no attraction at all is also completely natural, asexuality is valid.

it's really something you should think about, something that doesn't feel forced. look into and research sexualities or attractions to find ones that resonate with you personally, and keep in mind this can change, which is also normal and okay.

no matter what though just keep yourself safe, and take as much time as you need.

this stuff is a spectrum, there's a lot of terms for sexualities and romantic attractions, as well a spectrum of being aromantic or asexual.

just take your time and don't be afraid to change your label if it doesn't fit anymore.

#lavender barks #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lesbian #ask #anon ask #gay #asexual #lesbophobia mention

[isorottatime]

:’)

#tiktok isn’t all bad #.txt #st #stranger things #tiktok #tiktok comments #robin buckley #lesbophobia mention #lesbiphobia mention #(someone tell me the correct spelling pleaseee) #robin stranger things #robin st #anti stobin #++ this was actually someone shipping robin/EDDIE and i think that makes it a lil worse lmao #/j

[anothermonikan]

I do think it’s a bit... weird that when lesbians use the terms WLW or NBLW and vice-versa, they can get people in their notes / comments saying that those terms are ‘TERFy’ because ‘Lesbians can be attracted to men too’, I’m not here to argue about that claim, Gender and sexuality is a complicated thing that’s different for everyone, however I never see this happen for gay men. If Lesbians can be attracted to men then by that logic gay men can be attracted to woman too, right? So why is it not ‘TERFy’ when gay men use the term MLM or NBLM? 

It just appears like....It’s a little Lesbophobic....Perhaps...

#I apologise if this is like. a horrendous take and I just don't realise it lol #And maybe I'm exaggerating the problem because obviously I interact with lesbian spaces more than gay men spaces #But it's just something that's been on my mind for forever now #Also If you're gonna use my post to bash on Bi Lesbians or whatever perhaps don't? Idrk how I feel about that ID yet but #I don't want this post to be used that way ig #Queer Discourse #Android.txt #CW Lesbophobia mention #Lesbophobia mention

[aloysbians]

People who make "being queer is amazing posts" after making lesbophobic posts 5 minutes earlier never fail to make me laugh

#They're so predictable #lesbophobia mention

[gnometa233]

"we need more weird queers" Y'ALL CANT EVEN HANDLE LESBIANS SAYING THEY EXCLUDE MEN.

#y'all are some pussy ass bitches #bringing back a label that terfs made to exclude lesbians who dated trans women #also considering how many nonbinary lesbians and trans women actively dislike the label...idk man it's all not mathing #where's that fucking 0t3 post #'in a world where lesbophobia and misogyny still exist we need to have a sexuality label that inherently excludes men' #not to mention #y'all are the fucking bootlickers who want cishets involved in everything #how are WE the bootlickers for having boundaries around our sexuality #some of y'all need to jump off a cliff mega crazy style #anti bi lesbian #lgbt+ #lgbtq+ #queer discourse

[battybiologist]

James Somerton is a misogynist piece of shit, but the way he speaks about lesbians is an infuriating betrayal of the queer community.

Legally, lesbians were and are treated on the same level of bad as gay men. Gay panic doesn't and has never excluded them, same as convertion therapy, same as anti-sodomy laws, same as police brutality, and many more I could mention.

And socially? Women as a whole are already persecuted, so add homophobia to the mix, and I doubt that'd lead to less discrimination than what gay men suffer from. And that's not even getting into how shittily trans lesbians are treated

But frankly, we all know why he said that. The section where he misgenders Nate Stevenson and Rebecca Sugar and throws them under the bus really says it all: it's because, in his fucked up mind twisted by misogyny, there was more "lesbian representation" in media.

The kind of representation where they're demonized, dehumanized, and erased, where their deaths and hardships are treated shallowly and without a hundredth of the compassion spared for their straight leads, where they're fetishized and objectified for the sole eyes of straight men, sometimes all of the above at the same time.

Fuck this guy.

#james somerton #lesbophobia cw #misogyny cw #homophobia tw #misgendering mention #transmisogyny mention #trans women are women #trans men are men #trans people are people #terfs can go die #just putting those last four tags because tumblr started recommending me terf tags for this post

[pinkpinkstarlet]

“stop policing queer people and their identities!!” “stop acting like a cop men can be lesbians”

you know lesbians are one of the biggest victims of violence from cops right. Especially POC lesbians and ESPECIALLY black lesbians and ESPECIALLY ESPECIALLY trans lesbians. Right.

#tw lesbophobia #anti bi lesbian #anti lesboy #lesbian #sorry im feeling really bitter today hehe #pinkspidey’s rambles #acab #tw cop mention

[lesbiansanemi]

I should be getting paid to deal with this bullshit

#fandom lesbophobia and misogyny tied in with the PETTIEST discord drama blown so far out of proportion. dawg… #‘pls explain idk how we were lesbophobic uwu’ #idk you attacked a bunch of sapphics and said they were transphobic and biphobic which then spiraled into spreading rumors about them being #abusive and alcoholics and calling them slurs #because they made ‘I hate men’ jokes and didn’t like your dumbass m/f ships and headcanoned a character a lesbian lmfao #also because one of them was supposedly transphobic on a VC but the apparent victim doesn’t even remember it like LMFAO????? #which is crazy considering most of them are not cis and are also bi themselves lmfao #which I EXPLAINED #but it’s still ‘idk how we were lesbophobic a day misogynistic pls explain’ #I’m killing myself this is so stupid #like do you think I’m dumb. do you think I’m stupid #this is batshit #this is why I don’t do fandom discord servers yall are insaaaaaane #idk what’s worse #if this was done knowingly and we’re just playing dumb #or if we actually ARE this dumb and don’t think any of this was rooted in lesbophobia #which had been perpetuated SO hard in the more standard fandom lesbophobia and misogyny ways #not to mention the transmisogyny but I won’t get into that…. lmao #anyways #every day I wake up to more DMs and I want to SCREAM #I just wanna peacefully go into work and live my life man it is NOT my job to coddle you #because you got caught being shitty lmfao #fuck off #kaz rambles

[m0n1q]

Being interested in stuff like Murder Drones, Doom, Watch Dogs/ generally all sci-fi or cyber-related stuff as a femme is SO HARD

Like, I’ll see merch for something I like, get excited about it - then realize I don’t want to wear it because it’s either only suited for more masculine styles OR just straight up does not fit with the rest of my clothing.

And I hate it so much because I want to buy things from the stuff I like, BUT I ALSO WANT TO BE A FEMME. Soft earth tones and frills do not go with ill-fitted, clearly made for men in their 40s, toxic sludge green T-shirts with a print that’s way too big.

#this goes without mentioning of sexism and homophobia/lesbophobia in fandoms but I think thats a given #first world problems I know BUT PLEASE JUST LET ME COMPLAIN ABOUT SOMETHING FUN INSTEAD OF BEING MISERABLE FOR ONCE

[lostryu]

The wild part about tr*ns*ndrophobia is how happy and quick people were to latch onto a term coined by a guy with a lesbian correctional r*pe fantasy who also loved the idea of r*ping butches into being trans men. Not to mention all of the perpetuators of tr*ns*ndrophobia all support Saint as well.

Like I dunno, maybe these guys do not have both lesbian's and women’s best interests at heart.

#lesbophobia #transphobia #serious trigger warnings on the callout post #tw rape mention #like seriously you guys support these people way too much #for men blogging about lesbian r*pe #actually this guy just loves the idea of r*pe in general #misspelled a word so i had to go back. Thanks autocorrect

[uncanny-tranny]

I find the whole "gay teachers telling their students they're gay is grooming🤬😡" crowd funny because I remember in second grade when my teacher explained she would no longer want to be called "ms." because she'll be a "mrs." after she married her long-term boyfriend. Or when I saw teacher after teacher getting pregnant and after they came back from maternity leave, they showed pictures of their new family and they expressed their happiness and how much they missed us. Our class - made of eight-year-olds - understood that this is just what happens in teachers' lives. We weren't scarred for life, and we especially weren't groomed to be one way or the other (if that were the case, this blog wouldn't exist because I'd be cishet). That isn't how this works, y'all.

Heterosexuality is seen as inherently non-sexual no matter what, so it is acceptable in all circumstances. Queerness is seen as inherently sexual, however, even if it is a teacher saying he has a boyfriend or a woman embracing her girlfriend, or a person changing their name - it is deviancy in these peoples' minds

#gay #lesbian #bisexual #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #homophobia #lesbophobia #bi #biphobia #transphobia #my stats teacher talked about her boyfriend plenty of times #my english teacher told us stories about her husband #my ap us history teacher had large pictures of his wife and daughter on the whiteboard #none of this will ever be called grooming by these people because they know and i know that it's all bollocks #grooming mention tw

[princessefemmelesbian]

It’s comments like these that make me want to kill myself.

All I did was talk about my pride in being a lesbian and other lesbians’ pride in the label and how expecting us to fuck men isn’t offering us freedom of choice, it’s punishment, but the lesbophobes who say this shit to us don’t realize it because they can’t conceive of anyone not loving men the way they do or how constricting being available to men would be for us lesbians. And ofc I get called a terf for it.

Y’all really showing your true colors by accusing lesbians of being terfs for literally just being lesbians. Especially since nowhere did I mention trans women(though obviously they are included by default when I talk about women and lesbians) or use any form of terf rhetoric.

Or is my lack of attraction to men all the terf rhetoric you need?

Hmmm… 🤔

#lesbian #lesbophobia #terf mention #I’m so sick of this shit #this is truly the lesbophobia site 🙃 #transmisogyny #trans #trans women #blocklist #op

[guardsbian]

I feel like the reason people don't like man-eater as much anymore is because you made her a lot more evil in a very grimy way, like if flight rising had no rules you would make her a full-on rapist and sex trafficker or worse. and the people who liked for being Fun Evil don't like that. like past Maneater was just rude to ballpit vomit, a child. current man-eater would kill her and use her blood a. its not a bad thing, but its a thing.

tell me exactly why you'd think my masculine lesbian OC would be a rapist! quickly!

(also I desperately hope you're not associated with ballpitvomit's owner because it's pretty fucking scummy to drag someone else's character into hate about all this shit you just made up about MY character right now. get a fucking life you piece of shit lesbophobe)

#1) if you fucking knew anything about me or my OCs you'd know that maneater's lore has never changed #and I DO in fact use her in non-FR settings where she... guess what! is not sexually violent in any way! #2) way to say 'it's not a bad thing' after implying I'd make an oc I genuinely care about into a rapist #3) making this public because. Well because on some level this is extremely funny. you live like this? #making it open to reblogs because everyone is free to eviscerate this fucking idiot. <3 #rape mention #lesbophobia tw

[nativehueofresolution]

jane the virgin betrayed me so many times but the storyline with tyler posey's character adam really does stand out from the crowd

#you had tyler posey right there! and you made him do... that? #par for the course given the lesbophobia in the show but that truly was so random and so disappointing #this storyline got mentioned in the podcast i was listening to today and i got depressed all over again 😔 #kaitlin speaks