meredith + the plane aftermath , re : lexie grey.
it has taken me a long time ( over a year at this point ) to properly collect my thoughts on this topic. primarily because my thoughts on how meredith copes with this are everchanging & as a result , this is subject to change. however , one thing that has not changed is that this all boils down to is the fact meredith compartmentalises.
meredith was the first out of the plane crash victims to go back to “normal”. this was largely due to the fact she came out of the crash with minimal injuries. this allowed her to go back to work almost immediately. she became an attending while derek , cristina , & arizona were all recovering. this does not mean that just because she went back to work that she should have worked , or that she was not hurting. but burying herself in her work ? it was her way of coping. because if she wasn’t busy , she wouldn’t be distracted. then her mind would go back to it all.
meredith does not bring up lexie casually until episode 9x05 , where she seemingly accepts that lexie is dead. just because she does accept it does not mean she is healed. it is a step towards healing. meredith never gets over lexie’s death. that is also a constant in her life.
she finds herself feeling guilt over this idea that she wasn’t there for lexie. lexie was alive when meredith woke up from the crash & meredith went to find derek. but when meredith comes back , lexie has already died. meredith never got to say goodbye. she never got to comfort lexie in her final moments. meredith feels so guilty that it keeps her up at night. the first few nights after the crash , meredith had dreams of lexie. she would lose sleep & instead of telling anyone , she would stay up or go back to the hospital to work. i imagine derek talks to her about seeing someone ( outside of mandated therapy ) , but after meredith completes her mandated therapy , she does not return.
her relationship with thatcher further sours after lexie’s funeral. this was confirmed in episode 15x11. i agree with this sentiment. thatcher led meredith on in a moment of vulnerability. meredith respected that he lost a daughter & he needed to grieve. however , meredith needed a parent.
meredith misses lexie everyday. there is not a day that goes by where meredith doesn’t miss her. but there is a lot of compartmentalising when it comes to lexie’s death. she saw lexie crushed under a plane & it is the last thing she saw of her sister. she tries to remember the lexie before the crash , though. the lexie that was bright & sunny , that drinks juice boxes , that loved zola like her own ... the lexie who taught her that biological family can be more than just anger & hurt.
she cries for lexie. a lot.
every year on lexie’s death anniversary , meredith takes the day off. goes to her grave & talks to her. she’ll usually bring lunch -- one of lexie’s favorite meals. she stays away from the hospital & makes sure lexie knows that meredith is always thinking about her.
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honestly just in general it's very exhausting to try to analyze media that is literally meant to be analyzed, only for the replies to be filled with people arguing not against your analysis, but against the premise that the media can be analyzed at all.
i don't even know what to say about it without starting to really betray my frustration, so i'll just settle with— just don't engage with analysis posts? I'm serious. if you're typing a response to a media analysis post, reread what you've written and ask yourself "is this comment/response against the very concept of analyzing the media at all?" and if the answer is yes then delete it all and go sit in the shame corner. throw your curtains away if you want to so bad and stop telling me that I'm not allowed to hum and haw at the fact mine are blue
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Jason and Tim: *literally the most traumatic experience known to man, one that changes how anyone would look at them (e.g. Jason digging himself out of his own grave or Tim blowing up the leagues bases)*
Dick *absolutely mortified*: and you didn't tell me earlier because...?
Jason/Tim: idk, it never came up.
Dick: that's something you bring up!
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Anyone else think Ed and Ling should've been a little more. I dunno. Drenched in blood during this arc? :)c (for the sake of the blood showing up on their dark clothing let's just say there's So Much Of It)
I didn't draw this for October 3rd btw, but now's as good a day to post as any!
Bonus, by the time they emerge:
dramatic reveal ruined, more at 11
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I do think probably for me the biggest takeaway from both Mando season 3 and Ahsoka is that the Disney+ shows desperately need to abandon the stupid ass 8-episode format already cause both shows feel like they're trying to do so much and just don't have the time to properly flesh it all out which results in some great setups with some pretty underwhelming payoffs. And really this applies to like every streaming service period like at this point I'm just so fucking sick of TV seasons that are less than 10 episodes long. Like we seriously need to go back to the days when serialized action shows had 13 episodes per season at the bare minimum I'm not kidding.
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i've been slowly making a letterboxd list of movies referenced on friends at the table episodes and it hit fifty movies today (many more to go-- i haven't nearly finished browsing through pzn and sgf for movie mentions) so i thought i would share it on here for those interested!
i would not have gotten this far without search at the table (fatt.fish) or transcripts at the table i am eternally grateful to them 🙏
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I’ve seen a few posts pointing out how stampede vash lacks the anger that 98 and especially trimax vash has. Which is true.
And it is important. Because vash isn’t the too morally strong or good or kind to be angry or whatever. Vash has a lot of rage about a lot of things. he chooses to be kind despite it rather than not being angry at all.
His sheer determination to not give into anger and choosing kindness over and over again is very important to who he is.
(personally I think that while tristamp vash went through a lot already too, he simply has not quite reached that point)
What I haven’t really seen are post pointing out that stampede vash, unlike 98 and trimax vash, does not cry.
Vash cries a lot. Some of it is for the comedy and because he is dramatic like that and also he isn’t above trying to get pity that way (with little success lol).
But he also cries a lot just… because. I don’t know how to explain it.
Like vash has no shame or inhibition to cry when that’s what he feels. Not gonna lie, I know trimax mostly from spoilers so far (shame on me) but especially in 98 vash cries very freely. He cries when he thinks he will have to watch that ex-mob boss or whatever being shot. Cries after killing, cries after monev kills all these people and he wants to shot him but wont. And so so many more.
Like that time he just suddenly drops his donuts and cries in the middle of the street.
Vash is friendly and sociable on a surface level but he has cut himself off from so much. Keeps so many things on the inside. Crying seems the one thing he doesn’t hold back on. Maybe his only genuine outlet for the pain.
Vash hides his scars, his pain and much more but he never hides his tears.
Vash, in 98 even says ‘is there something wrong with that?’ when the kids note that he is crying despite being an adult.
In contrast to that, stampede vash never really cries. He even states that he doesn’t deserve to.
We see him shed tears just once, at the very end when it becomes clear to him that he can’t save nai and that his brother and him have grown so far apart that he barely recognizes him anymore. He sheds silent tears for nai, for them, at what he certainly believed to be the very end.
Stampede vash is not only a lot more timid than his counterpart but seems overall more repressed and and emotionally dulled/exhausted
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