#and the problem is

[theresthesnitch]

it can be both, you know? it can be both.

fem sirius can be wonderful and validating for people who see themselves align with that representation of him but also the popular trend in fandom to make a fem sirius, particularly when paired with a hyper masc remus, can start to feel like fandom is forcing an m/m pairing into traditinal steretypical f/m roles and that can cumultiviely start to feel like homophobia and that doesn't change anyone's right to create fem sirius or mean that someone who creates fem sirius is homophobic because they create fem sirius or that someone else might feel validated by hyper fem sirius but that validation might also make someone else feel isolated because they don't fit into that depiction either and it can be both.

it can be both.

#i've been thinking about this for a while #and the problem is #both sides are right #and that's okay #you're allowed to have feelings about fandom #and you're allowed to not enjoy certain depictions of fictional characters #you're not allowed to shit on someone else's feelings and choices #and you're not allowed to demand creators make it the way you want #stop being assholes #rant #might delete later

[sulkybender]

live-action be like:

AANG: I have a feeling you’ve been hurt enough

camera zooms in on Zuko’s thumb-sized birthmark

#atla #natla #zuko #aang #and the problem is #on top of the scar presentation #Aang might feel interest and curiosity about Zuko at this point #but PITY? #that was an odd move and it felt sentimental in a bad way #empathy sure #but please not pity #*goes back to rocking in corner*

[foxtriestobiteandmaimandkilland]

i hateeee art sooooo much like wdymmmm i have to DRAW ittttt why cant i just let my body be possessed by the spirit of a thousand artists so i can make my silly blorbos have funnnn

#and the problem is #the times when i get lucky and am sooo good at art #is when i have almost no art materials on hand #or no inspiration #whateverrrrrr im gonnaaaaa #doodle like #thk #they were rlly fun to draw #ALTHO #idk how to draw it doing anything else other than what its sprite already does #SAD ! #night thoughts

[vilea777]

sorry i cant hang out i forgot how to mimic human like behaviour

#bpd blog #bpd fp #bpd mood #bpd problems #bpd shit #bpd stuff #bpd thoughts #bpd vent #actually bpd #bpd #borderline pd #borderline things #borderline problems #living with borderline #borderline blog #borderline thoughts #being borderline #borderline culture is #actually borderline #borderline personality disorder #bpd feels #bpd safe #bpd culture is

[sunbentshadows]

Hey all, you know how internet searches suck now? When the results are awful, full-of-AI, death-of-the-internet levels of bad?

Start appending date constraints to your searches - "before:2023".

My results have gone from 90% AI bullshit to ~60% usable - which frankly at this point is a huge improvement.

#information death of the internet etc #legit this has been SO SO helpful #shout out to mastodon infosec server for this one #before 2022 we did not really have the AI-content-farms because. the tech did not exist to the public. #and you can knock back the date if need be #obviously this does not FIX the problem but #me.txt

[dikdikpronouncedxylophone]

The most terrifying part of having memory issues is when you can feel something from 5 seconds ago be thrown out the window and there's an empty hole where it once was. You remember that you forgot something.

#amnesia #adhd #memory #memory issues #memory loss #adhd problems #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #amnesiac disorder

[wathanism]

no cause some of the shit y'all are saying has me genuinely worried that you don't understand the difference between immigration and SETTLER COLONIALISM. y'all do realize that if jewish people just mass migrated to palestine and lived peacefully among palestinians as neighbors and countrymen, then none of this would be a problem. right? you get that, right? you get that our issue was never "there's too many jews here" but rather "why am i getting kicked out of my house." RIGHT?

#the problem is not whether they're from here or not!!! stop bombing people!!! jfc #rambles

[silvermoon424]

New reaction pic for y'all to be used when you get into an argument about trans healthcare and your opponent starts talking about the 0.8% or whatever of trans people who regret transitioning

#trans healthcare #trans rights are human rights #trans rights #transgender #trans #reaction pic #trolley problem #1k #2k #5k #10k #most popular

[bootleg-nessie]

When you accidentally remove the load-bearing pierogi and the entire contents of the freezer come spilling out

#Nessie on drugs #r/196 #r/196archive #196 #/r/196 #rule #meme #memes #shitpost #shitposting #food #pierogi #adhd #adhd problems

[kingdeath000]

TRANS WOMEN ARE REAL WOMEN AND DESERVE REPRESENTATION IN MEDIA JUST AS MUCH AS ANY OTHER WOMAN

This post is cancelled. Look at quakke instead ⤵️

#officially sick of this post #wont turn off reblogs yet because I love to eavesdrop on other peoples problems but its on thin ice

[marleysfinest]

hello please can I sleep in a studio ghibli bed it’s urgent

#I just know sleeping on one of these mattresses is gonna fix all my problems!!!!! #studio ghibli

[worthless-mess]

"Are you ok?" I'm actually tired bro. From the bottom of my heart I'm tired

#bpd thoughts #bpd blog #actually bpd #bpd problems #bpd #bpd mood #bpd feels #bpd recovery #bpd meme #actually borderline #bpd stigma #bpd shit #bpd vent #bpd splitting #bpd stuff #bpd fp #borderline thoughts #living with borderline #borderline problems #borderline things #borderline pd #borderline blog #borderline personality disorder #borderline personality problems #life of a borderline #being borderline #bpd struggles #bpd symptoms #bpd triggers

[angelasscribbles]

Neurodivergent Things

#adhd symptoms #adult adhd #adhd problems #adhd brain #neurodivergence #neurospicy #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #nuerodivergent #nuerodiversity #nuerospicy

[peggycatrerr]

today on the train home the guy next to me was on his phone and at one point i saw him go on tumblr and he just had like. a normie dash. like it was all photography. of nature and architecture. he was using tumblr the way a heterosexual landscaper for rich people might use instagram. i actually had to watch his screen for a few seconds to be sure it really was tumblr because i was so taken aback by the content he was viewing. this is why algorithmless websites are so beautiful btw because i genuinely didn't know that this side of tumblr even existed. he didn't even so much as scroll past any text posts.

EDIT: look i'm not going to turn off reblogs but i cannot stress enough that THIS WASN'T A HIPSTER BLOG DASH IT WASN'T AN AESTHETIC BLOG DASH IT WAS THE MOST WILDLY GENERIC COLLECTION OF IMAGES YOU HAVE EVER SEEN IN YOUR LIFE. I AM NOT EXAGGERATING OR BEING A QUIRKY FANDOM TUMBLRINA WHEN I SAY "NORMIE" I GENUINELY MEAN "SO NORMAL THAT IT CIRCLES AROUND TO WEIRD". CAN ANYBODY HEAR ME? HELLO?

#steph's post tag #also no more ''um actually there is an algorithm and this is proof'' THERE ISN'T AN ALGORITHM IF YOU DON'T LOOK AT THE FUCKING FOR YOU TAB #LIKE THE DASH IS A CHRONOLOGICAL FEED OF BLOGS YOU ALREADY FOLLOW. I DISCOVER BLOGS ORGANICALLY THROUGH THE ONES I ALREADY FOLLOW. #IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING AN ALGORITHM ON TUMBLR THAT'S A YOU PROBLEM.

[bloodcoveredgf]

lets out a single agonized bloodcurdling scream but doesnt elaborate on why and just walks it off

#its always those damn financial problems

[beautyinthediss0nance]

#adhd things #adhd #audhd #adhd brain #adhd memes #living with adhd #adult adhd #actually adhd #actually neurodivergent #actually audhd #adhd stuff #adhd problems #adhd struggles #adhd tumblr