#This is not meant to come off as rude

[bbeeew]

HA!

@important-question-anon

HA! I DID IT FIRST!

I DESIGNED @actually-amazon FIRST!

(Ignore how bad it is i just wanted to post b4 you did)

#bBEeew rants #digital art #art #my art #my art stuff #my art <3 #my artwork #artists on tumblr #artwork #amazon #gimmick blog #gimmick account #i laughed #But fr no offense #This is not meant to come off as rude #I swear I'm joking #(Plz dont be mad)

[loveydovey-leviathan]

reminder that a lot of people, usually those w/ darker skin, can't 'blush', 'flush' or turn red in embarrassment, shame or shyness. there's nothing wrong with using these words but it does help when you add a disclaimer at the top of your post. it doesn't mean that we don't feel our cheeks heating up or that we don't feel blood rushing into our face, so those are alternatives to blushing :]

#i hope i dont come off rude in this #because even as a dark-skinned writer i didnt know that blush meant turning red #i thought it meant ur face/cheeks heating up yknow #i only realised when someone else made a post about it #jjk x reader #blue lock x reader #bllk x reader #hq x reader #x reader #fanfic #haikyuu x reader #twst x reader #obey me x reader #mha x reader #bnha x reader

[sophsicle]

grammatical/spelling mistakes on ao3 are part of the spice the verve the punk grunge the je ne sais quoi. anons grow up challenge. 💋💋

i honestly 100% agreee tho like it's riddled with mistakes the same way anything homemade is riddled with mistakes. the grammatical errors give it character. it will one day be dusted off in an overpriced antique shop and people will be like "look, this piece is very rare and unique because the craftsman frequently uses "then" and "than" interchangeably without any rhyme or reason" and everyone will ooh and ahh and fight to the death to add it to their collection of rare and unique fanfictions.

#on the real tho im not mad about that anon #i don't think they meant for it to come off quite as rude as it did #but also i do think all this is true #like it should be accepted that fanfiction will have errors #soph rambles

[man-down-in-hatchet-town]

I relate to Jon Matteson because I too have been repeatedly and consistently told that my eye color is very off-putting to see and not really known what to do about it other than be just like "sorry they're just my eyes????"

#they're hazel #it's just that for whatever reason in a lot of lighting they come off as being the same shade as my ginger hair #and people decide they look orange and Do Not Like that #and I get it Jon's extremely blue eyes are a bit of a fandom in-joke and no harm is being meant by it #but it bothers me because I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of that and yeah it's not the worst but it's not great either #like don't people that something about their appearance they can't change makes you uncomfortable?? #Jon's a grown-ass man with a sense of humor and a strong relationship with his fans he can handle it #but that doesn't mean he should have to handle it or that it's not just plain rude #also Jon has the most beautiful eyes and he should be so proud of them #jon matteson

[socialc1imb]

You can draw Artemis, plz.

I can draw him, thanks for noticing

#asks #this is joking and silly not meant to come off rude #just made me giggle

[gummy-axolotl]

I keep seeing posts about aromantic discourse, but I have yet to see any posts that are actually the discourse in question? Can someone please explain?? Who's the one saying that aros aren't queer?? who's saying that? Is it because I block terfs that I don't see it? Are terfs saying that? Are we listening to terfs now? I'm??? who??? what??? what's going on???

#aromantic #discourse #aro #lgbt #This is meant to come off as rude. I'm just genuinely confused #because who is the person considering aros to not be queer?? #by definition they are queer #so like who is it #I don't understand #text post #gummy says stuff

[magnus-rhymes-with-swagness]

while i’m truly genuinely happy there’s an aspec club at my university, some of the people there are very annoying

#aroallo #alloaro #aspec #aromantic #aro #non-sam aro #<- for tagging purposes bc i know y’all can likely relate #my words #‘allies are welcome’ like. okay. #i really wanted to reply with something like ‘i’ll take that as a no then’ or ‘not my question’ #but i didn’t want to come off as rude so i didn’t #i went to one single meeting last semester and 80% of the people there were nightmarish so i never went back lol #figured i’d try again this semester #but since it’s super extremely ace-centric i figured i should ask that #i will admit i meant it as a comment just as much as i meant it as a question and that person only proved my point! #luckily someone else said yes so i might give it another shot #but i don’t have high hopes #edit locking reblogs because the person said they misunderstood me #not sure whether to believe them or not but at any rate i don’t want anyone to get the wrong idea

[careerboyfriend]

to keep it real i think my conversational skills are more adept than many neurotypical people bc its something ive had to work at. i am always the one who has to notice our difference in communication and switch to their language basically

#ie im building something and someone asks what is this i say that is a plank of wood #i realize a second later what they actually meant and explain what im building #but by then i’ve come off rude for simply answering the question so i have to do a whole song and dance

[dhmis-autism]

Do you also headcanon duck to be trans

I do not actually! I’m aware of the headcanon and I do like it quite a bit, but if you’re asking if like. I intend for him to be read that way in my drawings, I really don’t.

I think he’s just a guy who likes crossdressing tbh. I think it’s like, important to acknowledge that he can be someone who likes dressing up in a feminine way on occasion and still be a guy yknow what I mean? He even like, self-identifies himself as a dad, so that’s what I’m rolling with.

#unsure based off the way you worded this if you meant like. transmasc duck or transfem duck?? #but uh either way i definitely see him as a guy. no doubt about it. #i actually get sort of uncomfortable when people make his proportions SUPER feminine and give him like.a wasp waist or like Human Woman Leg #BUT THATS JUST ME #like me personally i get really. uncomfy with people who are really transparently trying to make him like. 'the girl' in the relationship #esp when it comes to shipping/fluffybird/ect. idk. it reeks of like early 2000s yaoi dynamics to me and its just. i dont like it #im not a fan #i think he can be short and chubby and mean and unpleasant & rude and violent and have his weird military thing and wear a dress on occasio #like i don't think those all need to be seperate parts of him i think they can totally coexist #my dhmis postings

[coralcatsea]

Dadthur fans will refer to England as America's d@d when talking to literally anyone, even if they don't know whether or not you see him that way.

Dadthur Fans Stop Shoving Your Headcanons on Other People Challenge.

#seriously though #I've had people literally come on my posts and start chatting with me #and throw a mention of “America's d@d” #as if he doesn't have a name #can we not throw that phrase around as if it's canon #I think it's clear on all my social media accounts I don't see them that way #so it's due to being either rude or not paying attention #even if it's the latter it's still rude to assume everyone else sees things the same way you do #it's just as obnoxious as the 2012 USUK shippers that people complained would shove their hcs on others #so is going out of your way to comment on any USUK art you see with things like “Aww such a cute f@ther and s0n/br0therly relationship!” #or any art that's not explicitly meant to be f@ther/s0n #and honestly it comes off as desperate #You perceive the characters as f@mily #good for you #let other people see characters the way they want as well #@ntis dni

[comvi]

the GUN KID was from a game called fear and hunger termina DO NOT FUCKING REsEARCH OR GET THE GAME AT ALL PLEAsE I DON'T WANT TO RUIN YOUR INNOCENTs

ignoring the fact you just said you own a gun yeah okay whateve im. Not acknowledging that at all . While ive never played it myself. I DO know what fear & hunger is!!! not enough to describe it or anything but im aware of it nonetheless LOL

my profile on here is very bright and colourful, and i do generally enjoy bright & colourful & fuzzy & [generally seen as for kids] things (like plushies, and kids shows, etc etc!) a lot more than other stuff but!! I still enjoy horror content of all kinds, im not a young child or anything haha

#not meant in a rude way or anything #!!! sorry if this comes off that way. im not sure if my tone is coming off right through text! #asks #myposts

[alliums-do-wiggle]

Is there something wrong with your tommy's eyes? What's happening there?

Hello! First off i know you are well meaning, just the way you ask comes off as insensitive.

But yes, my Tommy’s eyes are a bit off. This is due to one of his injuries from his past home. He has very little vision in that eye but hes quite happy and has little problems being the happy guy that he is!

#mcyt as pets #dsmp as pets #ctommy #alliums do wiggle #ooc: but anon while i know you arent meant to come off as rude from someone who is disabled the way its phrased comes off a bit as ableist.

[shmaroace]

im sorry but i like do not understand your most recent post lmao… can you elaborate?

okay. first of all i made this post solidly like,,,a week ago and it's only come out just now bc of how i have my queue set up. i don't fully know what was going on in my head but i have a vague idea.

comments on aro posts about not liking relationships/love are always like "yeah but you can still date (even if you're aro!!!)" or "some people do feel love!" or "aros aren't emotionless!" have you considered that you're missing the point

ok. this is what the post said. to be clear, i do understand that aros can still date. aros are not all emotionless. many aros do feel love. HOWEVER. there are loads and loads of posts that say those exact things. people generally agree underneath them.

when posts directed towards loveless/low-empathy/etc. aros say things like "some aros are emotionless" or "some aros don't love" people are automatically like "but they can!!!". it's derailing the post and drawing focus away from aros who are part of that group (who are usually a minority in the aro minority in the minority of the lgbtq+ commmunity).

the point of those posts is to bring attention to aros who are low-empathy or loveless or don't want romance at all. if you are trying to point out the opposite of it, then you're not getting the point of the attention towards that group in the aro community.

this post from like two weeks ago kinda talks about this a little? it might help if you look at that too. (a bit of a tag rant here too)

#i'm going to just assume you meant this in like. a positive way. #idk it just rubs me the wrong way like when you say the opposite is true. #like that asian trans people post i rbd a few days ago #if you look in the replies it's all like ''but what about black trans people?? what about latinx trans people??'' #the post is about asian trans people go make your own post about someone else don't derail this one #that's how i feel about this aro stuff. like just go talk about it yourself don't make it a problem on someone else's post #sorry. i'm tired. this is all as polite as i can be right now. i'm sorry if i come off as rude #aro #em answers

[bxbygxxsx]

Are you looking for a new partner now that you’re down to just one?

This is such an odd way of asking this question 😂😭

Just because I’m poly, it doesn’t mean I constantly need to have multiple partners!! I’m honestly happy working on myself, healing from my current heartbreak and spending lots of time with L. I’ve never really ‘looked’ for multiple partners if I’m honest, polyamory came about really naturally for me & L. If someone comes along and we vibe with them and develop feelings then that would be lovely, but rn it’s not something I’m thinking majorly about 💓

#answered asks #I’m sure this person didn’t meant to come off rude #but saying ‘down to one’ feels a bit backhanded

[puppest]

one of my favorite jokes in all of dhmis is the background gag in “dreams” where all the red guys are in a piano bar but the guy at the piano is just tunelessly bashing the keys bc he dont got fingers

#op speaked #and then the moment afterward where Our red guy gets onstage without permission OR CLOTHING and the pianist just gets up and grumbles #‘well thats!…rude!!…no clothes….’ #its just an unreasonably cute moment to me. no clothes. like when you take your dogs collar off to give them a bath and its like. #GASP. NAKED. THE CREATURE IS NAKED #if u ask me i dont think Red Guys (species) are even meant to wear clothes. but red guy’s only exposure to other people are duck n yellow #and they wear clothes. so red sort of subconsciously assumes clothes are normal. despite not having any. besides #how often does he see himself? not as often as he sees duck n yellow thats for sure. when he looks at another person he sees clothes #so the constructions of Other Red Guys he comes up with wear clothes too. bc theyre People. he doesnt even question it #and he knows HE Doesnt Wear Clothes but it doesnt occur to him to think up other Red Guys without clothes. bc if its Another Person then of #course they wear clothes. not him though because hes not a person the same way other people are people oh my god its the autism again #its the autism its the fuckig autism

[thefanciestborrower]

nah u right. vore is nasty

No

#I can’t tell if this was meant to be joking or not but #I took my break cause I legit was struggling with the way I felt towards this stuff and if I had seen this ask before I left #it really would have made my whole state a lot worse #sorry if this comes off as a bit rude cause I don’t mean it to be. but I don’t really like getting asks like this #unless it’s real obvious it’s a joke they can make me feel kinda bad you know? #anon ask #vore mention #please be gentle I’m a sensitive little guy