#I’m worth it

[b0bthebuilder35]

#life #lessons #lesson #life lessons #life lesson #lessons in life #lesson in life #know your worth #value #negotiate #negotiations #worth it #I’m worth it #been worth it #always worth it #reality #real shit #true shit #in real life #fact #facts #no but seriously #no bs #no but fr #for real #self worth #my worth #motivation #motivational #values

[cissy-side-thoughts]

State of Being Caring

I am a Caring person.

I Care so deeply for people. Especially the ones I love, trust, and know well. But for all humanity really.

If I can see the humanity in a person, then I will care about you.

I will always check up on you. I’ll reach out when I think of you or whenevers a good time. If you’re sick, I’ll be by your side. I’ll take care of whatever you might need.

I listen to your problems, venting, etc. I want to hear how you are. I want to be a safe space for you. I want you to feel cared about. Feel seen. Feel heard.

I Care about others, I’ve just always been this way… I have a strong pull to care for people. To help. But I also put in the extra investment and time because I know what it’s like to not have someone who’s caring. I know what it’s like to lack care. And I would never want others to experience that pain.

I am a Caring person.

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Discussing Strengths Challenge

#cissy side thoughts works #cissy side thoughts writes #caring #i care a lot #I Care #i care too much #i care about you #I am caring #I am a caring person #my writing #writing #my rants #rants #ranting #my ranting #I’m valid #I have positive qualities #I’m worth it #I’m enough #cissy side thoughts talks

[theuniversalscat]

I deleted myself cause I was upset the other day. I’ve decided I’m not going to do that anymore... today… 🙈🤷‍♀️🤣👍😊

#life blogging #me #love #feel the love #my face #selfie #peace #love is all around #love is #selfies #i’m worth it

[miamberst]

And I’m always like “well no, it’s ok” if I feel like me needing help will be an inconvenience to someone, but honestly, I’m worth that inconvenience.

#I’m worth it #shit I deserve it tbh #I’m really in a mood #prrsonal #miamberst

[mer-se]

This year had a lot of lows. Like - scary fucking lows and it’s crazy how fast a year can blip by when your brains is engulfed with worry all the time and idk. Dealt with a lot of scary stuff this year and unfortunately that can take you out of the present and when you feel like you’re in survival mode time just…whips the fuck by. Last february (which was a horrendous month) feels like it was just a couple months ago. Anyway. I spent some time looking through my photos from this yr and realized there was a lot of special moments. So I’m gonna reflect on that. A lot of cool shit I did even if I was afraid I pushed myself to do. Saw so many new nature spots, got attacked by bugs but saw the best storm roll over us on the beach, fell in love with a pretty cemetery, chased storms, sunrises and moonrises, started walking every day no matter the weather, didn’t drink alcohol all year, walked around boston and cambridge more times than I can count finding pretty architecture and churches to look at, laughed so much, saw some of my favorites in concert, drove a bronco to nyc, saw Jodie fucking Comer up close and personal *twice*, caught more sunsets, smashed up a room full of wine bottles with a bat, danced in my kitchen, made people laugh, saw cute puppies in the commons, was called an angel by a stranger, was hugged a lot and given piggyback rides, swung on a tire swing, walked around under trees and collected seashells, posed like idiots for photos, rode bikes with my niece, watched her fall for a boy, looked at the moon with my dad, rollerbladed through parks and under the moon, busted my ass on said rollerblades, ran from geese, ran through the woods like a prey animal, ran barefoot through beach parking lots, ate fresh fruit, ate a lot of pizza, woke up to my cat holding my hand, saw monkeys, wolves, deer, alligators and fennec foxes, saw a play with my family, saw my nephew for the first time, saw shooting stars. I made myself proud almost every day this year, in some huge ways and some small. Realized how fucking strong I am - how brave I can be even if I always feel like I’m not. I am. All years are gonna suck to some degree, sometime really bad at times but there’s always special moments - I mean look how I woke up today.

#this years for getting out of comfort zones #because as time goes on you realize how detrimental they really are #and continuing to do shit that scares me because it’s worth it #I’m worth it #more healthy habits and change this year #hopefully this time next year things will look completely different #but I’m proud of me #and I’m proud of u too #happy new year

[mozaicstudio]

I’ve waited a long time to buy the Polychromos, determined to reach a certain point of artist proficiency before I got them.

At checkout I overruled myself and sprang for the 60 set over the 36. Life is good.

#faber castell #polychromos #60 colors #art supplies #new colored pencils #new pencils #colored pencil set #drawing #artist grade #let’s do this #upgrade #i’m worth it #artist

[phosphenes-xo]

I always chose you, but you would always choose everyone else. Although that was an undescribable pain it taught me to choose myself, always.

#you suck #breakup #i hate love #narcissistic abuse #sadgirl #you broke me first #phosphenes #self love #talking to myself #why am i here #late night #self growth #progressnotperfection #work in progress #putting me first #you ain’t shit #mentally exhausted #thriving #i’m worth it #i’m working on it #daily thoughts

[sweetinnv]

#be rare #let them lose you #I’m worth it

[crying-pan420]

All this talk of Karnak as tumblr sexy man

But what about me

1 ask is one vote for me 😎✌️

#ride the cyclone #rtc #karnak rtc #I’m going against him #vote for me #I’m worth it #spread the word

[permanently-changing]

Uhm. You guys. You’re spoiling me now. I could get used to this 😊

Thank you, Anon.

#thank you #anons are welcome #spoiled #i’m worth it #lol

[artemismuninn]

It’s time for some self care.

#i’m worth it

[darkwood-sleddog]

Because @staff is too cowardly…

#tumblr #not dogs #why staff doesn’t use pills to better understand the users I’ll never know #anyways. #reblog for greater visibility or whatever #I’m using all like 4.5k worth of my follow count to be a little bitch about this

[therosethatisrare]

Earn me.

#I’m worth it

[zytes]

look alive, sunshine

#take care of yourself #they can see the dark spots underneath your eyes #my art #*ignores like 15 years’ worth of photography experience for the aesthetic* #the majority of these were just straight up photos of total blackness with the flash on; I drove the settings up to bring out the detail #and by detail I mean literally any interpretable noise #I’m not winning any photography contests anytime soon but the southern gothic community seems to be enthused #art #artwork #glitchcore #webcore #aesthetic #internetcore #abstract #glitch art #artists on tumblr #photography #night photography #graphic art #visual poetry

[blue-revenant]

I think there are some people out there that can relate to what I’m about to say.

I had a guy ask me for some pictures. Now, this guy and I were building a relationship and I felt I could trust him. So when he asked me for some pictures of me in my “birthday suit”, I was nervous but I decided to give it a try.

Let me just say, it’s a very exhilarating feeling taking photos of yourself sans clothing. It’s very empowering, but then you send them. Waiting for someone to respond to your very personal photos is agonizing, especially for a first timer. I finally caved and asked him if they were gross or too much. He replied and said they were “good”. Not great, not beautiful, not sexy…good. So I prodded a little bit and he finally said he thought they were sexy.

Most women (and probably some men) have an intuition that tells us when someone is lying to us, especially someone we’re in a relationship with. I knew he was lying to me, I could feel that he thought the photos were disgusting. That’s the word that kept going through my head “disgust”.

I’m a big woman, there’s no hiding that. I have a big stomach and a big ass and the pictures showed that. Also, he knew I was a big woman because I’d sent him pictures of me in a bikini. So to have him suddenly disgusted by me just deflated me completely.

I tried to continue the conversation but I started getting shorter and shorter responses from him. I left him alone for the rest of the day and then said good night to him about 6 hours later. He responded to that and I haven’t heard from him since. That was two days ago.

You know, it bruised my ego to realize he was disgusted by me but I refuse to let the opinion of this one man diminish how I see myself. I’m beautiful in my eyes, I’ve worked hard to learn to love my body. And I won’t let his stupidity tear down my confidence and self-esteem. I also refuse to chase him. If he’s not attracted to me, there’s no reason for me to try to have conversations with him or have him in my life. I’m putting myself above his opinion.

To anyone out there who reads this: you’re beautiful/handsome, you’re important and you’re worthy. 😘

#relationship #confidence #big and beautiful #i’m worth it #goodbye loser

[lifeunfilteredandmemorable]

Waiting for the day that I can finally feel relaxed and when people think I’m actually worth being around.

#emotions #over it #tired #i’m worth it #stress free #waiting #sorry not even remotely sorry #i am alone #need better people in my life