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as someone who's aromantic but very allosexual I just feel like queer people and allies who get up in arms at the idea of people fucking their friends and remaining completely platonic friends just really aren't the type of people who are gonna be actual allies to me. Like idk I don't think sex has to be some special intimate thing and I just think its age old conservative dogma being used to shame people this time just coming from people who claim to be more progressive. its dumb. its just "save sex till marriage or else you're impure" again.
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If anyone wonders how I feel this pride
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"what if you havent found the right one yet🥺🥺" what if i hit you with a metal pole
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an aromantic person is someone who (fill in the blank here) // april 10 2024
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this has probably already been done, but it popped into my brain and I had to make it so here you go
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+ aroallo, non-sam aro, and neu aro variants
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➹DON'T TAG THIS AS ASEXUAL/ACE OR AROACE➹
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Inspired by the brief period of time I thought I was polyamorous because I felt the same way about my boyfriend as I did my best friends and I hadn't clocked yet that all of those feelings were platonic
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I promise you, relationship anarchy is a good thing. Tell your friends you love them. Go on dates. Domme them. Take them to weddings. Have a relationship with the sub from the dungeon where she does your taxes or you mow his lawn. Help your neighbor plant begonias and become their honorary granddaughter. Become friends with your partner’s partners. Cuddle with your book club and talk about Polysecure or something, idk.
I don’t care. Just stop expecting every relationship to follow a specific pattern and instead find the beauty you both want in your specific relationship with that other person.
Life is more than the nuclear family and strict pseudo-Christian mythological ideals.
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aroallo pride art :D
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shoutout to aros who don't experience any romantic attraction but are still in romantic relationships
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This is so important! Any and all of the things that people might "ascribe" to arospec folks can also go for unlabeled folks allo or not, no questions asked. Your idea of a happy life is your own. Doesn't matter who you are or aren't attracted to!!
The idea that it's okay to be happy without a romantic partner is universal. The idea that it's okay to strive for a non-normative relationship(s) or no relationship(s) at all is universal.
you can totally live a loveless life without being aromantic, you can totally be single for the rest of your life without being aromantic, you can live alone maybe with a pet and you're happy with just that without being aromantic. ^-^
you don't always have to put a label on yourself just to describe your situation or what you want in your life, of course, you can still identify as aromantic but if you're sure you're not aromantic or you just don't want to put a label on it then that's okay! live how you want and don't force yourself in a box <2
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Liking some sexual things doesn't mean you have to like all sexual things. You can enjoy doing some things but not thers.
Like some romantic things doesn't mean you have to like all romantic things. You can enjoy doing some things but not others.
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i want to make out with you platonically.
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Your value as a person is innate, it has nothing to do with whether you're in a relationship or not.
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There's no correlation between romantic/sexual experience and maturity. Not engaging or not wanting to engage in romantic/sexual activities or relationships doesn't make you more childlike or innocent.
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The person/people you’re in a QPR with? You mean your QPRtner(s)?
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requests open!
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