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t4transsexual · 7 months
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yall realize that forcing trans people into gender roles based on the gender they're transitioning to is still BAD, right? like gender roles don't suddenly become good when you force them on trans people in a "gender affirming way" because gender roles just suck to begin with, yknow that right?
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I just saw someone on TikTok joke about Nemlei being doxxed, saying she deserved it and “that’s what she gets for making The Coffin of Andy and Leyley” and I just… no matter what you think about problematic fictional content, how messed up do you have to be to think that someone (a real person) deserves such a thing?
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chowderocats · 3 months
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This is about the term plural being used wrong, might upset some!
So plurality, the term in and its self, is a catch all term.
It counts you rather your:
Endogenic
Traumagenic
Willogenic
Disordered
Non disordered
And ALL other system types.
Plural is a term that counts systems who split for all/any reasons.
Be it:
Trauma
Stress
Excitement
Sadness
Happiness
Etc
Plural is a catch-all term. If your blog, or your acc is "plural safe" your stating you're safe for all of us, not just the ones you've deemed worthy.
When saying "im a plural safe blog/acc/etc" them saying "endos DNI" you're contradicting yourself. We look for the word "plural" because it's ours.
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the “do i have crushes on all of my friends??” to arospec pipeline
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What's gud, y'all??? Who wants to help out some lovely Black folks during this fine week?? We got THREE (3) DAYS to help em out!! Here's their situation:
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My partner lost their job early last month, so I been holding the crib down. With that being said, rent due on da fif and we $400 short🥲 (crying smiling emoji)
If you’re able to help, I’d greatly appreciate it 💪🏾 (muscle flex emoji). If not, I definitely understand. I also understand more folks are struggling, so please keep the negativity to yourself. 🙏🏾 (prayer hands emoji)"
Cash app: $dburn3g
Venmo: @chevii_
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Again, that CashApp is $dburn3g
The Venmo is @chevii_
Let's help em out!! DONATE IF YOU CAN AND ARE WILLING, AND REBLOG IF YOU SEE THIS PLEASE!!!
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catboys4recovery · 6 months
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"grippy sock vacation" "omw to the loony bin" "haha i need a lobotomy" SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!!! SHUT! THE! FUCK! UP! IF YOU'VE NEVER BEEN FORCED INTO THE HELL THAT IS A PSYCHIATRIC WARD THEN FUCKING QUIT MAKING FUN OF US AND OUR PAIN!!! THAT SHIT IS TRAUMATIZING! IT'S WORSE THAN PRISON! DISABLED PEOPLE HAVING OUR AUTONOMY AND IDENTITY STRIPPED FROM US IS NOT A GOOD SUBJECT FOR YOUR UWU DARK HUMOR YOU ABLEIST SHIT
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I do understand why the whole “BOYxBOY Yaoi don’t like don’t read!” stuff seems really funny now but I think, as someone who joined fandom in the early 2000s when by and large most of fandom was incredibly homophobic and would flame you for posting slash stories on ff.net, and slash and femmeslash were often treated as inherently too adult for general fic archives, and if you made slash fanart or fic you were ‘ruining’ a perfectly good character, and was myself harassed as a teen for posting slash stories without this disclaimer because I was annoyed anything gay needed to be ‘warned’ for.... well I think that it’s just something modern fandom folk do not understand and you just had to be there for lol.
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shipping-strawberry · 2 years
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look, i'm just saying:
if you're going to crosstag, then no matter who is in your dni, you need to be prepared for the community you're crosstagging to interact with you.
you can't just talk shit about us, post your negativity in our spaces, and then just expect all of us to stay quiet.
like, no.
if you're gonna spread misinformation, trash-talk us, or worse, we are going to speak out for ourselves.
we are not 'crossing your boundaries'.
you crossed your own boundaries the moment you decided to shove your harmful content into what's supposed to be our own safe-spaces. if there's anyone crossing boundaries here, it's you.
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bisexualpositivity · 5 months
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So basically you hate jews? Is that it???
actually, I am jewish. born and raised. I’m just tired of seeing people forget or actively refuse to treat palestinians like human beings.
if myself and other mods reblogging posts about queer palestinian culture in an effort to remind people that they are human bothers you, that’s your problem.
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Hello, everyone! We have a question about a positivity post we’re writing, and I hope it’s okay to ask this here!
Does anyone have any info on dualconscious systems or dualconsciousness that they would be willing to share?
We are struggling to understand the pluralpedia entry.
From what we make of it, dualconscious is a term that describes a system who has regressed to a singlet state, has forgotten their time of being plural, or who acts and functions like a singlet for their own health and safety. Is this a correct understanding of the term? Is there more nuance or some other aspect of dualconsciousness that we’re missing?
We just want to ensure that we can write the best positivity post that we possibly can for dualconscious systems! We’d value any and all feedback, especially from any dualconscious systems themselves!
So sorry to be seeking answers here… but thank you so much for your time!!
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caringforourselves · 5 months
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when i love, i love hard.
over the years, i have realised that this puts an invisible strain on others.
they may find it annoying and label this behaviour as being ‘overly attached’.
when i desperately try to form a good connection with people - be it friendships or relationships, being ‘overly attached’ allows them to push me away even more because i’m too clingy for some people.
it hurts when people do that because they don’t understand why some people tend to be ‘overly attached’ or clingy.
they don’t try to understand the root of the problem and they end up blaming and saying you’re not worthy to be cared for and loved because you’re ‘annoying’.
many years have passed and i have also grown. i have learned to keep the love i have for others, to myself. but that didn’t make me love myself more.
instead, it had made me question myself. why am i more giving to others than myself? why am i caring more about others than myself?
I shouldn’t be like this but i can’t help but pour love to people i care a lot about. it often gets me disappointed but i am learning not to expect so much from others as this was part of who i was.
when i love, i love hard.
and i often have to convince myself that that’s okay.
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t4transsexual · 6 months
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me: *makes a t4t positivity post*
worlds smartest anti-t4t trans person: this is literally just like being superstraight
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liquoricebxxxh · 6 months
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Azealia Banks via CheapyXO account (10.8.23)
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positivelyenby · 10 months
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Yesterday my state was added to alarmingly growing list of states to ban health care for trans kids. I'm hurt, I'm angry but, the worst of all is I'm not surprised. In the bill they also slipped in an abortion ban after 12 weeks, the deciding vote coming from a senator who is currently having health complications die to her pregnancy. Democrats surrounded her so her photo wouldn't be taken as she looked very ill and still she voted for this bill.
My state is very red, our two large cities are the only blue spots in our entire state and due to the way our government is set up are the only things keeping us from being Florida. It is so discouraging to see my rights being taken from me by people who don't even understand or are impacted by these laws in the slightest. Watching states I feel safe visiting shrinking by the day. I'm scared for my gf when we go out, when she had to use a restroom in public, when we're just trying to buy groceries.
What's worse is moving out is exactly what they want. They want non-republicans to leave, they want an all red state with no opposition. I'm scared now but I'm even more terrified of what an entirely red Nebraska would look like. If us staying would even impact one vote, one seat to be blue then its worth it. It's hard living here right now, it's hard living in this country right now, and to anyone who is also scared just know you're not alone. The majority of people don't think this way, its a loud minority who is scared of what they don't understand. If anyone needs to talk the inbox or my dms are open. I love y'all, we'll make it.
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hey, does anyone have any arospec youtuber suggestions? i find videos made by people like me helpful, but i don’t think i can handle the results that might come up just from searching “aromantic” on youtube right now.
i just want to hear other people’s experiences in video form and in general support any aro creators that might be on there!!
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As if life couldn't get any worse...
Does anyone wanna help me pay to take my senior cat to the vet?? Something is wrong with her, but I legit just don't have enough money to take her and get the necessary tests done for her.
She's 15 😭 I've had her since I was 11 years old, and she's my baby. But I... I don't know what to do when I don't have the funds to help her. Just one of the tests they could do would be at least $200, and I don't even have that. I feel like such a shit parent rn 🫠🫠🫠
If y'all are willing and able to help, please donate to my CashApp or Venmo. And I'll keep y'all updated on her when I can.
CashApp: $QueerRemi
Venmo: @QueerRemi
PLEASE REBLOG IF YOU SEE THIS!!
Pics of my baby for attention:
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