tucuteboything

[tucuteboything]

from looking it up they generally seemed to be coined for "xenoidentities" aka anti-xenogender folks. nicknouns were originally coined as being anti-neopronouns basically. idk a lot of people using them are transmeds so

Aptnouns

Aptnouns are a term that V've created to be used instead of "nicknouns". The original definition of "nicknoun" was heavily against xenogenders and neopronouns, while V am not and V feel like they are good ideas but are executed in a transphobic way.

What Are Aptnouns?

Aptnouns are similar to neopronouns, but instead of being used as pronouns, they are an alternative to neopronouns that are more accessible for those who are incapable of using/understanding neopronouns for whatever reason, while still offering a way for the individual to avoid using auxiliary pronouns.

For example: Someone uses fae/faer as faer only pronouns, but uses "fae" as an aptnoun because fae is uncomfortable with auxiliary pronouns and feels uncomfortable when people only refer to faer by name instead of using faer pronouns. You could refer to fae like "I went to the store with fae today, fae was really cool and fae bought some of fae's favorite candy for fae!" or "I went to the store with faer today, fae was really cool and fae bought some of faer favorite candy for faeself!"

Isn't this just nicknouns rebranded?

Yes! That is the point of the term. V am not transphobic like the creator(s) of the term "nicknouns", and V believe that people who use exclusively neopronouns aren't inherently ableist. However, there are a lot of people who can't understand/use neopronouns, usually due to cognotive disabilities and/or neurodivergency, and it's ableist to refuse to offer any sort of accomadation for them.

How are they different from neopronouns?

Neopronouns are actual pronouns - they follow the same patterns as other pronouns, like he/him and xe/xem. Aptnouns, however, are more similar to names, just (usually) not capitalized, but are used in place of pronouns. They're easier to understand than neopronouns, especially neopronouns that are formed uniquely, like some of vy pronouns (for example, vei/vin/vir/virs/veiself). You would list them the same as pronouns but you should list them seperately, for example "he/it, pup/growl/bark apt"

What can be an aptnoun?

Any word! For example, "fae" can be an aptnoun, "bat" can be an aptnoun, "jenny" can be an aptnoun, "xe" can be an aptnoun, etc. Keep in mind that they are formulated more like names than pronouns, so instead of saying the aptnoun as "fae/fae's/fae's self" you'd just say "fae". Also, instead of saying something like "cat went to the store and brought cats stuffed animal for catself", you'd say "cat went to the store and brought cat's stuffed animal for cat", like you would say "Max went to the store and brought Max's stuffed animal for Max". V vyself use narc, rose, plague, and void aptnouns, and may use a few others eventually as well!

Who can use aptnouns?

Anyone! You don't have to use neopronouns to use them, either, anyone can use them. V don't put restrictions on who can use vy terms/labels/etc. You can use aptnouns in place of pronouns, alongside pronouns, as a type of aux pronouns, etc. V would prefer it if you didn't use the term "aptnouns" if you hate on neopronouns, though.

Aptnoun user flag V whipped up really quickly lol:

#reblog #not really discourse #just info

[tucuteboything]

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Y, TC, OTR(NETR, NTR), YSP & NSP, TXA, DTNU & DTY, CNNU, SDXY, SMY, TSA, ESY, EAS, XEY

Syscourse Code:

Roxy ( @acetoneperoxyde ) and I have put together our System Code.

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#syscourse #system code #emoji useage #endo safe #pro-endo #pro-xenogenic

[tucuteboything]

I already said it on our systems shared rant/discourse/vent blog, I will however say it again

I am really sorry for being rude to you

it's fine. we all make mistakes lol. when checking earlier I see we both have the whole "brain skips words" thing going on so I can understand. /gen

#ask #user: gaynidopunk

[tucuteboything]

it's fine. at least try to re-read something later if you have issues like that. (we struggle with our brain skipping words like that too so :^) )

So I am a bootlicker for being an actual pluralpunk?

Bitch, you are anti endogenic, you claim to be a pluralpunk, yet you don’t know shit about the actual fucking TOS from the coiner…

You are the actual fucking hypocrite here @sir-eldritch

[tucuteboything]

anyways :)

all systems/plurals/collectives are valid and that includes ones with origins you don't like :)

#plural discourse #system discourse #plural #system #collective #plural system #multigenic #cryptogenic #dreagenic #endogenic #neurogenic #pangenic #polygenic #parogenic #willogenic #praesigenic #protogenic #quoigenic #spirigenic #xenogenic

[tucuteboything]

all systems/plurals are valid. that includes those with xeno origins or are xenogenic. if you don't believe that then you can get the fuck off of my blogs. :)

So I am a bootlicker for being an actual pluralpunk?

Bitch, you are anti endogenic, you claim to be a pluralpunk, yet you don’t know shit about the actual fucking TOS from the coiner…

You are the actual fucking hypocrite here @sir-eldritch

#pluralmisia #xenogenic #all systems are valid #all plurals are valid #sooo sorry my experience as a collective is too complicated for you /s

[tucuteboything]

???? i'm literally multigenic???? (including being endogenic and having xeno origins if you care, as I'm assuming this may be what this is about.)

my blog literally has pro-endo in it wtf are you talking about

So I am a bootlicker for being an actual pluralpunk?

Bitch, you are anti endogenic, you claim to be a pluralpunk, yet you don’t know shit about the actual fucking TOS from the coiner…

You are the actual fucking hypocrite here @sir-eldritch

#what #'all systems are valid' till it comes to xenogenic apparently /s

[tucuteboything]

???

this just in according to anon, being sexually attracted to either penis or vagina makes you a paedophile, more news at 7 /neg /s

welcome back to bigots & exclus conflating non-standard forms of attraction/queer forms of attraction with pedophilia.

#discourse #the only thing I even have on the blog I got this on #is my alternatives to genital attraction #so just??? huh??? #queer #lgbtq+ #queermisia #transmisia #pedophilia mention

[tucuteboything]

why is discourse half the time just "You're [x] if you refuse to put yourself in the snake pit"

[tucuteboything]

sorry but no <3

getting real tired of the mentality thats beginning to plague mogai spaces along with plural/alterhuman spaces that's basically the homomisic/transmisic equivalent of "nazis have feelings too :("

full offense but I'm not fucking respecting something some queermisic ahole coins in bad faith. I'm stealing that shit, theft is based in the face of the adversary. <3

steal from queermisics their feelings don't matter they're literally queermisic

Stealing shit from bigots is what reclaming is. "b-but it encourages them to do it too" news flash, they were already doing shit like this for decades. wtf do you think "queer slang" is?

If someone coins a fucking flag based around hating something you are fucking reclaim it. mine now asshole <3

If stealing from bigots makes me the asshole? cool, glad it does. fuck them. IDC what their feelings are, the fact is I'm not rolling over like a dog for them to pet my belly telling me I'm a good boy for not lashing out at the types of people to call us freaks and other slurs. I'm already the bigger man by the fact I'm not coining shit about hating a certain minority. Fuck exclus AND their feelings.

#discourse #general discourse #queermisia #transmisia #mogai #imoga #fuck exclus #basically a vent but yeah

[tucuteboything]

It's MSPEC

B/c I'm seeing this phrase increase in "inclusive" spaces, do not call fucking Mspec identities "Bi-spec"

I'm sorry but full offense my pan middle school ass did not spend years being told I was just bi and an attention seeker from BABs just for ya'll to start calling us "Bi-spec" under the guise of inclusive phrasing.

I'm pan, ply, abro. I'm NOT fucking Bi. I'm NOT BI-SPEC. I AM MSPEC. Our communities didn't go (and still go thru) years of harassment just for people to start doing this shit.

You experience attraction to two+ genders and consider yourself sorta Bi but not really and relate to the word Bi-spec? Cool. Great. You can use whatever terms for yourself.

Now stop putting MSPEC identities under Bispec.

Pan individuals are not Bi.

Ply individuals are not Bi.

Omni individuals are not Bi.

Multi individuals are not Bi.

Abro individuals are not Bi.

If they don't identify as Bi. THEY'RE NOT BI.

Saying any sorta orientation that is attraction to multiple genders is "Bi-spec" does nothing but reinforce the bullshit harassment of BABs calling us "just Bi but quirky" and calling use attention seekers. For the love of gods stop doing it. This shouldn't have to be said.

#queer discourse #discourse #queer #lgbtq+ #mogai #liom #mspec #bi #pan #ply #omni #pluralian #abro #multisexual #bisexual #pansexual #polysexual #omnisexual #abrosexual

[tucuteboything]

new people keep following me just for me to have to block them for breaking my dni b/c I haven't finished my carrd or anything yet

someone yell at me or something to finish my carrd sometime lol

#beast rambles #mostly for here as well #my opinions on certain things are complicated to the point they'd need like a paragraph to explain ig #not rlly getting new followers here but the one person so felt like kinda relevent b/c one thing there that's like #idk where i stand on this issue b/c i'm not x but i also support those who struggle with x due to disorders n shit #n the community surrounding both sides being pretty bad in general #whether it due to being pro morally wrong shit or due to not understanding some things arent a choice #yk? #not shipcourse btw #very much hate proshippers #speaking as someone who has POCD and is hypersexual to a certain degree #its a difficult conversation to put it shortly #ima shut up not so these tags arent like a mile long

[tucuteboything]

Hi I just found your blog and I think you're like really cool hhhhhh /pos

oh uh thx I try my best lol /gen /lh

#saw u spam liking and a inbox note and instantly thought some rando was trying to yell at me again or something lol #glad to see its someone chill #not discourse #:) #low on spoons so small response h

[tucuteboything]

anyway pride is coming so uhhh have some fucking respect for gay men. I know there's little to none cis men on this site and you don't take gay trans men seriously (because lets face it tumblr has a huge problem with treating us like Women Lite and acting as if we're all baby faced tiktok teens) but for the love of god have a fucking shred of decency towards us. and if you say shit like "toothpaste flag" while whinging "jUsT uSe ThE rAiNbOw" I hope you step on a wasp nest. I am Done being nice and giving way for other people to stamp on my identity, my flag (ever notice how no one makes fun of the other newer flags, just the ocean gay one?) and my community. we deserve our own shit. we founded this community too, we didn't get smeared by the government during the aids crisis just for you to say we can't have our own flag and vocabulary.

#baby terfs leave us alone challenge /nay #lgbtq #nonbinary #transmasc #gay #vincian #mlm #nblm #queer discourse #homomisia #queermisia #transmisia mention #transandromisia mention #treimisia mention

[tucuteboything]

Anyways just putting this here not all transmascs are men, and not all transfems are women, likewise enbymisia and exorsexism exist, nor do i intend to be these things with discourse shit

It's just a lot of it boils down to the whole women = pure innocent creature and men = evil disgusting cretin bullshit radfems like to push around, which doesn't really have much wiggle room to talk about gender-diverse experiences when the directed target is hyperspecific.

(A lot of it boiling down to the idea transmasc = man, transfem = women in trans discourse, especially antimasculism and transandromisia discourse and activism. While trying to put a foot in the door just for even binary trans men to be able to talk about their unique experiences doesn't intentionally leave out non-men/multigender/genderqueer/nonbinary transmascs, it sorta just happens when to even have an arguement you have to use hyperspecific language.) I usually try to include discussions on treimisia in these posts, but a lot of it is geared towards transmasc men and not general transmasc due to the whole binarism of this debate.

I'm a nonbinary multitrans (Transmasculine/Transxenine/Transkenoine) dude, however talking with specific language helps prevent clutter and to solidify a specific issue against a specific targeted group, even if it affects others visibility unfortunately. (I honestly doubt these people would even see past AGAB and the whole TMA=AMAB, and TME=AFAB intersexist transmisic bullshit that sprouted up last year or so on Tumblr, considering these transmisics use phrases like "AFAB privilege" while referring to anyone but cisgender women)

#just general info #general info #discourse #trans discourse #transmisia #queer discourse #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #antimasculism #exorsexism #enbymisia #transmisogyny #treimisia #tw intersexism mention #tw tma/tme mention #transmasc #transfem #transgender #trans man #trans #transmasculine #trans woman #transfeminine

[tucuteboything]

FYI

Just because I reblog one of your posts in passing doesn't mean:

I've ignored your DNI or my own, I just literally didn't look b/c low spoons or I'm just reblogging stuff in general without looking at accounts b/c I'm trying to be speedy, or ur post is either just recent or popular. (Depends on the stance I might reblog and then delete, I usually reblog first and THEN check DNIs and pinned posts, etc.)

That I support all of your stances unrelated to the post I reblogged from you.

I may reblog from someone who has a stance I don't agree with on a fundamental level, that doesn't mean I support them, their post is just relevant to something I'm talking about, or we share a stance on that specific topic. (I usually block after reblogging.)

#general info

[tucuteboything]

“transandrophobia is sus, you keep making it about trans women” That’s Because YOU’RE FORCING US TO. 

if you stopped using trans women as a bludgeon, saying we aren’t as oppressed as trans women, that terfs only hate trans women, that we should shut up and listen to trans women, that we’re copying trans women, that we think we’re oppressed by trans women, that we must hate trans women, and on and on and on we wouldn’t be talking about them so much!!

you literally are making us talk more about them because you’re being shit heads about it, because you keep comparing us and making them the litmus test for our validity and experiences. we have to field these discussions because you keep pushing us in a corner and making shit up. no matter how many times we demonstrate that we don’t think those things, you’ll turn around and say the fact that we responded and talked about them proves you right!! 

and even if we don’t talk about them you make it about them because it’s easy bait, because it makes you look like your defending and protecting a marginalized group, when you’re not!! at all!! you’re using them as a rhetorical tactic, as a weapon, and it’s shitting and weird! 

Stop using our trans siblings and sisters as a gotcha. Stop acting like us building our own theories about ourselves is bad because we sometimes do or do not talk about trans women. Just stop.

#THIS RIGHT HERE #!!! #transandrophobia #transmisandry #transandromisia #to the aspec exclus who reblogged me i wish u a very stfu