#that's when you become the asshole

[carlyraejepsans]

hey. you probably won't see this, but i just wanted to say thank you for not being a jerk about bi lesbians. it's really disheartening how much hate we still get, and it's nice to see someone just. not doing that.

it's nice to know someone with a (probably?) big blog/account is in our corner.

not sure why i shouldn't be able to see this ask, i am not as big of a blog as some people think HAHAHAHA. but hey you're welcome. I'll always stand behind anyone who defines a label through their personal experience. as long as you're not trying to define other people's experiences for them, it's literally nobody's business but yours.

#to me it always felt like the bi/pan debate. if you try to define those words as something ontologically different you're gonna be biphobic #bi can mean whatever the hell a bi person wants it to mean. attraction to two genders and/or more/all genders equally #all genders but more some and less other. bi + other label (asexual/lesbian/gay/etc) like that's literally nobody's business but yours #and if someone prefers to use pan because they REALLY want to emphasize the ''all' part. or they don't like the prefix. then hell. go ahead #it's kinda like how some people prefer the term transGENDER because transSEXUAL feels connected to sex/sexuality #and that doesn't reflect their experience. yknow some people call themselves transexual because they physically transitioned. that's alright #but saying someone can't call themself that because they haven't. or can't cal themselves that at all because it's outdated... #that's when you become the asshole #mind ya bizz baby #answered asks

[gophergal]

Life on the farm

#gopher art #mortal kombat #subscorp #mk subzero #mk scorpion #kuai liang #hanzo hasashi #mortal kombat legends #been holding onto this one for a bit! finished it more than a month ago lol #i was originally going to save it for subscorp week but then i was like. nah. that wouldnt be entirely fair lol #and besides. ive been wanting to share it for long enough and my resolve has kinda worn down #anyway - snowblind but AU'd! heres my concept of this (which i may use later on for something idk): king kano got his shit wrecked #like way before the events of the movie. by the revenants in fact. i want him torn to shreds. you still have random roving assholes #making trouble across the wastes. but its much less dire. kuai still retires to his farm. kenshi still falls for shang tsung's bullshit #and kuai mentors him. hanzo becomes warlord of netherrealm. BUT. he and kuai keep in contact. its long distance and they make it work #sometimes scorpion vacays to Kuai's farm. as a treat. thats what this drawing is #i cant deny that i literally just want them to be happy ok. thats literally all i want for these gay old ninjas #bonus commentary: at the time of drawing this i was still figuring out how i wanted to draw hanzo. he's so fucking hard to draw #when i draw him without his mask or beard he looks so fucking off. but if i draw him with the beard it feels weird too. #babygirl why are you so hard to draw?? dont you want me to draw you?????

[petit-papillion]

"Leclerc is too nice to be a world champion. A Hamilton or a Verstappen, Leclerc does not have that in him. Suppose Ferrari has the best car next year, then Hamilton will gobble him up. Leclerc doesn't strike me as tough when I look at the little mistakes he makes and how he treats his engineers."

Robert Doornbos during Chinese GP weekend broadcast | April 2024

Source: Ziggo Sport

Original Dutch:

"Leclerc is te lief om wereldkampioen te zijn. Een Hamilton of een Verstappen, dat zit er bij Leclerc niet in. Stel Ferrari krijgt de beste auto volgend jaar, dan vreet Hamilton hem op. Leclerc komt op mij niet hard over als ik kijk naar de foutjes die hij maakt en hoe hij met zijn engineers is."

#nothing wrong with bring nice (or kind or sweet as the word “lief” can be translated to as well) #do you really need to be an asshole to become wdc? #i find this such an interesting take #when there have been so many people over the years #who've commented on how they lump him together with VER HAM and even ALO #in what he is able to do with an f1 car #anyway we will see next year mr doornbos #i certainly give charles more credit than you #charles leclerc #lewis hamilton #max verstappen #cl quote #f1 #formula 1

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

having sensory problems is tough because how to i tell my stepdad that i want to throw a brick at him for having a snack in the same room as me-

#i had to go to my room i swear to god #the scrape of the fork the fucking mouth sounds IM A BITCH NOW SORRY #one wrong noise and i become an Asshole #internally. i will not outwardly express any of this #he's such a good person! he does not deserve the ire i feel when he makes The Wrong Noises which happens Quite Frequently! #now he's playing with the dog and i wanna throw TWO bricks at him #shutupshutupshutup theres too many noises at once im going to MAIM something #the tv the microwave the dog the fire the the the #punching something in my head... #absolutely unprompted #Man Don't You Have A Job To Go To Or Something. At *checks cat* Nine At Night #i might just. walk out into the dark woods for a bit. let the nonexistent wolves have me #maybe mothman will be there.... #IF HE BOOPS THE DOG ONE MORE TIME- #im evil now. im in my evil arc. im a hater. my heart burns with rage

[sweetvox]

you are all too afraid to admit that benry is a mamas boy and a youngest child. but i have seen the ancient texts. i remember……..

#vox.txt #chronicles of benry you will always be canon. to ME!!!!!! #sorry sometimes i just think about the shithead ceo benry becoming suddenly v polite and sheepish and shy around his mom #and it makes me emotional he is just a mamas boy!!!!!! he loves his mom!!!!! #ouagh when the asshole character has a good relationship w their family.. #peak to me #hlvrai #benrey

[cringefail-clown]

The fact that no one has asked about kankri is surprising

So kankri for bingo

#ask game #ever since ive started writing the ultkri au and his backstory ive become more and more obsessed with him #that bastard *affectionate* #“he was a bootlicker of opressive system” no he is a VICTIM of an opressive system hes a mutantblood the lowest of the low #how do you think he was treated on beforus bc for sure it wasnt pretty #just like with karkat and him fantasizing about proving himself to be useful to the empire so he wont get culled #he as well was trying to reason with why he was treated the way he was and WANTING to be accepted by the society #the only way he thought he could was to kiss ass like omfg #also being stuck as 18-19 ghost for thousands of years will do shit to your psyche #i highly believe all the alpha trolls werent such a fucking assholes when they were alive but being frozen in time #and stuck with the same people in the same environments for millenia will make you a little bit of a dick #doesnt change the fact that yeah he IS a shithead and his opinions ARE wrong #but he also WAS a victim of oppression and those two statements can coexist together #rant over LMFAO

[animentality]

Larian has some kind of beef with the dark urge and I wish they'd just stop talking about them at all.

I can talk about them. People who write fanfic can talk about them. People who draw depraved art can talk about them.

You need to stop.

Please just keep adding Astarion lines, don't give anyone else any, and let the game be.

It's past the point of fixing, simply adding scenes won't fix the structural problems, and there's no use in being bothered by any of that now. Best selling game, and it's deserved and all, but.

This is your bed.

Lie in it.

And leave the dark urge be.

#bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #dark urge #yes im still angry #no i dont care that much #ill just be resigned to the fact that they just cant utilize this character #they just cant give them a character without taking away player agency #and thus the dark urge is doomed #and i think actually #that it wouldve been better if they didnt exist at all #if you couldnt commit to actually giving the dark urge consequences for their actions #then why bother having them at all #theres barely anything you can do as a dark urge that you cant already do as tav #just be an asshole tav and you can do just as many evil things as the dark urge #its actually baffling #your party doesnt leave you when you murder an innocent girl #your party doesnt leave you when you become an unholy assassin #they dont care if you become the chosen of bhaal #whats the point #they dont even react when you literally die in front of them being a hero #everything good about the dark urge has been created by the fans #and im sorry to say that but its the truth #theyre just not a developed character theyre not nearly as interesting as they should be #theyre a tragic character by design and yet most of the time theyre treated like an edgy joke #their dialogue options have no impact on anything #nothing that matters #its all such wasted potential i want to sigh

[residentfurry]

aunt zoe uses her new newspaper job to cause conflict at the baby shower

#resident evil #resident evil 7 #re7 #zoe baker #mia winters #my art #mia just wants to protect her family + forget about everything that has happened... #but I feel like zoe would have a hard time forgiving mia despite everything #so she kinda becomes a bit of an asshole in front of mia + rarely shows up to winters family events bc of bad memories #but she's all bark and no bite. Ethan becomes her pen pal when they move #ALSO NO MIA HATE ON THIS POST!!!!! IF I SEE MIA HATE I WILL CATAPULT YOU INTO THE NEAREST THORN BUSH!!!!!!!! #people with understanding that mia is a complex character overall and that's what makes her interesting can interact with this post #also playing a bit with the idea that zoe picks up a bad habit of smoking to help cope with things

[echo-s-land]

It's insane how most of the time I don't get how ppl interact and I also Don't Fucking Care

#vent ig #i wish i could #but unfortunately i havent had the occasion of sharing one of my interest with you in the past three months and when i did it didnt go as i #wanted and now we're supposed to talk through smalltalks except i dont know how to do those so im awkward as hell and unconsciously cut the #short and now im being hated (?) even tho that wasnt my intent #but i guess no matter how trustful i am i just look like a liar #and i cant even bring myself to care bc how am i supposed to explain myself when youre convinced what i say is a lie #we werent even supposed to be this close so sorry if im stiff. i tried to get along but i just cant #the never ending circle between 'i want to have ppl to interact with being alone to experience this world is exhausting and dreadful' and #'im not even remotely interested by any of you' #its different on tumblr bc i can curate my own experience & nobody comes @ me when i dont interact with them for days or weeks (BC IVE GOT #NOTHING TO SAY) and its okay and its normal and we dont have to do the 'hi how are you wyd' script every single time (sure we can check up #on each other once in a while but it doesnt become a script. it feels genuine.) #anyway. im so normal. i can def care about ppl that have never been as insane as me about something we both love(d at some point) #am pretty sure i developed 'i perceived you saying/thinking One(1) bad thing about me and now i dont care at all about your existence' as #a child as a coping mechanism but goddammit i feel like an asshole everytime it happened #i hate feeling apathetic #and i hate lying too so i cant just say shit to reassure them when i dont mean them #cant tell them im sorry about how my behavior is perceived when im so damn tired and would rather they disappear of my life

[nobie]

I had a thought about people who don't have siblings (only child, not pertaining to people who have lost their siblings thats completely different feeling) watching the bad batch not fully understanding the dynamic of having a sibling. you could have the worst gut punching argument you've ever had with your sibling no contact for a year or more but when you need them and they need you, you wouldn't want to be anywhere else then by their side. And that comes with a visceral need to protect them at all costs (whether they're older or younger). Or you could not talk to them for a few days because of something they said but when you see them again you disregard what was said cuz you love them no matter what.

having siblings is annoying sometimes, they will find a way to get on your last nerve, but its a love that can't be put into words really.

the batch are family (siblings) fundamentally no matter how much bad blood they have. they need each other, they'll protect each other, and hopefully by the end they'll be together again.

#that part about disregarding seems like toxic behavior but when you have/had a good sibling relationship it becomes an unspoken rule. #self projecting a bit on this one #i relate so much to the batch bc they are family and have a lot to work out #i love my brothers they are assholes but i love em #the bad batch #star wars #nobie does stuff #siblings #self projecting a lot actually lol

[madhushala]

.

#the more i stay around people the more i want to become like them out of spite #because i was so surprised these people are at least 24-26 years age some even did a minor bachelor's before coming here #some have completed post grad and then joined #like aren't you all too fucking old to act that immature #i grew so resentful of everyone how they keep on doing the worst low man shit and then victimize themselves #hypocrites full of shit they don't want to hear the truth #i know no one has the audacity to take a fight with me on here because they know im the youngest here #not because im the youngest but because im better #the girls frown upon me because i don't hear their low mindset humorless jokes and pointo out where they fall short #oh [my irl name] youre so stiff hamesha kami kyun nikalti rahti ho hamesha baat kaatne ki aadat hai learn to take a joke #mazaak hi to kar rahe hain kya yaar #ive cried so many times because i feel suffocated here and out of hate i want to act immature selfish hypocrite too so i do #i become self centered and look into my needs #but everyday bcg shows me how one stays firm in mindset even amidst surrounding of shit people #he points out to me all the time when i start acting like them he says why aren't you trying to rise above #i say ham bhi karte hai na unn chutiyon jaisa behave kyunki unhe unhi ki language mei samajh aata hai #achha ban kar honest banne se kuch nahi milta yaha #but he knows his stuff #he never does these things #however much i let evil thoughts take upon i get astounded everyday how he's practicing his rightful his honesty even tho no one's looking #it makes me want to cry #i hope he gets so ahead in life i hope he stands at the podium one day on a stage and deliver speeches where people actually can see him #like he sees the orator that come to attend our unis gatherings and says everytime kuch to baat hoti hai inn logon mei #i hope he achieves whatever he wants i hope he gets ahead of everyone all this fucking corruption #its not that he's done anything that im applauding he tries his best #and maybe teachers see that too all in class they're only looking at him and teaching they know #do you know how fucking hard it is not get corrupted in this uni and become one of those assholes that have done things unimaginable #im inspired everyday ill try my best to be like him #i do not just want to praise him i want to become someone he doesn't have to say fir tum bhi vahi karogi to kya farq reh jaayega #kuch bada nahi hota logon ki roz roz ki choti choti aadaton se pata chal jaata hai vo kaise hain

[munamania]

i dont wanna be a dick and act like i have no responsibility in this but after a point dont u think if all you ever say to ur friend is Omg you never make it out why dont you ever come out with us you bail all the time youre such a flake etc. dont u think that person (me) is like. not gonna feel so inclined to. be there

#like. yeah i was bad last semester i get it. and probably i shouldve tried at least once or twice to push thru #but i was so exhausted. and every time they would bring up hanging out it was on my longest days #and when i casually brought this up they were just like Well we have long days too. Okay! #and i love and miss these friends and i know for the most part. or at least think. theyre just teasing #i hate being seen as the flake like any time i do have to be like Oh i cant make that or Shit im sorry i have to bail #i try to offer an alternative???? and they never compromise on that. how is that fair like im not just outright rejecting u all the time #not to mention most of the time last semester it was always gonna be somewhere super easy for them to get home and far from me #im not like constantly holding this against them btw but i feel like they're holding it against me and i dont have any more apologies in me #anyway. that said. if theyre somewhere really expensive and far from me tn and i get out of work early #i. probably will not make it. lol! if theyd be willing to come a little closer to my place to one of the dives or some shit thatd be great #and like im not doing much today until class and work so really like. i WILL try. but i think they could sometimes not go for the most #expensive and inconvenient option as well. and these r all things ill say if it becomes like a problem problem or smth #but rn im not gonna be a dickhead and shit on their plans #but also! ok whatever im not gonna keep going on i just feel shitty im not 100% better from being sick and im just frustrated #about having to fuckign grovel over and over and over. i meant it the first few times now im just like #u could try not to be an asshole to me for five seconds too. like. i am very clearly not someone trying to secretly stop being friends #w yall. things happen #abby talks #and maybe this is an esp sore spot bc like ive certainly had some of you bail on me or be flaky or whatever before. and i didnt throw #a fucking fit to your face about it. probably bc it actually did feel more mean spirited sometimes #OK im sorry im not trying to make my friends sound evil and its mostly just the one and like im working on forgiving her for it cause it #was years ago but also like christ!

[musclesandhammering]

Does Loki/Brad have a ship name? Asking for a friend 👀

#lord pleas forgive me I know I’m about to start shipping them #I can’t fucking believe I made it this far in the show and the only people I remotely ship loki with #are x-5 and the stewardess from episode one 😭 #it’s just like #brad is such a petty asshole and he’s not rly a villain he just values his own freedom/self preservation over everything else #and he doesn’t care if he hurts ppl to maintain it & he lashes out verbally when he feels cornered and he’s sarcastic and glamorous and and #does that remind you of anyone else we know? #brad is literally loki minus a tiny bit of the character growth #I actually love them together #and I hope Brad sticks around and becomes a member of the team #and he and loki end up being besties #gah #brad wolfe #hunter x-5 #loki #loki meta #kinda #Loki series #loki 2x02 #loki spoilers #loki season 2 spoilers #breaking brad

[poisoned-pearls]

you know, Idk if I have to say it, but, cut off those people who drain you. You shouldn’t always have to text first, your friendship shouldn’t end because you stopped talking.

And I know it sucks, that feeling of crippling loneliness. But when shit was absolutely the worst for me, when everything had fucking crashed and burned, I met a few people who finally reminded me what it meant to have someone care, and you’ll get it soon

#This is nothing like what I normally post but like #No genuinely. It fucking sucks and I may have been like #the most depressed I’ve been in my life #Fighting only the time I was with my ex for top place #But like. I’m also getting better. I only text like three people regularly but it’s better than having like #8 people who didn’t give a shit about me #And like #idk I think adhd makes you weak to just #wanting ANY kind of connection because otherwise you become absolutely bored and boredom is painful #The energy drain kills you #Also general red flag in people though I hate using that phrase #If someone won’t let you be in pain #watch out. When I dealt with someone manipulating an old friend into believing I was a horrible person a ‘friend’ slowly got annoyed at me #Trying to deal with it without ever offering help or advice #When someone’s first response to your pain is “oh my god will you shut up about that” they will not care about your pain ever #Also in general. Don’t hang out with straight men who appropriate gay culture #because they’re still like. Patriarchal and sexist assholes with a fake cover #Because Guess what!! When you say homophobic shit but your not gay #your just homophobic!!!!

[white-weasel]

I am staring DIRECTLY at Film Reroll Luke Skywalker watching and anticipating his next move

#film reroll #the film reroll #Tim Nolan you played him so well!!!! #I don’t think this will happen but this version of Luke is one I can kinda see turning to the dark side?? #like think about it. your aunt and uncle are killed. Ben Kenobi tells you it’ll be alright though and that you have the force in you #you can come with him and train to be a Jedi just like your father was #you leave planet and on the way have to put up with this asshole smuggler and even free a serial killer just to get to the rebels #but it’s fine! because once you’re with the rebels you’ll then be able to train with Ben like he’s promised #except you get there and there are two other Jedi candidates. each seemingly better options than you #one is a child who already has pretty good control of the force without anyone telling her how to wield it. #she’s also young and thus full of so much more potential than you #and the other is a woman older than you. but she has so much more life experience. she’s proven herself worthy both to the rebels #and to the force itself. she is strong and basically everything you’re not #but that’s alright too because Ben knows you. of course he’s going to pick to train you!! but then they say your name Skywalker with horror #and you are told about who your father is and how if you are trained and given everything you want you will become just like him #you are evil and violent by nature even though you feel as if you are anything but… except maybe they’re right #because when confronted with this fact your first instinct was to attack an injured man on death’s door #and if Kenobi has his time taken up by training either kahki or Jyn/planning the destruction of the Death Star #Luke is potentially left in a very vulnerable state to stew #I just am foaming at the mouth thinking about it!!!! #(I do feel like Andy will ultimately take Luke in a more redemption/I am not my father by ‘righteous’ sacrifice’ route though #which also has a lot of potential to be delicious)

[icedteaandoldlace]

That's your plan? Do it or you'll Reverse Flash me?

#The Flash #Finish Line #Savitar #Cisco Ramon #Barrisco #(sort of) #Savisco #okay but THE ACTING #the way Cisco looks perfectly calm and almost completely unbothered #but his eyes widen the moment Savitar starts moving his hand toward him #and then on that last shot when we get a close up of his face again you can see the tears forming in his eyes #because he knows better than Savitar exactly what he's being threatened with #and once again it's coming from someone (or at least a version of him) whom he trusts and admires #and he's terrified #but damned if he's gonna give some asshole wearing his best friend's face the satisfaction of seeing him flinch #he just looks him straight in the eyes and stands his ground #because he would rather die—the same way he already did in his most traumatic memory no less—than let a killer become all-powerful #AND THEN LATER IN THE SAME EPISODE HE HAS THE AUDACITY TO SAY HE'S NOT A HERO