#talking too much

[honeycombhank]

I feel as though I talk way too much sometimes.. I want to be balanced in my listening and talking ratio.. I hope that no body today felt as though I wasn’t engaging and listening well, I was so social really and I guess I feel like thinking back I was talking so very very much. Idk do any of you relate to this feeling?

3/6/24

#idk #my thoughts #honeycombhank #healing #talking too much #listen #a good listener #i really do try #listening well #talking #self reflecting #reflection

[fluffyphocks]

muscle

#not how your supposed to draw but its how I do it lol #my biggest thing is “does this convey what I want” and the answer to that is yeah I guess? #talking too much

[sweetsassykitten]

Perfect Response

I have ADHD and when I get passionate or need to explain something, I talk a lot and have lots of side stories/context. Family, friends, and strangers in my past have told me I talk too much or 'just get to the point already'. Probably why I'm so quiet most of the time. I apologize for it a lot but my friends are so patient and reassuring.

So, I was talking to this guy I like, he asked me a question with a complicated answer, and I felt myself overly talking and couldn't stop. When I was done I apologized for talking too much. His response was "you can talk as much as you like, it's my job to filter and sort it."....That is the response I needed, it almost made me tear up. 🥹

Please be patient and kind to people with ADHD or have neurodivergent tendencies. It's not cute and quirky. It can make us self conscious, anxious, it's frustrating, and makes life really hard some times.

#adhd #neurospicy #talking too much #reassurance #i'm not crying you're crying

[dreadark]

posting on tumblr is still so scary.. do I have to structure these… can I not just say incoherent sentence fragments and let people assume what I mean wildly incorrectly… well that would happen even with full sentences I suppose

#SAVE THE GAME #talking too much #but i will be cringe and free aaagh (dying

[autisticdreamdrop]

Life as a undiagnosed autistic child. School was very hard for us. We don't know how we graduated. We were hyperverbal often in elementary and middle school. But we also dealt with selective mutism, and being semi/nonspeaking.

In high school we shut ourselves off. When we were in our special education we barely spoke and when we did it was about our special interests.

Elementary School sucked. Middle School/Junior High sucked. High School sucked.

The guilt for being hyperverbal and not understanding why you couldn't stop talking. Over explaining everything and going on long rants about anime or video games. We hated ourselves for talking. Why couldn't we stop?

Now we know we were hyperverbal. As a kid we were "weird" and "annoying". A lot of our behaviors are explained with our autism. We were diagnosed late (body was age: 18) but it makes sense now.

We don't look at our past fondly. Not school. There's a lot of things we would have changed if we could. We want to talk less. We hate talking. We feel bad for talking. Guilt. We're talking about it in with mental health team.

art - drawn by Shane

art account - @germcore

muse - Shane

👄 - Shane + The Dreamdrop System

#our posts #hyperspeaking #hyperverbal #autism #autistic #autie #asd #late diagnosed autistic #actually autie #actually autism #actually autistic #hyper speaking #hyper verbal #talking too much #oversharing #autism art #autistic art #autistic artist #vent #vent art #vent artwork #vent post #sad #autism spectrum disorder #actually neurodivergent #actually neurodiverse #neurodivergent community #neurodiverse #neurodivergent #neurodiversity

[calamitoustide]

is it a wonder i broke? let’s hear one more joke then we could all just laugh until i cry

#I WAS TAME I WAS GENTLE #TILL THE CIRCUS LIFE MADE ME MEAN #thought of this song a little too much #it is now me actually :/ #i need to get out of this fucking house :/ #i get called mean like daily lol #as if my sister didn’t tell me everyone hated me every day for years #when she was 18! #this wasn’t some childhood shit no no #and yet IM called mean #she gets away with NOTHING #no they just say i’m being too harsh on her #literally i’m so #talking too much #i leave now

[euridise]

first half of december

#the happiest I’ve ever been in Montreal #abundant friendships becoming richer and deeper with every passing day #the strange sorrow of inevitable goodbyes #cosy winter nights at the house of people I love #talking too much #moments of holy intimacy I’m too scared to name #a monstrous crush which consumes my body so deliciously #love is taking over me #diary

[beemintty]

i hate hospitals. i always have. i hate the way they smell. i hate the constant beeping. i hate watching the amount of people sitting in pain or waiting anxiously in waiting rooms. yet you sit there like it's your second home, the noise, the smell, the air, it doesn't seem to bother you at all. you sit there chatting to me about finding the name of your dr while another dr draws blood from your veins as if it doesn't even matter and i can't even look at you. i can't stand being there, but as much as you say, "i know you hate it here, you don't have to stay" i can't stand the thought of leaving you in this place alone. i'm not leaving. you're here in pain, i can deal with a little bit of discomfort. loving you is worth sitting in a hospital for hours.

#thoughts #on life #my thoughts #hospitals #i hate hospitals #poetry #on love #<3 #i love you #sweet bunny #ramblings #talking too much

[fairyhani]

i soooo wanna play project zomboid on a server with ppl but none of my friends play the game and i dont know how to set up a server so i guess i wont be playing it multiplayer any time soon

#project zomboid server #project zomboid #sad #talking too much

[brightest-star2]

growing up is realizing that the authors of your favourite childhood books might actually be shit people

#jkr 🤝 michael ende #the crab raves #it's painful but you gotta push through it #you can still enjoy the good in their content #and (in ende's case at least) recognize that they tried #but still point out that the content is problematic at times AND see where this might come from #authors are products of their time period and environment and sometimes this shows in the way they portray characters #and the vocabulary they use #it's interesting to see but also makes you recognize some of the more questionable choices the author makes #one thing that bothers me though #is those kinds of people who will say that media is racist just because there's racist characters in it? even if they're clearly portrayed #as villains #context is important #in hp for example the racism allegations don't stem from the fact that there's a racist extremism group #it's the fact that racism is deeply ingrained into the status quo of the society #and is not opposed or resolved by the main characters #not portrayed as an issue #that's the problematic thing. not some crazy death eaters #which. please stop glorifying them #talking too much #just something that's on my mind #writing #tw racism #tw jkr mention

[sublimedreamnight]

you know what? shout out to me. shout out to me for being told a hundred times that i talk to much, too loudly, that i should eat my lunch instead, that no one cares, that I'm too much, and not listening to it. shout out to me for not letting it break me

#shout out to me #self love #too loud #talking too much

[stephanneau]

Blabla

Hello everyone,  today I feel like to talk so I’m going to talk with you ! 

First of all, I am very happy because it’s soon my birthday (20th August so not that soon but less than a month to go) and because I have already finished the first part of my art project for the year to come. It’s not really concrete for the moment but I have done a lot of things to make this project work as well as possible (you have to do things like searching inspirational sources...ect). My project is about FF and I love to create things with clay so I made and I’m gonna make some masks (not for covid-19 haha) inspired of their video clips and the first one that I made is Love Illumination because it’s such an inspirational clip for me! If all works great, I will take some pictures and share them on Instagram and here.

Then, I have  questions for you : what’s your favourite song of Franz Ferdinand?

or What’s your favourite song ever?

or What’s the song that you are listening a lot these days?

For me, it’s Love Illumination for the two first questions and this moment I listen a lot to Live Alone (I’m addicted to this band TT)

See you later ! ;)

#alex kapranos #nick mccarthy #paul thomson #bob hardy #julian corrie #dino bardot #audrey tait #franz ferdinand #music #love illumination #im an artist #talking too much

[mansorus]

some people don’t deserve phones …. Like that 😂😭

#art #generationalwealth #phones #talking too much #shut up #why would you say that #ysl #young thug

[moonrpg]

I said mid not bad

#chitchat #this post was an apology to my mutuals for talking about ttyd too much one night and getting embarassed about it. for the curious inquirers

[eosofspades]

i didn't have "i'm broken" teenage asexual angst i had "i'm literally being the only reasonable one about this concept and the rest of you are behaving like fucking freaks" perception issues

#oh the experience of being 13 years old and seeing all my friends talking about wanting to have sex and obsessing over it #and being like 'we are all literally WAY too young to be having sex what the actual fuck are you talking about #why are you even considering it when we have much more important things to worry about. like how much middle school sucks' #you know what though. i still stand by this. that was an entirely reasonable thought to have and i WAS being normal about it #anyway #mine #asexuality

[mysicklove]

“can i be a hater for a second” girl you can kill someone in front of me and id be okay with it be fr

#🔪 - mello talks too much #women supporting women