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hesperidiumsky · 3 months
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Being asexual is just like *teases friend for asking if I have a vibrator* *spirals because what if by teasing them for asking this question I have made it seem as though it is a stupid question to ask any ace person and all ace people have the same relationship to sex that I do*
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muu-kun · 1 year
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Muu unapologetically putting his potential mental breakdown on full pause to admire the fact he really do just love when women.
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Michael Gavey - NSFW Alphabet
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warning : +18, It's getting steamy under the cut
Info : I needed more of this sweet crunchy bar lover so here we have a alphabet and I loved writing it. As always have fun reading ;)
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A = Aftercare (how they are after sex).
°After sex he is either very very affectionate has his hand on his sweetheart, on her breast, her cheek, her side. He just has to touch her to know that he wasn't dreaming that he actually had her next to him. He kissed her all over while offering her a crunchy bar and his eyes would just light up with love and devotion. Like a sweet golden retriever who just wants to adore her.
°,,You were everything...so wonderful...I love you"
°Or he's the "that never happened" kinda guy who doesn't know what to do with his feelings and it's almost like a scandalous relationship in his eyes. But then he would be rather awkward and wouldn't quite know what to do and lie there like a plank but he would still do the praising.
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B = Bodypart (his favorite part of you and them)
°Michael knows he's not an athlete or a rich kid from a family with not much money. But his shirt and khaki pants had their own style. When it comes to his body, it's next to his genius, which is unrivaled and he loves to show off, to see how he's better than his favorite or the other guy. But if he had to choose it would be his eyes and his silver tongue. He loved to watch his favorite, to pay close attention to her reactions when he slept with her. He also knew that she loved his eyes, she always said that she could see his love for her in his gaze every time. A compliment that made him blush. But especially when it came to the nightly bedtime activities with his favorite, it quickly turned out that his sayings also had action. He knew that even if he suffocated between her thighs, he could satisfy her.
°He loves everything. He loves everything about her, everything. He loved the way she looked at him, the way her emotions showed when he interacted with her, loved and adored her. Her hands that clasped his, stroking his cheek and praising his hair. Her soft, shapely breasts that he loved to massage, putting his hand on them or his face. The sounds of her voice, sometimes praising, sometimes arousing, sometimes warning. Her eyes that reflected his lust when they made love, that he saw light up when he made her compliments. When she did the tasks he gave her correctly. She was perfect...but if he had to choose perfectly, it would be her breasts and thighs. He just loves to see the soft skin pressed against the fabric. A short skirt that showed off her legs, a short top without a bra where her nipples pressed against the fabric. Leaving red stripes and kisses on her sensitive skin, all he had to do was touch her. Michael loved it and loved it just as much to take photos of it without her knowing he was her little personal photographer just to give her these photos as a gift in an album.
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C= Cum (anything to do with cum)
°Michael is a little pervert on the inside of course on the outside he is your sterotypical nerd with a weakness for math. But he would and will do anything to get inside her, of course only if his sweetheart lets him. But his imagination was always there when he jerked off to her picture at night, letting his imagination run wild. He almost came when his beloved allowed him to come inside her, he was completely mesmerized to see the viscous liquid running out of her.
°,,Thank you ma'm...that's-it's-it's just so pretty"
°When it comes to his darling's sperm, he's not above anything. He does everything and would do anything to satisfy her, always going to her center and using his silver tongue as often as his darling wants, of course. But even with cum play he doesn't really have a problem, it's just another erotic thing in the whole picture of eroticism for him.
°,,Can you please come again? Please darling I'll make it good yes?
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D = Dirty Secret (self-explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)
°He was the mysterious stalker who had the obsession with her when she came to university. Suddenly, photos of her always appeared in her room, whether in the middle of a lecture, in the cafeteria or outside. Within a few weeks, however, the initial photos of everyday life turned into erotic photos. A photo of her wrapped only in a towel, her breasts clearly visible while getting dressed. Her underwear and T-shirts were stolen, only for them to reappear a few days later with mysterious stains. Michael had almost built up a small shrine to her in his room. Every day, every afternoon and every evening he stalked her verses just to fuck his cock with her panty in the evening. Until all the stalking suddenly ended when the new student got together with the math nerd who stood by her side with math jokes, roses and new t-shirts?
°He would like to try out a role-playing game somehow. Above all, he can't get rid of the idea of the math professor and his student. He had often helped his darling with his homework, he knew math but he just loved to show off his genius. Having his favorite sitting in front of him at one of the desks just to bend her over it to fuck her over her mistakes just to get her to correct her failures knowing that she had done a sloppy job and she had to do the assignments again.
°,,You made a mess out of it...I guess if you want to get your grade back up you'll have to come to me again"
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E = Experience (how experienced are they? Do they know what they're doing?)
°He doesn't really have any experience apart from his imagination, his hand and his pillow which he has always humped. He has read hundreds of books and articles on the whole subject but has no real experience. He once thought of visiting a prostitute only to change his mind and lock himself back in his room and read more about it all. Inside he was just afraid of not being good enough for his partner.
°But just because he has no experience doesn't mean he doesn't know what to do. As awkward as he may seem at first glance, just so overwhelmed by his sweetheart, it turns out that his sharp tongue that always brings the comments home is a true silver tongue. He completely makes up for his excitement and awkwardness with this one and does it more than well.
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F = Favorite position (without saying you know what it's about)
°Cowgirl = He just loves having you in his complete gaze. Watching his heart move her hips, her hair tousled, her gaze full of arousal, her eyes closed and open at the same time, her hands running over his torso, holding on to him and leaving red streaks of ecstasy. It was an alternation of dominance as she either let go of him completely and he had to move his hips himself or she used her muscles to tease him. Or Michael would simply place his hands on her hips and set the tone, driving it on when she could take no more.
°Oral = Not an obvious position but something Michael especially loves to do is just kneel down under her table, between her thighs on the bed or right in the library behind the many bookshelves. He would do anything because he knows exactly how tempting it is for him and her. Michael loves just holding her, his fingers on her hips, pulling her back against him, hearing the sounds she makes before traveling back by his hair.
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G = Goofy (are they more serious at the moment? are they funny? etc.)
°Yes Michael is more the serious type which doesn't mean he isn't nervous every time or just overwhelmed by the thought of sleeping with his sweetheart. He just wants everything to be perfect for him and her like a math formula.
°Which doesn't mean he's not cute because his jokes here and there with his sayings make her laugh which lightens the mood and takes the seriousness out of it.
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H = Hair (how shaved is it? Does the trunk match the apple? ect.)
°Not only a math fanatic but also someone who pays attention to tidiness, Michael shaves his hair every time he goes to the shower, which is not every other day. On the other hand, he would give a completely biology and work-based answer if his sweetheart assured him that she didn't care if he shaved or not.
°Upstairs his light brown sometimes street dog blond hair is more of a dark brown when you look down but it doesn't really bother him and his partner either on the contrary it almost looks cute.
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I = Intimacy (how are they at the moment the romantic aspect)
°Michael is a great romantic, at least when it comes to memorizing and thinking up poems. He has read enough Goethe and Shakespear to know how to flatter a woman. He will adore you, shower his darling with poetic poems and emphasize it with gestures.
°Gestures like kisses, caresses, a light scratching of her skin as a little preview of the little romantic hint of more when he traced the lace of her underwear. Michael Gavey is a little romantic guy who is very keen on this more traditional way of courting and will show up with a rose every time.
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J = Jack off ( mastubation headcanon)
°He was her stalker, of course he would never hurt her, he couldn't. She had him in the palm of her hand without her even knowing it. But initially, before he got her heart, it was like an addiction. On MySpace he had already printed out every photo of her in the bikini theater or any other outfits that even pulled a little skin. He hung them on the wall and the ones that weren't double-sided simply served him as wank templates. He had cds full of her pictures, messages and recordings he had made which he listened to while looking at her picture on his screen, his cock in his hand imagining it was her cunt he was pounding.
°For him, all it took to masturbate was a look from you, a smile, a sagging bra, a short skirt. Michael escaped to the toilet as often as he could during this time to take care of his hardness. He was sure she knew he was doing it, that it only excited him more and that she was just waiting to see him again.
°But even after he gets together with his favorite, he won't be able to get rid of his habits. She still made him hard and this time she was aware of it and loved to use her own hand to tease him this time.
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Kink = (one or more of the kinks)
°Praise kink = Michael even if he knows he is the best needs reassurance in the one thing he is unsure about. Sex. He needs the validation of his favorite, needs to see how good he is when he used his tongue to bring her to orgasm after orgasm. He needs the confirmation that he is good for her his darling when he fucks her his cock is enough.
°,,You are perfect...ah-fuck so good for me my goddess"
°Mommy/Ma'm kink = Initially not wanting to admit that he had something like this, he knew deep inside that he had something like this. That he had two sides, the dominant one where he needed her validation, became her proud plaything and let himself go when she allowed it. As well as the submissive side he loved it when she pulled his hair and just used him because she was allowed to be his mommy's perfect darling.
°,,Ma'm I-I please I'll be good I promise I-I won't come without your permission please mommy"
°Degradation = side degradation is something he and his partner made use of. When she had him under her or he was between her thighs, these nasty side comments were stimulating for both of them. If it wasn't her, then it was Michael who always made his darling blush with his questions and statements.
°,,What's up doll? Mhhh is my schwnaz too much or are you just stupid? Extra stupid for me to discipline you, isn't that right?
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L = Location (favorite place to do it)
°The classic bedroom, at least the one room you all have at your disposal. Which is why it comes down to either his room or that of his favorite. The bed, which is wide enough for both of them, has always been perfect so far. Perfect for riding him so he fucks her in the pillows and sheets and he disappears under the covers to get between her legs.
°The less classic place but his favorite place to study and fuck is the library. The library is big, full of books, tables and chairs, the perfect place to have fun under the tables or in the evenings when no one was there anyway and they had every seat for her. Much to the chagrin of the librarian who suddenly found books on the floor every time.
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M = Motivation (what turns them on)
°Praise = Michael loves to be praised by his ma'm, his goddess, and to be told how good he is, how perfect he feels and how well-behaved he is. It only takes a few words to turn him into a needy pink-cheeked boy.
°,,Say I'm good please? Please ma'm I'm so good"
°Clothes = Michael knows almost every item of his favorite's clothing by heart. He knows every short and long skirt, every t-shirt and top as well as every shirt and dress. He loves it when his heart leaves the first two extra buttons undone to show him which bra he is wearing or not wearing. When he let his fingers wander over the soft fabric just to dive underneath.
°,,Did you put on the extra short skirt for me? Darling I love you"
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N = No (something they wouldn't do, dismissing)
°Threesome/Orgies = Share no. Michael, even if it doesn't look like it, is a pretty jealous person. And something he doesn't like and wouldn't like would be a threesome and/or an orgy. It wouldn't feel good and special to him anymore, he would want to have his sweetheart for himself, the togetherness, the perfection you have developed. He wants to be the one who gets your praise and not someone else.
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O = Oral (preference whether giving or receiving, skill, ect.)
°Michael always wants to give his favorite oral pleasure. He sometimes likes it more than sleeping with her when he can just kiss his way up her legs. He knows that he has a silver tongue knows that his sweetheart can always just use it and he enjoys it. Enjoys it when she pushes him down on his knees, strokes his hair in praise and tells him how good he is when she takes his glasses off his nose and kisses him gently. The smile on her lips made him whimper she was just so beautiful. There was nothing better for him than to serve her through this, because he could be closer to her than ever before and had everything he wanted.
°,,Just let me serve you darling I promise it will be worth it"
°When it comes to getting it, he is a little insecure at first, not because he doesn't want it but because he actually wants it the other way around. His darling kneeling in front of him, she had to tell him a thousand times that it was okay, that she would like to try it. Before the most whimpering and needy sounds escaped him that echoed in the room.
°,,My heart this is-ah fuck god this is unbelievable-I mean you are-fucking unbelievable".
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P = Pace (are they fast and hard? slow and sensitive? etc.)
°Michael will pretty much always go with what his favorite wants. By nature, he can't control himself very well and would rather go for a mix of the two, spoiling her slowly and intimately. Only to fuck her afterwards to pay attention to her words and give her what she wants.
°If his darling wants it differently, he directs her accordingly - it's a game of give and take between the two of them. He gave her what she wanted and she spoiled him with what he was entitled to.
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Q = Quickie (their opinion on quickies, how often etc)
°Michael is not the type for quickies, not that he wouldn't do it for his sweetheart, but for him it's something that has no real appeal. He wants to take his time to enjoy the game and not just do everything so quickly. However, if his darling wants it and he has nothing planned, he would try it at least a few times.
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R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)
°Michael only really starts to experiment with his sweetheart when he gets together with her. Before that he only had himself and his fantasies, but with his girlfriend who was just as keen to experiment as he was and they both started to try out all sorts of things together it only sparked the love between them even further.
°Michael would risk everything if it came down to a moment of swearing. Not only would he give everything for her, but he would risk his entire reputation (which he doesn't really have) at the university to try something with her.
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S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go? how long can they last?)
°Michael can go as long as his sweetheart wants in theory. But when it comes to a romantic evening, two or three rounds are possible if he has eaten his crunchy bar. But if he uses his tongue then the night can go on all the time he doesn't get tired of her pretty body he just wants to give her everything.
°,,One more time? Oh darling, I'll do anything for you"
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T = Toys (do they have toys? do they use them? on their partner or themselves?)
°Blindfold = He loves it when his sweetheart uses the fabric, puts the blindfold on him and he just gives himself to her. When she tells him to get between her thighs and he can only rely on his other senses. Her praise reaches his ears and he just wants to make her feel good even more. He is "at her mercy" and her hands run over his body caressing him, but it can also be the other way around. When he puts the blindfold on her to make her experience with him even better. When he kisses his way down her body and leaves light scratches. It's a night of pampering.
°Paddle/Ruler = The punishment if he was too naughty and didn't listen to his orders then it was time to pull the wood over his body, or he pulled it over her body depending on which of the two wanted what. But apart from hitting and taking care of the red sore skin, they used the toy with the blindfold together. Just more sensations in a more limited field of vision.
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U = Unfair (how they love to tease)
°Michael loves to tease his sweetheart of course this is all just a prelude to the evening but he also knows the more he teases the more his mommy will punish him for it. But when he teases it's usually light touches over her hand up to her breast it's so light it could have never happened. The eyes behind the glasses watching everything, the smirk on his lips when he saw her rubbing her thighs together, trying to get away from him just so he would follow her and not get away from her.
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V = Volume (how loud are they, what sounds do they make, etc.)
°Michael is relatively careful with his volume, especially when it's still daytime and he's always a bit afraid of being discovered. But when they are together in one of the two rooms with the door locked and the curtains closed, he lets out his whimpers, moans and praises. The longer the session between them goes on, the more needy and louder he becomes.
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W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)
°He was completely afraid that his heart would leave him when she found out that he was her stalker. But as he waited with tears in his eyes for a slap or something, the last thing he expected was a gentle touch followed by a tug on his hair strands. It was that evening that they had spent the night
°He would blow all his fuses if he came into his room one day and found his darling there dressed in nothing but his shirts and one of his glasses. It would be the most beautiful thing he had ever seen.
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X = X-ray (let's look under the clothes)
°Under the dark happy trail when it's not shaved off, it's 16cm/6.29921in long and wide enough for her hand to close around it. The tip is definitely a light pink like his cheeks when he gets nervous. As well as some of the veins that are visible when he's aroused.
°He knows he's enough because even though he's not a top athlete, every time he made love to her her sounds, praise and touch were enough for him to know that his body was enough.
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Y = Yearning (how high is the sex drive?)
°Pretty high. The hand, fantasies and images he had were no longer enough. Which is why he was all the more grateful that he had his darling. Of course he respected her needs and praised her all the more and was all the more grateful when she responded to him, because he often wanted to.
°What usually began as daydreams and thoughts quickly turned into something when she saw the dreamy look on his face. When his glasses slipped slightly and his cheeks turned slightly pink. Before she coaxed what he wanted out of him and they both disappeared into the rooms.
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Z = Zzz (how quickly do they fall asleep afterwards)
°Michael Gavey is a precise guy when it comes to times, when he studies and also when he sleeps. He usually falls asleep very quickly, but he will always always always always find time for his darling. He runs his fingers through her hair, takes her hand and kisses her goodnight. He takes time to enjoy even the last moments and make them as pleasant/romantic as possible.
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hangeslefteye · 1 year
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What does your favorite Aot boy tells me about you/your romantic preference????
 100% shitpost,I'm no therapist feel free to disagree.Before scrolling down try to pick 1-2 of your fave(I know it's hard D:) +I ranked them from my fave to least.
REİNER:You just want to be held,comforted and appreciated.You seriously don't want any drama and rather share some sincere,deep emotions.You really appreciate when a man shows their vulnerable side and open with you.Just as you would appreciate a man's tears you'd also appreciate their strong masculine presence.Which you definitely seek some HEALTHY masculinity in a s/o as this makes you feel safe and loved.Also you want big boy hugs that will comfort you.
PORCO:You are most likely to have a mean flirting style but you are still chill and don't want any real fights in a relationship as you get heartbroken easily .You love it when someone keeps you on your toes without being a real asshole.This gives you healthy sexual tension.Overall you want fun, love and passion at the same time.You are KİNDLY playful yet emotionally intense.You hide your feelings with sarcasm A LOT.
JEAN:You are also a very emotionally intelligent person but you might be a little bit of a hopeless romantic.You love the thrill of being in love and anything that comes with it.You still appreciate cliche/cheesy romantic gestures.At love you might be slightly masochistical and platonic yet very adoring.You have big simp tendacies and you are dreamy.When you love,you love beautifully.Literally aesthetically.You live your love like an old romance movie which might come off fake or shallow to others but actually you internalize it A LOT.
ZEKE:You are mentally fcked up.You should seriously go see a real therapist rather than trying to cope up with dark humour.You might get attracted to slightly older and dominant men.You are pursuing a toxic love life that's dangerous.You have an apetite for toxic masculinity and controlling behaviour.You do this 100% on purpose because enjoy it and not by mistake but this can be risky.You LOVE mind games and get bored from anything soft hearted.After all what is love to you without a pinch of manipulation?
CONNİE:You are the most relaxed and down to earth person ever.It's important for you to be friends with your romantical interest because relationships just feels easier and more fun like that.You really want to be able to talk about EVERYTHİNG going on in your life unfiltered.Obvious flirting might make you feel uncomfortable as you prefer to keep it playful and soft hearted.Also you want your love interest 7/24 around you but not in a clingy way.That's why a somewhat childish friendly love charms you.
EREN:You like sterotypical toxic romance.The type where couples punches walls,screams and throws things.You think this is passionate and you love your men a little problematic.You are slightly masochistical and want some drama.You also feel things deeply and somewhat hot headed.You might have an interesting urge to cling onto emotionally unavailable men.Angry sex is possibly your way of emotional bounding.
ARMİN:If you like Armin because he's so calm and kind and sympatic etc. Sorry to say,you are a little bad at reading people.Because in reality he is quite capable of heavy manipulation and hide it behind his angel face.On this matter maybe he's even more dangerous than Zeke.If you realised this but he's still your favorite then you too love mindgames and passive agressive drama in a relationship.You think intelligence and sophistication is the sexiest thing about a love interest.You love subtle manipulation fights in a relationship.
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acourtofthought · 6 months
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I'm not sure how long Elain and Graysen were together before they slept together but Feyre left the human lands and was UTM for 3 months. The sisters were made at the end of book two which was 7 months after that but Elain slept with Graysen for the first time 1 month before. And we have confirmation of Elain's engagement 40% of the way through MAF. So I'm guessing we can say with some certainty that Elain knew Graysen for at least 5 months before they slept together? Maybe more?
We also know through Nesta in SF that while in the human lands, they handled matters with a certain primness so I imagine Elain and Graysen's courtship was a tad formal with him being on his best behavior for most of it. Even when they did sleep together, it was customary of that era to treat your wife with a level of respect that you wouldn't of say, a mistress or harlot.
Elain and Az met for the first time while she was in the human lands. There is zero evidence that he was physically drawn to Elain at that time.
Even when he sat with her in the gardens or lent her Truth Teller, there is no evidence of physical attraction between the two (she called either his scars or siphons beautiful, not Azriel himself) therefore we still have no evidence that there was any sort of real attraction. Not like we have confirmation of with Az for Mor.
I'd say their mutual attraction sparked for the first time around Solstice (maybe for Elain a bit sooner considering Az was still looking at Mor with yearning) but regardless of when it happened, all they shared after was looks and the occasional brush of their fingers. All very PG stuff. Probably what Elain experienced in the human lands with Graysen.
So 10 / 11 months of knowing Az before there was anything that made it clear he might have interest in her in that way. In his POV we do get confirmation that he's been staring at his headache powder since the last Solstice but he mentions nothing of having feelings for her prior to that.
So Elain has had two possible love interests who were very "proper" in her presence. I'm sure Graysen wanted to hook up with her the second he saw her (he was a young male, it's not hard to make that assumption) but I don't imagine he let on that fact. I imagine he adhered to the standards of their societal expectations. And Az wasn't losing his mind over after first meeting her, he was fixated on Mor and even when he shifted some of the attention off Mor onto Elain, it was very subtle.
Is it not likely then, that Elain pulls back from Lucien because of how palpable his desire for her is, even from the start? Lucien controls it as best he can but we see him gripping chairs while reigning in his instincts. We see him accidently have a snarl / growl slip out. Cassian and Feyre can both see the longing on his face (which means Elain can too, she can probably feel his longing).
To Elain, Lucien Vanserra is basically the sterotype of the good Catholic girl being exposed to the definition of someone literally dripping with sex with his want for her as it's all over his face and I think she's a bit ashamed at how much she's drawn to that. I don't think she's ever felt someone's desire for her with the intensity she feels from Lucien and I think she's trying her damnedest to hold onto the "human primness" she was raised on as it's one of the final links to her humanity.
But every time Lucien is around, it becomes harder and harder to hold on to do so which is most likely why she shrinks into herself when he's near.
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let-me-be-or-perish · 5 months
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sarah j maas cannot write.
she created this weird standars in fanatsy literature and in romance that if you're not a sexually active straight white woman you feel like you're back in the 1800 century.
the way than that female characters are treated both by the men, or should i say males? and the fandom is disgusting.
but i kind of get why the fandom treat them like that, she was the one that make them seen like that.having no agency at all.
and she pushes this old and dateted ideology of women that instead of use that as a lent to show how women till now have been seen and live is seen as a stadnard, something that should be idolized and wanted. when it's not.
for her a women can be only stong if she pick up a sword, fight and it's rude, but at the same time are so recessive and submessive to their male mates and ready to be nothing in orther to be with him
becuse of that women then, women who does not fit this mold are seen as less, they are not women.
maybe, her problem is that she doesn't understand women.
not every women has the same dreams as others,but that doesn't mean that are less important.
strenght can be found not only in physicality, but in being gentle and caring, intelligence, wanting to have a family, by blood or not.
for a woman wating to have children shouldn't be seen as dreadful as it seem, there is nothing wrong with that.
but again, her execution of it is really questionable, making you hate soemthing like that
her ideology is that for a woman, the only way to reach an happy ending is: findning a male, marry, have tons and tons of sex till you're pregnant and then becaming a shadow of yourself; becuse once you're pregnant and have a baby, you can't do anything greater anymore. leeaching to her male mate, making him look even greater
happiness doesn't always mean that, being coupled up and with children.
there, this enter a really harmful sterotype.
women who watns to live quiet lives, creating a family.
there are sapphics that don't end up with men, them and other women who doesn't what to have children, cannt have them, so they relay in other ways to create a family.
there are women who don't want to settle down, not wanting to be confined in a relationship, wheather is it out of sexuality or want.
and then aromatic, asexual and demisexual people that i assume she cannot even phantom the exsitence, same goes for non-binary and trans folks.
some, who are confident in themselves, that are sexually active, but not in relation of a relationship, but becasue they want and can do it. that then are not painted as monsters for it.
another thing that she doesn't understand is indipendency and emancipation. all of her female characters are strong, not because they have real strenght because we are told that they are, they never show us this "strenght", they never anything by themselves, wather is it powers or titles, or anything at all; because they're always given to them; usually by a man. so are they actually indipendent?
she only see white and straight, that well, as a fantasy autor is ridiculous.
for sarah, females are only used as a tool to make the males stand out, to make the males the greatest characters. she does not tell stories about the empowerment of women, she tells stories about males though females eyes.
now to the males.
they are the worst male characters ever.
toxic and abusive, but this behaviors are excused and cheered, not frown and seen as what they are.
this males do not posses any flawas, they're perfect. i get that they are faes but at least give them layers to feel like they are more humans, in the sense of tangilbe creatures that you'll really believe to exist, that are three dimensional and not only walking dicks. beautiful walking dicks with six packs.
give me a reason to believe on why they would act that way, why they would say those things, but don't find a way to excuse when they do soemthing wrong, let them be in the wrong and find a way to be redeemed if they need to be it.
let some males be less leaning on the toxinc masculinity, and more in the normal. there is no need to fit in this category to be seen as a men, a real one.
like there are many different ways to be a women there are differnt ways to be a men.
and the whole age gap being centuries? why? i trulty cannot grasp why someone would actually enjoy that. it's so weird, especially given that her characters don't really act like their given age but like horny teenagers, so why make them this old if she cannot understnd how to write immortlity and how someone taht age would act?
but then the dynamics, because she created such big gaps between them are so iffy and weird; and actually disgusting.
then, she really ableist. those things cannot and should not be cured with magic.
create a magic system/a world that value them more, that make them accepted.
the treatment given to pocs and queers is utterly disgusting and unecessary. the pocs all die and the queers are trown there only to get the "diversity" point.
again, everything could be solved, she has the possibility to. if only she did wanted that.
she is a rinomated author, she as the means and the possibility to make her books enjoyable for everyone.
she doesn't know how to write poc? she doen't know how to write queer people? yes, every attempt that she did was disastrous, but again the internet is there for everyone and she could always pay to have beta readers; again she has all the means to do it, the thing is, she doesn't want to.
and her books are put on a pedestol as peak literature, setting a standard. when in fact are actually less than mediocre.
but she could better, if she undertood her strengths and relayed on them.
if she wanted to write fantasy erotica, then she sould have directy went with that and not try to hide that as a fanatsy or romantasy, becuse they are not.
this is full on erotica.
to end all of this long ass thread.
manon was lesbian, and is a crime that she ended with a men. if you love them, then you're a lesbophobe. elide was there, and so were the 13.
chaol was gay, and should have ended up with dorian.
feyre sucks as protagonist, she does not posses a defined personality, changing solely for plot purposes. she doesn't have personal goals nor wants, everything is given her. is extremly annoying becuse extremly entitled, making everything about her; not seeing that other were suffering too, at times directly from her hands too. she was supposed to be pragmatic, showing a different kind of intelligence, but she showed the lack of any type of it. getting excused for things that shouldn't be excused. acting all highty and mighty when she is nothing, she has nothing and know nothing. she's probably one of the worst female characters written, being extremly flimsy and insufrable and annoying.
nesta, didn't deserve to be treated like that, she was wrong, yes, but all of those who pointed their finger at her did so much worse, and she at the end was only harming herself not others. and she was suffering.
elaine too was suffering, but in all of that she stayed strong for herslef and for others. she screamed in silence. she was ready to give an hand but everyone pushed that way. you can reach to someone only if they want to be reached. she could do great things if they only let her. even if in pain and suffering she was ready to help, putting others needs before her own, but you cannot resent her for wanting to keep a tiny part, to be even for a bit selfish.
feyre and rhys sucks at rulers, for her it makes sense, she learned how to read two months ago, she is no position to rule, especially from a title that she doesn't deserve. while for him, well, well.
tamlin didn't deserve the treatment he recived by both everyone and the fandom. he was bad, becuse sjm made him bad. making him out of character. but that's a normal thing for her, so it doesn't matter. if you hate him, you cannot stand him, that you should feel the same about rhys and feyre, especially becuse they were so much worse then he was.
lastly, elain should have actually ended with rhys, he would have changed for her, she would have understood him, but she wouldn't have sit there letting him do things that she didn't approved of. overall they would have been much better, he would helped her coming out of her shell and she would have toned him down. they would have actually bulit a relationship by comuticating, bulding trust and understanding; not relaying solely on flirting and sex, and calling that a relationship. she would have respected the fact that he was tramautized and would have waited for him, being here to listen, not rushing him in physical things. he would have learned to appriacte more tiny things and gestures; she would have learn to ask more that what was given her, what she deserves.
azriel and nesta should have ended respectivly with a man and a woman, someone that could have understood and appriciated them. cassain should have ended alone and ferye should have died in the first book.
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Chris sturniolo -focus
Pairing -domChris x British reader fem
Summary -When you decide to show your boyfriend you favourite British show , he gets bored and decides to test how good you can focus .
Warnings - smut , swearing , fingering, unprotected sex, p x v intercourse , slightly Dom Chris ,Dirty talking ,bulge kink , cream pie , praising,multiple orgasms.mentions of spanking , mentions of rough sex , mentions of masturbation. Thats all I think let me know guys if I've missed anything.
Author note -use of y/n , first person and not proofread .
Word count -2k
"Chrisss it's starting" I shout to my boyfriend of 1 year , dragging out his name while he leaves his bathroom and makes his way over to the bed."I don't get why you love this show so much ain't it just about people baking" he replies to me as he lifts the thick blue quilt up so he can get into bed , allowing the cold air to hit my side I'm instantly overwhelmed by warmth as Chris lays beside me ."oh no it's so much more then just people baking , it's a competition , it's entertaining and most importantly it's funny when things go wrong" I say with overenthusiastic excitement describing my favourite show ' the great British bake off' ."sounds like it's even more sterotypically British then you are , what are they going to do in the breaks eat fish and chips with the queen" he says with a awful fake British accent laughing "babe the queen is dead" I say shocked by his choice of words "oh shit yeah" he says linking an arm around my waist as i roll onto my side facing the laptop , I feel Chris make himself comfortable behind me spooning me from behind with my back against his chest .I press play on the screen.
The theme song starts to play and I do my basic girl thing ofo doing a happy little dance eating a deep chuckle from Chris ."you and this show I'm starting to think you love it more then you love me" he whispers in my ear giving me a quick kiss onto my neck."hmmm possibly" I say with a smirk on my face winding him up .*wack* "oh really" Chris says smug as he smacks my ass i can almost hear the smirk in his voice.Resulting in a squeal and laugh from me .We watch the first quarter of the show in a comfortable silence as the adverts start I hear a sigh from Chris as his deep breath hits the back of my neck causing me have instant goosebumps.
He shuffles behind me so that his head is higher up then mine , bits of his hair tickling my cheek "you know what" he says with his voice in a deep whisper I can't help but feel butterflies in my stomach ."you look so beautiful right now" he says kissing my forehead .I feel my face get hot as I blush at his compliment " good job it's dark in here or you'd see me looking more red then a embarrassed lobster but thank you , you look beautiful too" I move my head so that I can reach his lips and I meet them with a light kiss , that both Chris and I smile into .We hear the show begin again so we both draw our attention back to it .
*5 minutes later*
We're still silent as we continue to watch the show when I feel Chris hand move under the waistband of the grey joggers of his that Im wearing, I try to focus on his laptop but the feeling of Chris's rough hands against the peachy flesh of my ass is slightly distracting."hmmm you're so warm mama" Chris talks into my ear more to himself then me.He rubs my ass cheek with his hand and I get deja vu from last time his hand rubbed my ass was last week when he caught me touching myself, Chris decided to teach me a lesson by spanking me and rubbing my ass to sooth me ."I must be that hot " I joke to him pretending to flick my hair , earning a laugh from him .I feel his hand start to move over my hip and close to my exposed core , causing me to let a small whimper of anticipation earning yet another laugh from chris."what are you doing y/n?" He whispers into my ear so innocently as if he doesn't know what he's doing .I keep my mouth shut knowing that the next noise that falls out of my mouth would be a moan ."answer me baby girl" chris says in a demanding tone ."trying to focus" i say through a breath to him ."shall we see how good you can focus mama" he says seductively "what do you me-" im cut off when his hand lands on my pussy with a quick smack."keep focusing on the laptop baby girl and you can cum and if you dont well take a wild guess who isn't coming tonight" He says to me finishing his sentence with another wack to my pussy , I nod my head signaling to chris that i understand."good girl" i hear him say as his fingers move up and down my slit getting coated in my juices ."so wet for me already and ive barely touched you" chris says causing a moan to fall out of my mouth .
"Please Chris , please" I say between breathless moans ."awe what is it baby" he says to me in a mocking tone "please just so something" I respond "well since you asked so nicely" he says in the same mocking tone as his fingers find my clit rubbing in quick circles I throw my head back against his shoulder as the instant ecstacy builds with every move of Chris's fingers "remember focus baby else you're not cumming tonight" he reminds me as my legs start to quiver around his hand."fuck..." I moan out closing my eyes thankfully that Chris was still behind me else he would of reminded me again to focus ."you're so good Chris" I squeal out "look at you already on the brink of cumming and I've not even went inside of you yet" I hear Chris say , sounding distant as I feel my release coming fast "please Chris please I need to cum I'm gonna cum" I say throw pants and moans ."go on baby be a good girl and cum" he says into my ear as his fingers move faster then they was previous as I feel my release overwhelm my body as I'm left a shaking , moaning mess while Chris continues rubbing my clit as he helps me ride through my orgasm ."so good mama , you look so pretty when you cum" he says as he pauses his movements "you're so pretty you're going to do it again " he continues all the attempt of focus has gone out the window as one of Chris's arms reach over me slamming the laptop shop his fingers that are still rest on my clit dives straight into my pussy as he pushes one into earning a instant moan " so tight baby even after I've already made you cum once you're tight" he says to himself more then me as he pushes a second finger in , plowing me he starts of deep and slow as his pace speeds up .The sound of my pussy wetness filling the room , Chris's fingers move so fast and so deep I can hear him talk to me but no words make sense I can't even place words myself I just have moans and whispers falling from my mouth as my second orgasm of the night builds up faster then the first one did ."so wet baby I can feel you clenching around me , do you wanna cum girl" he asks me hypothetically "yes god yes please Chris can I cum" the words leave my mouth in a embarrassing whining sound.Chris uses his spare hand to spread my shaking thighs as they try to close around his fingers , "gotta stretch you out ready to take my cock" I hear him says as he places a third finger into my wet pussy .He fingers go deeper and faster curling to touch my gspot as i throw my head back again as swear words, moans and Chris's name repeatedly falls out of my mouth as i cum for the second time tonight .Again he doesn't stop his actions until my body goes limp against his .He pulls his fingers out of me as i hear him sucking my juices off , i move around in his arm so i could face him when im greeted with his lust filled blue eyes staring into my dazed ones as he sucks his fingers clean of my juices .
"You good baby girl" he asks me I nod my head in agreement to him ."good cus you're gonna do it one more time " he says as he rolls me over already taking my jogging bottoms off."Chris I don't know if I can" I say tiredly to him "you can baby just one more time , cum around my cock let me fill you up mama " he whisper to me grabbing my chin so he can move my head so that I look at him ."okay" I say to him "I wanna watch you cum again" he says as he holds me legs up and open and rest the head of his dick at my entrance before he thrusts in stretching me perfectly, we both let out moans , with our mouths open and staring into each others eyes. He starts thrusting into , fucking me mercilessly .I feel his cock go deeper inside of me I move my hand over to my stomach when I feel a bulge it's Chris dick he's so deep inside of me that he's actually made a bulge in me ."feel this" I say to him between moans as I grab Chris's hand and move it over to where he dick is making itself well known in me."fuck im so deep in you" he said still holding my face so our mouths are touching as we speak were that close .
Chris never slack in his movement as he continues to thrust into me at a inhumane speed , I'm left almost screaming against his mouth showing the Chris that I'm near my release."you're shaking baby" Chris states with a smirk as his hand that is still holding my leg up reaches further up and rubs my already over sensitive clit fast and nearly coming " keep your eyes on me baby , I wanna see your pretty face when you cum on my cock" he says and that's all that it takes for me to release myself over him "good girl such a good girl" he says to me as he helps me ride out my final orgasm ."please Chris" I say to him as my body is exhausted after my orgasms Chris shows no mercy and continues to fuck me relentlessly "what baby" he says in the same mocking tone from earlier "cum Chris please fill me up I want to feel your load" those last few dirty words are all that is needed as its chris time to moan into my mouth as i feel his long hot strings of cum coat my walls .He stills and pulls out of me leaving us both a panting mess as he kisses my now sweaty forehead "im so proud baby , you took me so well".are the last words i hear chris say before i fall asleep with my head against his chest .
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hihi- how can I better support other aro and/or ace people when I myself am the aroace stereotype? I’m romance & sex repulsed, autistic and quite a few stereotypical “childish” traits associated with it, not interested in shipping, and even afab! I feel like I get much less of the brunt of aphobia due to my sterotypical traits and dunno how to better understand others difficulties
Hey there!
Don't worry about it. You may see yourself as a stereotype but in all honestly, aspec is one of those identities that so far doesn't really have a stereotypes due to our limited representation in media.
the only suggestion i have for you is to read about other aspecs experiences and simply respect everyone.
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ellis-ofwoolworth · 2 years
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men have two moods and they're 'trying not to cry because you're an emotionally repressed man who was brought up under unhealthy sterotypes due to the times that you lived in and the sex you were born as' and 'hot'
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pinkiepie20000 · 3 months
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Tje amount of men I see on this app making Arlecchino into their submissive waifu or whatever is genuinely baffling like PLEASE look at this woman and tell me she's not a lesbian. I'm SICK and TIRED 💔‼️‼️
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Arlecchino kisses women end of discussion 🫶
you are literally so right 😔😔 nit only does she kiss women, she kisses ME. that woman looks like she makes the look of disappointment that your mom gives you in the store after yoh start actin up. like how can anyone look at her and go "heh.. yeah.. that's my little soft uwu waifu rught there 🤓!" like does she not kill people... is she not called insane by other harbingers.... like wdym "she definitely gives the best head!" if she were to give you head it'd be the decapitated head of your grandpa?? like im SICK and TIRED. of seeinv people mischaracterize EVERY SINGLE ONE of the female characters in ANY anime, game, or literally anything?? like raiden, even if she does pull a swordnout from her tits, i still think its pretty weird people call her booba sword like SHUT UPPPP your parents DONT love you AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!! like her lore is something i love considering how it is and the fact people ignore the fact the raiden ei hadn't seen the world jn over 500 years, so obviously everything is going to be different, so of course she'd be oblivious to the current world, they make her seem like some clueless waifu or some shit, and i hate the word waifu because of these people, like why not just say wife? do you have to say waifu? do you have to be weird? theres so many characters they always water down and i dont get why?
like eula, she's a genuine knight, she technically kills people, and she has a deep history with her familys past, so i just wished people would focus on what the characters good traits are, like not their boobs, ass, thighs, or basically all of that, j wish they could focus on how her childhood was and how it lead her to be the way she is now? people hate her because of her family
and shenhe too, she's actually really good lore wise. i think the fact the only thing holding her back from slaughtering someone are those red ropes is really cool, and the fact her dad treated her like that and how he thought she was curse or something, but NOOOOOO. FAN SERVICE. it ruins everything.
i could go on abt this and i WILL.
not only them, lisa too, the fact her vision is fake and she doesn't even get to live her full life is cool? like wtf?
CLORINIDE OR WTV. isnt she like a cop or smt idk but either way its crazy how she actually does a lot of near death shit and people still think she's not who she is
nit only is that an issue with women, its an issue with men too.
most of the time its ALWAYS. sterotypes, like big men, they get turned into these big, possessive, sex hungry dudes when in reality its fucking NEUVILLETTE. like no he wouldn't make you ride it till gr back breaks hed braid yr hair or some shit then go talk with melusines or wtv? same with wriothesley, hes a cool guy, he owns a prison and hes nice to the prisoners
i sound like a fucking nerd rn wtf
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arctic-fox-queer · 7 months
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A talk on "xènosatanism" by a theistic satanist
Due to xènosatanisms nature there is a massive trigger warning for talks of pro child abuse material and things of that nature i have no idea if theres a better way to word this warning feel free to tell me and ill edit it its nowhere near descriptive just mentions it.
I do want to have this talk be from a more neutral standpoint or atleast not use insults along with actual points and to do that i need to have a small rant to let my anger out so if you dont want to read insults for whatever reason skip to where it says rant over. I am also using the carrd definition of xènosatanism as i am unaware of any recoin
Xènosatanists piss me the fuck off, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SATAN AND THE SYMBOL OF SATAN. I usally find the "fetus eating satanist" sterotype funny because of how ridiculous it is and that some actually believe it but this "xènosatanist" bullshit is just plain insulting and people actually use this? I'm using the xènosatanist carrd definition if there is a recoin that isnt absolutely revolting that i have missed then feel free and tell me. Fuck you, satan whether he is a deity or just a symbol to you would spit in your face there is no acceptance for those who want to have child abuse material legalized and whatever the fuck else you want legalized that involves lack of consent.
RANT OVER
Satanism is a big umbrella especially because theres a theistic side and a atheistic side, i dont feel like explaining the differences and definitions but im going to be using the satanic bible as a example on why "xènosatanism" is nowhere close to satanism and is a mockery. Here is the free archive of the satanic bible its a interesting read regardless of if you are a satanist or not i recommend it if you are bored and want to read something. Regardless of what kind of satanism you look at the basic "morals" of satanism said in the satanic bible are also usally found in other satanist practices, im also using the satanic bible because of how personal satanism often is there isnt many "guidebooks" like the satanic bible. I specifically want to go to page 34 (using the archive no idea if its different in a physical copy of the book) here are the 2 quotes i think are important
"Satanism encourages any form of sexual expression you may desire, so long as it hurts no one else"
And this other paragraph lower on the page
"Aside from the foregoing exceptions, the Satanist would not intentionally hurt others by violating their sexual rights. If you attempt to impose your sexual desires upon others who do not welcome your advances, you are infringing upon their sexual freedom. Therefore, Satanism does not advocate rape, child molesting, sexual defilement of animals, or any other form of sexual activity which entails the participation of those who are unwilling or whose innocence or naivete would allow them to be intimidated or misguided into doing something against their wishes."
Xènosatanism DIRECTLY violates this and theres no need for xènosatanism in the sense of sex liberation because satanism already has that!!! Like the satanic bible specifically has rituals where sex stuff is the primary thing! Xenosatanism (note the lack of è) really should be for those with a really personal satanist practice that doesnt really fit current satanism labels. Or a satanist that might work with other deities not typically associated with satanism (usally a omnist satanist). I have no idea if xenosatanism was its own thing and thats why xènosatanists have the è or if its purely aesthetic reasons.
Also if it wasnt clear xènosatanists should block me unless they are using some kind of recoin of the label that im unware of (if thats the case point me in the direction of the recoin please). Also i might reclaim xenosatanism if there isnt a recoin.
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slasher-male-wife · 1 year
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Slashers with an s/o who is taller than them
I saw someone else do this awhile back so I thought I too would do this for the shorter slashers. I myself am a very short man and I am often thinking about how tall slashers are compared to me and I started to wonder if the roles were reversed. I'm also doing this because I feel comfortable enough to break away from the sterotypical reader. But I chose some shorter slashers for this just because I feel like it's more realistic that someone reading this is like 6'2 than them being over 6'9. But you never know. So to make a base for how tall I'm saying the reader is I'd put it at 6'0 minimum.
Includes: Herbert West, Lester Sinclair, Billy Lenz, Corey Cunningham, and Og Michael Myers
Warnings: Slashers being a little mean, disscusions of insecureties, mentions of other people being rude, some mentions of an afab reader but for the most part reader is completely gn, brief murder mention in Michael's section
Herbert West
He's below average height for a cis man by two inches but he honestly doesn't mind that too much. He's been teased about his height before but if he's being honest he's never taken it to heart.
He is trans and he did used to feel very dysphoric about not being as tall as cis men but he quickly realized that cis men can be short too and that he doesn't have to be super tall to be a valid man.
As for you being five or more inches taller than him he doesn't care too much but might get annoyed if he has to call you in so you can grab something off a high shelf or for you to do something for him that he can't do.
If you're afab than he'll talk about how cool he thinks it is that you're so much taller than average for American afab people. He'll go on about how in nature it's typically the larger sex that holds more power because of sexual dimorphism.
He's just trying to say that he sees you as a strong person who can do great things in his weird Herbert autistic way.
Lester Sinclair
Compared to his brothers and most other cis men he's short. He's 5'6 and a little ashamed of it. I feel like he thinks that he can't live up to his brothers in his parents eyes so he's just internalized a lot of hatred for his height.
He doesn't let it effect him too much now because he makes up for it in his strength. I know he looks skinny but he has to be secretly buff to be able to throw a deer a decent distance.
Now he like Herbert won't super mind the difference in height but he won't appreciate you making jokes about it or him having to admit that he's a lot shorter than you.
After a few months of dating he'll open up about how he doesn't feel super masculine and how you being so much taller than him makes him feel weaker in a way. I'm sure with comforting he'll work on unpacking a lot of those feelings and hopefully will move on from it.
But if you're insecure about your height he'll be surprised about it. He understands if it makes you feel less feminine but he'll talk about how a lot of beautiful feminine people and women are tall too. He'll mostly talk about models and athletes but he's still trying.
If his brothers ever poke fun at you for being tall he'll be quick to defend you. But if you're taller than all of them I'm sure them being mean won't be a huge problem.
Billy Lenz
Billy really first noticed your height when he first saw you. He'd probably mention how tall you are and call you a "Big piggy" or something to go along with your height.
Billy is also 5'6 so he's below the average height of a cis man. But he doesn't super care because like with Lester he's probably secretly buff. He has that random autism strength thing that some people get.
But when you finally meet face to face you might be a little surprised to find that Billy is shorter than you. I feel like he can handle a little ribbing about how short he is compared to you. But if you go too far with it he'll probably call you mean.
Will steal your clothes and wear them. Especially if you force him to shower and wash his clothes. How the girls in the sorority didn't smell Billy from miles away I'll never know.
Corey Cunningham
Corey is at the average height for cis men. He's pretty secure in his height but I feel like he's insecure about other parts of himself. I know for sure his mother (rest in piss) has drilled so many insecurities into his head.
But when he meets you he's no noticing how "short" he really is. He's close in height to Michael but having someone who's well above average height around him all the time will kinda make him feel bad. If you're a fem presenting person too he'll feel even worse about it because he has issues with his masculinity (totally not self projecting here at all)
He'll keep this to himself but will eventually open up about it to you and this is probably a moment you'll really see how bad his mental health is. Him talking about this with you will lead to lots of physical affection and maybe some crying on his part.
Please tell him that his height is perfectly fine and that he's not less of a man for being "short". Because 5'9 isn't actually short.
Over time, with your help he'll feel a lot better about his height. Just don't really tease him too much about you being taller than him.
Michael Myers
Even if you are just 6'0 and only two inches taller than him he'll be salty about it. He feels less like menacing or scary because he can't tower over you and intimidate you.
He'll probably soak up being taller than you when you're sitting or on your knees doing something while he's standing.
If you tease him at all he's going to get violent. Not to you but you'll probably hear about a 5 person massacre on the news later that night, so don't tease him about his height at all.
Eventually will learn to deal with the fact that you're just taller than him but will still be a little salty and will want you to be sitting down or lower yourself when he's in a bad mood.
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ruthlesslistener · 1 year
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Oh to be wl... have a tiny none gender husband that you can carry like a cat...
I'mma be honest with you, the core part of Wyrmroot that makes me love the ship so much is how they look like they'd be the sterotypical heterosexual version of what a bug relationship might be (well, sterotypical heterosexual in human terms, the bug standard is just 'smaller male to very fertile female'), but the more you look at them, the more you realize that that is not the case at ALL. They're just joint cosplaying mortal relationships for fun. The White Lady is a vast plant-fungus sorta being that is manoevering an avatar that might be telepathically linked to a network of root-mycellium that stretches all over Hallownest. She has no connection to the concept of the female gender or sex- she chooses to lean into it specifically because she finds mortals amusing, at least for a little while. Also, explaining the 25,000+ sex variances thing she might have gotten from her shroom side would be too much work. The Pale King, on the other hand, is about as socially obtuse as a fucking rock, but he wants very very badly for the bugs of Hallownest to find him an effective and capable ruler, so sure, he'll take whatever gender tags that they put on him, and if that means finding new ways to court WL, then that's just a bonus. Same with being small enough to be picked up and carried by Big Wife. They're total fuckin weirdos and I love them ur honour
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pumpkzsafeplace · 5 months
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anon answers (anti bullying diaries) : the different types of bullying.
as we know, i was going to the anti-bullying week before i had my really bad meltdown :<,
but i think it's too important to forget so i'm going to do a little anti-bullying series <3.
credit; link 🩵
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when people think of bullying, they think of the sterotypical name calling & whispers. however, nowerdays, bullying is too common in today's society. it's too normalise to pick on someone for being different, or being too enthusiastic on a specific subject.
heres a little breakdown of all the different types of bullying people can go through to help bring awareness! <;3.
(if you are currently getting bullied or have been bullied in the past, just know that you're not alone okay? i went through it for a long time- you will beat them in the end & you will have that peaceful life you're dreaming off! we're with you & support you 100%)
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Physcial Bullying 🌨️
includes: hitting, spitting, beating up, stealing, shoving and damaging property.
physcial bullying is when one indiviudal physcially assaults/ or causes harm to another with the intent of hurting/upsetting them. like above, you can see that there are many different forms of physcial bullying- howvever all of their outcomes add up to the same thing.
❀•°❀°•❀ Verbal Bullying ❄️
includes: name-calling, mocking, hurtful teasing, insults, slurs, humiliating or threatening someone, racist comments, or sexual harassment.
bascially anything that is verablly said (whispered or not) with the intention of hurting somebody else.
❀•°❀°•❀ Social Bullying 🌨️
includes: rolling your eyes or turning away from someone, excluding others from the group, getting others to ignore or exclude, gossiping or spreading rumours & setting others up to look foolish.
this is one of the most common types of bullying to happen in school, and it's usually used as a humilation tactic to single out an individual or make them feel utterly worthless.
❀•°❀°•❀ Cyberbullying ❄️
includes: the use of email, cell phones, text messages, and internet sites to threaten, harass, embarrass, socially exclude, or damage reputations and friendships.
with the recent popularity of social media, cyberbullying is on the rise quickly & get more deadlier by the day. nowerdays, it's not as simple enough to ignore and block individuals- new profiles can be made, even some websites can be created in certain situations.
more needs to be done surrounding cyberbullying as it's often badly overlooked and not taken as seriously as the others.
❀•°❀°•❀ Racial Bullying 🌨️
includes: treating people badly because of their racial or ethnic background, saying bad things about a cultural background, calling someone racist names or telling racist jokes.
this is another one that gets overlooked a lot- or seen a lot as 'not being able to handle jokes well'. you're not overthinking it, they are being hurtful and you're valid in your emotions.
❀•°❀°•❀ Religious Bullying ❄️
includes: treating people badly because of their religious background or beliefs, making negative comments about a religious background or belief.
this is another one that gets overlooked a lot- or seen a lot as 'not being able to handle jokes well'. you're not overthinking it, they are being hurtful and you're valid in your emotions.
❀•°❀°•❀ Sexual Bullying 🌨️
includes: leaving someone out; treating them badly, or making them feel uncomfortable because of their sex; making sexist comments or jokes; touching, pinching or grabbing someone in a sexual way
whether you are male, female, non-binary, or unidentified- being touched without your permission is still wrong and will always be wrong. you will always be valid in speaking up, and you will always be taken seriously.
you did nothing wrong <3.
❀•°❀°•❀ Disability Bullying. ❄️
Includes leaving someone out or treating them badly because of a disability, making someone feel uncomfortable, or making jokes to hurt someone because of a disability.
this is another one that gets overlooked a lot- or seen a lot as 'not being able to handle jokes well'. you're not overthinking it, they are being hurtful and you're valid in your emotion
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