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gayraccoonthing · 11 months

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Aww, what a cute little ship they belong together ❤️ (I am going to make multiple scenarios where they go through immense pain and trauma and maybe break up for the sake of my own entertainment)

#i cant NOT #I mean #i love and adore them #but bestie you are getting absolutely FUCKED UP #twomp #argos x mr plant #dave katz #andd #klaus hargreeves #love yall but its the natural order of things 💕#elliot rambles

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r0mc0m · 2 years

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wait like this if u would write w my rly obscure muses bc . bc i love them :( just treat them like ocs :( i’ll write a starter or send memes or message u to plot or something!

#ooc.#this is about riff .... abt kit .... abt jase ....#abt a few more #theyre great #i love and adore them #i know theyre never gonna get action #but i hang on to them anyway

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mossy-mariel · 2 years

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Team Crastle is really speedrunning their respective Life-series trademarks: Bdubs already has a clock and Cleo already has a ride-or-die and an implacable grudge.

#zombiecleo #bdubs #team crastle #i love and adore them

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gleybrr · 2 years

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what the fuck am I gonna do without them

#become obsessed w the rangers #but still #i love and adore them #not u j*sh

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demigod-of-the-agni · 1 year

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Quick little drawing of our favourite queer Spideys 😌

Guys you can use this as a banner or a background or a header or whatever, as long as it’s credited you’re free to do so <333

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kookydoodleky · 5 days

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A Happy Ending✨

#buttonblossom will always be my top 1 #but funnygummy is so adorable to!#i love them both so much #pomni deserves all the love #the amazing digital circus #tadc #tadc pomni #pomni #tadc ragatha #ragatha #tadc gummigoo #gummigoo #buttonblossom #pomni x ragatha #funnygummy #pomni x gummigoo

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tuxibirdie · 18 days

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─── •✧• ───

brother shenanigans 🤌

(based on this post by @darkacua)

#I didn't know I needed petty siblings malleus and silver until now #I adore them and I need more shhshshs #I love the diasomnia family dynamic in general sm #totally didn't blur sebek so much bc I didn't wanna figure out his hair #malleus draconia #twst malleus #silver vanrouge #twst silver #twst #twisted wonderland #lilia vanrouge #twst lilia #sebek zigvolt #twst sebek #diasomnia #tuxidoodles #doodle #rkgk #shitpost

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andthebeanstalk · 1 year

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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nightmare-chaser · 11 months

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Ive seen multiple posts from reddit refuges that go like "im queer and its so welcoming here!" Or "im nonbinary and dont get quized on my gender here!" Or "im autistic and i can be weird here and yall like it!" And its so fuckin cute its like yes hi hello welcome this is the gay ass autistic website we love special interests we love weird genders we love just saying random shit and the just happy surprised tone of those posts is so wholesome to me like yes! hi! you are in fact the target audience! welcome home

#196 #reddit blackout #theres also been multiple posts that compares them to endangered birds raised in captivity being released into the wild #and yeah i can see it #god but the joy in those posts at being met not just with welcoming arms but delighted ones #like yeah! you can say just random shit! we love thag here!#we dont just allow random special interedt rants we adore them we actively encourage them #theres posts about loving seeing your mutual flood your dash suddenly with some random thing and realising they have a new hyperfixation #its just really cute and sweet

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ikemoths · 1 year

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A very famous moth, the African death's head hawkmoth :) Named after the skull shape on their back, though honestly i dont care about the skull, i care about the fact that they can SQUEEK!!!

I LOVE THEM SO MUCH

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moraent-keys · 4 months

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Yeah so… I’ve officially gone off the deep end

#my art #digital art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel angel dust #hazbin hotel husk #huskerdust #angelhusk #hazbin hotel huskerdust #hazbin hotel fanart #this is very self indulgent #they’re fuckin adorable :( <3 #I love them sm #WHY DID IT NUKE THE SATURATION #favs

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alabasterpickles · 9 months

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Silly quick lil comic about Junior having a nightmare and dad being an excellent sport because I thought the idea would be cute

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skullndaisy · 2 years

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Betrayal.

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livelovecaliforniadreams · 25 days

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#Ryan & Oliver Whenever They Say Something They Shouldn't About Buddie

#its the same picture #so many of you kept pointing out that its the same #so here is a side by side #i love them #they are both manaces #911 abc #buddie #buck x eddie #eddie x buck #evan buckley #eddie diaz #ryan guzman #oliver stark #its such a mood #i adore them #never change men #never change

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happyheidi · 1 year

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Bʟᴀᴄᴋ ᴄᴀᴛ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴘᴏsᴛ

#look how adorable !!#i love black cats #a neighbor here has two and I love seeing them in the garden #cottagecore #cats #black cat #black cats #kittens #animals #moodboard

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egophiliac · 6 months

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C'MON TO THE THEATER!

I love these guys so much. forget NRC, I want to attend their terrible disaster school for disaster children that might actually be plastered on top of the smoking remains of an actively sinking ship. I may or may not actually learn anything, but I will have the time of my life.

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #stage in playful land #stage in playfulland #unique magic posters #so it was fellow after all and not gidel? whoops #i was merely overthinking it #me? overthink fictional characters? surely not #god though #i can't not love a guy who gets the cutest most adorable power #and instantly goes 'i shall use this for Crimes'#also every time he was like 逃げる! my brain auto-translated it as CHEESE IT!#accompanied by twst's running-away sound effect which is just the quintessential sound of someone cheesing it #if i could have (1) twst spinoff it would be the adventures of these two idiots trying to do an education #they would have a stodgy bureaucrat antagonist who keeps trying to catch them in their sleazy corner-cutting ways and shut them down #(OF COURSE there would be a bit where they are trying to host an unforgettable luncheon but egads! their roast is ruined!)#and all while they're trying to evade being hunted down by the playful land investors #the hijinks would be SO wacky you guys #i've made myself sad now because this will never exist #it's real in my HEART

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