#i am part of a loving community

[heavenly-garden]

I am not a robot 🤖 I am human and happy to be alive even if the world is shrouded in darkness and looks super ugly right now but there is still a light within my heart and I refuse to give up faith and I refuse to give up hope. I still believe in human kindness. The media doesn't show it so we have to show it. We cannot depend on any govt to care about our wellbeing. We need our own communities to care for each other, neighbors helping neighbors. That's it. Human endeavors are not all evil, there are still good people trying to make a difference, they don't yell or make a scene they quietly move amongst us as hidden angels in human form.

#i am not a robot #i am human #i make mistakes #i try to learn from my mistakes #i love my family #i love my friends #i love my church #i am part of a loving community #i feel deeply for others #i care about people #i just wish this world care about me #but individual people choose to care about me #always take all lifes blessings wih gratitude #eveey kindness no matter how small matters to me

[dreamsy990]

some of the less nice thoughts about being aroace

extras below the cut

sketch

closeups on my favorite panels

bonus: adios

#doodles #kingdom hearts #roxas #axel #olette #aromantic #asexual #aroace #do i tag pence. hes in the background of one panel #ehhhh sorry pence no tag for you #also not tagging soriku and namixi #i mean by the logic of 'theyre in one panel so i wont tag them' i also shouldnt tag axel but. he has dialogue so #anyways i have a very irrational love of olette whenever i need a random side character in a kh comic? olette #i think she uses webmd. anyways im done talking about olette #so let me clarify about this comic #im aroace. this is all just things ive thought before #im not saying in any way these thoughts are real. theyre just thoughts #thats why it ends with 'but there isnt. its just me.' there IS nothing wrong with being aroace. even if it feels like it sometimes #im not trying to send a message im just trying to express a feeling ive had for a while #anyways. the aroace community is super positive and i like that. but not everything i feel about it is that positive #sometimes it feels like im missing something yknow #this comic seems like its about roxas. but its about me. congrats youve been fooled #drafted something similar to this for aro week but didnt finish it in time so this is spiritually part of asaw 2024 #btw sorry im not posting as many drawings lately #schools kinda stressful im pretty tired and busy most the time #i am throwing this drawing to you like a slab of meat to a pack of hungry dogs. take this meager ration in these trying times #alright i think thats it bye now

[canonically47]

i hate when pride month hits and the slogan “love is love” is everywhere referring to the love between gay people being the same as between straight people. and that slogan is supposed to represent the entire community. like okay cool but what about the trans people and the arospecs & acespecs???

#i LOVE that slogan don’t get me wrong #but when it’s meant to represent the entire LGBTQ+ community #it does a horrible job #i love that we have it #i just wish it wasn’t our only one #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #pride month #pride #trans #trans community #(not that i am a part of it i just think it’s balls they’re not included #since like. so much of pride is owed to them?? wtv i guess) #asexual #aromantic #me :3 #aro #ace #aroace #acearo #arospec #acespec #transgender

[prettybambifemme]

I 🩷 being a hairy femme

I 🩷 having hairy legs

I 🩷 having hairy armpits

I 🩷 confidence and beauty and embracing my body for what it is instead of conforming to the societal expectations of what feminity should look like

I LOVE YOU HAIRY FEMMES!!! I FUCKING LOVE YOU!!! MWWWAAAH 💋💋💋

#lesbian #lesbian blog #wlw blog #queer #dyke #lesbo #queer community #wlw #sappho #dykeposting #hyper feminine #femme lesbian #femme dyke #high femme #lesbianism #femme appreciation #hairy femme #I say this right now because my own mother tried to call me gross for having hairy armpits #I simply dismissed her by saying that I am comfortable enough in my own body to not feel a desire to shave my body hair 💕 #I love embracing the parts of myself that are considered unacceptable by societal standards #wlw community #lgbt

[pitayaparty]

my daughter who i love

#this was for a collab i did with a lovely community i am part of #herlock sholmes #iris wilson #the great ace attorney #tgaa #dgs #dai gyakuten saiban #my art

[sopuu]

are you aware that you're known as "that mcsm artist" among the fandom? if so, thoughts?

—the person that forced [/j] you to draw the avam stickfigures

i was not aware no and that’s incredibly surreal to me bc most of my mcsm stuff is just gay people kissign

#on a more serious note i’m so grateful to be a part of such a supportive community i love it here #also hi hello!! hope you’ve been enjoying the new avm shorts as much as i am :D #asks

[worshipper-status]

YOU'LL DEFINITELY BE HAPPY WITH ME.

#worshipper's oath #Killer in Love #irl yandere #male yandere #yandere #obsessive love #obsessive love disorder #bpd yandere #obsessive thoughts #yandere community #yandere boy #kimi ni koisuru satsujinki #boy yandere #yanblr #yancore #yandereblr #yanderecore #yandere male #yandere coping #in some part of my soul #I am him #which sucks because he DOESNT HAVE A FUCKING NAME IN THE MANGA

[icewindandboringhorror]

Just curious what the average level of personal investment in these sorts of things is. Like, how much do people usually get into silly stuff like this their friends ask of them? etc. etc. Which I know, only surveying a small sample on a very specific website means I'm not getting an exact average idea lol, but.. curious nonetheless .. Maybe reblog for bigger sample size but also this is not very serious at all/not worth a call to action gbhjbhjb

#which I know this could be context dependent like.. maybe you'd normally dress up but on a week that #you feel sick you wouldn't or etc. etc. - but I mean.. GENERALLY. in the most general average scenario #where you have the average amount of health and free time that you always do. etc. just based on your personality #and level of investment in these things - what on AVERAGE are you most inclined to do #also of course assume they communicate with you ahead of time and are not like planning a part last minute #like 'throw together costume in 5 hours and show up tonight randomly' or etc. I would hope that if we're going with the #AVERAGE of things - most people's friends have better communication skills than springing entire parties #on people last minute lol #assume you have like.. a few days-a week or so to prepare. however ealrly people usually start talking about #birthdays. In my experience it's usually one or two weeks ahead of time. Like 'oh next weekend' or 'oh two weeks from now' etc. #ANYWAY.. feeling a little Sick again of course but still trying to get some photos or something posted #AGAIN i promise I am not going to exlcusively post polls and ntohing else forever hgkjgnekj #I just really really love the ability to post polls and have always my whole life been obsessed with surveying people #I used to think I wanted to do that as a career somehow like.. be one of the people that does psychological interviews #or produce interview asessments for a company or etc. etc. I am always the one friend in the group thats giving out custom made #surveys or asking for other simialr stuff (did you ever take an mbti quiz? how about enneagra #m?? oh yeah I know they're not really scientifically valid or antyhing but like... DID you take them?? huh?? did you??please?? ghjj) #I simply cannot resist.. posting a little poll every once in a while.. as a treat #whilst I still fall behind on like actual content and costumes and stuff gbjhbjh #New poll adventure should be not as much of a wait as the last one was though since I already have the writing #for it really. I just have to do the ms paint sketch. hopefully no unexpected other health issues will get in the way #*** *** *** #< (anytime I do these three star patterns it is an ocd compulsion not me bleeping out words or something just ignore it lol) #(it means something secret in my evil brain just pretend you do not see it. significant only to me) #BUT YEAH.. ... poll... what type of costume party atendee are you? #:0c

[moonandris]

#faye's polls #writeblr questions #writeblr polls #writing polls #writing questions #neurodivergent #neurotypical #neurodiversity #adhd problems #writers with adhd #writers with autism #just adhd things #adhd writers #i HATE having adhd yet also being a super creative person lmao it's like WHY did i get this super creative yet broken brain #i'm really curious to see the results because i love writing but it's so damn hard #i have adhd and it's SO challenging for me to even do tasks that make me happy WITH medication #so i am really hoping to connect with other writers who are going through the same struggles as me #and see if we can share tips and help each other out #because this world is NOT built for people with neurodivergent brains and it's hard out here! *cries in adhd* #so i think it's so important to interact with others and be part of a community that helps each other thrive #please and thank you if you reblog this i really appreciate it #have a blessed day my creative friends <3

[andypantsx3]

man i love fanfic and this community so much

do u guys ever get tired of being some of the coolest ppl and writing some of the most genuinely amazing things??

#like do not get me wrong the community has also suffered some weird moments as of late #but those are just the friction points of sharing a communal space; for the most part everyone i have encountered has been totally lovely #today is one of those days i am just like so blown away by how talented and fun and supportive people are here #i am very very grateful for the people who have managed to find me and i've managed to find in turn #love uuuuuuuuu

[pansyfemme]

you have to be pretty in the way only transsexuals get. this is an order

#you ever notice that when i get anon hate they always go for how ugly and fat i am first #but whenever im talking to other trans people (the community i prefer to surround myself with) they all are really positive about my looks #and my weight? like yeah you’re really convincing that detransitioning would be a better life #trans communities are incredibly supportive of variations in apperance and its really refreshing #its like ohhh no i have a double chin? i never noticed that before #i know im fat and i know my presentation is not attractive to some people and im chill with that because the people who actually care about #me love that part of me and love how i look

[shurisneakers]

ok and if i wrote harmless in a different font. so what

#the first part is 1.6k words long #and i am looking for supernatural slash paranormal ideas to use in here for future parts. so if u guys wanna. yk. #make it a community project like harmless was <3333 that'd be lovely and fun <3333 #but im waiting to write a couple of parts b4 publishing this one #bc of health reasons #anyway in unrelated news #i have another drabble series coming out on saturday #a letters series where bucky is Shit At Talking so he just writes letters to his bestie who he's in love with bc his therapist told him to #it's a drabble series #and also if u wanna send in word prompts for that. that would be very helpful and i will worship you #anyway im done talking #ari talks #bucky x reader

[kiawren]

hey if u have an overbite, underbite, crooked teeth, teeth gaps etc etc that makes you feel insecure about your smile (and you are not alone.. I do too) I promise your f/o does not care..!! They think your smile is precious.. and part of what makes YOU the person they love. They never found it ugly at all, it was actually so endearing to them and they sometimes daydream of your smile and it makes them want to kiss you so bad.. they wouldn't want you any other way Ok! every part of you is every part of the person they love and they would only view it with such love. 😁 (this goes for other insecurities too :3)

#admittedly the part of me that makes me most insecure is my overbite but imagining my f/o loving someone Without an overbite is ☹️ #becuz that's not me!! and I want them to love me for who I am #if that makes sense grhrgr #selfship #selfship community #f/o #fictional other #selfship positivity #:) #wren post

[mrsterlingeverything]

yyoure so strange are you cis

My personal belief is that gay guy is its own gender role in most western society but i wouldnt call myself trans so yes

#im not trans but i believe in their beliefs lol #also want to add that i love furry and drag culture and think its an important part of who i am and what i like so... lots of overlap in the #community <3 i feel a strong connection to trans people :)

[uncanny-tranny]

Sending so much respect and love to people whose English is "broken." Whether that is because of disability, immigration, age, you haven't been studying long - it doesn't matter why your English is the way it is.

The best thing about language is how versatile it is - that means there are an infinite number of ways to express yourself. Your broken English is beautiful! It is a vital part of the English language. It doesn't need to be "perfect" to be valuable. There are people out there who will put in the work to make sure both of you are understood, just like you are putting in the work to communicate 💐

#positivity #english as a second language #i love interacting with people who are speaking english as a second/third/fourth (?!) language. it's such a humbling experience #it just reminds me that... holy shit the world is so big and it's filled with the most beautiful people ever #and this also goes for disabled people whose mother tongue is english!!!! i also am delighted to interact with y'all! #the purpose of language is to communicate and if others can understand you then who CARES if it is 'broken' #english is such a stupid language sometimes but i love talking to all kinds of people in this language. it's a beautiful part of life #i dunno what sparked this but i want people who don't speak english 'well' to feel loved and valued because you are

[thebirdandhersong]

I think the problem. the problem is that I have always been afraid of not being invited into the inner circle. and am always wanting to be part of the inner circle. inner circle being the circle of love and companionship and communion. of course being a TCK and a bit of a sheltered homeschooled oddball child has nudged this further along over the years. but I didn't realise how STRONG that desire still burned. to actually be wanted.

#in other words today has been an oddly sad day! discovering that the friends you've made have their own group chats #that are separate from the general group chat (that no one ever talks on) that you aren't a part of is......... i don't know #i KNOW i'm liked by them and i KNOW they love me but do they WANT me around? #like. i know i'm not UNpleasant to have around. i am a good listener and a good conversationalist. #i work very hard at it because it doesn't come naturally to me. #but clearly that's not enough to be added to exclusive group chats! clearly that's not enough to be part of inner core circles #i don't know this just came out of nowhere and i feel as if i've been slapped in the face #sitting at a table where people are talking about the thing someone sent to the group chat #or the photo or quote or reel someone sent to someone else is....... bizarre. #i am trying not to be so hurt by it! i am trying not to take it so personally #it happens. i know it happens. i know it will keep happening. it is just that i thought this was a place where i wouldn't be lonely #and this is the dorm community i've invested so much of my time and energy and love into since last year. #so i think i'm justified in being a little upset! #i'm not crying about it but that's because i'm not about to cry with other people sitting here in the study lounge! #the math is probably really wrong here but i thought that if i poured love in for the sake of pouring love in #somehow somewhere along the line i would also receive love. that i would actually be a part of this community. #anyway that's not going to change how i live here! i committed myself to doing my best this last year #because i don't want anyone to feel left out or unwanted or lonely. i already made the decision #to do everything i can to love the people here. #i'm not trying to toot my horn this is just what i actually want to and have decided to do! #i have birthday cards planned! i have midterm snacks planned! #i've just worked out how i can print christmas and easter cards and stickers! #i'm GOING to love darn it all i'm GOING to pour love in #i think it hurts especially because there's the boy problem going on too #of not being wanted in an area that i DIDN'T expect to be wanted in #and then learning that there is a collective not being wanted in this whole community #it is a Lot and it is very hard and i don't know what to do with it! #i have had this lie (that i'm inherently unloveable and undesirable) in my head since childhood #and i've worked SO HARD to shut that voice up. and it is so so hard to not believe it right now