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myth-the-sapphic · 1 year
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Shouts out to the folks getting misgendered during the holidays, and to all the folks who have to listen to their family’s spout homophobic and transphobic shit. I love you. Remember the bathroom is a great place to take a five minute break and no one will question you. I’m thinkin about you and I hope the holidays aren’t too stressful and you have some peace. I see you.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 💙💗🤍💗💙
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genderqueerdykes · 20 days
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people are cool with he/him lesbians until he's also a man and then suddenly there's a problem. obviously pronouns do not = gender, but i wonder why this is.
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elysianmadness · 8 months
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"Lesbian means exclusive attraction to women!"
"No, it means non-men exclusively attracted to non-men!"
"It actually means queer attraction to women!"
"Lesbian means women and nonbinary people being exclusively attracted to other women and nonbinary people!"
Lesbian is a multifaceted label that can describe many different experiences. There is no one perfect definition of lesbian that will encompass the entire diverse experiences that lesbians can have.
I'm personally a genderqueer woman who's exclusively attracted to other women, but the lesbian next to me might be a transmasc lesbian who loves all genders except for men. And the lesbian next to them might be a bigender lesbian who's both a girl and a boy, who's exclusively attracted to women. Our experiences can all be described by the term lesbian if that's how we wish to describe it, but we might define it differently based on our own experiences. And guess what?
None of our definitions are wrong, but none of our definitions will encompass every other lesbian's experiences. A word can have multiple definitions without any of the definitions being wrong. And those definitions can be very vague or very specific. Labels are made to fit us- we aren't made to fit labels.
People who may have a different experience with the lesbian label are not your enemies. People in lesbian spaces who aren't exactly like you are not your enemies. The problem comes when you try to force one singular definition on every single lesbian. THAT is harmful. Sending death threats to other lesbians because they don't have the same experience as you is harmful. Not another lesbian having a different experience from you.
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thehealingsystem · 9 months
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happy masculine lesbian awareness week!!! i don't plan on doing much and im not on twitter anymore but reminder it's for all masc lesbians, including trans, nonbinary, multigender, genderfluid, transmasc, gnc and pnc, butch, aspec, mspec, and all other wonderful lesbians in our community ❤️🧡🤍💗💜
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morsobaby · 1 year
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Those people who don't know if they're a butch lesbian or a trans man I love you. You're not doing any of this wrong. There's nothing wrong with your existence. Identity is hard and you don't deserve backlash for struggling to fit into this world. I see you, I love you. Please keep going. You're worth it. This is who you are, and if not, you'll figure it out in time. But it's okay if you never figure it out. It's okay. You can be this. You're not wrong or predatory or faking anything. It's okay. Hugs
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our-lesboy-experience · 3 months
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it's kinda sad that the label lesboy has been shit on a lot, because it's such a cute and fun label that can mean so many different things. it could mean being a tomboy, being butch, multigender, genderfluid, using he/him pronouns, an expression of transmasculinity, a collective system identity, being cusper, a boydyke, ftm, reclaiming the word boy for yourself, and so, so many other reasons. binary masculine cishet manhood isn't the only manhood to exist, and if people were more accepting, I would be louder and prouder to call myself a lesboy. it's a beautiful identity
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manyunhappygreenies · 8 months
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been a bit since I drew my babygirl so here she is <3
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jasontoddssuper · 6 months
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Annabeth Chase being a lesbian is way more realistic than Percabeth because no person who's attracted to men,be they a woman or nonbinary or a man themself,is upset by being attracted to Percy Jackson.Literally no Percy simp i've met can shut up about how down bad they are for him(and he deserves it)and i actively seek them out because i'm also one.Who the hell who's not a lesbian would be embarrased and angry about being in love with the perfect man.It's fake as hell and also shows that Rick is also not attracted to men.He just dosen't get us so he made all his girls lesbians by accident😔
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dwobbitfromtheshire · 3 months
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Who wants to draw Steve and Robin wearing matching shirts? The back of Steve’s says: if lost, please return me to my platonic wife, and on the front of Robin's shirt, it says I'm his platonic wife. On the back of Robin's, it says: if lost, please return me to my platonic wife. It was a mistake it was supposed to say husband, but they loved it so much that the front of Steve’s shirt now also says: I'm her platonic wife. They're platonic wives anyway.
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eggseabutter · 1 year
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They danced!
Story by @ratjamtime
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arotrixic-disaster · 2 years
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Normalize names, presentation, and pronouns not being inherently gendered. Normalize identity and expression being unique to the individual.
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bb-fennelposting · 7 days
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happy lesbian visibility week from one lesbian to all the others!
friendly reminder that we accept ALL lesbians here, including mspec and he/him lesbians! all queer identities made in good faith and valid, and all queers should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way makes them hapliness! we aint no time for your exclusionary bullshit.
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receivingtranny · 6 months
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very tired of people with otherwise completely normal DNIs that also have "mspec lesbians/lesgays/gaybians" like lmao just say you don't actually support people who are bigender/genderfluid/genderflux/genderqueer/demiboys/multigender/omnigender and stop pretending like you do
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phykoha · 1 year
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a comprehensive explanation
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rouge-the-bat · 8 months
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shoutout to lesboys who are femme. he/him femme girlboy lesbians. hell yeah
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wholecakes · 4 months
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welcome to my sanji dump where if im not talking about sanji then i am dead in a ditch somewhere. i love sanji. sanji is my white girl 7 days a week.
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