#codependent Winchesters

[i-already-know-im-going-2-hell]

I think something that just occured to me is I don't think people realize how like, not normal codependent relationships are, even platonic ones.

Like, if you look at the Winchesters and call them codependent and stop there to explain their weirdness, you're not wrong, but like codependent implies that some natural relationship lines are being crossed.

Maybe they're not sexual, but codependent implies extremes regardless. These are not normal levels of emotion. These are not normal levels of need of the others closeness, emotional, physical, or otherwise. These are unhealthy, excessive, levels of interpersonal need.

Meaning that even if you don't define Sam and Dean as the erotically codependent beings angels canonically assign them as, these are not normal or healthy siblings.

They are self and peer reviewed codependent weirdos. Honestly, who actually cares if they're fucking, that's the least weird thing about their fucked up relationships.

Dean overriding his little brothers autonomy in a metaphor for allowing Sam to be raped just so that Sam will stay alive and Dean won't lose him? Much much weirder and darker than just them fucking.

Sam turning to a incessant murder machine everytime his brother dies fully in either a need to seek revenge or a need to make a trickster give him back? Yeah trust me, the blow jobs would be more normal.

Like, truly, codependent is not the cop out you think it is. By acknowledging they are, you are acknowledging they have an unhealthy, unnormal, weird relationship. One that according to the definition from the dictionary, is often times used to describe partners:

I just, truly, if this is how people view their siblings, I'm begging them to do some introspection or use like a therapist as a sounding board to see if their relationship with their siblings is healthy. Because if you look at Sam and Dean and see an average sibling relationship that's the same as yours and your siblings, then I'm concerned. And you should be concerned too

#wincest #weirdcest #gencest #codependent winchesters #spn #samdean #weirdchesters #sam and dean

[mentallyunwellsamgirl]

Imagine loving someone so much you order meals for them even after they’re gone because you can’t handle the idea of their absence. That’s how much Sam loves Dean.

Whenever someone says that Dean loves Sam way more than Sam loves him, I'm baffled. The show goes out of its way to let you know that Sammy is batshit insane about his brother.

#supernatural #sam and dean #sam winchester #dean winchester #codependent Winchesters #psychotically irrationally erotically codependent #canon soulmates #samdean #sammy #mystery spot #episode of all time

[hum-suffer]

And now people will ask for destiel to be the only focus on re-spn (if that happens)

My darling person, the show was about two brothers. Where is my gigantic nerd boy Sam? Why is your narration screwed to the point where you give Sam no personality while he is the only person who is so important to Dean that Dean would have killed Cas permanently if it saved Sam from something? (Don't lie, we all know it's true) and I'm not saying I want Cas dead or not revived or something. Save Cas, yeah, but do not commit crimes against my baby boy, Sam 'Raised by my big brother' Winchester and my sweetheart, Dean 'I was his parent and sibling, all in one' Winchester

#samdean #sam and dean #Winchesters #codependent winchesters #suffer ye suhana nahi #spn #supernatural #revive supernatural

[inbredbrotherhood]

nothing quite as good as the way Dean seeks Sam’s pleasure like it’s his own. Fingers buried to the hilt, overstimulation to the point of tears and risk of wetting the bed but it’s worth it — there’s nothing better than watching Sam, all baby-brother soft and moaning, relax and gentle at the end of each orgasm.

#wincest #spn wincest #nsft text #sam winchester #Dean Winchester #codependent Winchesters #supernatural #canon soulmates #sam and dean

[according2thelore]

illustration based on lizzy’s fic: “me and you together together together”

Submission for Day 1 of the @wincestwednesdays September Flash Event -- "Lost"

this was so fun to draw and I’m glad that I scrambled to switch concepts last minute! she’s sketchier than normal but I wanted to get something out today :)

#supernatural #sam winchester #samdean #my art <3 #dean winchester #sam and dean #spn #spn fanart #supernaturalart #wincest #wincest fanfiction #wincest art #wincest wednesdays #weechesters #codependent winchesters #oh to get lost in a 90s era mall

[hbo--spn]

Every Day, We Find a New Way to Cope ~

https://archiveofourown.org/works/48049423

Dean finds out something about Sam he never knew before -- Amongst other things.

They stand there, for what feels like forever, while the other waits for someone to make a move. He is waiting for me, Sam realises. Dean won't be the first one to make the move, he wants it to happen, so bad. He would never be the first one to make that choice, Dean wanted to drag Sam down to hell with him, but only if Sam did it with a smile.

In their childhood, there were no distractions, no friends, just each other. Of course they ended up fucking in a run-down neon lit hotel room at 3am after going out to the bar and picking fights for money. There was no way around it. But John didn’t want to see the product of his neglect, he wanted to pretend. And he would fucking pretend until the day he died.

#mine #my fanfiction #sam winchester #dean winchester #hbo supernatural #hbo spn #supernatural #supernatural fanfiction #supernatural fic #dark sam winchester #dark dean winchester #canon divergence #TW TW btw #codependent winchesters #wincest #sam and dean #lucifer superantural #azazel supernatural #drug addict! sam #dean winchester alcoholic #drug addiction #smoking #smoker dean winchester #smoker sam winchester #john winchester #mary winchester #supernaturaledit #supernatural ao3 #supernatural aesthetic #supernatural mood board

[soggedboytroutanti]

Spn fic I wrote

Introspection, sam pov

#spn #spn fanfic #spn fandom #supernatural #sam winchester #dean winchester #fanfic #ao3 #pov sam winchester #angst #codependent winchesters

[the-gray-ghosty]

John coming back in the Lebanon episode and Sam and Dean are telling him and Mary small stories of stuff they've seen and Sam's like "oh and Dean killed Death for me" and Dean looks Sam with the most dewey eyed look and Mary is horrified but John is just like 🤦‍♂️ not surprised at all

#he knows how codependent his sons are - he raised them that way #john winchester #sam winchester #spn #supernatural #sam and dean #dean winchester #samdean #codependent dummies #codependent winchesters #mine #lebanon #episode lebanon #i mean they are literally living together in an underground bunker with barely any friends so its not suprising that theyre close lol #also i feel like john either would care so much or wouldnt care at all

[sweetpapercroissant]

Sam complains so much about Dean’s motherhenning but the thing is he’s literally the same. If Faith (and other eps too ofc) have made anything clear it’s how eager Sam is to take care of Dean and fuss over him. And so many times when Dean gets hurt/knocked out or just disoriented somehow and the threat is taken care of or he wakes up even if he is sitting down or just in any kind of position where he can like easily get his bearings Sam will still pull him up and towards him so that he’s leaning on him and just hold him like that. These two have such a raging hard on for the other one needing them it’s crazy.

#sam is like you don’t need the chair/wall or any other supporting structure you can lean on me #you should only need me and nothing else #😤😤😤😤 #supernatural #sam and dean #codependent winchesters #.hera

[lailaphx-is-havin-a-crisis]

just found this on pinterest lmao whoever made this, i salute you

#sam and dean #the epic love story of sam and dean #codependent brothers #codependent winchesters #insane fucking insane

[zombiegirldean]

Those brothers Supernatural will be like we know each other better than anybody and we are inextricably bound by the private trauma of our shared childhood that nobody else could ever understand and we have both sworn sacred oaths to each other. and not even realize that they are thinking of different childhoods. and have sworn different oaths. and there is so much that they have misunderstood about each other and that they can never go back to the way they were before because WE WERE NEVER THAT WAY BEFORE.

#dean winchester #sam winchester #im having an aneurysm #toxic codependency yayyy

[beebox-illustrations]

So…. Guess what I’m currently rewatching😬

Are there any supernatural fans among you? I’d be delighted :D

Have a fantastic Sunday !✨🌻💚

#beebox-illustrations #supernatural #for a change #what?! why?! #i know #but listen guys #I’ve been such a fan and this series really takes me back 🥲 #they’re such babies in season 1 #super codependent but also adorable #sam winchester #and #dean winchester #being good siblings #John being absent as usual #those motel rooms #and Indiana Jones #i really hope you enjoy that one #web comics #digital art #illustration #procreate

[mentallyunwellsamgirl]

The thing about Sam and Dean is that they’re brothers, they’re best friends, they’re father and son, they’re platonic life partners, they’re enemies meant to kill each other at the end of the world, they’re psychotically, irrationally, erotically codependent on each other, they betray each other and they can’t live without each other, their love destroyed the world, their love saved the world… like… how do I get over that and move on to a different show pls help

#supernatural #sam and dean #sam winchester #dean winchester #sammy #samdean #spn #psychotically irrationally erotically codependent

[hum-suffer]

It's addicting, the way you look at me

Like I'm something to be saved.

Like coffee from my tongue will be sweeter,

Like blood from your lips will be ambrosia

You look at me like you know me better than I know myself

(it's the truth)

You look at me like you would upend the world for me

(you already have)

It's written in my bones,

It's written in your tendons

It's written in the space between us.

If I'm to be saved,

It is only by your hand.

If I'm to be damned,

It is only by your wrath.

#desiblr #suffer ye suhana nahi #desi tumblr #thoughts #poetry #writers on tumblr #original poem #wincest #samdean #deansam #codependent winchesters #rrr movie #rambheem #hannigram

[haley-harrison]

is this anything?

#spn memes #spn #supernatural #dean winchester #sam winchester #sammy #psychotically irrationally erotically codependent #dean #adam milligan #supernatural memes #supernatural meme #spn meming #spn fandom #supernatural fandom #sam & dean #samdean #sam and dean #the winchester brothers #winchester derangement syndrome #weirdchesters #the codependency bros #the blorbos #fandom memes #supernatural meta #kinda funny #as all things should be #sam #sammy <3 #the cage #spn season 6

[according2thelore]

HOLY shit you should write a time travel fic!!!! I want to see them all locked in the bunker together….. ES Sam and LS Dean watching their alt selves sew themselves together with horror and jealousy. ES Sam seeing LS Sam and thinking it’s the worst saddest thing he’s ever seen in his life.

I also think LS Sam and Dean fight more violently when they do fight? At least if we’re comparing season 1 and, like, 10, but even like s14. ES them watching that with a mixture of fury but also like. It’s unfortunately hot.

hello!!!!

i have actually been gently nurturing a ES!Dean and LS!Sam fic for months like coaxing a deer out of the woods. It's slow work and every time I open the doc it flees but ARGH!!! I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THEM!!!!!!!!!!! hopefully i will be able to finish it soon

but all of them TOGETHER??? omg...your brain...is so big...let's discuss

ES!Sam would be ripping himself apart in jealousy, and would not even really know why. both deans flock to sam like he's the axis of the world, like he's the only person to ever exist, like he's some kind of god that drips sun from his fingers.

he's never seen his dean this vulnerable and weird and desperate for approval (not even recognizing that dean has also been desperately seeking his approval but whatever), and he HATES LS!Sam for it. he's openly hostile, and keeps making rude comments at him that make ES!Dean so angry lol.

bc LS!Sam also gave up on their dream! he doesn't even pretend to want to get out of hunting. he lives in a secret bunker and sleeps with guns under his pillow and talks of their father with warm hesitation like 'yeah he was messed up but he was good' and sam can't stand him. and he looks at his brother (both of them now, young and old like some weird mirror) like he's never seen anything more worthy. it makes sam sick, because he sees this as a defeat. LS!Sam is a coward, who gave up. not for wanting dean, but for betraying everything he's stood for for twenty-odd years.

(he doesn't know, of course, that sam has the life he wants)

LS!Dean, however, would know exactly why he's so fucking furious. and because ES!Dean is still dean, he'd be so mean to his younger self lol. he'd purposefully stop talking when his younger self walks in, keeps trying to separate he and LS!Sam, keeps trying to leave him behind on stuff so he can have 100% of sam's attention and love and concern again.

which i think LS!Sam would not tolerate lmao. he sees the kicked-puppy-earnest look in young dean and it's like sticking a steak in front of a starving man--he cannot resist!!!

LS!Dean makes ES!Dean more appealing to LS!Sam by being mean to him and ES!Sam makes ES!Dean more defensive of and devoted to LS!Sam by being mean to him lol

it's a lot of deans and sams to keep up with but they would be so tangled and messy

ES!Sam and LS!Dean keep catching each others' eyes when LS!Sam and ES!Dean are being sappy or open w each other, lips curled in jealousy. and at first it's some kind of twisted camaraderie, but at the end, LS!Dean walks up to ES!Sam because, god, he'd dreamed about this kid for years.

he's missed how angry sam used to be, how much faith he had in himself and his convictions, how passion lights him up all the time and not just when they're alone.

and maybe he claps a hand on sammy's shoulder and god, when did dean's hands get so big? when did he develop smile lines and crow's feet and scruff at his jawline? and why does it make sam feel like this?

the first time that LS!Sam&Dean fight, ES!Sam&Dean are absolutely gobsmacked. bc every fight with them is An End Of The World Fight. it's messy and personal and hurtful, only low blows, and barely-not-teary and you're-my-brother-i'll-let-the-world-burn and when did they start saying that shit out loud?? and dean watches the way LS!Sam towers over him, how his fists clench and his eyes flash and his lip curls and...uh-oh. and sam can't look away from how strong LS!dean is, how he carries himself like a blade and not a person and jesus christ.

LS!Sam&Dean would see the way that ES!Sam&Dean dance around each other, but how painfully earnest they are all the time, how cocky they are, and how narrow their idea of "things that can go wrong" is and it's heart-breaking but also...bolstering? reassuring? hopeful?

not to woobify dean, but i genuinely think that he Would Need LS!Sam's Approval Like He Needs To Breathe. i think LS!Sam would genuinely be charmed by this like one is charmed by a dog tripping over its own feet. and ES!Sam and LS!Dean are sick with jealousy abt how openly they let themselves need each other.

anyway. this is probably nothing. it's word vomit. but you get it!!!!!! anon <3 lovely anon <3 mwah

-lizzy

(ES = early seasons, LS = later seasons, for those who missed the last post here)

#ask box #lizzy answers #lizzy writes #anon <3 #codependent winchesters #time travel winchesters #younger dean and older sam #ES/LS verse