#bigwomen

[revivalofthoughts]

Ideal

A glob of fat overflows from the side. Sucked-in stomach hurts. Extra skin moves and peeks. Apathetic eyes around, Curled mouthed tsks.

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[nickmoscovitz]

Lizzo @lizzobeeating - Melissa Viviane Jefferson American singer, rapper and songwriter. Stunningly charismatic, beautiful, crazy talented and inspirational this big girl proves with smashing conviction that true artists and art go beyond periodic trends - she is absolutely fantastic ! If you haven’t seen or heard her, you’re missing much ! —————❤️————— #rapper #hiphop #music #art #performer #lizzo #lizzobeeating #love #life #korimlizlizzo #portrait #singer #songwriter #bigwomen #amazing #drawing #artbynickmoscovitz #nickcelbs (at Manhattan, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cgy10f_ubea/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#rapper #hiphop #music #art #performer #lizzo #lizzobeeating #love #life #korimlizlizzo #portrait #singer #songwriter #bigwomen #amazing #drawing #artbynickmoscovitz #nickcelbs

[healingmyshadow]

Embracing Vulnerability

What triggers feelings of vulnerability and how do you react or respond to these feelings?

To my understanding, feeling vulnerable means to feel exposed. So when I feel exposed and vulnerable, I believe I tend to get a bit defensive - or at least that's how I've been told I come across. I put up artificial walls since my natural ones are knocked down. I have never really given much thought to how I react or respond to feeling vulnerable, but I suppose that is my reaction: to put up a wall.

The more I think about this, the more I realize that it is definitely okay to put up walls, it's just not okay to be a dick about it. Just because I am defending myself doesn't mean I need to react defensively toward others who may not have any idea what I'm going through. I need to be considerate of others during my own moments of vulnerability. It is a good time to practice self-awareness.

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[221177]

Art to Make us Laugh @artywaldy Brilliant new exhibition BIG WOMEN at Colchester’s stunning Art Gallery @firstsitecolchester @sallysarahshaw #bigwomen #colchester @visitessex @visitcolchester @colchestercitycouncil https://www.instagram.com/p/Co6r1caoy9B/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[indigokingfisher]

Big women are beautiful. Claim it! #lalalissa #lalalissalife #bigwomen #meatonmybones #veloptuous #fat #browneyedwomen #plussize #indigokingfisher #flesh #beauty #claimit

[healingmyshadow]

Personal Boundaries

What are some of your personal boundaries?

1) Do not go through my personal belongings.

This is because growing up, I never was entitled to privacy. Things like my plushies, laundry, spiritual paraphernalia... that is my energy, that is my space, that for my eyes and/or use only. If you need something from me, just simply ask me. I am not some asshole, I will share with you! Unless something is deeply personal or offensive, I'll gladly and always share what I have of myself and my things.

2) Don't draw attention to my weight or my body.

I am allowed to do this because I have my consent to do so. If I am drawing attention to my physical body in any way, shape, or form, that is me making a joke, observation, or otherwise remark about myself because I give myself permission to. People on the outside of my existence other than my lover(s) are not allowed to do so and I do not give my consent for them to do so.

3) Do not compare me to other people.

This is because I would often be compared to people with terribly offensive habits or straight up compared to people who have severe disorders and learning disabilities. I would be compared to people who were considered "lesser" and told that I am like them. This is preposterous and downright insulting to all involved for various, obvious reasons. I will not be compared to anyone better or lesser than myself as I am only and will ever be myself. If that is something that offends you, exit my life.

#athiest #beautiful at any size #bigwomen #blog #cisfemale #egalitarian #fatgirls #life story #mental abuse #non-religious #shadow work #gratitude #letting go #healing #self awareness #healing journey

[jessicasnow]

Beautiful~

#blog #writing #witch #personal blogging #ptsd #fatgirls #mental abuse #bigwomen #beautiful at any size #queen size