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xxinksxx · 2 years

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I was told that I would eventually

-Like make up

-Would want to shave my legs (who wants to shave their legs it’s tedious AF - my parents legit tried to shame me into doing this too when I’d skip it for a while)

-Would eventually want a boyfriend/husband (HA)

-Would eventually want kids (I’ll carve out my uterus with a rusty spoon first)

-That because I’m “female” I gotta sit/act/behave a certain way (I’ll end you. I’m NB aF)

-Would eventually be forced to carry a purse out of necessity (Got fucking yelled at for this too - not just by family. It gives me hella dysphoria.)

-Would change my mind and could not say for sure that I would NEVER want to date

A mix of all this (and a few others) was told to me from the time I was 8 to the time I moved out of my parents house and bought my own. I’m 32 years old now and there ain’t a damn thing on this list that I like or want to do. If this is just a phase then it’s a life long phase and I’m here to ride this bitch till I fucking DIE. Don’t let anyone try to dictate to you how you live your personal life. If you like doing any and all these things coolio homie you do you. Slay it like damn royal. But if someone tries to tell you to live your life according to what they find acceptable tell them to fuck off. (short of being a racist bigot guys come on work with me)

This has been a PSA from your local Agendered Aromantic Asexual. Thanks for tuning in.

#aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #agendered #no gender #queer gender #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbt+#lgbt*#saga #mogai #phase #just a phase #not a phase #fuck off #bering a girl #afab

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sweetcheetah86 · 2 years

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Very fairy like here. Goblin, or some weird fae shapeshifter. Also, the pink is what's left from the purple staining my hair. Still, looks cool.

#goblincore #fairycore #blonde #blond #blonde hair #pink hair #alternative #nonbinary #enby #agendered #agender #no minors #piercings #tattoos #bones #vulture culture #ethically sourced #rose quartz #bleached hair

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do-you-know-this-queer-character · 12 days

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Do you know this queer character?

Castiel is Queer and Agender or Genderfluid, and uses varying pronouns based on presentation!

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strawby-jelli · 4 months

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Okay so I just watched a video of a boy who once identified as trans still got bottom surgery after he realized he was cis and people were so fucking rude? Like just because this cis dude has a vagina people were calling him transphobic and wishing death upon him.

So this is a reminder that when we as a community advocate for bodily autonomy and gender surgeries that means everyone regardless of gender can do whatever they want with their bodies.

If someone who is cisgender wants top/bottom surgery THEY CAN GET IT. If someone wants facial plastic surgeries that we usually find creepy like buccal fat removal or eye lifts THEY CAN GET IT. And here’s the really controversial one but if someone wants to do things that harm their body like hard drugs or diy mods THEY CAN DO IT!

Because body autonomy isn’t just “I can get bottom surgery to pass” or “I can get an abortion” it’s also all the wild stuff that makes us uncomfortable and that’s okay.

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sabertoothwalrus · 1 month

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UHMMMMM what if T4T labru

#only reason she probably wouldn't use they or neopronouns is cause I can't realistically see them used in that setting. maybe a modern au #I don't think she'd mind being called Laios. or King.#I think he'd like having long pretty hair that looks more like his mama :)#kabru is transmasc kui told me #dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi spoilers #laios touden #trans laios #kabru #labru #transgender #agender #my art #comic

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yuribeam · 2 months

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for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

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something-existing-somewhere · 6 months

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Sorry I Spent all mY spoons this week already and it's fucking Tuesday. We're heading to the knives

#actually spoonie #chronic pain #fibromyalgia #actually mentally ill #chronic illness #aroace agender #spoonie #chronic fatigue #disability #actually disabled #chronic disability #spoon theory

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whereserpentswalk · 7 months

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kittycathat · 5 months

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"the A in LGBTQIA is for Ally, and nothing else" no thank you sir how about you die

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#/hj #aromantic #lgbtq #asexual #agender #aroace #triple a #non sam aro #lgbtqia #queer #aro #please dont tear each other apart in comments

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castielfucks · 2 months

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theres actually no rules to transitioning and youre allowed to want contradictory things for your transition. it's fine if you only want some of the changes that come with hrt and take preventative measures for the rest (like wanting bottom growth but not body hair or vice versa). you can want to have vagina AND a dick. you can be a woman and want top surgery, or wear a packer. you can be a man and want to have a pussy. you can change your transition goals one or a million times or not have any goals at all and just take things as they come or as they feel right.

there are no rules.

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boreal-sea · 8 months

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Shoutout to the folks who wish they could be feminine the way men are feminine, and shoutout to the folks who wish they could be masculine the way women are masculine.

#trans #transgender #gnc #gender nonconforming #genderqueer #agender #nonbinary #multigender

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logically-asexual · 1 year

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i feel so seen!!

(twitter thread)

#asexuality #ace #asexual #gender detachment #non binary #agender #queer

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genderqueerdykes · 8 months

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i think it's insane that nonbinary people went "hey i'm trans, i'm just not transitioning to one of the two very specific ideas of gender you have in your head" and so many cishet people and transmeds went "ah so you're not trans, you're just quirky." like hello? i literally started the sentence with "i'm trans" are you okay? people can transition in more than just one of two extremely specific ways, carol.

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aubryjoi · 2 months

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️✨

I couldn’t be more proud to be part of such an amazing community filled with the most wonderful people. My own trans journey has evolved so much over the past year & I am so grateful to be able to be seen today & every day 💙

Once again, I’ve given Egg some (but not all!) flags under the trans umbrella! I hope you can find yours here 🩷

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captainjackscoat · 2 months

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I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Non allergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

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sabertoothwalrus · 11 days

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modern au laios

#the shirt is one she's had since high school 10 yrs prior and won't admit that it doesn't fit anymore #dungeon meshi #transfem laios #laios touden #agender laios #my art #kept going back n forth whether to post this now or save it til I have more but I don't think I'll get to it lol

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