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mguvmii · 2 months

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Hello, may I request grell sfw and nsfw hcs with a fem/gn afab s/o who is usually shy and insecure but gets possessive of her at times pls? have a nice day/night

口に出さない言葉 // GRELL SFW & NSFW

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎⛧₊˚🎧 Grell Sutcliffe [ afab!reader] ‎

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‎⛧₊˚🎧 contains NSFW ;; minors dni !!!!!

—— hi lovely! Sorry this is late! I was at a convention and I actually cosplayed as Grell myself <33 I was super excited when I got this ask, so here you go! (my cosplay ig is lwlietii for those that want to look at it) also, I'm using she/her terms for Grell, because I think she identifies as a girl most of the time, but realistically, she would be agender / non binary

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‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎⛧₊˚🎧 SFW

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ I think Grell would find the shy and insecure nature endearing. A little taken aback, but she comes to adore it. She loves teasing you about your shyness

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ she will actively comment on it, and be unable to resist having any sort of skinship with you -- ie, holding hands, placing her hand on your shoulder.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ She needs to be touching you in some sort of way. your shy nature just brings out aggressive affection (?) in her, but also gentleness.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ If you're insecure, she would never hurt your feelings. She wouldn't go pointing it out either. I think if you told her, she would actually consider your feelings and make you feel better about yourself.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ She's the type to compliment you, when you're down or you feel bad and insecure about yourself. If she loves and adores you, she knows that only her opinions count.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ She didn't think you could be fierce or aggressive, or defensive, honestly, so she was shocked, when you defended and got protective over her when Sebastian made a snide remark on Grell's appearance, and 'ugly personality'.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Honestly? Grell would fall more in love. Even more shocking? If you're possessive over her.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Grell would definitely be flushed. You've just made Grell even more smitten and charmed by you. She secretly likes it when you're possessive it makes her feel so loved and titillated (low-key). She couldn't be even more in love with you than she already is.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Your number 1 defender as well :))

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‎⛧₊˚🎧 NSFW

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Okay this is a little harder, but Grell would definitely be hesitant to do anything. Let's be honest, I think when it came down to getting intimate, or doing anything in that way with you, she would be flushed and hesitant and shy as well. she's so used to being rejected :[

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Obviously, if you're shy and insecure and you wanted this, she would be supportive. She would reassure you, and claim you can do nothing wrong. she would take her time with you, and make you feel comfortable.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ Once you DO get comfortable with her, and you start showing a little bit of possessiveness? titilation and arousal skyrockets ^^^

‎‎‏��‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ She looooves possessiveness -- to a certain extent . It makes her feel like she's worth something and she's cared for. she loves it when you can take control sometimes, or just bring out that possessiveness in you sometimes.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ I think she would love having her wrists held down(?) and you being possessive. It would really get her going.

‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎⋆☆ She's willing to experiment. She's very exuberant, and eccentric and very flamboyant, so as long as you're both comfortable, she doesn't see a problem.

#black butler #ciel phantomhive #grell sutcliff #black butler grell #kuroshitsuji grell #madame red #kuroshitpost #grelle sutcliff #grell x reader #black butler x y/n #black butler x reader #black butler x you

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tired-bisexual-brainrot · 2 years

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i wanna make a post abt my own personal hc for each of the characters sexualities and stuff because i think it’d be fun

also pls remember that these are my personal hc for these characters, if you have different ones that’s perfectly ok but pls respect other peoples opinions, thanks :)

with that being said:

steve: bisexual, he/him

robin: lesbian, demigirl, she/they

nancy: bisexual, she/her

eddie: gay, he/they (he’s not too bothered abt his gender, he isn’t cis, but they don’t really care to label it. “my gender is whatever tf i want, i’m me, i exist here, i’m metal asf, that’s all you need to know”)

will: gay, he/him

mike: bisexual, he/him

max: bisexual, demigirl, she/they

lucas: straight, he/him (speak valentina! ally!)

el: pan-romantic, asexual, non-binary, they/she (they were raised in a lab away from the rest of the world, they never really understood social norms, let alone fit in to them. being non-binary just feels right to her)

dustin: hetero-romantic, asexual, he/him

suzie: straight, she/her (while she grew up mormon, she is incredibly supportive and understanding, she’s a woman of science first, religion second. speak valentina! ally!)

jonathan: demi-pan-romantic, asexual, non-binary, he/they

argyle: pansexual, he/him but wouldn’t care if you used they/them (“gender is a social construct my guy! be who you are, ride the waves of gender until you land on an island full of your own personal happiness. life is short dude, have some fun, relax, eat some pineapple pizza”)

eden: bisexual, she/her

joyce: probably bi but doesn’t really know it, she/her (she used to kiss girls in high school, you can’t prove me wrong. specifically, i think her and karen wheeler used to make out behind the bleachers during gym. it’s a byers family tradition to like wheelers ig)

hopper: straight, he/him (a little confused, but supportive, he’d never judge his kids, or anyone of their friends. he may not fully get it but he tries. the party gets together once a week to try and explain lgbtqia+ topics to him. speak valentina! ally!)

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lordmushroomkat · 8 months

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hi sorry to place a mild rant here i just cant do journaling to myself. So i got diagnosed with pcos and i just got birth control to take. And i dont know how to feel about it. Im genderqueer but not ready to come out and like E was the only option they gave me and since im a teen i didnt know, still dont know, how, if, when i can tell these people that i dont think this is what i want. Im writing this right before im supposed to take my first pill and im scared. Scared i will hate it and will have to live with that because i just cant come out. But im also scared it will make me feel better. Do as my mom says and make me less tired, less cranky. Im scared that when she says that she is doing this because its the best for my health, that she is scientfically right. And my dr even mentioned how i didnt seem to care about anything they were talkin about (pills-side effects, “benefits”) but like after the fact i realized that i could have said that i didnt care because all that she wasnt going to improve my life in any fucking meaningful way. Like body hair? Love it. Or well i would like to remove some not all of it, and not feel like in removing like stomach hair that i was agreeing that i was a women or that hair is disgusting. Because i would remove hair for myself ya know. Not for the preconcieved idea of who i am and how i should look. And acne? If i cared id actually put my acne cream on. Fertility? Dont want children, and they talked about unwanted random fertility but im ace and sex repulsed. Beyond the first visit they didnt even mention cancer. Ive been telling myself im going to take these pills to prevent cancer in uterine lining. And im scared to look up how true thag is. I mean on how e decreases these helath risks. Im scared theyre right. Im scared their wrong. I will fucking riot if they are lying because that means this is for nothing. Im scared it wont give me gender dysphoria, scared i will have dysphoria because it wull peel layers off the dissasosiation i face. and before all this i was planning on making my mom a presentation about intersex people and gender. Because shes supportive just a littl confused and not radical, im radical because grief has made me angry and i want to let her in on it ig. But i dont think i can do that anymore. Because i would have pointed myself out as intersex. Imply she could be too if she liked the label. But im scared that her being cis, and having struggled with weight and eating when she was a teen (and that pcos effects weight) would mean she would hate the idea. Would call me wrong or cite drs. She told me to shave under my arms once, for the convience when traveling light on vacation so that deodorant worked better?? And hours after she said it i realized if i existed for ease i would crase to exist. But im worried whats a good ease for her would be a killer for me. Idk anymore. i guess any advice? But that will probably be to come out and i dont think i can do that. any research or resources that proves im allowed to be angry? I think im just looking for people to tell me im normal for feeling this way. Having a bad day. Thanks for any.. help? Hope this wasnt triggering or anything, i just saw that you were nonbinary with pcos too- and yea. Okay bye

I really don't know if I'm the right person to answer this. I was already out as non-binary for years before I got my PCOS diagnosis. When they said "take these pills" I asked about the other options and they gave me none so I simply refused to take the pills. But I'm like,,, I don't super care about the negative affects of PCOS. I'm casually suicidal all the time and I'll keep living for my family but if something kills me I'm pretty alright with it. I don't really expect to live much longer than like, a handful of decades and like honestly the world is on fire so it'll probably be shorter. So like, my perspective on this is not necessarily a super healthy one? I'm fairly apathetic about my own existence.

But like, I understand your struggle here with wanting to explain the PCOS=intersex connection to your mom but knowing she'll respond poorly because she also has PCOS.

I really don't have any solid advice here. Just... I guess, consider really carefully how you want to feel in your body. If you've been enjoying the superficial changes the PCOS has done to your body with this weird little second puberty, maybe you should consider advocating for yourself a little more firmly about it. Your future health is important but so is your current comfort in your body.

#PCOS intersex #gender experiences #queue

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fatliberation · 3 years

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Here Are Some Fat Positive Activists, Educators, Therapists, and Artists to Know!

First and foremost, the pioneer of organized fat activism:

• Bill Fabrey (he/him)

Bill Fabrey, a self-proclaimed fat admirer, founded NAAFA (the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance) in 1969 after gaining an understanding of the day-to-day oppression and discrimination faced by his wife, Joyce. Fabrey founded the organization in hopes to raise awareness of weight stigma, criticize biased studies, and increase overall acceptance and accessibility to fat Americans. He is considered one of the pioneers of the fat liberation movement, and is heavily involved to this day.

• Judy Freespirit, Sara Fishman, Lynn McAfee, Ariana Manow, & Gudrun Fonfa (she/her for each)

(Members of The Fat Underground, 1979)

Fat, radical, feminist members of NAAFA! Their agenda was much more aggressive than NAAFA’s, and eventually they broke off and formed their own group called The Fat Underground, which acted as a catalyst in the creation and mobilization of the fat liberation movement. Based in LA in the 1970s, the Fat Underground did not fight to change discriminatory laws but rather discriminatory thoughts and practices in different aspects of society, which included those of doctors and other health professionals who perpetuated the unhealthy habits encouraged by diet culture. In 1973, Judy Freespirit and Alderbaran published the “Fat Liberation Manifesto” which establishes that fat people are entitled to what they were denied on a daily basis: “human respect and recognition.” The other objectives then outline the commercial exploitation of fat bodies by both corporations and scientific institutions. (x) I will go into more detail about the Fat Underground in my next post, “The History of Fat Activism!”

• Dr. Lindo Bacon (they/them), PhD

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Creator of the concept of HAES (Health At Every Size).

Dr. Bacon is best known for their paradigm-shifting research and advocacy upending the weight discourse. They have mined their deep academic proficiency, wide-ranging clinical expertise and own personal experience to write two best-selling books, Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight, and the co-authored Body Respect: What Conventional Health Books Get Wrong, Leave Out, or Just Plain Fail to Understand about Weight. Both are credited with transforming the weight discourse and inspiring a hopeful new course for the fat liberation movement. Dr. Bacon holds their PhD in physiology, as well as graduate degrees in psychology and exercise metabolism. Dr. Bacon formerly taught at City College of San Francisco, in the Health Education, Psychology, Women’s Studies, and Biology Departments. A professor and researcher, for almost two decades Dr. Bacon has taught courses in social justice, health, weight and nutrition; they have also conducted federally funded studies on health and weight and published in top scientific journals. Their research has been supported by grants from the United States Department of Agriculture and the National Institutes of Health. A truly great pioneer in medical health research!

https://lindobacon.com/ | HAES | IG

• Aubrey Gordon, a.k.a. Your Fat Friend (she/her)

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Aubrey Gordon writes about the social realities of life as a very fat person, previously publishing anonymously as Your Fat Friend. She is the author of What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Lit Hub, Vox, Gay Mag, and has been covered in outlets around the world. She also hosts the podcast Maintenance Phase, in which she and cohost Michael Hobbes debunk and decode wellness and weight loss trends. Her articles are incredibly heartfelt and enlightening. You can read all of them at www.yourfatfriend.com !!

@ yrfatfriend on IG & Twitter

• Sabrina Strings (she/her), PhD

Sabrina Strings is an associate professor of sociology at the University of California, Irvine and the author of Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia, which exposes fatphobia’s roots in anti-blackness. Strings contributed an opinion story to The New York Times titled “It’s Not Obesity. It’s Slavery.” With Lindo Bacon (creator of HAES), she coauthored “The Racist Roots of Fighting Obesity,” published in Scientific American. Strings has a BA in psychology and an MA and PHd in sociology. This book is #1 on my to-read list!!

https://www.sabrinastrings.com

• Hannah Fuhlendorf (she/her), MA LPCC NCC

Hannah is a highly educated and experienced counselor whose work focuses on self acceptance, eliminating the effects of internalized oppression, and practicing through a HAES lens. She is a fat liberationist who puts out educational videos daily. Hannah is also married to a healthcare professional, and the two of them are working toward making the medical field more accessible to fat people in their local community, and offering education on how to be fat allies. I really admire Hannah and the work that she does!

@ hannahtalksbodies on IG and TikTok

• Tracy Cox (she/her)

Tracy is an award-winning performer and artist, who co-created the web series “Angry Fat People” with Matthew Anchel, which takes a pop culture approach on serious issues faced by fat performers. She has been interviewed by the New York Times on fat politics and accessibility, and currently has a huge following on IG where she unpacks fat performance, fashion, and politics. You may know her as the creator of the ‘fat vanity’ trend on TikTok!

@ sparklejams on IG & TikTok

• Da’Shaun L. Harrison (they/them)

Da’Shaun is a non-binary abolitionist, community organizer, and writer. They are currently a managing editor and columnist at Wear Your Voice Magazine. They travel throughout the United States and abroad to speak at conferences, colleges, and lead workshops focused on Blackness, queerness, gender, class, religion, (dis)abilities, fatness, and the intersection at which they all meet. Da’Shaun is the author of the book Belly of the Beast: The Politics of Anti-Fatness as Anti-Blackness, which is expected to be published in July 2021. They have an incredibly enlightening social media presence as well!!

@ dashaunlh on IG and Twitter

• Lauren Buchness (she/her)

Lauren Buchness is one of my favorite artists. She’s a contemporary artist and fat activist based in Tucson, Arizona. By combining painting & performance, she aims to question Western standards of beauty and create conversations that alter preconceived notions about the fat body. Go check out her gorgeous work!!

@ ladybuchness on IG and TikTok

If you’re interested in learning about diet culture and intuitive eating, check out

Shana Minei Spence (she/her), MS RDN CDN

Shana is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist who opposes food restriction and encourages intuitive eating! She spreads food positive daily messages on her platform. She used to work in fashion, but she left after being dissatisfied with the industry and went back to school to become involved in food policy and public health. She offers counseling on a HAES approach. I have much respect for Shana!

@ thenutritiontea on IG

And right here on tumblr (who was my personal introduction to fat lib) -

@ bigfatscience !!!

An anonymous fat liberationist. They share so many great resources, diving head-first into the scientific research of weight and health, they’ve found that the relation between the two is extremely complex. They tackle the biases of research in a system that profits off of fatphobia, and they offer a fat positive perspective based on scientific studies. Their blog serves as an easily accessible resource for fat folx and fat activists who want to learn about fat positive science to support their own personal interests/activism. Thank you for your work, bigfatscience!! (if you have questions for them, you will have a greater chance of getting a response with anon off!)

• Sonalee Rashatwar (she/they), LCSW MEd

Sonalee is an award-winning clinical social worker, sex therapist, and grassroots organizer. They’re a superfat queer bisexual non-binary therapist and co-owner of Radical Therapy Center. Sonalee is specialized in treating sexual trauma, internalized fatphobia, immigrant kid guilt, and South Asian family systems, while offering fat positive sexual healthcare. Go, Sonalee!!

@ thefatsextherapist on IG

• Fat Rose (org)

Fat Rose organizes fat people, building a more radical fat liberation movement in strong relationship with other social movements, such as anti-fascism, anti-ableism, and anti-racism. Check them out on Facebook!

fatrose.org

Honorable IG mentions: (Some anti diet culture specific blogs in here, as well)

@fatangryblackgirl @msgigggles @thefatphobiaslayer @bodyimagewithbri @saucyewest @fatpositivetherapy @fatlippodcast @chairbreaker

BOOKS

And here’s an amazing list of fat-positive book recommendations from HannahTalksBodies!

Science & Health:

Health at Every Size by Lindo Bacon PhD

Body Respect by Lindo Bacon PhD and Lucy Aphramor PhD, RD

Secrets from the Eating Lab by Traci Mann PhD

Anti-Diet by Christy Harrison MPH, RD

Fat Liberation:

Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings PhD

Fat Activism by Dr. Charlotte Cooper

Fat Politics by J. Eric Oliver

The Fat Studies Reader by Esther Rothblum (Editor) and Sondra Solovay (Editor)

Fat Shame by Amy Erdman Farrell

Self Acceptance:

The Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor

Things No One will Tell Fat Girls by Jes Baker

Eating in the Light of the Moon by Anita Johnson PhD

Happy Fat by Sofie Hagan

You have the Right to Remain Fat by Virgie Tovar

Thanks for reading! Please feel free to share this list of resources!

Image descriptions below.

1. [ID: A black and white photo of Bill Fabrey, a straight-sized, balding white man with thick black glasses wearing a suit and tie, standing at a poduim in front of a sign that reads, “NAAFA”. Beside the image is another photo of Fabrey, from his left side.]

2. [ID: A black and white photo of seven fat, female and gender non-conforming members of The Fat Underground, performing a recital.]

3. [ID: The cover of Sabrina Strings’ book, Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia. On the cover is an illustration of four upper-class white people in fancy colonial period clothing showing shock and disgust at a Black woman’s exposed body. Beside the book cover is a photo of Sabrina Strings, a straight-sized Black woman with dark brown curly hair wearing a blouse.]

4. [ID: Hannah Fulhendorf, a fat, white woman with straight hair dyed blue, wearing a black tank top and holding her shoulder while smiling brightly and looking into the camera.]

5. [ID: An artistic picture of Tracy Cox, a fat, white woman with long, straight brown hair, laying topless on a bed of flowers. There are flower petals placed strategically in her hair on her skin, and along her lower eyelid. Beside that image, is an image of the album cover for Angry Fat People, picturing two angry faces made out of white paper against a grey background. In the top left corner, black, bolded text that reads “AFP” and “FAT LIBERATION”.]

6. [ID: Da’Shaun L. Harrison, a fat, non-binary Black person with a beard, glasses, and long dreadlocks, wearing a shirt that reads, “TO BE VISIBLY QUEER IS TO CHOOSE YOUR HAPPINESS OVER YOUR SAFETY. -DA’SHAUN HARRISON” against a natural backdrop of autumn leaves.]

7. [ID: A watercolor painting by Lauren Buchness of a white and tattooed fat body, hands caressing abstract rolls of fat with wild blueberries and grapefruit between folds. Beside it is another Buchness watercolor painting of Black hands with long sharp nails, caressing the midsection of a fat Black body, with purple crystals growing out of the skin.]

8. [ID: Shana Minei Spence, a straight-sized, Black woman smiling with bright pink lipstick and her long wavy hair pulled back, wearing a floral pattern shirt and jean shorts. She is holding small marquee that reads, “BE CAREFUL OF WELLNESS COMPANIES THAT SAY THEY’RE PROMOTING HEALTH YET ARE STILL ONLY TRYING TO GET YOUR BODY SMALLER” and a heart symbol.]

9. [ID: Sonalee Rashatwar, a superfat, South Asian non-binary person with short black hair, wearing a long floral dress, standing in front of large glowing text that reads, “BIG GIRL ENERGY” against a coarse-textured wall.]

10. [ID: A circular logo with a red fist in the center, with text surrounding it that reads, “FATTIES AGAINST FASCISM” with roses separating the word “RESIST”. Beside it is another image, of eleven fat and superfat activists, standing and sitting on mobility scooters, holding fists and middle fingers in the air, wearing T-shirts and holding banners that both read, “FATTIES AGAINST FASCISM”. In front of the group is a large cardboard sign that spells the acronym “F.A.B.” which stands for “Fat Antifascist Brigade”.]

#fat activists #people #fat liberation #fat activism #fat positivity #resources #anti diet culture #anti-diet #anti-fatphobia #anti-racism #haes #masterpost

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aelingalathyniusrailme · 3 years

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rating randomly generated ships acotar addition

vassa x the weaver 5/10 just because of how random it is.

nesta x rhys 7/10 now before anyone starts screaming, hear me out. this is assuming that all of the canon couples do not exist. there is no feysand or nessian. now they would kinda be a power villain badass couple. like they are basically the same person and when two people who are very similar come together, they can either clash or be literally unstoppable. so ima go with unstoppable. #hot villains you root for. it’s kinda icky but i’m not wrong

feyre x tamlin this generators a traitorous bitch. NO/10 we already went through this and we know the outcome. it’s time to put this where it belongs. in a sewer

eris x azriel 12/10 I did this twice because I wanted to include more characters and both times this happened. it is clearly fate. azris for the win. enemies to lovers trumps all

mor x kallias 3/10 random. I don’t like it

tarquin x lucien 8.5/10 I firmly believe you can pretty much ship anyone with tarquin but I actually love this. kind of a power couple if you ask me

ianthe x king of hybern 10/10 I hope these two terrible people destroy each other

jurian x hellion well the universe clearly wants this to happen. I did it like 3 times and all 3 times hurian? jellion? was together. ig it’s inevitable. idk how to feel like 5/10

viviane x elain. 8/10 bubbly winter gf meets quiet spring gf. say less. I approve

bone carver x suriel 100/10 this is a powerful powerful couple. the amount of gossip. the amount of tea they could be spilling together. honestly it’s a shame sjm hasn’t done this (genderfluid meets non-binary)

cassian x emerie remember nessian doesn’t exist and apparently emerie is now bi or straight so like 6/10. could be kind of badass i’m ngl. but it also makes me uncomfortable

devlon x merril 10/10 she would knock the sexism right out of his toxic ass. both of them are bitter and treat the people they are in charge of terribly. it’s a match made in heaven. I support

gwyn x amren very much giving me golden retriever gf meets milf. so 8.5/10 could honestly serve

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theautisticbiatch · 3 years

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Hello Tumblr people!

Today, I want to introduce to you a new word: Neurosplaining. Isn’t it beautiful?! Hmm maybe not but beauty is subjective. I personally love it. But you might wonder what that word means….? Well, neurosplaining is when a neurotypical or allistic person (meaning non autistic) thinks it’s appropriate for them to explain autism to someone like me, an ACTUAL AUTISTIC!! I know, I know, the neuroaudacity. Oh look, another word. I am full of them today, it seems.

But, obviously, I hear you say, it can’t be that common of a phenomenon for the neurodivergent community to come up with that term, right? I mean, everyone knows that no degree or second hand experience can beat first hand experience… Well, you’d think so and I admire your naïvety and optimism nonetheless I must inform you that you couldn’t be more wrong. Case in point, that nurse on IG 20 min ago who laughed at me while “totally disagreeing” (her words, I love the totally, nice touch) with me that I would be more capable than her at spotting autistic traits in a random person. Now, don’t get me wrong, I do not indulge in diagnosing random people based on one video (that splendid interaction happened in the comment section of a video from the Ellen Degeneres show), that would be quite audacious. I am simply saying that I can spot potential signs of autism better than a neurotypical person because well, I am autistic and have been so for 32 years now. So while I am sure that Karen (I don’t know why, I feel like that”s her name for some reason, go figure) feels good about herself having a nursing Degree for which I am sure she worked really hard, she ain’t at all an autism expert. So sit back Karen, as you still have a lot to learn.

Oh but that’s just one example, I feel you are still skeptical about the whole issue. Have you ever heard the sentence “but you don’t look autistic!”. No? I have. Too many times. So have almost every autistic person. Go check it out on TikTok, with the putyourfingerdown autistic challenge. You”d be amazed. I am, on the other hand, not so much amazed. I mean, again, the neuroaudacity is quite impressive there, but I am just getting tired of it. Wonder why…. Maybe it is because people who say that to me usually have for all knowledge about autism films like “Rainman” or the TV show “the Good Doctor”. Nice try. I mean, you’re right, I ain’t a white cishet man with an incredible talent for math. But believe or not, neither are most actual autistic people. In fact, in all my autistic acquaintances, I only know one white male math teacher though he ain’t cishet. I know many female or non binary drawers, knitters, writers … but autistic people capable of giving you the exact account of matches scattered on the floor in 1.2 sec, no, I don’t know anyone like that.

In that particular IG comment section mentioned earlier, I also got to exchange with a mother of 2 autistic children. She was surprised to hear that our community is VERY much against Autism Speeks (mispelled intentionally) or programs like ABA. She asked me what I would recommend for support to her autistic children. Now, I hope you are sitting because my answer is gonna come out as quite a shock: LISTEN TO ACTUAL AUTISTIC, LISTEN TO YOUR KIDS TO KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY NEED. Wuuuut?! What in the world is such advice?? I must be out of my mind to recommend parents of autistic children to listen to actual autistic people. I dunno, call me crazy, but again, I believe the best source of information about autism is actual autistic people.

Maybe I am the one with the audacity.

#actually autistic #autism #tumblr #neurodiversesquad #the audacity

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littleoddwriter · 3 years

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Self-Discovery | Roman Sionis x Victor Zsasz | ZsaszMask

"can i get something to do with they/he roman? (zsaszmask)" anon

summary; Roman meets a person, who goes by they/them pronouns in their club and so they start to think and do research.

notes; TW // Throw-Away Mentions of Past Child Abuse and sth like Conversion Therapy; Mentions of transphobia too, ig. Non-Binary Character; Roman uses They/He pronouns; Coming Out; Domestic; Domestic Fluff; Mention of a murder; Mention of sex; Kissing; Just two fucked up people being soft with each other.

Roman never felt like 'the gender norms' really applied to them at all, but for the longest time they couldn't name why, or knew what to do about the matter that was using male pronouns exclusively. It never felt right to them. So, when one day he came upon an individual in their club, telling him that they used 'they/them' pronouns, Roman was a little dumbfounded. They were already forty at that point, after all! And until then, they might have been a little close-minded. Unintentionally, of course. Believe it or not, but Roman's parents shut down everything regarding people's feelings and issues in this world. They didn't want to give their child any ideas, since apparently Roman already had had too many of those anyway, ever since they were little. From that day on, Sionis had started to inform himself about this particular subject, finding out all sorts of things and best of all; seeing themselves reflected in the information they got. It was nice to know that they weren't alone with these feelings. It was nice to know that there were actually words for all of this. Without waiting too long - because Roman Sionis never had to wait for anything and if he should change their mind in the future then that was that, after all! - they told Zsasz about it, of course. Victor was the only person Roman ever truly trusted, even though they still had their doubts sometimes. Roman and Victor were laying in bed, after a shower they had, due to the celebratory session of a successful night, which involved the poetically beautiful removal of a face. Rolling onto his side and laying their head and one hand on Zsasz's scarred chest, running their fingers over the raised skin, Roman looked up at his partner. As sure as they were about this whole thing and also the fact that Zsasz wouldn't cast him aside for it, Sionis felt rather nervous. The words just wouldn't come to them easily, like they usually would. "What is it?" Victor asked after a while of them staring at each other. Roman opened and closed their mouth a couple of times more, unsure of how to start. Then, he finally found his voice, "Well, you know how I met this person in my club a while ago. The one that went by they/them pronouns," Victor nodded, "Right. So. That made me... think. Because I've always felt a little- out of touch with gender itself, I would say. And I've done some research over the past weeks since, which helped me come to the conclusion that I am actually non-binary. I know it sounds a bit- I don't even know what it must sound like. I just know my parents would--- Nevermind. What I'm trying to tell you with that is that I've decided to rather go by they/them pronouns as well, but I will also still use he/him ones. Do you understand what I'm saying?" Zsasz's stare was intense. It always was, but this one was truly something different. It was by no means threatening or really uncomfortable. He looked thoughtful and focused most of all, which definitely helped to relax Roman, before Zsasz had even opened his mouth to speak. "Alright then. So just to check that I got you right. When I talk about you, you want me to use they, them pronouns, instead of he and him, but if I use male pronouns it wouldn't be wrong either." Smiling, Roman nodded, "That's exactly what I was saying. So you don't think it's too, I don't know, weird. Right?" Zsasz shot him an incredulous look. "I think you know what I'm thinking about that. Fuck normality. Doesn't fucking exist anyways. Just some stupid shit society made up to push people into little boxes and control them. Doesn't fucking matter what pronouns you use as long as you're happy, I'm happy." It was surprisingly heartfelt and sweet of Victor to say something like this. Roman didn't even realise how much they needed to hear it, before it had passed Zsasz's lips. Leaning up, and supporting himself on the arm that rested on the mattress, Roman captured Victor's lips in a gentle kiss. Usually their kisses were rather frantic and full of heat, but this called for something more soft than normal. "You have no idea how fucking sexy it is when you are so passionate about something, especially when that involves me," Sionis murmured against their partner's lips, kissing them again and again after. Zsasz grinned into it, making their teeth click together when Roman couldn't surpress his own smile anymore. On one hand, Roman was disappointed and mourned the time they've lost to being their true self because of their stupid parents, but on the other hand, he couldn't be happier to have someone like Zsasz at the time of their self-discovery. With his parents, it would have very well been fatal to come out to them like that and be open about how he felt. They would have probably stuck Roman in therapy to heal him from whatever nonsense had ridden them. But with Zsasz, none of it mattered anyway and Roman felt really lucky to have found him amongst all the people in the world.

#roman sionis #victor zsasz #zsaszmask #roman sionis fanfiction #victor zsasz fanfiction #zsaszmask fanfiction #non-binary character #harley quinn birds of prey #birds of prey and the fantabulous emancipation of one harley quinn #fanfiction #ewan mcgregor fanfiction #chris messina fanfiction

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herorps · 3 years

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You’ll find receipts on Google but LMK if not. Nathan Parsons is pro-gun, pro-wall and pro-lifer. Joe Manganiello, Adachi Yuto, Bella Hadid, Fivel Stewart, Cara Delevingne all have done cultural appropriation and Cara supported an abuser Karl Lagerfeld. Barbie Ferreira and Zendaya supported Euphoria's episode of Larry being sexual even though they didn't get permission and Louis spoke about it making him uncomfortable. Daisy Ridley said she doesn’t have privilege compared to John Boyega. Dave Bautista and Pom Klementieff support John Gunn. Dwayne Johnson joked about paedophilia. Elodie Yung played an Egyptian when she’s not Egyptian or even Black / North African. Emmy Rossum played a Japanese character. Gigi Gorgeous classist and antisemetic. Hailee Steinfeld supports the IDF. Hayley Atwell groped Chris Evans. Henry Zaga played a character that’s meant to be Afro-Brazilian. Roes made a song called g-slur. Jamie Clayton supported Call Me By Your Name in the past but has since deleted it so IDK. Jason Momoa joked about rape and his Instagram has the g-slur in. Winnie Harlow is colorist. Zayn Malik has done so many shit things.

And not problematic but Medalion Rahimi hasn’t stated that she’s non-binary, all because she doesn’t use only she/her pronouns doesn’t mean she's non-binary.

i went ahead and removed most of the names listed but i couldn’t find a strong enough reason to remove joe manganiello ( i couldn’t find a source for cultural app. ), zendaya ( i found an interview clip of barbie in support of the larry thing but i only saw that zendaya narrated the scene which .... i personally don’t think is reason enough but you’re allowed to "ban” whomever you want for whatever reason ), hayley atwell ( also a little dubious, i know that part in captain america was unscripted but given how they probably did a few takes, the director/editor could have thought it would be fun to keep in and while groping someone’s chest unprompted isn’t okay it seems like hayley and chris were in the camp of “laugh it off” during interviews ) and jamie clayton ( it could be the case where someone told her how bad cmbyn is and she took it down ).

also re: medalion, regardless of if she actually ID’s as enby, as an enby who uses she/they pronouns and has used putting my pronouns in my IG bio as a passive way to quietly come out to friends and family, im not entirely comfortable with labeling her back as cis. gender identity is complex especially now that a lot of people are more open to exploring beyond the binary in whichever degree that may be and to me it seems like medalion decided to do that. obviously anyone can use neo-pronouns, even cis people can if you really think about it, but i think to the majority of the general public, using she/they means not fitting into the gender binary. idk that’s just how i feel and i’d like for you to respect that unless im like wholly wrong.

#Anonymous

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maestrowave · 4 years

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I just don’t understand how people CANNOT be angry.

people are being murdered because of who they love and what gender they identify as and the colour of their skin

and yet

people literally do not care.

People still have the audacity not to call themselves feminists

be it because of the ‘social stigma’

or the fact that they just hate women

or they would prefer to call themselves an ‘equalist’

and I don't understand.

I genuinely don’t understand how somebody can hate someone because they’re different.

I can understand hating someone because they don't believe that people should have basic human rights

but hating someone because they're gay? they have dark skin? they don’t appeal to your expectation of ‘gender norms’?

can’t relate.

and most of all, I don't understand why some people aren’t pissed off.

how can you sit there and think that everything in the world is fine, just because you can’t see all the hate?

because it doesn’t affect you directly?

im white, I still know people of colour deserve human rights.

my parents are straight, they still know I deserve human rights even though im gay.

my brother is autistic and has never been able to fully ‘get’ people, and yet still understands that all genders are valid and deserve human fucking rights.

and your excuse is that the bible says gay is wrong? (which it doesn’t.)

that immigrants shouldn’t be allowed on your land? (how tf do you think your ancestors got that land in the first place. you think they just asked nicely?)

you think that nowadays people just keep making up as many genders as they like? (non-binary genders have been around for centuries, but go off ig)

how are some people not angry that people think like this? how?

even if you’re not contributing to the hate, by ignoring it you’re supporting it.

im not saying people have to go to marches, and protest, and make donations, because for some people thats just not possible.

but the least you can do is call yourself a feminist.

it doesn’t make you ‘less of a man’, or a ‘Femi-nazi’, it makes you a decent person.

it literally means that you think everybody, regardless of gender, race, sexuality, or anything else, is equal.

thats it.

its not that difficult a concept to grasp.

#feminism #feminist #pride #gay pride #lgbtq #lgbt #gender rights #sexuality #black rights #black pride #people of color #poc #human rights #prochoice

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5sosbitchfest · 4 years

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So if they boys date women y’all say all their relationships are pr. But you come up with this theory of them being together and you believe that? 😂

Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest: Y’all genuinely think they’re together? I literally don’t like any of the gfs but is their going to be any time where y’all don’t hate any of their S/Os?

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Let me start by saying that I didn’t come up with any theory. Theories of Muke, Cashton, Lashton, Malum, etc. were there LONG before I became part of the fandom. That being said...

It’s not about WHO they date. I could care less if the people the guys date are male, female, non-binary, bisexual, pan-sexual, asexual, black, white, purple, green, yellow etc. I am not trying to trivialize anyone’s identity - I truly don’t care WHO they date. It’s the fact that none of their current relationships appear to have begun organically that bothers me.

It’s the fact that Michael was a TEENAGER when a THIRTY YEAR OLD WOMAN began a relationship (whatever its nature is) with him. There is clearly a HUGE imbalance of power in the relationship and if you can’t see that then I don’t know what to tell you. It’s the fact that Crusty clearly has exploited her relationship with Michael for her own personal financial gain (e.g. brand promotions that involve him, selling her engagement to the highest bidder, etc.) and the notoriety it gives her.

It’s the fact that Messy was hanging out with the band and their friends for some time before Lizard imploded. She was there, in the background even while Luke was in a relationship. It’s the fact that she got close to Ashton only to jump over to Luke once he was free. It’s the fact that Messy followed the band around the world for at least a full year before Lemon became public, all the while hinting that she and Luke were dating. It’s the fact she continues to do follow him around wherever he goes without appearing to actually do any significant amount of work that warrants being able to support herself independently.

It’s the fact that Kraken has this supposed history of on-again/off-again dating and suddenly, right before new music is released, they are together. It’s the fact that every time Kraken made a pap walk, Ashton looked extremely uncomfortable and usually maintained a distance of at least 1 - 1.5 feet of space between him and Kale. It’s the fact that whenever Kraken would make a public appearance via pap walk or IG post, Cashton would be documented out and about or Ashton would make a post regarding Cashton or Calum within a 24-48 hour period. It’s the fact that whenever the band posted anything related to a new music release, new promo, new tour dates, etc. the “GFs” would post on their accounts.

What would it take for me to believe that any of their relationships are not PR? It would take the boys being with someone who would not stand to gain anything professionally (including social media presence) or financially from the relationship. It would take their not being a HUGE power imbalance between the two. It would take not having (obviously) planned paparazzi sightings. It would take the guys looking GENUINELY happy when they are in the presence of said SO. I do think they all truly care for the “GFs.” I just don’t happen to think it’s an everlasting, romantic love.

Do I believe that Muke and/or Cashton are together now? Muke - no. Without a doubt, no. Cashton? I honestly don’t know. Do I think there was a time when it was a possibility? Yep, without a doubt. Do I think there are still feelings there on all sides? Yes, I do. You can disagree with me and that’s perfectly fine. While it’s a belief we have on this blog, we don’t try to force it down anyone’s throats. We admit we may be VERY WRONG. I’ve not been shy about my dislike for the GFs and their manipulative, self-serving and toxic behavior. I don’t think any of them are in healthy relationships. At the end of the day, all I truly want is for them to be happy (yes, this includes the GFs). If I’m wrong, I really wish them all the best.

But NOTHING will ever convince me that Cashton are not each other’s favorite person on the planet - regardless of the nature of the relationship.

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black-mesa-slut-voice · 4 years

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Dear goodness please don’t make me make a dni list. I.. usually don’t much care who interacts with me but I’m seeing some weird shit in my notes!!!

Ugh. Okay whatever I’m cool on most things but here’s some stuff:

-Im a non-binary lesbian. I use they/she. I’m probably somewhere on a weird grey/asexuality spectrum I haven’t figured out yet

-kinnies are valid. It’s all fun and cool man

-I’m queer, and I respect you if you don’t want to use that word or be called it, and won’t call you it without your permission, but it’s still our word. Some of us use it. and if you think people reclaiming it is bad then I’m sorry bro. I’m out here living my best life lovin myself and I don’t wanna make u uncomfy

-I support mogai and people calling themselves whatever sexualities and shit they want. Labels are labels and they’re just for personal comfort and you gotta love yourself. Literally what is wrong with calling yourself anything as long as ur not hurting anyone? As long as it makes u feel good that’s what matters.

-Ace, pan, and trans pals, you’re welcome here. If you don’t support ace, pan and trans people I’m sorry you have a stick up ur ass u should get it checked out (obv I don’t include like. Pedophiles and shit. Incest isn’t a sexuality eugh). Pan isn’t inherently transphobic tf are some of you on about?? Literally one of my best friends is pan and trans wh

-I post GORE and BODY HORROR. YEs I tag things. Yeah I enjoy a lot of other fandoms that aren’t perfect, cus I can consume media critically? When did SU become problematic. Yeah it has its flaws but. It’s a good cartoon for kids w leabians I can enjoy???

(That said, if you dislike certain media for trauma reasons that’s valid and I’ll make sure to tag any other fandom that might work it’s way in here but like. Please. If you think you can’t consume media unless it’s perfect then I’m sorry bro it don’t work like that. Cancel culture is toxic. Enjoy that kinda shitty video game as long as you’re aware of the bad parts. Love urself n have fun)

-I’ve never read homestuck but a bunch of my trusted friends like it so (???). I don’t have any disc horse on that bro I’m neutral. Don’t worry I’ll tag any that might be referenced here It’s valid if u don’t like it ig?? Ya

-dear GOD I hate trump and everything he says. Acab and so is he. No I will not discuss this I thought we were all on the same page here??? Christ

-basically I’m a normal decent human being. I try to be polite and read DNI’s before interacting and holy hell some of y’all........... please........ quarantine really be getting to ya huh

-if u have any questions feel free to shoot an ask I don’t bite

Anyway I’m saying this cus I use tag crawler on my art (sending love to everyone who leaves nice tags), and I usually follow people that way but. Whew.

If any of this makes you’re uncomfortable, you’re welcome to block me if so! In fact, I encourage it, if I in any way make you uncomfortable. I try to be accommodating for everyone but sometimes people just got fundamentally different beliefs yo. Also don’t worry, I really hate drama and shit like this so posts like this will NOT become a regular thing. I just... had to say SOMETHING ykno.

It’s 7:30 am and I haven’t slept so I’m sorry if this is rambly but hot damn y’all. Anyway. back to the regular schedule

#id rather yall not reblog but if you do thats fine ig #please. some of u need a capri sun and a snickers bar

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"kiho is... fascinating rly" what do u mean 👀

their relationship dynamic is v fascinating and fanfic fuel.. lov the way kihyun... needs to win... and wonho kind of lets him........ but also they’re v tender idk LOV this photoset... ykh is always 100% serious when he attacks ??? but then he’s a very... aftercare guy.... bye

more asks under the cut (dated newest to oldest)

u kno that thing kihyun does when he has the camera where he like...tilts his head back a lil and shakes it a bit. it cute

hate 2 admit this but he rly is.... v c*te... v sexy 2 when he’s BEHIND the camera and he squints and grits one side of his teeth... ok ok ok ok alright alright alr

i dont rlly think hoseok is bi i think hes pan like if hes in love he doesnt rlly care what gender they are

mmm i use the two v interchangeably bc currently i don’t think there is a clear distinction between them? what u said is the traditional dictionary difference but a lot of bisexual people identify with that too and a lot of pansexual people don’t? like from what i’ve been observing, the bi = binary genders/more than one gender, pan = all genders thing doesn’t rly seem to help that much in establishing the difference btwn them? for example........ i usually say im bi irl and pan on tumblr just bc of the difference between levels of lgbtq understanding under varied contexts... but that obviously doesn’t apply to everyone... so yeah frankly i’m still confused abt the difference between them and i guess... just letting ppl fall into whatever they think is right for them is the only way to go? but like tell me if i’m getting smth wrong here lol. also i saved the url pansexualwonho shfjdkgj

hello bunny do u have a wishlist

no and get off my blog stinky

leave ur gf for me

what does it mean when ur gf has a bf and ur also kind of seeing kakashi hatake?? :/ are we all dating by association??

wonho looks like jooheon and IM sugar daddy in that picture or something....

jshgjfk i think this was abt the units teaser photo right? (x) tbh i feel like jooheon looks more sugar daddy here but wonho has a lot of potential... he’d definitely Spoil the person(s) he’s dating :/

I just checked and the members of that new variety show minhyuk will be in are all giants, they are all above 180cm, well besides actually minhyuk lolz it's kinda funny, but I guess he won't need to make himself seem smaller since he's the tiny one this time

my breath hitched when i read this ??? aaa ur right... tbh i don’t know how im going to... survive this show bc it’s... so blindingly... visual?? have high hopes for it i know he’s going to do so well... and ummmmmMM imagine him... making himself XXXXXXXXXXXXXS precisely bc he knows it’s going to b cute n like... tucking himself against eunwoo or smth i might die

YOUR TAGS MAKE ME SO HAPPY!!

THANK U?????? 💖💖💖💖💖 cute anons make me happi :’0

to reaffirm you as a wonho stan: you have 149 pages filed under wonho on your blog but only 118 under minhyuk. however i believe recently 3/5 of your posts are minhyuk posts.

this felt like it was heading somewhere but the second half jfkhgsj i mean,,

do you know where that picture of kihyun and the join forces with communists or end star wars picture is from with his hand up on a bluish greyish wall i rlly like his hand there u know and I think that we sHould join forces with him and he's right we need to make a stand for it but anyways if u know where the pocture is from may u pls share it thnx I lov ur blog lots

@marxistkihyun

[nsfw text warning] i was reading this wonhyuk fic and thought of u immediately archiveofourown org/works/10314092 mostlytop!mh slight daddy kink mh takes extra care of wh :') enjoy

UH ANON................ HOW DID U KNOW....... EXACTLY WHAT I LIKE...... AND THIS LINE... THIS LINE... “He likes Hoseok, but he likes when pretty girls tie him up and sit on his face too”,,,,,,,, rly the best lmh characterisation i’ve ever read sdjkfgh gbye this was rly sweet and well-written and realistic and i think??? i lov u?? and i lov my poly + bi boyfriends :(((( thank u sm for the rec i rly enjoyed it

i'm east asian too and non-asian ppl keep telling me that "rat" and "snake" are racial slurs and i've never heard of such a thing until i joined kpop fandom (rly recently). if you want my honest opinion it's another one of those things where like... overzealous SJWs nitpick terminology and project on POC even tho they have never experienced it themselves... idk. i rly have never heard any of those terms used against asians before as racial slurs...i've seen other asian fans also question this

(regarding this ask) yeah lmao i mean............ the more i think abt it the more i feel like it was ??? just such a strange thing to have been told... and the way it was said as well... like “this is a racial slur so don’t say it” feels condescending ?? like, me, an east asian person, being “educated” abt racism against east asian people by an anon on the internet for a post that had zero connection to race and terms taken way out of context (that generally aren’t racially charged anyway).... ok lol

Wonho decided to change the title from ^give it to you^ to ^524^ I wonder if it's because of their debut date or something similar?

yes~ 5.14 is their debut date! it was also the time on the clock in the teaser :3c but it still doesn’t rly explain why he changed it? strange bc i thought the song would b emo bc of the changed title but it was kinda.. boppy?? sounds more like a “give it 2 u” than a “last page” hmm but gotta hear the whole thing first ig

I have the impression that Wonho is a sensitive person, he can get hurt easily (but won't hold grudges) and carry his emotions for a really long time. I think he tends to delve in his emotions and thoughts constantly and is thoughtful of when/how he should share them to not burden others. He's ALL IN for his members, trying to cheer them up and tying them all together [rmbr when he made JooHyuk hug to avoid misunderstandings or when he gave Jooheon the biggest sweet potato] in a subtle way.

yessssssssssssssss yes i don’t have anything to add here yes yes yes he’s just... the best guy :(

The Monsta X/GOT7 Psychologist ISN'T A psychoanalist. AFAIK Psychoanalysis avoid archetypes, because the patient can use it as a excuse. Also, to psychoanalysis there isn't a cure, there's only a savoir-faire which means you won't change your past, but you can change how you feel about it, sometimes being able to extract lessons from those painful memories. Psychoanalysis works with words, the way we phrase things is how we conceive reality. So don't underrate your literal analysis+observations.

aaa thank u sm.......... i rly learnt a lot from u thank u v insightful.... pop psychology is fun but ig we have to be careful to not... confound it with the Real Thing and hold mx to it?? anyway thank u sm for taking the time to type out all ur asks they were v helpful!

wonho has honestly tried to kill minhyuk an incredible amount of times but in the end always remembers he can't commit murder in front of a camera...........................

idk wonho choking minhyuk was rly the hottest thing ive ever seen jsfhg bye God I Wish That Were Me

in that live where u said minhyuk tapped wonhos bicep with his little alien claw was honestly was so c*te... especially the contrast btwn mh featherless chicken feet fingers and wonho thiccness..... wonhyuk are rly so comfortable and natural with each other like u can't rly see it but it looks like wonho let go of the camera with the arm that was being tapped to hold minhyuks hand/wrist..................................................c*te

uh put thi s on my grave...... i love wonhyuk sm i could die :( they rly lov each other sm jkdgfhsdjkgfhhkkdg

Hellooo!

henlo rabbit

maybe im just naïve but starship ent. is overall an alright company - with all groups they promote they seem to be fair and equal and overall supportive :/ which makes me rlly thankful my children aren't being neglected;;

ahh yeah i think on the whole they’re not bad with mx... apart from when they didn’t send members to the hospital after they were in a literal car crash??? and idk just not great promo times and minor organisational things.. bc they have a certain amount of faith in mx the investment isn’t too shabby. but with like... other groups... like boyfriend...... idk ?? they were just shipped off to japan and never heard from again? and even sistar i mean, the conditions they worked in at the beginning was appalling :/

#its past 4am gotta slep :(( didnt get thru all of them but i will soon!!#ask #compilation #Anonymous

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kimnamsjoon · 7 years

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Hey bee! I saw your last post and was wondering why you don't like halsey?

heyo.

I actually wasn’t planning on answering this just because like, I don’t really wanna play a game of your fav’s problematic tonight but, you know, I also don’t wanna ignore you so I’ll just give a quick summary below the cut ig. it’s kind of long bc we all know I love to ramble, just…. fair warning ig.

Let me start out by saying that I used to look up to Halsey a lot. Like… she’a bipolar bisexual girl…. I’m a bisexual, borderline, non-binary girl… like…. I felt represented and a lot of her music, as edgy as it is, helped me through some very unstable, not happy times in my life. And so I looked up to her and admired her. Let me also just stay up front that I’ve got no receipts for this shit. I’ll link to some screenshots of her deleted tweets, but the thing is is that when she’s called out…. she deletes the tweets, makes a fake ass “I didn’t mean it” tweet, and then deletes that when everything’s blown over, which makes it really hard to prove shit. But also let me say that a large part of what I’m about to summarize in my “reasons I no longer personally support Halsey” thing down below, I experienced first hand. I followed both her and the girl she ostracized on twitter, I saw the way she treated the girl, and it’s absolutely what drove me to stop supporting her.Which brings me to what exactly happened. This was, I don’t know, a year ago? My memory in general is really fuzzy (props to mental illness for that one) so I don’t have like a general time frame other than “idk a year ago, maybe two” so I apologize for that. I don’t have specific tweets and I don’t even remember the fans twitter account that suffered but like, it happened and I’m sure others out there witnessed it too. I feel like it was really big on twitter for a minute, but maybe that’s just ‘cause I followed the girl and Halsey so it felt big??? anyways, this was around the time that Halsey was (rightfully) being criticized for repeatedly making out with minors during her concerts. I don’t think I have to explain why that’s wrong, but just in case: minors cannot consent to adults, and even if they could, she didn’t ask if they consented prior to shoving her tongue down their throats; she didn’t even ask age, and if she asked anything at all, it was “are you single?” Furthermore, who’s going to say no to a kiss at a concert in front of hundreds, if not thousands of people? Could you imagine the pressure, and could you imagine the backlash from jealous fans? It’s just all around dubious, and it one-hundred percent made me uncomfortable, especially since I was still in high school myself at the time. (and for other deeply personal reasons you can ask me about ((privately)) if u really wanna know but im not tryna get into that here).But I still supported Halsey because I looked up to her, and the fans she had kissed has said they wanted it/would have consented. It made me uncomfortable, especially since she’s tweeted things like this [x] in the past, but I was in a very bad place mentally at the time, and her music was a great help to me so I wasn’t ready to accept that the girl I looked up and thought so highly of was so… trashy. Anyways, there was another (minor, as in, a minor) fan, the one I followed, that felt like me, which is to say she didn’t really know how to feel about it. She was uncomfortable, especially since she was a minor, but she really looked up to Halsey. And she made a tweet about it, I don’t remember the specifics, and as far as I know the girl has since deleted her twitter from being bullied so badly by Halsey’s fans, but it was something along the lines of “this halsey thing makes me uncomfortable” but in a lot more words. She didn’t even mention Halsey, had the whole H.alsey thing goin’ and everything and was a huge Halsey fan. And Halsey got ahold of it, somehow despite the girl having a whopping 120-somethin’ followers, and retweeted it to her followers, complaining that the girl COULD have messaged her privately to discuss this. It was… really extra.Anyways, I think we all know what comes next, right? Fans, of any variety, are super fuckin’ protective of their favs, and they really know how to act like rabid dogs when they want to. They absolutely destroyed this poor girl, a minor, and she was begging Halsey to tell them to stop because she’s mentally ill, it’s giving her panic attacks, she’s not okay. It’s really messy and really awful, especially because the girl didn’t even say anything negative about Halsey in the first damn place. And Halsey’s response was, basically, “well i’m mentally ill too, and i dont control them”. The poor girl ended up shifting gears and just asking Halsey to delete the retweets, which still sat proudly on Halsey’s timeline, right up top, and Halsey downright refused. She played a whole ass victim card because a minor was uncomfortable with her making out with other minors, and then did absolutely nothing to stop her fans from attacking a minor. I ended up unfollowing the girl and Halsey that night because it was TOO much for me, a mentally ill myself, to handle. I’ve got BPD, and it was just… it was too much for me. I couldn’t stan her after that, and I definitely couldn’t listen to her music after that. After this incident died down (maybe a week later?) is around the time people started digging up her problematic tweets. I was starting to feel like maybe I wanted to like Halsey? You know, she was actually, truthfully going through some serious shit at the time, and she’s mentally ill herself, which mental illness is never an excuse to be a shitty fucking person, but I understand exactly what that’s like, so It was hard to fault her when I’ve been there myself??? Anyways, I mentioned earlier that I’m nonbinary. More specifically, I identify as genderfluid (she/they/he pronouns are all okay! I’m not pronoun specific), but I spend a very large amount of time on the male/masc side of the spectrum (which is why I go by Bee! It’s very androgynous, unlike Brenna, and so it doesn’t aggravate my dysphoria when im feeling masc). I’m not exactly out, and I definitely wasn’t back then, so I didn’t start presenting masc until literally right around the time all this drama cropped up. And… a lot of boys, and some girls that were into me, weren’t exactly into that, and I got called the tr*nny slur a lot, which didn’t help and…. can you guess what came out about Halsey? lmaoYeah, she was exposed for using the t-slur, and it really, really fucking hurt. There’s literally nothing worse than someone you look up to using slurs meant to hurt you. It’s literally the worse. And instead of apologizing and admitting she was wrong, she said “well, I was young” and used that as an excuse. and sure, being young can be a valid response… when you’re a kid. But she wasn’t a kid, and she was definitely old enough to know that fucking tr*nny was and is not an okay thing to say, so…. anyways, if she had just genuinely apologized and said she was wrong, it wouldn’t have been so bad, but she just deflected the whole thing and then deleted the tweet when no one was looking. Here’s a screen shot for anyone curious. [x]

Since this mess, a lot more has been exposed about her that has really cemented my disinterest for her, but listen, I’m not a detective and I’m not digging up sources for you. Just google Halsey + problematic, I’m sure someone’s done the work for you. I stopped paying attention to her after the tr*nny thing, so I don’t even know the specifics to tell you if I wanted lmao.

So that’s like, that. It’s all very anecdotal, i know, but you asked why I, personally, disliked her and that’s why. yea,,,,

#i highkey talking about this type of shit im always paranoid im gonna gget someone up my ass ajkdkjhad #ayways #she's trash and that's that and u kno #do u but do u away from my boys pls #....#bee answers

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extrasadpeaches · 5 years

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these past few weeks...

have been so hard for me, we can start with the overwhelming amount of stress between two part-time jobs, and 5 ap classes with no car of my own, trying to fit everything in, i feel like i barely have free time anymore, i’m trying to mend friendships, keep up with friendships and still maintain my relationship, but it’s all so so much and i have to start applying for colleges and everything has become so real in a sense, i feel like i can’t breathe most of the time, i’m never hungry anymore, i don’t have any motivation, i’m getting behind. I went to talk to my counselor about college and what to do about fasfa applications considering not only that my parents make a good bit of money, but also about what to do because i know that i’m not going to be able to rely on them after this year, i’m non-binary AND queer and they have,,,, a lot to say on that, i haven’t come out to them yet and they have very high expectations of me that i feel like i can not reach, so that adds to the stress, they have personally told me numerous times that if i come out as gay or trans or anything of the sort, that they would beat it out of me and if that doesn’t work then they will kick me out and disown me. I’m at a loss here, i didn’t tell my counselor about the threading part of it bc i know she will have to report it and then cps would get involved and i would get outted, which would not be okay for me, especially if cps finds out they can not do anything about it, i don’t know what to do, she called me up and asked me what’s wrong and i immediately started crying and everytime she would even talk about it i would start to cry again, which is so super fun, and we got a few things fingered out but she can’t do anything about the situation, she hopes for a better outcome, but she also told me that i would still need to fill out the fasfa with my parents information because i am still living in their house and things like that, i don’t know how i’m going to pay for college at this point and it’s fucking terrifying. Being disowned is going to be so fucking hard and i don’t know how i’m going to deal with that, i know i can’t live in the closet forever, but my own parents cutting me out of their life, never getting to talk to them again until they are probably at deaths door and have decided to let me in again or something, which may not even happen, that’s so fucking scary. I don’t want to ruin my sibilings relationships with my parents or my nephews relationships with them bc i would become so depressed i would probably loose it, so i may not even be able to keep them in my life, at least not as much. my counselor sent in a recommendation for me to go into the therapy that they have available and hopefully they will accept me and i can try to work through this ig, but it’s so fucking hard. my girlfriend barely talks to me about things anymore and she seems like she is getting distant and i don’t know what to do, so much is happening and it’s all at once and my brain hurts and i just want to fucking sleep, like i wanted to maybe spend as much time as i could with my parents, but i als know that it will only make things harder on myself for the future, i know they won’t accept me, i know they are fucking stupid with god awful opinions and i don’t need them in my life, but these are my still my parents, who is going to be my parent support at my wedding? who is going to be there for me to fall back on when i fail? who is going to be there? i just don’t want to exist anymore, i don’t want to deal with this anymore, i don’t want to be the favorite kid for so long and be disowned like i don’t even exist to my own FUCKING parents, why? why did i have to have such an unsupportive pair of parents? why did they have to be so fucking far right winged they don’t even know what left is? why did they have to be so god awful towards me during these years? but most importantly, why do i have to still love them and care about what they think of me or care in general? what am i supposed to learn from this? this is just my thoughts for today but there’s more

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