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How to cleanse your aura

ENERGY GIVERS

Sunlight;Go for a walk every other day and expose your body to sunlight. 10 deep belly breaths first thing flood your body with energizing oxygen & life force energy. The key? Breathe with INTENTION for your body to heal & feel energized. Deep breaths activate the calming nervous system to regulate the stress response. Pay attention to your breath as you breathe slowly in a natural rhythm.

Healthy, nourishing food

Exercise

Laughter

Cuddles with a pet

Self-care

Meditation

Reading/writing

Meditating

Cold showers; Step into the shower, close your eyes and sand under the water,allow the water to encompass your body like a waterfall. Stretch vour hands as high as you can while vou're under the water. Imagine all negative thoughts and energy leaving through your toes while new energy goes in through your fingertips. As the water falls visualize your body, and watch the old energy. illness, negativity,burdens,rears bad thoughts(ect..) being washed away down the drain.

a glass of water;Take a minute to drink water with intention. Treat it like a mini meditation. Feel grateful, visualize your day going as planned, speak life + good into your body & water as you drink it. Water is energy & has memory. Infuse it with loving intention to energize your body.

Sleep

Journaling

Smiling

ENERGY TAKERS

Overthinking

Jealousy

Screens/social media

Clutter

Dehydration

An inconsistent sleep pattern

Unhealthy,un nourishing food

Alcohol depending

People pleasing

Setting unrealistic goals

Sloppy boundaries

going-going-going without rest

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Women need to embrace not having friends and moving independently. Having no friends doesn’t mean you lack anything, if anything it means you are at an advantage because you are the sole focus of your life and you’re not looking for approval from anyone.

Sometimes you need to walk alone and be confident alone without looking for anyone’s validation or permission.

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Contemporary Haute Couture: Heaven Gaia’s SS 2018 Collection

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“I always wanted to be a femme fatale. Even when I was a young girl, I never really wanted to be a girl. I wanted to be a woman.”

— Diane von Furstenberg

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Nina Ricci - Fall 1996 Couture

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Women have been at the forefront of Palestinian life throughout the region's modern history, serving in just about every aspect of society, from community organisers to political negotiators. Palestinian women are among the most educated in the Arab world with a 94 percent literacy rate and girls outperforming boys in academic testing. In keeping with trends elsewhere in the Arab world, women are well represented in so-called STEM subjects (science, technology, engineering and maths), often surpassing male participation in subjects, such as physics.

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what can I say about being a woman

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NEVER date a man for his potential

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Just in case you needed a guide to human relationships & interactions and how to actually relate to people I have one for you, & it's made of 3 parts.

People are different from you. There's literally not one human being out there exactly like you, you could have an identical twin with the same parents same childhood &c and I promise you you're nothing alike. You've lived such different lives despite 75% similarity in DNA. Understanding that people form their opinions belief systems worldview & c on individual experiences based on their trauma, family dynamics, cultures, home value systems, literally climate etc and we are all different will save you from easily getting triggered when someone doesn't share your opinion bc you're not in their shoes you don't know why they have/that/ opinion so you have no grounds to go feral. People are different from you. Understand this & save yourself the embarrassment of pointless arguments & little virtue locks because you cannot fathom different opinions when it's literally the one single truth. Understand this sk you're not going to war with people on the reblogs for not having the same pov. Yours makes sense to you. Theirs makes sense to, them. Who are you to decide whose is the absolute truth?

You are not a God get off your little high horse you're a human being. People do not owe you worship or discipleship. They don't have to believe everything you say or buy into you. Well within their rights to look at what you say or do and say yeah that's a load of bullshit. You're not a God so you're not always right, remember this the next time you're about to lay your life on the ground over an opinion, you could be wrong. Nothing will hurt you more than that thewizardliz my way or no way mindset. Remember the things you used to defend with your life when you were like 10 that you're rn absolutely disgusted by? Leave space & never speak in absolutes & never degrade another's opinion to the ground, you could be wrong & it will be very very very embarrassing for you when you find out you were.

Everyone is right, all the time. There is no absolute in this universe. Unlearn debates they're mighty pointless, everyone is right every single time. Truth is very subjective so the girl that has been traumatized by M3n saying all m3n deserve d3ath is right, if you were her you'd say the same thing and the v3gan is right & the carnivore is right & the conservative is right & the liberal is right- because everyone is right all the time and I promise if you were in their shoes, you'd see it. You'd see it. Even when someone Says the dumbest stuff known to existence, from where they are standing, they're right. Debates are pointless. Extremely. You can not fathom the kind of life others have had, not even your siblings or children- what then gives you the confidence to decide what should be right to them? Know your place.

So human interactions work better when you understand these, they just do. Once you no longer feel the need to justify your pov because you know you're literally the only one with it it's just makes things, easier thats why the apostle Paul said to never argue with people about opinions, its useless & tempts them and you to sin. It makes you more understanding & empathetic & pleasant & sophisticated to be around, it's the winners draw. You unlearn the need to argue because you know they'll never see it like you and you'll never see it like them so you take the high road and find middle ground or nod along and go home or find a way to say I don't agree, but I can accommodate that you think like that, and watch how people completely flock to you. There's no power , at all, to 'my way or no way' find your own little planet & leave that thewizardliz mindset on YouTube. Human beings are social relational creatures, part of relationships is accommodation.

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Excerpts that just make ☆sense☆

#im supposed to be scriptwriting #but you know when I find tea I serve # <3

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Alexander McQueen spring 2003

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Manifestation

It’s the idea is that by believing you can do something and focusing your thoughts and energy in that direction, you can actually make it happen.

For instance, instead of thinking “This is my dream house but I’ll never be able to afford it,” changing your thought process to “This is my dream house and I will work hard so I can live in it someday,” can help you turn that dream into a reality.

Here are a few affirmations to use;

I am powerful

I am completely unfazed by other people’s thoughts and opinions of me

I am in complete control of my emotions

I am sexy and mysterious

The world is my runway

I am the IT girl

My energy radiates mystery,seduction and magnetism

I am letting go of all negativity and hatred towards myself

Men get on their knees for my attention

I am unforgettable

Everything I deserve will come

Everything I wish for will arrive at the perfect time

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Chapter two:The dating handbook

Drink Dates,

but don’t do them.

(if you’re Looking for a relationship)

These days, going out for drinks is usually the go-to first date for millennial women who enjoy social drinking. It’s a low pressure way of getting to know someone and you can relax at the same time with your glass of Riesling. If you don’t like him, you can easily make an excuse and leave after your first drink. This was my main reason for having done a lot of drink dates throughout my dating life. That and the fact that I was afraid that if we do a dinner date, he might ask me to split the check. At least with drinks, if he wanted to split the check, it won’t be as expensive.

My outlook has changed since then.

Be girlfriend material. Make it expensive to take you out to filter out low effort men.

Accepting drink dates will not yield you men who are looking for relationships and it will place you in the category of a “fun girl” instead of a girlfriend/wife. If you’ve met a man socially and he asked you out on a date, requiring that he take you out to dinner will call for more financial investment on his part, which is one of the ways you can tell if a man is serious about you. Plenty of men offer drink dates because it’s a low financial investment on his part and it allows him to see as many women as possible. A man who only wants to do drink dates after you’ve stated that you only do dinner dates is a red flag and I would personally pass on that man. Remember that a lot of men do drink dates because they know that alcohol smoothes the way for sexual encounters.

What if you meet someone on a dating app? Now, should you still expect a dinner date from someone you’ve never met before? My answer is still yes. Online dating is notorious for attracting men who are only looking for something casual, so it’s even more imperative to only do dinner dates if they want to take you out in order to filter out low effort men. Before embarking on a date, do a pre-date phone call first to test for conversational compatibility and to make your expectations clear beforehand.

You need a sound mind to filter men.

Don’t drink during the first few dates with a man. Why? This will allow you to have a sound mind when it comes to filtering a man — does he pass your standards, does he have dealbreakers, does he seem like a good person? You need to be able to judge a man’s character with an alert mind. Being under the influence of alcohol makes you focus more on the “fun parts” of the date like how attractive he is and how much you like kissing him, instead of analyzing if he’s the right fit for you and if he’s boyfriend material.

So what should you do instead?

For first dates, I recommend dinner dates. You can do one in 90 minutes to an hour to see if you'd like to see him again. Do a pre-date phone call beforehand to see if you're on the right page, to communicate your expectations, and to make sure it's worth it to get all dressed up for him.

I've seen quite a few comments on this sub where women flat out tell a man that they don't do coffee dates and they expect to be taken out to dinner. I think there is a better way to do this that maintains your dignity and that also helps vet the man.

On occasions where I've had men suggest a low effort date. I have two go to responses:

"Thank you for the invitation, but that is not the type of date I'm accustomed to."

"Never mind, if it's too much trouble for you to plan an appropriate date, perhaps we're not a good match."

In my next blog,I’ll be discussing how to appear as a HIGH-VALUED WOMAN in a relationship, stay tuned!

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