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yourfavealbumisgender · 8 months

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Welcome to Your Fave Album Is Gender

Requests are currently closed! For info on the progress of a request check here! Rules and info below the cut.

What are the rules?

Send requests through the ask box.

All genders and sexualities are allowed as long as there’s a flag I can use to overlay the album cover.

However, I will not accept requests for cis/straight albums (“____ by ____ is cisgender”) (This includes polyamorous by itself. I am happy to do polyamorous with a queer identity included.)

No more than two requests at a time please!

No more than two flags on an album please! (Not that I don't support using multiple labels, it's just hard for me to edit more than two flags!)

YOU HAVE TO TELL ME WHAT SEXUALITY/GENDER YOU WANT THE ALBUM TO BE OTHERWISE I CAN'T DO YOUR REQUEST!!!!

Please let me know if there's a specific flag you'd like me to use in your request (gay mlm flag vs rainbow, transfem/masc vs transgender, etc) Otherwise I'll use my best judgement to pick whichever fits best. (I use the Gilbert Baker flag as a default for the rainbow/gay flag, please let me know if you'd like a different version of the rainbow flag or the homosexual/mlm flag) (I will NOT use the original bigender flag with the white stripe in the middle on this blog. The creator is a transphobic abusive groomer.)

All albums or singles from any genre and language are allowed as long as they have official album art.

However, I have the right to not accept any request for whatever reason. The blacklist is below. If you send requests for the artists or albums on my blacklist, your request will be deleted.

Requests take awhile to upload depending on how many I have. I only post 2 per day. Please be patient.

Yes, you can use any of my edits as icons but please do not repost them without credit.

What artists will I not make edits for?

Alice Cooper All Time Low Brand New Cardi B Chris Brown Cobra Starship Dance Gavin Dance Destroy Boys Doja Cat Falling In Reverse Harry Styles Hazbin Hotel/ Helluva Boss/ Vivziepop Jack Off Jill John Hinckley Kanye West Lostprophets Lovejoy Machine Gun Kelly Marilyn Manson Mayhem Melanie Martinez Midtown Mindless Self Indulgence Miracle Musical (Joe Hawley) Morningwood New Found Glory Palaye Royale R Kelly SWMRS Twenty One Pilots TX2 Wilbur Soot XXXTentacion

What albums will I not make edits for?

Anything by any of the artist above Dying is Your Latest Fashion - Escape The Fate album Escape The Fate - Escape The Fate EP There's No Sympathy for the Dead - Escape The Fate EP Joe's Garage - Frank Zappa album Girls/Girls/Boys - Panic! At The Disco single Death Of A Bachelor - Panic! At The Disco album Pray For The Wicked - Panic! At The Disco album Viva Las Vengeance - Panic! At The Disco album No Phun Intended - Tyler Joseph release

Note: These lists may be added to at any time.

Who is allowed to interact?

Anyone can interact as long as you are not one of the following:

TERF/SWERF/Radfem/Truscum/Transmed/“Gender critical”/Exclusionist

LGBTQA+ phobic/Racist/Nazi/Anti-Vax/Republican/All/Blue Lives Matter/Pro-Life/Misogynist/Zionist

Rape Apologist/MAP/NOMAP/Pedo

Who are you?

My name is Hades, my pronouns are they/them, I’m 24, and I'm gendervoid! My main is @sp1n I am a my chemical romance, j-pop, and vocaloid enjoyer! I hope you enjoy this blog!

credit for dividers goes to theprideful

#h.txt #intro post

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coochiequeens · 1 year

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Jeanna Hoch was “seen using self-defense spray against a group of three adult male trans activists who had flanked her, one of which attempted to spit directly into her face.” Yet Antifa is targeting a mother who founded a Cannabis clinic for mothers for being “transphobic.”

A women’s rights campaigner is being terrorized by Antifa after attending a freedom of speech event focused on sex-based rights.

Jeanna Hoch, a mother and founder of the CannaMamma Clinic, was first targeted after attending a Let Women Speak event in Tacoma, Washington. Let Women Speak is part of a US tour organized by popular British advocate Kellie-Jay Keen, and is centered around mirroring the Speaker’s Corner events Keen has held in the United Kingdom for years.

Hoch had first attended Keen’s event in San Fransisco on October 22. Three days later, she followed the tour to Portland, Oregon, where the scheduled event was canceled due to credible threats of violence. Despite the cancellation, Hoch and a number of other women continued on without Keen being present as a show of resistance.

During the unofficial demonstration in Portland, multiple women were pelted with whipped cream pies by trans activists as they peacefully spoke on sex-based rights.

The next day, Hoch attended the Let Women Speak event at Tollefson Plaza in Tacoma, Washington.

The gathering, which included a small group of women peacefully speaking on behalf of their sex-based rights, was quickly derailed by violent trans activists and Antifa. Multiple physical altercations were recorded at the Tacoma event, with some trans activists showing up wearing brass knuckles and attempting to grapple female speakers to the ground.

In a video of a particularly intense altercation that quickly began to circulate on social media, Hoch was seen using self-defense spray against a group of three adult male trans activists who had flanked her, one of which attempted to spit directly into her face.

Since the footage of Hoch defending herself at the rally went viral, she has become a target for Antifa groups who are attempting to spread her personal information in order to intimidate her.

A Colorado Springs-based Antifa group has been the most vocal against Hoch. The groups describes themselves as a “a collective of private citizens who are engaged in the fight against fascism, racism, sexism, xenophobia, homophobia, and transphobia. [And are] committed to the complete destruction of the white supremacist, capitalist patriarchy.”

Although purportedly “committed to fighting against sexism,” the group has been putting Hoch and her family in danger for her participation in women-led events.

On October 29, three days after the Tacoma demonstration, Colorado Springs Antifa published a blog post about Hoch on their official website.

Her home address is offered at the top of the post, as well as a link to a flyer with her photo, full name, age, and address. The flyer also features a QR code and a link to the blog post itself, which paints Hoch and the other women who attended the Tacoma event out to be far-right fascists. On November 6, Antifa members distributed physical copies of the flyer in Hoch’s neighborhood and showed up at her home.

Antifa members also took pictures of one of her vehicles and posted her license plate online. One of her vehicles was also vandalized during the visit, with one Antifa member gluing a death threat to the driver’s side front windshield of her car.

Speaking to Reduxx, Hoch says she travelled to go to the pro-woman events because she was inspired by Kellie-Jay Keen.

“I chose to join the tour because I’d wanted to do a Speaker’s Corner event inspired by Keen and the UK in Colorado for a long time, but hadn’t for a number of reasons — most of all, safety,” Hoch explains, noting that she had first met Keen in New York City, and then again during a protest in Atlanta against Lia Thomas competing in women’s sports. “I’ve followed [Keen] since about 2017 or so. She is every bit as dedicated, intelligent, witty, and admirable as she comes off online.”

Hoch says it was actually after her appearance at the Portland event on October 25 that Antifa groups first began attempting to dox her, but the Colorado Springs faction became involved after Tacoma.

“After Tacoma, every social media account I manage – especially Facebook and Instagram – became overrun with hateful comments and threats for a solid week. They also used my website’s contact forms to send me hate mail. I received a couple prank calls. The fliers happened about 10 days after the event.”

Hoch has three children, and she told Reduxx she was concerned for their well-being. She has two kids aged two and eight who she believes she can protect, but her oldest, a high school senior, can’t miss school.

“He’s been instructed to stay on high alert, carry a [self-defense item], and be willing to defend himself. Yes, I believe we are in danger, and at the very least, they want us to believe we are in danger.”

Colorado Springs Antifa has also been spreading information about Hoch’s life in an attempt to discredit her within the feminist movement, including that she has experience in the sex trade and supports the use of medicinal cannabis. But Hoch is unbothered, and instead points to the group’s hypocrisy.

“I gave Meghan Murphy an interview about my involvement in sex work … Antifa is the biggest group of organized and hypocritical incels in existence. They claim to hate SWERF, and didn’t know how to act when their equally-hated TERF is also a sex worker,” Hoch says. “It wouldn’t be the first time how I made money has been used against me, to attack me. Radical feminists do it too. I’m used to it.”

SWERF is an acronym for “Sex Worker Exclusionary Radical Feminist,” and TERF is the acronym for “Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist.” Both terms are colloquially used as slurs against women who express views of either “sex work,” trans ideology, or both.

Though its clear Antifa is attempting to force her into silence through intimidation tactics, Hoch says she isn’t particularly worried about financial or social losses due to the campaign, as she has been open about her politics with her family and friends.

“Women have always been abused and silenced when we try and speak up for ourselves and our children. These Antifa agents aren’t doing anything new or special. They aren’t fighting back against an oppressive system. They are oppressors.”

Hoch invokes Grey Panthers founder and Women’s Hall of Fame inductee Maggie Kuhn in advice she has for other women, quoting her iconic line: Speak, even if your voice shakes.

“None of the threats, the actual danger or fear in my head, matter more than words of thanks and encouragement I have received from the people my work was meant to help.”

By Yuliah Alma Yuliah is a junior researcher and journalist at Reduxx. She is a passionate advocate for women's rights and child safeguarding. Yuliah lives on the American east coast, and is an avid reader and book collector.

#I stand with Jeanna Hoch #CannaMamma Clinic #Let Women Speak #Tacoma #washington #Kellie-Jay Keen

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twopoppies · 3 months

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Hi,

I follow your blog and consider you quite thoughtful and considered. You may feel that you are being supportive when you reblog content about Isreal and the war, and as a Jew who has learned that most are not interested in hearing any other narrative than Israelies are bad and the Palestinians are good, I will tell you there is a lot of grey in between. If you are ever interested in an open and honest discussion about the situation I am happy to have one any time. In terms of Roger Waters, he is a vile antisemite who has been spewing dangerous antisemitic tropes for years, his own bandmates have disowned him. He is not only an antisemite but a pro-Putan anti-Ukraine lunatic who believes China has a better human rights record than the United States. If he was let go from BMG it was because he is a despicable human, his support of Palestine had nothing to do with it, I can guarantee you that. Please read this article https://variety.com/2023/music/news/roger-waters-antisemitic-says-polly-samson-david-gilmour-agrees-pink-floyd-ukraine-1235515432/

Well, as a Jew, myself, I have never said I think “Israelis are bad and Palestinians are good”. What I do think is that the Israeli government (along with the backing of the US government) is committing horrific war crimes against innocent Palestinian people.

I know very little about Roger Waters or his stances on various things, but from that article he sounds a little all over the place. So, perhaps BMG dropped him because of all of it, perhaps it was the Palestinian support that was the nail in the coffin. But I also know that in general these companies don’t really give a shit about what a terrible person you are (R. Kelly, Chris Brown etc etc) until you do something that directly affects them or their bottom line.

Although I appreciate the offer to look at things from another POV, I don’t really care enough about Roger Waters to delve into it. And I am honestly a bit worn down from listening to the pro-Israeli people in my life defending the Israeli government and settlers. So I hope you’ll understand the thank you, but no thank you, to your idea to discuss further.

#roger waters

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thestarpletsystem · 4 months

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maxverstepponme · 11 months

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I'm the crazy obsessed and delusional Indian lady who thinks she's in a relationship with max and some of the things I do may seem similar to kelly or what she has done in the past but I think its the differences that count.

1. Kelly had max right by her side when she made fake accounts and spread rumors about being with him. And his ex gf wasn't still pretending to be his gf on social media or irl.

If I have max by my side rn or when our relationship isn't public yet, I wouldn't be on my phone so much or we would be reading any gossip together and laugh about the fake stuff and then get busy with other stuff 🙈

2. I dont support conservatives especially after posting pro-choice stores on insta. I'm still not sure where exactly I stand on the topic(only when it comes to consensual sex), but I'm open to discussion and learning.

3. I'll never post personal information especially after being asked not to. I dont have anything on insta right now and I will start posting but it's going to be with the approval of everyone that's involved.

And I dont mind answering questions on your blog about our relationship together, now and then when we're free. I have plans to not be so away from the fans during the winter break, cuz I've been there and I know how I've missed him, they don't involve pictures tho.

4. I dont like drinking. I know he loves it and she loves it but I don't think I can get myself to start drinking. It might change when we're older but I can't guarantee anything for now.

5. I have no obsession with branded stuff. Yes I do prefer them cuz they're good quality but If it's a pretty dress I don't mind who made it. And I hope no one forces me to be any brand's ambassador cuz I just want to wear what I like and I can't do that if I'm working with a particular brand. And I'll be wearing Indian outfits mostly cuz I'm most comfortable in them and please don't expect any fashion tips or anything related to fashion basically. I'm just as fashionable as max but a little better cuz I don't like wearing the same outfit all the time, I like variety 😜 but don't worry max i won't bother you too much about it but I will push you to try new colors tho 😛

6. And if some max fans don't like me or are rude to me, I will block them but I won't make max do it from his account unless he himself wants to.

7. Most importantly, I won't flip him in the pictures. I never understood that anyway. I'll most probably remain private, I haven't figured it out yet, but if I do, I'll share our pics that we want to be out with maxverstxppen. Maxv1stappen and I aren't on good terms, it's a shame cuz I really like their edits.

8. And I don't want fan pages or 'styleofchandana' pages. Maybe edits pages for max and I, cuz I like edits..

9. I hope there's a TV in Max's room in rb motorhome cuz I'll most probably watch the races from there cuz I dont think I can control my emotions on live TV 😅

10. I'm a very family oriented girl and very proudly a mama's girl. So It breaks my heart everytime I think about how max and sophie had to stay apart during his childhood. And also how they currently live so far apart, I'm sure it gets boring living alone in her big house..so I'll try to push for some way she can live nearby so we can frequently meet and so she can have her time with her son that she sacrificed for his career 💗

I can only think of these for now, I'll post later if I can think of any more.

No. You get the fuck away from here.

This is a gossip blog and some things may sound delulu, but they’re not as delulu as this or you. Like I’ve said before -and like everyone knows-, I don’t like Kelly, but if I have to defend her from people like you, I will. What you’re doing is absolutely disgusting. You’ve crossed the line with this clown show, so don’t even try to call yourself a Max fan.

Despite us not liking Kelly, we’re not harassing her and everyone related to her and Max saying they broke up, much less messaging Red Bull and Verstappencom the way I know you’ve done. Keep doing this and I’ll find a way to let them -Max’s team- know about this.

Everyone go report her wherever you see her. If she makes new accounts let me know and I’ll post them here so people can report it.

#max verstappen #kelly piquet

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aqgarts · 10 months

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Hi, I'm AQG Arts!

As you can tell from my bio (and my posts), I am an 'artist' who enjoys drawing anything that will make people laugh. I also love to write, though I haven't made any posts containing my writing. I'm also currently- actually, no. No spoilers :p. Instead, let me link the project when it's ready 😉

My pronouns are she/her/they/them

Here are some fun facts about me:

. I am a bi lesbian in a straight relationship

. I am a Demigirl

. I have a yt channel

. I have a discord

. I have an insta

. Please sign the Griffin Petition uwu

. I love Halo, Warframe, COD, Ghost Recon, etc

. I have four birds (two of which are just as old as me lol); France, Prince (cocktails), Buck and Dare (parrots).

. I have two fish, one's about 5-7 yrs, the other about 2 yrs (Jerome'eis and Tiger)

. I have a cat (Kelly)

. I have a horse (Archie, pictured bellow)

DNI:

. Queerphobes

. BLERQs (Bi Lesbian Exclusionary...)

. TERFs (Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist)

. MERQs (MSPEC Exclusionary...)

. Anti-gay Christians (you know the ones)

. Zoos/'MAPs'/pedos (These people are NOT Queer; They are bigots, and they are actually harming people, even if they are 'non-practising'. The difference between them and us MSPECs is exactly that: They hurt people, and we just want to live our lives.)

. Misogynists

. Pro-lifers (don't even lol)

. Pro genocide (you are disgusting)

. Racists

. AI 'artists' (anyone who uses AI with that type of mindset (iykyk) will be purged from thou blog, UwU. In other words, no AI bros)

Here's some of my fav art things I've done (some are WIPS), just so you can get a taste of my art lol. enjoy :D

And for those of you wondering who the last one is, these are my Halo OCs (who is also a bit of a god/prophet of mine), Kalmaya-A118 and her 'AI' buddy, Firefall, redrawn. If you wanna find out a bit more about her, just look at the lovely little things I wrote down bellow ;)

I might add to her dotn't points later, however, for now, this will have to do. Also, be warned; Kalmaya isn't actually in the Halo universe. In fact, if she was, she'd break it because she is... too powerful.

Here are some 'fun' facts about Kalmaya A118 and her bestis bud, Firefall :3

. She lives in an alternative-but-not-really-alternative universe, where her powers can be handled (she's too gay for gaylo)

. She visits the cannon timeline, but only time to time (and only to cause chaos cas she a gremlin fr)

. In her universe, they're missing a couple of people (who are in my basement), but they're only a few 'KIA' Spartan's that ppl tend to forget abt... and maybe 3 or 4 or 10 very alive ones. (Spartèmon, gotta catch em all...)

. Kalmaya is technically a demigod (on the premise that I am a God)

. Kalmaya owns a gravemind (awolololo gang for life yo)

. Kalmaya is also a bi les

. Kalmaya yoinked Umbra and a few other warframes outta their universes when she- actually, this will be hard to explain without writing a story on it (hint hint future me)

. Kalmaya is lovingly nicknamed 'Brutedundee'

. Kalmaya bonked Ballas (because I couldn't 😤)

. Kalmaya beat the living shit out of Chak Lok's corpse (because that's what real heroes do when their bestie gets hurt)

. Kalmaya is not permitted to bring a bag of live popcorn onto any ship unless it is her own and no one is aboard; if she is caught doing so, Firefall will become straight and embarrass the shit out of her...

Ima keep adding to these dot points later, but for now? For now enjoy these brain sharts >:3

#warframe #halo #art #bi lesbian safe #spartan griffin deserves to be retconned #retcongriffin #about my blog #about me #pinned post #pinned intro #aqg and her art #aqg and kelly #getting aqg's bs #aqg and archie #aqg stupidity

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canonicallyobserving911 · 2 years

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Evan "Buck" Buckley: HUSBAND vs. HIMBO

Please note: This post includes the results of a detailed CANON character study and scene analyses from seasons 1-5 completed for Evan "Buck" Buckley of 9-1-1 on Fox.

Buck has exhibited two drastically different personas over the past five years and usually the persona he expresses depends on the person with whom he's interacting. Whenever he was in relationships with women, he acted like he couldn't articulate himself which caused his persona to come across as very immature. It became difficult for him to communicate with them and he hesitated to express the things he expected or needed from their relationship. Basically he acted like a big HIMBO who didn't want to get scolded or start an argument with the woman he was with because in his mind, it would have led to her leaving him. On the contrary, his persona is very different when he interacts with Eddie; it's mature, nurturing and well spoken. He effectively steps into the role of a HUSBAND whenever he's with Eddie and he instantly becomes confident in that role without him second guessing the way he should act. He effectively communicates with Eddie and they blindly trust one another. His greatest fear with regards to Eddie is the possibility of losing him to death not abandonment.

In all of Buck's relationships with women he acted like a HIMBO or a beautiful man who was nothing more than arm and eye candy the women could use to parade around in front of people. He allowed the women he dated to abandon, manipulate, mistreat and use him for his parts and/or his looks (read blog post "All of Buck's Women” for a detailed analysis). Abby used him for his parts and so did Ali and Taylor. None of them were willing to put in the work it would have taken them to build him up and encourage him to be the best version of himself. In season 1, Abby used him for sex, abandoned him and didn't have the decency to tell him she wasn't coming back in 1x10 "A Whole New You". Ali left him after his leg got crushed by a ladder truck because she said his job was too dangerous in 2x18 "This Life We Choose". Taylor only wanted Buck 1.0, the hot firefighter she could do hook ups with in 2x8 "Buctually" and 4x8 "Breaking Point" which caused their relationship for the entirety of season 5 to be nothing more than a year long hook up or roommates with benefits situation. By 5x14 "Dumb Luck" it turned into a quid pro quo or transactional situation where they did things for each other expecting something in return. Sound familiar? It should because it's been happening to Buck since he was born.

Margaret Buckley-Mother

After analyzing Buck's interactions to determine why he has two different personas, the reason he slips in and out of the two roles became clearer in 4×5 "Buck Begins". Buck learned he was born for parts so that his bone marrow could be used to save his then dying brother Daniel. Buck couldn't save him so his parents got lost in their grief and ignored him. His conception and birth were his first and second experiences with quid pro quo because his mother gave birth to him so that he could do something for them, keep his brother alive and if the bone marrow transplant had been successful, he would have received love from his parents. According to Buck in 4x5, he was born with "defective parts" which caused his parents to emotionally and mentally abandon him. His mother would yell at him whenever he did something she disapproved of and she would reward him with attention whenever he was reckless. Buck told the 118, his recklessness was "the only way he could get their attention". She yelled at him and said "You act like you're indestructible but you're not!" when he crashed his motorcycle while he was in college and she brought him food in bed as a reward after he broke his arm when he fell out of a tree at the age of 12.

Margaret and Taylor embarrass and scold Buck. Notice they are both wearing the color RED. Red represents AGRESSION, VIOLENCE and ANGER.

Taylor Kelly-Last Girlfriend

Taylor did the exact same things to Buck that his mother did to him by rewarding his recklessness and embarrassing or scolding him both in public and in private. She rewarded his recklessness in 4x14 "Survivors" when she kissed him after he climbed up that crane while there was a sniper targeting firefighters on the loose. In 4x8 "Breaking Point" she dismissed him and she was very rude to him during and after their dinner with Albert and Veronica. She called him "needy" and said he couldn't handle "strong women". In 5x9 "Past is Prologue" she rewarded him with sex after he chased her to Oklahoma and she told him "I love you" which was a reward for doing what she wanted him to do. When she said it, his facial expression showed he didn't believe her. For him it was like hearing his mother say 'I love you' because he would have known she was lying and that's why he responded with "Good, love you too". Throughout his year long relationship with Taylor, there wasn't any trust and they didn't know each other. Even after he asked her to move in with him, he didn't articulate the furniture he wanted to keep, he just allowed her to make all of the decisions. The only good thing that came out of their relationship was Buck finally stood up for himself and ended it.

Margaret and Taylor reward Buck's recklessness. Notice they are both wearing the color PURPLE. Purple represents POWER and AMBITION.

The truth is Buck can't handle women who subconsciously remind him of his mother and those are the only types of women he's been drawn to dating. Buck acted immaturely around women he emotionally connected himself with and it's all been due to the way his mother treated him. The bottom line is Buck was emotionally starved as a child which caused him to subconsciously expect for women to treat him like he and his feelings don't matter. Since he didn't receive emotional support from his mother, he confused any attention he got from his parents as love; therefore he normalized being berated and mistreated and confused it as affection. He may not have realized it yet but his HIMBO like behaviors are a direct reflection of how his mother treated him and that's why he thinks it's normal. Buck views the women he has dated like he viewed his mother, he expects them to use him for parts like she did and when they no longer need him, he expects to be discarded and abandoned.

Eddie Diaz

Buck's relationship with Eddie allows him to step in to the role of a HUSBAND with regards to how they care for one another.

For a detailed analysis on how Eddie encourages Buck read blog post "Buck & Eddie: Eddie takes care of Buck”. His interactions with Eddie are very different because their relationship was built on trust before the end of the first day when they met. Buck "stepped in" to help Eddie without overstepping by talking to Bobby in 2x4 " Stuck" about Eddie's childcare issues and he introduced Eddie to Carla in that same episode.

As their partnership strengthened, they also continued to build their self-made family which included Eddie, Christopher and Buck. They're committed to each other and Buck doesn't have to worry about presenting a specific version of himself to them. He gets to be the genuine, loveable and caring version of himself who not only gives love but also receives it within their relationship. He doesn't have to hide behind his looks or worry about if he's enough to keep them from abandoning him. Eddie encourages Buck and he constantly reminds him that he's valued. After Buck and Christopher had been separated in a Tsunami, Buck felt like he failed them. He sat in his apartment feeling depressed but in 3x3 "The Searchers", Eddie told Buck after bringing Christopher back to him, "There's no one in this world that I trust with my son more than you".

Their relationship isn't perfect because they've had their differences and arguments but they always find their way back to each other. In 3x6 "Monsters", Buck apologized to Eddie for filing a lawsuit against Bobby and the LAFD because it prevented him from being able to talk to Eddie. In 3x9 "Fallout", Buck apologized a second time but it was different than the first apology because he specifically said, "I'm sorry I wasn't there Eddie. You and Chris needed me and I wasn't there". He was specifically apologizing for making Eddie feel like he had abandoned them. They reconciled and their bond continued to grow. They've developed different ways to communicate with each other including a silent language that only requires a look to let the other one know what's being said. To further illustrate Eddie's trust in Buck, he gave Buck a reason to live in 4x14 "Survivors" when he revealed to him that he had named Buck to be Christopher's legal guardian a year earlier. He told him "No one will ever fight for my son as hard as you. That's what I want for him".

He also reminded Buck he is valued when he said, "You act like you're expendable but you're wrong!" which is in direct contrast to what his mother told him about him being indestructible. She didn't tell him he was wrong for feeling like that, actually she confirmed that she felt that way about him too.

There's no pretending with Eddie because he truly sees Buck for who he is and not for what he can do for him. The love they have for each other has continued to grow over the years and it's stronger because they truly know each other. Buck has mature conversations with Eddie and he's comfortable with him. They communicate in multiple ways and they constantly reassure each other even after Eddie left the LAFD in 5x10 Wrapped in Red". Buck stepped in time and time again to help Eddie and Christopher with the most recent time being in 5x13 "Fear-O-Phobia" and 5x14 "Dumb Luck". Eddie had a breakdown and Buck was right there helping him through all of it. He took care of Eddie and Christopher when he stepped into the role of HUSBAND and Father by practically living in the Diaz residence to help Eddie through his therapy. Buck promised Eddie he wouldn't make the mistake of abandoning them again and he's kept that promise by being there whenever they need him.

Buck's differing personas of HUSBAND vs. HIMBO can now be categorized based on how people make him feel. He allowed all of the women he dated to tear him down causing him to feel undervalued. But Eddie constantly builds him up with encouraging words and constant reminders that he is valued. With Eddie, Buck gets to feel like he matters and that he won't be taken for granted. Eddie reminds him that he's important and he gave Buck someone to live for in the event of his death, his son Christopher.

📢📢📢📢📢📢 Hopefully TPTB will allow Buck to continue to mature in season 6 and stop regressing him by continuously thwarting women like javelins in his direction. He needs time to be single so that he can see what he truly needs in a relationship so that he can determine that it's already available for him. Buck just has to recognize that Eddie is the person he's been searching for and that he has the confidence to ask for who he wants.

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Hi, sorry to add my two cents as well into the Kelly conversation you had today on your blog.

Let me be honest I really don’t like her either. For the things she said and did herself. And I totally get that you don’t want to talk about politics. But let me just mention that she is/was really outspoken about women rights (abortion and rape and about what was happening in the states especially) and yet she supported bolsonaro (who is pro Israel and openly admitted he would have raped members of his own parliament if they would have been pretty and who calls having girls as kids a weakness) when Kelly herself has a young kid, just because he gave money to the piquets.

Also her saying she had a magical night not only with 18 year old max but she was also already dating daniil at the time (or was just like 2 weeks shy of dating him).

But what really triggers me are her fan pages (and rumoured she herself) making it out to be that max is ps father and her allegedly not allowing daniil to see his daughter (until maxs intervention)

And she also apparently used to talk to her fam pages about her and maxs sex life and it is confirmed that she shared sensitive information about her, ps and maxs whereabouts with her fan pages.

And the way she always talks about/to max is really not making her shine in a good light. She acts more like a mother to max than her own kid. Remember she denied having a nanny multiple times, yet she was photographed with the nanny (by the paps she or her agencies called and payed for)

I’m not even going to touch that whole first paragraph lol I’ve got to stick to my apolitical values.

I will say that the “Max girl dad” narrative comes from his fan pages as much as hers because I’ve seen some very extreme stories/narratives around that and I don’t follow Kelly fan pages, it’s Max fans putting a lot of it out there as well. All you have to do is read what Max himself says to disprove that. So idk what to say about that.

On the nanny, no one should even be asking her that that she should have to confirm or deny. Idk why she would be ashamed of that but she shouldn’t be. Whatever works for her as a mother should not be judged and it’s sad and stupid that we live in a world where having help is something people think they have a right to comment on or even have actual opinions about.

At the end of the day, you and everyone else is allowed to feel however you like about her. You haven’t come in here with misogynistic nonsense so fair enough.

I really don’t have much to say here

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