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aromanticbuck · 35 minutes

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Cindersap forest ⋆

#stardew valley #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 2 hours

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I know, everyone and their mom is tired of seeing this from me, but I'm seconds away from a total mental breakdown about this at any given moment.

I took all of my money, all of the cash we had in the rainy day jar, and even pulled the < $1 I had from my savings account to pay the second half of rent for the month. After that, I am at -$575.

Because my employer is only giving me $25 a week during my medical leave (< $10 after tax), and I have no idea when I'm going to actually get money from the state. I have another job I'm pursuing (just praying I get called back for the working interview or at least an answer this week), but I won't get paid from that until I actually get the job and, you know, actually start working.

I just want to have positive money at the end of the month, so that rent will actually take out of my account again. It's going to put me back in the toilet after that, but I just want to know we'll be able to keep our apartment in May, you know?

I can't even keep Dashing because my car has no gas in it. I'm not getting Etsy orders. I'm stuck at home while Kit is at work and I hate that I can't do anything to help right now. Any little amount will be helpful, or even a reblog if you can't give anything right now.

paypal venmo: amwallace95 etsy

so far: 195/600

#only about $300 short for rent now!#thank you so much to everyone who’s sent or purchased anything #we do have until Friday to get the rest of the money #and I’m crossing my fingers that I get a call about a job offer today #that math doesn’t cover the money I owe on my car is the only thing #so please keep spreading this if you can 💛

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aromanticbuck · 2 hours

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Eddie Oh?! Diaz

#eddie diaz #911 #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 3 hours

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#jay halstead #cpd #chicago pd #one chicago #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 4 hours

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LISA SWALLOWS LISA FRANKENSTEIN (2024) dir. Zelda Williams

#lisa frankenstein #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 4 hours

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i’ve seen so many people incorrectly quoting oliver, ryan, lou and tim from interviews, it’s actually wild lmao like if you’re going to spread information, don’t make it false information? oliver saying that he doesn’t know if he wants buddie but if it happened he’d be open to it does not mean he said “buddie is canon”, him mentioning that bi buck was a possibility in earlier seasons but then got shut down does not mean “buddie was supposed to happen but the higher ups said no”, them saying that they don’t know what’s going to happen with buck and tommy in future episodes doesn’t mean “buck and tommy are confirmed to be breaking up”, and there is SO much more it’s crazy. i’m also a buddie shipper but this fandom is REACHING, i’m all for delulu fan theories, i LOVE being a crazy fangirl, but you’re misquoting actual people by saying they’ve said something they didn’t, and it’s just gonna lead to people being mad at them if buddie doesn’t actually happen even though it’s not their fault and they didn’t actually do or say anything wrong. you guys are baiting yourselves at this point lmao and i know it’s probably not that deep but the actors already get so much shit for ‘queerbaiting’ so this is just gonna make it even worse for them in the long run, you’ve gotta remember that they’re people too.

would also just like to add that i also love buck and tommy and will be happy with any outcome. as long as they’re all happy! anyway have a good day :)

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aromanticbuck · 4 hours

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I've been vague posting about hating shovel talk fic but I'll go on the record now

I've been reading bucktommy fic from 911 and I wish more people would tag shovel talk so I could filter that shit out.

It's such a miserable trope, I do not understand why it's so popular.

It's rooted in misogynist bullshit like a dad threatening the boyfriend of his teenage daughter. It got a quirky makeover in Buffy, but that's where it comes from.

It's always out of character, it's always condescending and paternalistic, and it just makes loved ones look like arseholes.

Like, obviously I think about what it would look like irl, and if anyone was like 'if you hurt them I'll hurt you,' even in a jokey tone, I would immediately break up with my person. Like, that's the sort of energy or thinking that their friends and family are bringing? Awful.

In a fictional sense, people keep writing Buck's loved ones threatening Tommy and it's like...you realise how awful the optics on this are, right?

The idea that a man comes out as queer and the first thing his friends and family do is threaten violence against the man he's gotten involved with? It's awful. It doesn't matter that it's jokey.

The concept that a relationship with a man needs to have the threat of harm hanging over it is insane to me

And it's so disrespectful to Buck. His loved ones have so little respect for him that they feel the need to threaten his new romance? Just because he's dating a man?

But yeah. Families and friends threatening to beat up a queer man, destroy his life or whatever other bullshit form the shovel talk takes...it's bad..it feels bad to read.

#oh good someone put it into words!

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aromanticbuck · 4 hours

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I know, everyone and their mom is tired of seeing this from me, but I'm seconds away from a total mental breakdown about this at any given moment.

I took all of my money, all of the cash we had in the rainy day jar, and even pulled the < $1 I had from my savings account to pay the second half of rent for the month. After that, I am at -$575.

Because my employer is only giving me $25 a week during my medical leave (< $10 after tax), and I have no idea when I'm going to actually get money from the state. I have another job I'm pursuing (just praying I get called back for the working interview or at least an answer this week), but I won't get paid from that until I actually get the job and, you know, actually start working.

I just want to have positive money at the end of the month, so that rent will actually take out of my account again. It's going to put me back in the toilet after that, but I just want to know we'll be able to keep our apartment in May, you know?

I can't even keep Dashing because my car has no gas in it. I'm not getting Etsy orders. I'm stuck at home while Kit is at work and I hate that I can't do anything to help right now. Any little amount will be helpful, or even a reblog if you can't give anything right now.

paypal venmo: amwallace95 etsy

so far: 195/600

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aromanticbuck · 4 hours

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re: last night

I have slept on it and honestly? I know too much about the army and how it works. it’s not worth it to get into the ins and outs of it on main - I’ll keep that to DMs with Cass and babbling to the dog when Kit is at work.

I know anything I say will be argued back against (and that’s not a bad thing! believe in and stand up for your beliefs!) and I have more important things to worry about than people having different headcanons. this is just to say I’ll be mostly shutting up now unless I’m asked directly about specific things.

I hope everyone has a great Tuesday! 💛

#alex says things #kit said something last night #my knowledge is not universal knowledge #and yeah I was too worked up last night to really get that #but now I am rested and a dog is cuddling me #and I’m just… calmer #it’s not worth it #I’ll sit here with my headcanons and my knowledge #and play with these characters like Barbie’s

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aromanticbuck · 5 hours

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i am. so sorry if i have ever used the phrase “i have an au where—” and led you to believe that there is an actual fic out there for you to read rather than, at best, a post where i explain the concept, and at worst it is simply something that lives in my brain

#about me #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 6 hours

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EDDIE DIAZ | 06.09 “Red Flag”

#eddie diaz #911 #hey; queue you mind?

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aromanticbuck · 13 hours

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okay americans i gotta ask because as an European i grew up with lots of american shows and cartoons and in a lot of them there was an episode where they give the protags a doll or an egg or a bag of flour or whatever and told them pretend to be its parents or something

#it was a thing only for certain classes in my high school #like I didn’t take early education classes or work with the preschool #so I didn’t have to do it #idk about anywhere else tho

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aromanticbuck · 14 hours

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me, with the US Army and its (absolutely godawful) inner workings as a special interest

#alex says things #I’m not saying anything else tonight #even Kit is tired of me #so I’m gonna listen to my podcast and crochet #I got myself too worked up and now I’m tired #only need me if you’re Cass or the dog

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aromanticbuck · 15 hours

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this dog…