Ace(spec)s and aro(specs): hey romance and sex are TWO DIFFERENT things! Romantic and sexual attraction are different! It's extremely harmful to our community/communities to say they are the same. Aces can love without sex/without feeling sexual attraction and aros can have sex without it being a romantic thing/without feeling romantic attraction and that's fine!
Exclusionists online: um it's acephobic to use the split attraction model if you're not aspec btw. Your romantic and sexual orientations have to be the same. I am a good aspec ally.
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solidarity symbol between misunderstood and complex labels.
bi straight, bi gay, bi lesbian, gray asexual.
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Reblog to scare exclusionary queers.
We are valid.
We have been here forever and will stay here forever.
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Bi lebians are beautiful and valid💗
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The terms "bi lesbian" and "lesbian man" are older than y'all think but none of you are ready for that conversation yet
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okay this is something I feel like I should say
if you wanna call yourself a bi-lesbian, cool!
if you wanna say you’re a gay (as in mlm) lesbian, awesome!
I don’t care, it’s your own business.
but if you DON’T identify as a lesbian, and you choose to invade lesbian spaces and be rude, then no! Not okay! (OP NOTE: I was told that this part could come off as biphobic, so I wanted to clarify that I meant that entering a lesbian space while being plain hateful is not okay.)
I don’t care what you identify as, just stop trying to dictate other people.
If they wanna call themselves a lesbian or whatever, cool, awesome. It’s none of your business, either.
Not everyone is like you. And if you choose to be hostile because they’re different and you just don’t understand, you may not be as progressive as you think you are.
What matters is that they’re happy. Not that they’re following your purposeless rules.
okay bye bye :)
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If you can say a lesbian is a non-man who exclusively likes non-men and say bi lesbians aren't valid in the same paragraph please reconsider your enbyphobia and biphobia. Why do you assume bi inherently includes attraction to men? Why do you believe "non-men" is in any way monosexual? Why don't you accept wlw and wlnb as bisexual?
Being anti bi lesbian is biphobia and/or enbyphobia. You can't be a good person and not think mspec lesbians are valid. Going by the most common definition of lesbian used by antis, bi lesbians are valid.
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controversial take here but i have no interest in learning abt why mspec lesbians are "bad" from people who know jack shit abt lesbian history and culture. if you can't name a single lesbian activist or tell me about the content of stone butch blues, if you don't even know what the lesbian separitism movement is/was, i'm literally just not interested in hearing what you have to say
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Ariel from The Little Mermaid is a bisexual lesbian
Ariel from the litte mermaid is a bi lesbian! Both versions of her!
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Not to sound like a fucking meanie but I hope everyone who sees queer positivity posts that include “weird” queers and act like those posts are calling for the death of all queers explode
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"how can you be bi and a lesbian that doesn't make any sense" it's called multitasking next question
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every time someone says "mspec lesbians dni" or any bullshit with "men" in it, i'm plastering this all over their wall
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"bi lesbian in a straight relationship" i cannot stop laughing there is not a single lesbian thing about you
Actually, there is a lot of lesbian things about me. However, seeing as you have the same mental capacity as a bigot, I don't think I'll waste my typing all the things that make me out.
What I will do is turn your stupidity into a post that boosts my fellow mspecs and co.
We have always been queer. We will always be queer. If gender is not binary, then neither is sexuality.
Grow tfu, see some tiddy action + cope + seethe + stay woke
BI LESBIAN DEMI GURL 4 LIFE YO 😘
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since i’m seeing this discourse pop up on my dash a lot again... bi/pan/mspec lesbians are completely fine and valid. go fucking wild with your labels don’t listen to anyone who tries to put you down for it. they’re pussies
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