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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 4 months

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posting this on it's own

#max squawks #critinclus #mspec mono #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi straight #bi gay #bi lesbian #sam #split attraction model #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #anti exclusionism #contrapunk #contradictory labels #heteroromantic homosexual #homoromantic heterosexual

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sapphic-boy · 5 months

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Who's gonna get kicked out of the pride meetup first

#mspec lesbian #gaybian #bi lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi gay #bi straight #radinclus

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doomsdayradio · 5 months

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i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

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bisexualsafespace · 6 months

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solidarity symbol between misunderstood and complex labels.

bi straight, bi gay, bi lesbian, gray asexual.

#bi lesbian safe #bi lesbian positivity #bi gay safe #bi gay friendly #bi lesbian friendly #bi lesbian #bi gay #mspec lesbian positivity #mspec lesbian #mspec lesbian safe #mspec gay safe #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi straight

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isabellascarlett1 · 8 months

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If your account isn’t a safe space for Mspec Lesbians, Lesboys, Mspec Gays, Turigirls, Straight Lesbians, Straight Gays, Cis Trans folks, AFAB TransFems, AMAB TransMascs, Mspec Straights, etc. then don’t call it a “LGBTQIA+ safe space”.

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gloaming-sometimes · 9 months

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dear transhets, mspecs who are mlw or wlm, aspecs who are mlw or wlm, straight lesbians/gays/mspecs, polyamorous straights or any other queer person who is attracted to the opposite gender i wish you a wonderful day & you are awesome & you belong in the queer community just as much as the rest of us & i hope the next time youre in a fast food drive thru line the orders get mixed up and you get more than what you payed for and its your favorite foods on the menu.

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yourfavismspechomohet · 4 months

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love, there’s no such thing as a “bi lesbian.” someone can’t be bi and a lesbian. Coming from a lesbian myself it just doesn’t happen that way. Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men. It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.

Let’s take this apart separately, shall we?

“There’s no such thing as a Bi Lesbian”

Tell that to all the Bi Lesbians that follow me, and like my posts, and request for posts.

Tell that to the Bi Lesbians I reblog from and talk to occasionally.

Tell that to the older queers that identify as Bi Lesbians.

I guess apparently they don’t exist then. 🤷

“Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”

Ah, this is a very popular one on this blog that I keep getting. I could link you to those, but I won’t. Here’s some ways you can be Bi and a Lesbian at the same time:

Biromantic Homosexuals

Homoromantic Bisexuals

Bi people who label themselves as Lesbians, to reclaim queer history. Because ALL Sapphics, regardless of if they were attracted to men or not, were referred to as Lesbians.

Bi people may also label themselves as Lesbians to reclaim being called a Lesbian by Biphobes trying to get them to pick one.

Bi people who lean more towards women, may call themselves Bi Lesbians.

Abroromantics/Abrosexuals may label themselves as Bi Lesbians because their orientation only swings back and forth between those two.

“Coming from a Lesbian myself, it just doesn’t happen that way.”

Well, for the second part, “It doesn’t happen that way”, just go back to the previous comments on “Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”. It does and can happen.

Now for the first part “Coming from a Lesbian myself”. I hear this a lot. Not just from Lesbians, not just from queer people, but people of all different communities, one thing I hear all the time is “Coming from a [Blank] myself”. You need to understand that you are not the only Lesbian on earth. And Lesbians are not a hive-mind. You’re not all the same, and you’re not all going to have the same opinions. If that were the case, all Lesbians would look, talk, act the same way, and have the same views. But you don’t, because you’re not a hive-mind. Simply implying that all people of the same sexuality should have the same opinions is wrong. Believe it or not, I’ve seen all different kinds of lesbians who were Pro-Mspec Lesbian, who were Anti-Mspec Lesbian, and were neutral on Mspec Lesbians. And if all Lesbians had the same opinions, you would not be separated on these different opinions.

“Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men.”

Being Bi means that you could just about like any gender. It doesn’t just mean both, as in men and women. Bi people could definitely just be attracted to women and men, but they’re also Bi people attracted to all different kinds of genders under the Nonbinary umbrella.

As for being a Lesbian, it means that you’re attracted to women and Nonbinary people. And if we can agree on that, we also have to agree that there are other Nonbinary genders where one identifies as a woman AND a man, that you may also be attracted to. Saying that Lesbians don’t like men excludes Multigender people. Even if that’s not how you mean for it to sound, I can tell you that a lot of Multigender people feel that way.

Also, a common misconception is that Non-Men and Non-Women is okay to use for Gay and Lesbian definitions. It’s not. What you probably didn’t know, is that the terms have racist origins. Black and indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since this definition was coined. “Non-Men” and “Non-Women” are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people.

Forcing these terms for queer definitions is Anti-Black, I could forgive you if you didn’t know that and stop using those definitions after now knowing the origins.

But if you still use these definitions even after knowing this, congratulations! You’re racist! Pretty sure there was a book about this, “Bad faith and anti-black racism” by Lewis R. Gordon.

“It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.”

Mspecs have just as big a part in Lesbian history as Lesbians.

All sapphics were Lesbians regardless of if they liked men.

The term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 70s. I’d like to see you try and tell an older queer Bi Lesbian, that they’re “mocking” Lesbians and that their sexuality isn’t real. They probably accomplished more than you have in your entire life, because you want to fight with people on queer labels that you think are and aren’t valid because apparently no queer identity is acceptable unless you agree with it.

Love, wether you like it or not, Bi Lesbians and even male Lesbians have always existed and will continue existing. And they don’t need your permission to be themselves.

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xxcalicofemmexx · 2 months

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bi straight wallpapers!

Bi Straight: Someone who identifies as bi and straight. An intentionally vague term, for a broad umbrella that community can gather under. Mostly used by multigender, genderfluid, and otherwise nonbinary individuals, though it is not a closed label. Also known as bi het.

#bi straight #bi straight pride #bi straight positivity #bi straight wallpaper #queer #pride #mspec straight #mono mspec #mspec mono #straight bisexual #heterosexual biromantic #bisexual heteromantic #bi het #bihet #my wallpapers #mine

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yourfavusescontradictorylabels · 7 months

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hobie brown from atsv is a bi straight lesbian lesboy <3

Hobie Brown from Across the Spider-Verse is a bi straight lesbian lesboy!

#mogai headcanon #headcanon #hobie brown #across the spiderverse #astv #bi straight #lesbian #bi lesbian #lesboy

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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 7 months

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anyways, if you’re a queer person currently being targeted by internet discoursers, know that it will pass. it always does. people just enjoy having someone to punch, and when you’re too beaten up to be fun to punch anymore, they’ll move on to a new target.

maybe they’ll pretend they were with you the whole time, or they’ll apologize and say that they were tricked into it. you don’t have to forgive them.

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ridibulous · 2 months

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whart is a boy lesbian ?1

a lesbian who is also a boy! right on the tin

TO CLARIFY: this label is often used by various queer folk, such as transmascs who ID with the term lesbian, multigender people, and lesbians who simply feel happiest calling themselves boys, men, or male! to name only a few examples (because I couldn't possibly list them all)

I think contradictory labels are cool and awesome and swag and allows queer people to describe and label their various gender & orientation experiences in a way that makes them most comfortable.

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doomsdayradio · 5 months

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"you only see people identify as bi lesbians you never see straight lesbians or bi straights 🙄" actually people do identify that way and im kissing them on the mouth we're holding hands and going on a date ect ect

#words words words !!#bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #straight lesbian #bi straight #!

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genderstarbucks · 7 months

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Mspec Straight + Asexual Flags!!

Mspec Straight Asexual | Bi Straight Asexual

Poly/ply Straight Asexual | Pan Straight Asexual

Omni Straight Asexual | Abro Straight Asexual

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #mspec straight #bi straight #poly straight #ply straight #pan straight #omni straight #abro straight #asexual #acespec

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dragonpride17 · 22 days

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mspec hetero venn diagram edits!

using these (link) flags by @haunted-thing and this (link) straight flag!

#venn diagram edit #pride edit #my edits #mspec straight #bi straight #pan straight #omni straight #abro straight #ply straight #mspec #bi #pan #omni #abro #ply #straight

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ijustwannamakeemojis · 5 months

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[ID: Four pixel hearts of varying flags, in order being Boy+, Boy+ without the symbol, Bi-Straight and the last heart being the two other flags split vertically and put together Boy+ on the left Bi-Straight on the right. End ID]

#did the split since that's what the requesters icon was cause why not #boy+#bi straight #heart #rentry #pixel #discord emoji #mogai

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yourfavismspechomohet · 5 months

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@e-upe

A Bi Lesbian can be someone who is:

1. Biromantic Homosexual

2. Homoromantic Bisexual

3. It can be someone who fits under a Bi definition, but labels themselves as a Lesbian. (One of the many reasons for this is because all sapphics used to be called Lesbians.

4. An Abroromantic/Abrosexual whose identity constantly switches back and forth between being Bi and being a Lesbian.

So, yes, it is entirely possible to be both Bi and a Lesbian.

You calling me homophobic when the whole point of homophobia is to be someone who dislikes ANY and ALL queer people is ironic, because it awfully sounds like YOU’RE the one who’s homophobic.

Bashing on ANY queer identity, even the ones you don’t like, is homophobia. Exclusionists and gatekeepers don’t belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.

In your tags you also said “LGB drop the T”, so it looks like you’re really living up to you being exclusionary. One of the first people who ended up giving us Pride Month was Marsha P. Johnson who was a Trans rights activist.

You also implied that I was straight in the tags, like it or not, but there are other queer people that are allies to Mspec Lesbians not including Mspec Lesbians.

And the term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 90s and maybe even longer than that.

Also comparing Queer identities that you don’t like to Nazi’s and KKK is gross. Because you sound like the same people who compare queer people to pedophiles or zoophiles.

Mspec Lesbians people are not pushing out Lesbians and Bi people, they’re trying to find a place in this community to fit in. JUST like how queer people tried to do with straight people. All queer identities INCLUDING ones that you don’t like is homophobia, and it doesn’t make you any better than straight homophobes just because you’re also queer. This community started as ALL queer people loving ALL queer people. Exclusionary is so stupid and defeats one of the most important reasons on why Pride exists. Because Queer people are supposed to support each other.

To deconstruct gender, you must also deconstruct sexuality.

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