Give folks their flowers. You might feel awkward, you might feel silly, you might wonder if what you say even matters.
On the chance that IT MOST CERTAINLY DOES MATTER ... screw up them nerves and say the nice things. We as humans need to hear them, crave hearing them, want at least a little bit of validation about what we are pouring our hearts and efforts into.
The writing is good! I enjoyed this piece of art you created! This thing that you did ... it brought me joy!
Kind words like these are never a waste of times, folks. I promise you. Even if you DON'T get a response - which has happened to me and sent me into a OMG DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG WITH MY FEEDBACK shame spiral lmao - there is time to sit and breathe and say "I'm very okay with the karma I've earned for sending kudos to someone who took time to create and share with us all."
I like to think that Vulcans who come to understand that Humans just can’t try to process emotions the same way as them, it’s just healthiest to let it out in harmless ways, decide that venting and stuff should be taken just as seriously as Vulcan’s meditation time, and will encourage the Humans around them to complain about what’s upsetting them
People who are used to aloof Vulcans who avoid Humans at all cost running into one comforting a Human
“-and then they said my cheesecake was subpar, and they didn’t even bring a dish!!!”
“The purpose of this event was that every participant brings a food item of sorts, correct?”
“Yeah!!”
“And they did not follow this rule while insulting dishes that were brought?”
miles literally chose to pursue physics instead of art even though in itsv he clearly enjoys art more because he wanted to have a chance of seeing gwen and peter again so badly only to find out they had the ability to visit him the whole time and chose not to.
Your name is Alec Lightwood. You just recently met the man of your dreams whilst defending him from circle members. He’s invited you for drinks to develop relations with the NY Institute. Which outfit would you wear to meet with the High Warlock?
you would want the fit to showcase your status as the nyi head while also being approached so the black one is perfect. it already got slit for the head to sit down and cross legs while discussing policy!