#step out of your comfort zone

[casekt]

Wtf is cozy horror. These bitches couldn't fathom the shit I write/enjoy. What happened to disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed. Blow me.

#personal shit #step out of your comfort zone

[rockyy133]

Are you being an Authentic Entrepreneur | Darryl Omar

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#comfort zone #comfort zone ruining your life #darryl omar #personal development #limitless possibilities #transformative journey #awaken your true potential #step out of your comfort zone #unleash your passion #motivational video #inspirational speech #comfort zone motivation #push your boundaries #break out of your comfort zone #embrace discomfort #change your story #leave the comfort zone #breaking out of your comfort zone

[billa-billa007]

Is the comfort zone ruining your life | Darryl Omar

Discover the shocking truth about how the comfort zone can silently sabotage your life. Join Darryl Omar in this eye-opening exploration as he reveals the hidden ways in which staying comfortable can hinder your growth, success, and happiness. Don't let the comfort zone ruin your life any longer - it's time to take action and break free.

#comfort zone #comfort zone ruining your life #darryl omar #personal development #limitless possibilities #transformative journey #awaken your true potential #step out of your comfort zone #unleash your passion #motivational video #inspirational speech #comfort zone motivation #push your boundaries #break out of your comfort zone #embrace discomfort #change your story #leave the comfort zone #breaking out of your comfort zone #morning motivation

[hymnless-space-nugget]

"If you can learn to expose yourself to the most obscure and conflicting ideas, then you'll be one step closer to reverse engineering how the other person came to believe what they do."

- Gothix (YouTube video "Stop

alienating YOURSELF from the

potential to learn!", 9/5/22)

#diverse #gothix #youtuber #right wing #left wing #expose yourself to different ideas #step out of your comfort zone #personal growth #everyone can learn something new #do better #real diversity #tired of left bs #dichotomous thinking #it's not us against them #it's us against ourselves #people hold themselves back #not a victim #blocking me only proves my point #was that a moment for you #triggered #building bridges #logic #people get offended so easily nowdays #dont take things personal #stop blind support #🍵 #i bet all you people who have feeds of POC or LGBT left thinkers think you are doing the best for humanity rn #save humanity #open your mind #say 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 louder 👏🏼

[originalartblog]

Now this is what I call a fight!

Based on @whathorselegs' wish/headcanon post, about Atsushi and Chuuya fighting and Atsushi's claws cutting through Chuuya's gravity manipulation. The visual of it gripped me by the throat.

#(chanting like a mantra) #to get better you need to step out of your comfort zone to get better you need to step out of your comfort zone to get better you need to s #not like i wanted it to be but close enough for out of my depth i felt drawing this #it came out MUCH better than i ever hoped it could so there's that!!! i actually like it #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bungo stray dogs #bsd fanart #bsd chuuya #bsd nakahara chuuya #bsd atsushi #bsd nakajima atsushi #nawy's art #blood #cw blood

[gomzdrawfr]

Baby Ghost and baby Soap ((from an au my friends were writing from discord :D))

#gummmyart #doodle #cod mw2 #call of duty #cod mw2 fanart #simon ghost riley #john soap mactavish #soapghost #ghost soap #that feeling when you step out your comfort zone #and then actually made friends #its the best feeling #im always overwhelmed with big servers #but after years #finally conjured up the courage lmao #and im loving every seconds of it #<333

[naurielrochnur]

Wtf I am actually posting my art, even though I'm very self conscious about it? And I'm drawing people? (ew). What has rote done to me?(/derogatory(/affectionate))

Anyway, here's one of my favorite scenes, from Assassin's Quest, where Fitz, the Fool, and Nighteyes have a spontaneous water fight in a creek. I added a frog because who doesn't love frogs?

This scene just holds so much joy in a series that is markedly dark and grim. The relationship that we see on page of the Fool and Fitz is forged by suffering and hardship, but I find so much joy in thinking of all the ways that happy, goofy moments like this could also shape that relationship.

I just think our kids should be allowed to get a little bit silly. Is that really too much to ask?

#Posting art #aka the mortifying ordeal of being perceived #Rote will really change your brain chemistry #(Im making art for a ZINE?!?! Like some kind of fanatic? #My therapist would be so proud of me for stepping out of my comfort zone #This one's for you Jennifer #rote #I am full psycho #my jaw is unhinged #fitzchivalry farseer #the fool #nighteyes #Assassin's Quest #Rote #rote fanart

[swirlsabyss]

@occasionalsnippets

I don’t decide to draw MC. It’s more that they demand to be drawn.

Created: Jul 24, 2023

#scp #scp foundation #anomalous au #my first time doing side profile #i probably did an abysmal job but you got to step out of your comfort zone somehow

[pinkomcranger]

(another messege on saga)

The saga hate is 100% racism, sadly, and its sad how these ppl refuse to accept it. Like, i wasnt sure about thr beggining - i waited for a sequel for 13 years and now i have this new character taking the larger role in the story. But the game was good, story was good, she was fine. But now these ppl want her gone or erased, "only alan parts were good!!" What??? They are the same!!! I loved alans gameplay (execpt the teleporting enemies) but i dont believe you would hate sagas gameplay if you loved that one, its like, the same.

As in all recent gaming sheres, it makes me mad becuse there are critiscsm to talk about, real discussion, but it gets buried under these fuckers. Cant tall about my issues withiut some stupid guy busting in to complain about black pepole in his games, thinking we are the same. Im so more confident in my decision of cutting on all these sites.

I can't see any other reason to ignore Saga than racism, and I was FULLY aware it would be a problem, but I only expected it from gamer bros crying that it was Alan Woke now, and their fav white man was replaced with an unnecessary black woman. I could handle that because I've been seeing it for YEARS, but I always discounted them just for the fact I knew that they would never see beyond their surface level woes and wouldn't actually be in the fandom proper.

Their racism was loud and proud but it didn't hurt me or concern me. It elicited nothing more than an eye roll because nothing was going to satisfy them the second Saga was created anyway, even if she WASN'T black. I'm not even going to get into their reaction to Abby from The Last of Us 2.

Covert racism is the shittiest because you're thinking, ooh tumblr! this is where I'm going to find the GOOD stuff, this is where I'm gonna see people that played the game, are content creators and are going to overthrow the gamer bros because they're not blinded by the white man being joined by a black woman who's equally awesome.

I was wrong. I was a case of not being nervous at the idea of Alan being replaced in his own game after waiting 13 years because I didn't get to play AW1 or AN because I didn't have an Xbox. My older brother did, but I could only play at certain times, so I just didn't bother with AW.

That changed with AW2, the funny thing is that I didn't have the time to buy it until last month. I've focused solely on watching playthroughs, so Saga was written so well that I didn't NEED to play the game to be able to relate to her and adore her.

I'm not the least bit worried about the gameplay and I KNOW that's just an excuse to complain about Saga. It sucks that the content creators obsessed with FBI Alex Casey won't just admit they don't find the black woman appealing. I think that's a stupid as fuck opinion and not worth entertaining but at LEAST be honest about it!

FBI Alex Casey wouldn't be even a tenth of a bit interesting if he wasn't paired with Saga for the majority of his time. And that's the rub of it. I love Saga's Casey, but I wouldn't enjoy him if he was on his own, or if he and Saga's places had been reversed.

Saga could star in her own spin-off game dedicated solely to her backstory and her problems independent of Alan, and you'd find a treasure trove of things to talk about with her. But you're not getting that now, because "ohmergerd Alan is so hot with Casey!" When that was never the point.

#alan wake 2 #saga anderson #alex casey #ask #meta #my thoughts #covert racism #strong black woman #at least be honest about not liking the black woman #at least admit she somehow gets in the way of shipping your white men #I'm not exactly sure how she gets in the way #Saga's gameplay is clearly just as good as Alan's #why would you ignore Saga when her story is so fascinating? #Saga Anderson can and does stand as her own character #FBI Agent Alex Casey doesn’t have that luxury. and I say that as a fan of him. he NEEDS Saga to exist while Saga DOESN'T need him #I think the majority of the fandom is scared of Saga. white men are familiar to them and that's one of the reasons they adore the Caseys #step out of your comfort zone people! #Saga Anderson is my hero #i would go to war for her

[floodnetworks]

trying to uproot my debilitating fear of expressing my desires and needs in relationships i was so brave asking for reassurance today and thank god my girl reacted positively and said it was good for me to ask and i mean a lot to her. it is rewiring my brain as we speak

#crazy whats possible when you are secure with yourself enough to risk rejection + seeing someone you trust enough to step out of your #comfort zone with #IT IS SO SCARY even if i have months of evidence proving that every time im vulnerable with this person she says nice and supportive things #personal log #having a long long history of not having ur needs met and realizing u can either change how you act or live the rest of your life like that

[hopesandmountains]

I think people underestimate the idea of a safe space.

For people who have a troubled home life and a stressful job, there seems to be no escape.

And if you are battling emotional trauma or illness, one of the main ways to heal is to let yourself be vulnerable and relieve/feel that pain.

And if you don’t have a safe place at home and if you don’t have a safe place with friends, you will try to carry that pain for as long as possible before the burden gets too heavy and you have to unload some of emotions/vulnerability onto whoever.

And this is where I’ve seen so many people fall into a cycle, where they trust the wrong people who only traumatize them more. Which makes everything worse and causing unhealthy coping mechanisms and defense strategies that pushes everyone else away. And one of the types of people who aren’t pushed away are people who don’t care about boundaries and are seeking out vulnerable people, who will just traumatize and abuse you more until they can break you down.

And this is such an awful cycle to go through.

And the fear of being in that situation (or being in that situation again) causes you not to trust people. And this is where people either stay in isolation, or they try and find a way to move forward.

One of the key things to learn is how to discern against people you can trust and people you can’t. And that takes having boundaries. If someone lies or manipulated or puts you down or is just flat out self serving that should be a massive red flag. And sure you can try and give people second chances, sometimes trauma responses trigger when there really is not actual danger or threat.

But this is also why it’s important to take things slow.

As much as you want to find a quick solution, and seeing everyone else quickly jumping into relationships, you have to give yourself time to clearly see the situation.

One major red flag is when someone will try to rush the process along.

Entering a new relationship can trigger all sorts of fears and insecurities and vulnerability. And this can make you fragile and a little unsure of yourself. And this is where bad people can rush you before you can really grasp what’s going on and sink their teeth into you and get you attached before you really realize what’s going on.

And that’s scary.

Some people will stay in denial, some people can’t handle the extra trauma so they avoid it and ignore what’s going on, which leads to them going back because they are in denial about what’s wrong.

And part of the problem is since childhood they’ve been taught to ignore that feeling of everything being wrong (parents will argue and fight and maybe even be abusive, and then deny anything is wrong and claim they have a happy home life).

So they ignore that feeling of something being wrong and stay. And then get to a point where it’s just too tough to leave so they stay longer.

And yes this is tragic.

But it’s also never too late to break the cycle and more importantly for a lot of people it’s not too late to avoid that cycle.

There are people out there you can trust.

And you don’t have to treat everything like a ticking time bomb, you can learn to trust people slowly and have a wide social support net.

Really the key is unlearning.

People mimic their relationships around what they know, and their family, family friends, some of their own friends from childhood, toxic situations they’ve been in or see from social media.

And it’s just so difficult for people to tell something is wrong when they’ve never been taught.

They carry a deep shame within them so refuse to open up to people, and have abandonment issues and insecurities, so they see rejection when there is none.

And that mental trap they’ve built for themselves is so strong.

And when they sense rejection they pull away or have defense mechanisms, which push most people looking for healthy relationships away since all they see is someone pulling away or acting out.

But it’s also important to realize that most people are understanding.

If you can tell them what’s going on and communicate that. Tell them you need time but you want to make things work. A lot of people will work with you.

And the ones that don’t, well that’s okay, you want to open up to someone safe and that’s someone who will be understanding.

And that takes personal work.

Learning how to communicate your feelings and needs really isn’t easy, especially when you yourself are unsure of what those even are.

And quite frankly there will be people out there that just aren’t for you.

And you will have to work on your abandonment response because you will have to be okay with that if you ever are going to find the right person for you.

And you will have to believe that there is someone out there for you during this time of pain and insecurity.

But there’s always hope.

And there’s always good people out there.

It just may take work to get there and to do so safely for you.

And that’s okay

Take things slowly and one step at a time.

#relationships #abandonment issues #trauma #healing from trauma #self care #honestly it’s better to have good friends before getting into a relationship #otherwise you risk looking for social support and emotional connection and intimate attachment all in one #and that’s just a lot to put on one person #but whatever you do #take things at your own pace #and if you want to try and get out of your comfort zone #set strong boundaries for doing so #priorize yourself when stepping out of your comfort zone #as that’s when you’re most vulnerable

[rockyy133]

Is the comfort zone ruining your life | Darryl Omar

Discover the shocking truth about how the comfort zone can silently sabotage your life. Join Darryl Omar in this eye-opening exploration as he reveals the hidden ways in which staying comfortable can hinder your growth, success, and happiness. Don't let the comfort zone ruin your life any longer - it's time to take action and break free.

#comfort zone #comfort zone ruining your life #darryl omar #personal development #limitless possibilities #transformative journey #awaken your true potential #step out of your comfort zone #unleash your passion #motivational video #inspirational speech #comfort zone motivation #push your boundaries #break out of your comfort zone #embrace discomfort #change your story #leave the comfort zone #breaking out of your comfort zone

[kazumasougi]

totk is very fun dont get me wrong but i do feel like when they leaned into the "everyones being creative so lets have them make insane contraptions" thing they went so far into it that it reduced what originally made that part of botw so interesting— that these solutions were fully unintended and creative for having broken the game

#mileposting #totk lb #dont get me wrong building things is literally my entire major i love the concept they were going for here but it feels like they were both #1. too afraid to lean too far into it (limited use zonai devices) #2. too far invested in the idea (every fucking cave needs a hammer now. you cant just go in with a bomb like you used to #+ all of the enjoyment of these being unintended solutions is now limited because youre playing into what theyre expecting of you) #i think if youre gonna have a sequel that uses the same map you REALLY need to make it feel different in some way. and to me #unfortunately the map just feels like botw but . more boring because ive seen it all before #the depths are a cool area and the concept of sky islands are very neat #but it doesnt feel like enough to warrant an entire new game yet #though. please take all of this with a grain of salt as i havent gotten super far into the game yet #in any case the game is fun but i wish they would step out of the botw comfort zone LOL

[hymnless-space-nugget]

"Sometimes the discomfort someone feels when they hear an idea that they're not normally exposed to is a key indicator that they need to get out of their comfort zone and be more comfortable with concepts they find scary."

- Gothix (YouTube video "Stop

alienating YOURSELF from the

potential to learn!", 9/5/22)

#feminism #gothix #youtuber #right wing #left wing #left ideology #right ideology #step out of your comfort zone #personal growth #real diversity #grow up #listening to people talking about the same stuff isnt diversity #blocking me only proves my point #humans are all about learning #learn #listen to others #stop being close minded #tired of left bs #not a victim #open your mind #we can always do better #we can always learn something new

[massgrav]

How do you feel about being THE "old man naked good" guy

Hah.... it made you laugh and it still does, so I can only be glad to see you and @wigdevil use it as a (though very niche) meme.

"Old man naked good" ie however just the essence of a longer thought I often have ; we see too many good-looking, young, defined-bodied people, which is perhaps only 5% of what real people look like. More often than not people have wrinkles, unglamorous bodies, stomach rolls, stretch-marked thighs, thin hair, ununiformous facial skin, etc.

And so, everyone looks good naked in the eye of those who can appreciate it. Long story short ; old man naked good

#ask #illumiost #im just tired of objective 'beauty' #step out of your comfort zone. eat out/svck unshaved parts. peg an old man. go wild

[chexie]

It’s interesting to find out that there’s apparently a very real Darkside Detective to Baldur’s Gate pipeline

#darkside detective #bg3 #I don’t know. maybe I just got better at noticing #but like. I’m playin Baldur’s Gate. #Damien’s been reblogging it. #eight ball’s playing it. it’s a wild time #like the games have virtually zero overlap #except. like. demons. ghosts. vampire singular. gay people. #yknow. standard stuff. #anyway hi the lesson is to step out of your comfort zone I guess. because bg is so out of my comfort zone #but I’m having a ball