#selfship reminders

[crowtechs]

if this sounds self indulgent thats ok this is a reminder to myself and you

selfshipping is for you. its for your comfort. its not for anyone elses. its for you.

if you are getting back into selfshipping or starting to selfship, just know: it is ok to feel insecure, its ok to feel off, its ok to feel like what youre doing may be silly! but listen to what you want, listen what makes you happy and if selfshipping makes you happy, then go for it. start it again. enjoy the new things that is selfshipping if youre a newcomer.

if you had experiences that makes selfshipping difficult for you and you feel even worse, and question why you even are doing this in the first place, you are valid. its difficult to go back to something that brought so much comfort only for it to end poorly. its hard to tell yourself that doing this will make you happy, will make you feel better; its hard when perhaps selfshipping to you has bad memories but you wanna go back to it again.

selfshipping to some is a coping mechanism or perhaps it is to many, it can also just be a side hobby, it can be a fun little thing, a sweet comfort. selfshipping can be an escape to the real word and whats happening, and if it means writing the silliest goofiest things with your f/o just to make you smile, then is it really hurting anyone? no!

you have every right to enjoy something as much as everyone else. maybe some are way open about their f/os and draw, and write, and express it publicly. maybe you are different and want to express it privately, or maybe you want to try to express it more openly. whatever the case may be, this is your thing. its yours. no one will ever take it away from you.

no one will ever take something from you that makes you feel safe and comforted.

#i had more to offer here but thisll do #this reminds me of just wanting to write silly scenarios or hcs #just to reread because its fun lol #selfship #self ship #selfship community #self ship community #selfship positivity #self ship positivity #f/o positivity #in a way <3 #selfship reminder #selfship reminders #self ship reminder #self ship reminders

[princess-hope-selfships]

REMINDER: You're your f/o's favorite person! They think about you all the time when you're apart. They do whatever they can to keep in touch with you, send you funny pictures, little love notes, take photos of things that remind them of you, anything to stay in contact even for brief moments ✨

pls dni if you ship adults w/ minors , even if you age up or down, thank you

#selfship #self ship #selfship reminders #self shipping #self ship community

[selfship-vent-confessions]

not a vent confession but important reminders!

- your f/os adore you

- they are also safe

-they will comfort you if you need it

- you can take breaks from the community if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, don't feel obligated to put yourself in there

- drink water, UNCLENCH YOUR JAW TOO I SWEAR-

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#self shipping #self ship #selfship #selfship community #selfshipping #self ship community #selfship confessions #selfshipper #self shipper #self ships #not a vent #non vent confession #selfship positivity #self ship positivity #selfshipping positivity #self shipping positivity #selfship reminders #⚙️ anon

[quartztwst]

*Turns into fem Azul*

We should get married because you're funny.

He makes me laugh ahh relationship

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i gotta stop this shes so uGHGHHDJKHBFGSFIV HAJFDVUBJVU YRGTIE4GR FIUW4G TNHYEGFNREIWYGNHYEGBFIYREG4TIUERG4T758TGFUBRHJFV H

she wants me dead

#HELFPAPLF #he makes me laugh relationship is so real #that reminds me of that mlp meme #the bride and the ugly ass groom HEKEFLP #azul ashengrotto #persona #my persona #fem twst #fem twisted wonderland #fem azul ashengrotto #twisted wonderland #twst #IS THIS YUMESHIP #I STILL HAVE NO IDEA #its a selfship #SELFSHIP!! #I LOVEEEE FEM AZUL TEEHEEE SDIFHKJADS KFBJADSB #i love her so muchhhhhhh haiusdhfaliuh #is it a selfship if she wants me to die guys

[staticshipstation]

Hey fellow fidgety self shippers (and I mean like fidgety as in squirmy neurodivergent brains)

Your f/o loves how squirmy you are. They don’t think it’s annoying, INFACT they think it’s cute! They think how you kick your legs is adorable! The way you tap your hands, they’re absolutely ENTRANCED by it. Don’t even get me started on your other stims.

If it’s done for any nervous/anxious reason Id imagine they pick up on it quickly. They speak to you with a softness and patience in their voice. Maybe they try to give you as much space as possible.

Your F/O thinks your fidgets are valid!

#self ship #self shipping #self shipper #self insert #autistic selfship #adhd selfship #neurodivergent self ship #self ship reminder #self ship imagine

[freakkisser]

you and your f/o are made for each other. youre their world and no amount of doubt or worries can change that. they love you unconditionally and they know just how much you love them too. nothing can come between you and your f/o.

#.gushing #seeing that some of you need this rn #f/o #self shipping #fictional other #self ship #f/o community #selfship #f/o positivity #self ship reminder #self ship community

[the-crime-of-silliness]

sending love to all trans selfshippers, nb selfshippers, GNC selfshippers, unlabelled selfshippers, selfshippers with confusing/nonconventional genders, ect! we love you guys!!

#this is your daily reminder that the selfshipping community doesn't start and end with cishet women #sincerely a genderqueer dude #proshippers pls dni #self shipper #self ship #selfship positivity #selfship community #trans selfshipper

[bobmckenzie]

women selfshippers who aren't stereotypically feminine, whether in physical features or personality or anything, your f/o loves you just the way you are 💚 you are their ideal woman ! :)

#posts ive been meaning to make for months LOL #reminded bc my friend just said my hands look masculine LOL... SORRY FOR BEING A SHORT BARE NAIL ENJOYER I GUESS!! #made me laugh but also a bit sad sdkjflsjkfd like. is it not feminine enough to simply exist as a woman? #ive been trying to stop thinking like 'my f/o would like me in spite of the way i dress/my body type/the way i carry myself/etc' #bc they love me FOR all that stuff!! they love me BC I AM ME!! #selfship positivity #self ship #selfship #selfship community #f/o community #caitiechat

[ectoplasmer]

you guys ever grab your f/o’s face and just *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehea

#this was originally phrased for platonic f/os but i then proceeded to think about doing this with my boyfriends and. yeah #anyway #HEY i finally picked back up gx because i got bored lol #and because. lowkey. judai randomly popping up in my dreams spooked me enough to remember to continue watching it >_< #i am reminded of why he got instantly put on the platonic list despite me barely knowing him lol #literally just. golden retriever #which is so so funny when you look at my two other platonic f/os #like on one hand we have the serious and more mature beyond my years #and then we have the high energy positivity fiends #if i still listed my hs f/os on my list you would see more obviously what i mean lol #sometimes you just want to smother your friend in a dumb display of affection u_u #anyway. #hello #tbh… kissing melv (and technically yb) right where the eye of wedjat would go… <333 #self ship #selfship #selfshipping #self shipping #f/o imagines #imagine your f/o #romantic f/o #platonic f/o #self ship community #selfshipping community #platonic: judai #quartzshipping #rainy.file

[crowtechs]

hi fellow selfshippers !! <3

daily reminder: selfshipping is for you! its definitely only ever *for* you! i completely understand feeling self conscious or weird for having a f/o, or gushing about a fictional character because we were a part of an era where it seemed odd or weird; but i assure you, its not weird! its comforting, its safe, its fun. you get to gush about your f/os or even your most favourites, the ones that have been with you FOR YEARS or recently came to you from new things you got into!!!

i know its really difficult to get your mind off that and let yourself enjoy it, its hard when you told yourself you wouldnt selfship EVER AGAIN then you came back to it because it made you happy but you are so afraid to gush openly or talk about your selfship, or talk about your f/o in fear of it being weird or odd; again, its not! its totally ok.

its a learning process, but do whatever *you* wanna do with your selfship <3 even if it may be scary or you are so incredibly self doubtful that you shouldnt do it because its silly or dumb, its not but its ok to have those thoughts! push through it, because youll find yourself falling in love again or remembering why this was so fun to you. it takes time, sure, but you will get through it. 

again, its not silly, or weird, or dumb, or odd, or even stupid to selfship. dont let others cruel words decide your life, your f/o loves you even after years of not seeing you, they love you and are so happy youre back; they missed you.

#can you tell this sounds self indulgent #thats because it is #selfship #self ship #selfshipping #self shipping #selfship community #self ship community #selfship reminder #selfship reminders #self ship reminder #self ship reminders #selfship positivity #self ship positivity #f/o reminder #f/o reminders #f/o positivity #ive been feeling very self conscious lately and i realised why #because of this mindset #its hard to get out of but we will push through >:3

[selfship-confession-box]

I'm an Autistic selfshipper who gets tons of comfort from my F/Os, so some reminders for my fellow Autistic selfshippers!!

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you no matter how many textures, foods, or items you have issues with

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never pressure you to talk if you didn't want to

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and understand if you want to be left alone, no matter how long

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and wouldn't think twice about accommodating your needs, big or small

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would do absolutely everything they could to make sure you're comfortable and feel safe around others

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and wouldn't mind leaving an event early if you didn't want to be there anymore

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never judge you for your interests, they love hearing about what you love as much as they love you

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and think you're always enough for them, you could never be "too much" or "too little" for them, they think you're perfect as you are

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never mind doing whatever they need to calm you down if you're feeling overstimulated

Just in general, your F/O(s) love you! They're very proud of all you accomplish, even if it's hard for you! They love to support you, and they want you to know that they love you no matter what! (They told me themself, you can trust me)

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#self ship #selfship #self shipping community #selfshipping community #self shipper #self shipping #self ship community #selfship community #f/o #f/os #f/o reminders

[kaibaspuppy]

for selfshippers who have violent or taboo intrusive thoughts:

your f/o would never see you as dangerous, a threat, or a monster over the contents of your intrusive thoughts. they know you can't control them (they're intrusive, after all) and they wouldn't judge you for something you can't control, not even subconsiously.

they love you with all their heart and nothing will ever change that, i promise! <3

pro/ship please dni! (>_<)~☆

#jack talks #haven't seen a post like this so i needed to make it #sometimes you have to remind yourself of things like this 🥲 #selfship #selfship community #selfship positivity #selfship comfort #yumeship #yumejoshi #yumedanshi #f/o reminders

[selfshipseaside]

☆ Reminder to all self-shippers that your f/os love you as you are! You'll never need to change for them, you are a perfect match for them no matter what anyone might say or elude to. Your personalities will compliment each other no matter how similar or dissimilar they are! You just have to trust them, because they love you!

#self-ship #selfship #selfshipping #self-shipping #selfship imagines #selfshipping imagines #f/o imagine #self insert imagine #self insert #f/o imagines #selfship positivity #romantic f/o #platonic f/o #familial f/o #just a lil reminder for today!

[deathnot-e]

🌙 a friendly reminder ;

if I ever compliment one of your romantic f/os, say something like "what a baby!", "she's so gorgeous omg!", "he has such a lovely smile!", "they look so good, aw!" I always mean it platonically. this isn't me potentially thinking about adding them to my f/o list, it's me validating your choice in fictional partner and shipping you hard. ♡♡

#f/o things. #f/o reminders. #selfshipping things. #selfshipping reminders. #okay to reblog.

[jokerislandgirl32]

Shoutout to the selfshippers who can’t draw their f/os and/or s/is! I know it can be extremely frustrating, but remember your f/o loves you and they wouldn’t want you to stress about drawing you and them together!

If you are unable to draw now, maybe your f/o will encourage you to keep trying until you’ve mastered the skills in the future. Or, if you are like me and you just can’t seem to get the hang of drawing, perhaps your f/o will remind you of your multitude of other talents, and encourage you to set aside the art for one of those talents they love!

Like maybe you are an amazing cook, singer, dancer, etc. They will want you to do what you love, what you are wonderful at: whatever makes you feel better because they love you, and seeing the smile on your face when you’re doing what you love/ are good at melts their heart!

Pr0ship DNI, please!

#self ship #selfship #f/o #f/o community #fictional other #self insert #s/i #f/o x s/i #drawing #difficulties drawing #I tried drawing something and it’s just awful 😭 #but I know Zach wouldn’t want me crying over it so I sit it aside… #talents #love zach varmitech #but I can sing and cook and bake and I try to write #And I’m a natural born caregiver so I think Zach will remind me of those things and how much he loves them and me💜 #proship dni

[kittyandco]

why would you worry about your writing being "bad" if you're the only one who can give life to your ship? only you can know the things that happen between you and your f/o, and only you can create these glimpses into your dynamic from the ground up. you hold so much power, and that power comes from love. don't be afraid to use it

#need this reminder for myself #self ship #selfship #self shipping