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#self ship reminders
crowtechs · 13 hours
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hello hi. you. yes you. hello!!
i want you to know that you dont have to follow what every other selfshipper does. you cant write or draw? then thats fine! i think you just gushing about silly things is more than enough! your f/o does not mind what you do, theyre just happy that you think about them! or even endlessly stare at fanart, screencaps, or even rewatching/rereading their sources!
but oh? you want to post things but you just cant? or have this nagging feeling of endless fear and embarrassment? thats ok! thats totally a-okay here! just remember: you shouldnt feel embarrassed to gush about your f/o(s).
you also have the draft feature. you can use that! maybe thatll be better, maybe you can just use it to throw in your selfship lore. or have all of these silly cute headcanons for your f/o! or even do silly incorrect quotes too. maybe at some point you want to post that sort of stuff. but for now, just at least get them down and save them for another day to see.
please always remember: selfshipping is not a competition. its for you. i understand if you feel afraid and self conscious to put yourself out there, but just know: your f/o(s) see you and are always so proud of you whatever you may do.
( pr0/c0mship dni !! this post is not for you !! )
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My f/os would hug me when I’m sad. They would hold me, listen to me, and give me encouragement. I am worth their time. They love me
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movedpeaches · 7 months
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Me: *grabbing and shaking myself by the shoulders* YOU ARE FINE YOU ARE OKAY YOURE GONNA GET THROUGH THIS!!! YOUR F/OS LOVE YOU AND CARE ABOUT YOU! THEY LOVE YOUR DORKY ASS STOP LISTENING TO THE TINY VOICE OF DOUBT. IT TELLS NOTHING BUT LIES!!! YOU'RE GROWING AS A PERSON YOURE STILL IMPROVING ON YOUR ART AND WRITING AND CREATIVITY! IT'S GOING TO GET BETTER OVER TIME. IT'S A SLOW PROCESS STOP TRYING TO RUSH IT, PLEASE! IT TAKES TIME, PATIENCE, AND CARE!!! AND YOURE DOING GREAT SO FAR AND YOUR F/OS KNOW YOURE DOING GREAT!! YOURE ALLOWED TO TAKE YOUR TIME!!!
Pro.ship and com.ship DO NOT INTERACT.
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candyheartedchy · 6 months
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Creating self ship work is not a waste of time or talent. If it brings you joy it will never be a waste. It helps us explore our creativity and comfort us. For artists it helps expand your drawing skills. For writers it teaches you how to write for different characters. For both it teaches us how to explore different relationships and dynamics of characters we enjoy. And to those who just use self shipping for coping, you’re allowed to find comfort in something that distracts you from your everyday life. You’re allowed to do things just because you want to. And you don’t have to justify your decisions to anybody. Cultivate a life that brings you happiness. Our lives may not always turn out the way we want it to be and sometimes our creativity is our only outlet, and that’s okay, but it is still your life and you should make it as comfortable as possible for yourself. So please never stop creating things you love.
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staticshipstation · 24 days
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Hey fellow fidgety self shippers (and I mean like fidgety as in squirmy neurodivergent brains)
Your f/o loves how squirmy you are. They don’t think it’s annoying, INFACT they think it’s cute! They think how you kick your legs is adorable! The way you tap your hands, they’re absolutely ENTRANCED by it. Don’t even get me started on your other stims.
If it’s done for any nervous/anxious reason Id imagine they pick up on it quickly. They speak to you with a softness and patience in their voice. Maybe they try to give you as much space as possible.
Your F/O thinks your fidgets are valid!
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canineluvz · 6 months
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you and your f/o are made for each other. youre their world and no amount of doubt or worries can change that. they love you unconditionally and they know just how much you love them too. nothing can come between you and your f/o.
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madame-mongoose · 7 months
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selfship on main
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rhiatargoed-selfships · 6 months
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Y’know what? BIGGEST! HUGEST! Shoutout to all the self-shippers with romantic f/os they can’t exactly kiss on the lips and make out with in the conventional way most human/humanoid couples would! Like monsters, aliens, robots and other creatures because of the significant difference in size or completely different anatomy. I think it’s hella cute thinking up and trying to figure out a bunch of different comfortable ways to kiss or nuzzle one another in various places that are more unique, that work out for the both of you and would make you both feel just as flustered and loved! ( ੭ ˘ ³˘)੭‎°。⋆♡‧₊˚
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(Pro/Comshippers fuck off! This post ain’t for you!)
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sending love to all trans selfshippers, nb selfshippers, GNC selfshippers, unlabelled selfshippers, selfshippers with confusing/nonconventional genders, ect! we love you guys!!
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kittyandco · 1 month
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if self shipping is "egocentric" then i'll have the biggest ego on the block because no one can tell me that i'm not loved
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gem-ships · 4 months
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It's easy to feel like your f/os would never actually choose you. Of all the options they have, why would they pick you? They're them.
But listen.
They would choose you every. single. time.
Because you are you.
And even if you don't think you're that impressive, or interesting, or attractive, they beg to differ. You have so much to offer that you can't even see, but they see it all clear as crystal. No one else has the same charms you do.
And they love you for it.
You don't have to be anything special to 'deserve' them. You're uniquely you and that's all they need from you.
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crowtechs · 1 year
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if this sounds self indulgent thats ok this is a reminder to myself and you
selfshipping is for you. its for your comfort. its not for anyone elses. its for you.
if you are getting back into selfshipping or starting to selfship, just know: it is ok to feel insecure, its ok to feel off, its ok to feel like what youre doing may be silly! but listen to what you want, listen what makes you happy and if selfshipping makes you happy, then go for it. start it again. enjoy the new things that is selfshipping if youre a newcomer.
if you had experiences that makes selfshipping difficult for you and you feel even worse, and question why you even are doing this in the first place, you are valid. its difficult to go back to something that brought so much comfort only for it to end poorly. its hard to tell yourself that doing this will make you happy, will make you feel better; its hard when perhaps selfshipping to you has bad memories but you wanna go back to it again.
selfshipping to some is a coping mechanism or perhaps it is to many, it can also just be a side hobby, it can be a fun little thing, a sweet comfort. selfshipping can be an escape to the real word and whats happening, and if it means writing the silliest goofiest things with your f/o just to make you smile, then is it really hurting anyone? no!
you have every right to enjoy something as much as everyone else. maybe some are way open about their f/os and draw, and write, and express it publicly. maybe you are different and want to express it privately, or maybe you want to try to express it more openly. whatever the case may be, this is your thing. its yours. no one will ever take it away from you.
no one will ever take something from you that makes you feel safe and comforted.
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ectoplasmer · 11 months
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you guys ever grab your f/o’s face and just *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehea
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bobmckenzie · 10 days
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women selfshippers who aren't stereotypically feminine, whether in physical features or personality or anything, your f/o loves you just the way you are 💚 you are their ideal woman ! :)
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candyheartedchy · 8 months
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Please be kinder to yourself with your self ships and self inserts. Please know that your creations of either drawings, writings or anything in between is precious. I know it can be scary to share and post sometimes. I know the fear of others finding your work cringy can be daunting. But what you create is beautiful. The fact alone that you see these fictional characters and want to be apart of their stories and share your love for them is a wonderful thing. No matter if it for fun or coping, your self ships are special. Your self inserts are a form of self love, embrace that feeling of being gentle with yourself when it comes to it. You don’t owe anyone a reason to why these characters are special to you, only that they bring you joy and comfort.
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dreamwinged · 2 months
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selfshippers this is your sign to block that one canon x canon ship tag that bothers you. it doesn’t make you weak or a coward ok!!! your comfort comes first!!!
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