Reminder: if you believe that transfems are too loud and dominating due to "male socialization" and speak over transmascs, who due to their "female socialization" are too quiet and submissive to stand up to the evil male privileged transfems, you are a transmisogynist and your views are literally undistingushable from that of actual TERFS. It doesn't matter if you are trans yourself, you are still a transmisogynist.
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Scrolling through tumblr has been a rollercoaster today. Tons of Sam lovers slandering Dean. Tons of Dean lovers slandering Sam. I don’t understand the hatred. And it may be in part that I don’t consider myself a ‘Sam person’ or a ‘Dean person’ so there isn’t that divide there. I am a Winchester person.
Sam and Dean have both made mistakes. It’s okay to admit it. For example: when Dean was sent to purgatory and Sam never looked for him. That was a mistake. I didn’t agree with that and still don’t. Another example: when Dean tricked Sam into giving Gadreel permission to occupy his body. That was a mistake and it was wrong.
Admitting that isn’t blasting hatred towards Sam or Dean. I understand why they did it. I understand how hard it had to be to make those decisions. You have to understand that you aren’t in those situations when watching the series; so you are able to think it over with a rational mind. Sam and Dean wasn’t given that privilege. Their decisions were fueled by emotion, so naturally, mistakes were made. And it’s not right to hate either of them for it. You can hold them accountable and not like the decisions that were made, but that doesn’t mean you have to be disrespectful and slanderous.
To elaborate on the ‘I am a Winchester’ part in the beginning, I’ll start with Dean. He is not a love interest to me. I believe that if I was in the series then Dean would be a brother to me. I relate to him a lot. And not in the “this is my favorite character, so I’m gonna change my personality to be just like him” kinda way.
I grew up on the road. I never had a house, never had a room. My family and I were crammed into hotels for my entire life, traveling between states to follow my father’s job. The longest we ever stayed somewhere was a couple weeks at most. Countless schools, no friends, no freedom. At the time I was the youngest (I am now the middle child) and all the responsibility fell onto me. I won’t elaborate further on that subject but it was a lot. And all of that doubled when my little brother was born. It was hard and I struggled, both mentally and physically because of it. When I did reach out for help, I was shut down or ignored, so I learned to cope by myself. To smile through the pain with the quote ‘Fake it til you make it’ cycling through my mind. I am 21 now and can’t say that much has changed. I could go on and on but will cut it short for your benifit.
On to Sam. Him, I consider a love interest. His ability to go through so much trauma that barely anyone could hold a candle to, yet still not belittle those that are expressing minor trauma is heart warming. He is gentle, expressive, compassionate, and caring. He tries so hard to belong even when he expresses multiple times throughout the series that he doesn’t feel pure. As someone surrounded by a die hard Christian family, I know the feeling. With Sam, I feel like I could sit for hours and talk with him, never worrying if he is listening or wishing I’d just shut the fuck up. Not to mention I love animals and I think Sam would absolutely adore Tigger, my holland lop rabbit.
With all of that being said, I love the Winchester brothers so much but for entirely different reasons. They both hold a special place in my heart.
And Cas, that beautiful winged man, I relate to him as well. But since this post is about the Winchester brothers, I didn’t include him. But just know, you are in my heart as well. Squished right in the middle of Sam and Dean.
If you read this far then you deserve a reward. Here’s some pie: 🥧 (Dean made it himself) Enjoy!
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