#overweight imagine

[kyuala]

SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything

#this aint exactly s******* but it aint exactly not s******* either #anyways it gets even harder when i have to live under the same roof as my brother who is so much better than me in every single conceivable #and imaginable way possible like #and i knowwww a LOT of it comes down to us having relatively similar yet wildly different lives despite being 1.5y apart and having the sam #family our entire lives like he has gone through NOTHING and i mean not a single societal issue ive had to face and endure my entire life #he's a man im a woman. he's white im black. he's straight im gay. he's skinny ive always been 'overweight'. he's always been the good #christian kid ive always had issues w faith and religion. he's never been mentally ill i was clinically depressed for nearly 8yrs of my lif #we both lost the same parent and im the only one who got pathological grief and a personality disorder out of it. he's had a great job for #the last 7yrs that now pays him 20k+ every month ive only had 3 odd jobs my entire life and 2 of those my MOTHER had to give me so i would #have SOMETHING and ive never made over 1.6k monthly n my last job was minimum wage only #he's had like 4 relationships and is nearly engaged im so traumatized + emotionally unavailable ive only ever been on 1 date my entire life #he has a good relationship w every family member we have i have Issues w like half the family. he's always been an active member of our #church i can barely listen to like 4 traditional hymns before i start losing my mind and spiraling. i think the only two ways we're pretty #much equal like socially is that we're both able bodied cis and christians but still the cis and christian thing is debatable for previousl #stated reasons so like. do yall see how much better he is doing than me in every little last area in life and how he's always gotten the #long straw when it comes to Not having to deal w certain obstacles in life. n i know its like yea idk what it actually is like to be him an #he could not be doing all that well first of all shut up. second of all if it was 1 or 2 things i'd get it but it's literally EVERYTHING #and i know bc of said things n our v different lives it's unfair to me to compare the two of us but then it begs the question: WHY #WHY did i have to go through these things. WHY do i have to deal w this. WHY did i get the short straw literally every goddamn time #WHY did i have to get THIS life like WHYYYYY why ME GOD. why have I had to put up w all this bullshit for 24 fucking years!!!!!!!!! im TIRE #and this is not me hating or resenting him i know it's not his fault and he is so good to me #but still. why was i left with these things? to live like this? #so yes i guess i do envy him a little bit. who wouldn't #mari.txt #personal #tw negative #dl #btw i do NOT mean some identities are better than others. i mean he is better and is doing better than me in life partially bc he's never #had to deal w certain social issues and obstacles that come w oppressed identities.

[mangopit]

i think this will make the girlies mad but it is simply my subjective truth. it is my ick and imo a red flag if someone must look good always, all the time. if you are unable to be seen in public or on social media without flattering clothing/makeup, i think you care too much about surface level things to be my close friend. like maybe you're insecure about something and trying to hide it. but ultimately my view is that your approach to things that unnerve you is one of avoidance and deflection, and that is a friend red flag to me

#'what if i just want to look good all the time for myself?' i just can't imagine not being able to sit in ugliness for a while. personal ick #'what if i'm just working on myself and trying to feel more comfortable in my own skin?' #again it sounds like you're seeking self betterment through surface level/materialistic standards #that is an ick to me #'what if i'm only doing this bc society will mistreat me otherwise?' #i'm SO sorry but as an overweight asian-am girl with fucked teeth #i say if good clothing is the one thing separating your societal rejection and acceptance i don't think you're as rejectable as you think #i think you're projecting your own values of appearance onto the world around you #and i personally would not like to partake #woohoojazelyn thoughts #and you may say 'jazel you're just saying this to be inflammatory and different' #i'm not but also this is my blog and i'm allowed to silently ick people all i want. eat my ass about it

[thesilverlady]

I am actually very glad that they didn't cast plumpy actors to play Rhaenyra, Aegon and Helaena ... Imagine how much bullying the actors would have to endure from this fandom🤮

oh I absolutely agree with you. While I'd have adore for bigger sized actors to play those three, that would be in a perfect world where the fandom wouldn't weaponize their appearance for their ridiculous discourse and the showrunners wouldn't be fatphobic.

As much as I miss it, I'm glad we dodged that bullet

#ask reply #and with the way hotd is terrible at styling imagine how they would have dressed them 💀 #overweight actors generally get the short end of the stick and commonly get the worst clothes because style departments don't know how to #deal with them... Not to mention the fandom is already assholes to the cast who are the classic type of socially attractive #i wouldn't want this fandom anywhere near fat people #I'll never forget when Emilia Clarke put on some weight because of her health issues and to this day she still gets shit for old pictures 💀 #anti hotd fandom #anti asoiaf fandom

[luvdisease]

REAL manly men vent on their self ship blogs

#fuckcingngngn #there was an asmo message where he was like #baking cookies for me #which is sweet and all #but he started going on about how he changed the recipe so there would be less calories #like #not the time #this and the nightmare abt him im just. #hes one of my main f/os shit hurts #i cant rly imagine him liking me irl. #im overweight lololol. i dont even try to be healthy ive given up #thats. probably not his type at all

[ashdreams2023]

Hello darling, I was wondering if you chould take my request. A Loki x reader , the reader to be little overweight and them and loki going out on a date and she thinks that the dress doesn't fit beacuse she is fat and Loki comforts them about it and he tells them that they are beatiful in his eyes. If you have time ofc .Have a nice day ❤

I have something similar to this so here it is but I’ll write you also a short!

No matter what

You kept your arms around your stomach waiting patiently for the waiter to come and bring your food over.

The weather was nice and Loki picked a cute restaurant where they had their tables on the beach.

So that meant you wore something light, the thing is you didn’t feel as comfortable with yourself due to that.

The dress was from a few years ago, you loved it but recently it just started to look awful considering you grew bigger.

"What would you like to have for dessert afterwards?"

"I think what I ordered would make me full enough" Loki raised a brow at you, it was unlike you to decline sweets, so obviously something was up.

"Rubbish" he said, his big green eyes catching your own orbs in one place "what is going on? You know I don’t like when you don’t express your feelings to me"

You sighed moving your arms slowly from around your waist "this dress…it doesn’t fit right…it looks hideous on my body" you paused "actually my body makes everything looks hideous" it was the way you got choked when you said it out loud that made him stand up.

Loki walked up to your side, ignoring whoever would stare and holding your precious face in his hands "now now, don’t say that about yourself ever again"

"Bu-"

"No buts. You have nothing to be ashamed by, your body is beautiful just the way it is and I wouldn’t change a thing about it, actually I don’t even care if you lost or gained weight as long as you’re happy" he kissed your forehead.

"Your beauty shines through everything, even if you were the opposite of now I would not care or think of changing you. No matter what" his sweet words made your body relax, slowly melting away any negative thoughts you had before he kissed your hands then went back to his seat.

"And I’m ordering cake for you if you don’t answer my question from earlier" you giggled nodding your head.

"As you like."

#imagine #mcu #loki laufeyson #loki #loki x reader #fanfic #loki imagine #mcu loki #loki/y/n #tw: body negativity #overweight

[science-lings]

Had to explain the concept of aromanticism and asexuality to my father on a whim bc I have a pin on my jacket and his reaction was something akin to ‘mood’ before going into a whole rant about how it’s so annoying that society focuses so much on romance and that it’s hard to find a group of platonic friends.

This was after he noticed my game grumps pins and called them girls lol

#just imagine a 60 yo overweight centrist who calls gay people homosexuals and takes testosterone weekly #I simply did not expect it from him

[mwagneto]

why is it literally impossible to find any alt man online that isn't bone thin PLEASE. i need fit inspo from someone whose collarbones i cant see

#thing is I'm not even overweight or whatever like I'm literally skinny im just dense/built and even i #cant find proper fit inspo so i cant even imagine the battlefield of trying to find actual plus sized stuff #pleeease please anyone who isn't bone thin please 😭😭🙏 #we get it ur hot but skinny jeans will never be loose on me can yall wear something else at least #i get around on my own decently enough but it'd be nice to have like. more ideas #alt #alternative #mall goth #inspo #idk what to tag. farewell #barking

[bluefuecoco]

i love the nancy drew games, but one of the best/worst things they ever did was turn sonny joon into a physical person, especially some cecil palmer ass tumblr sexyman

why’d they make him like that...

#whenever i saw sonny joon doodles in the older games i imagined like... #an overweight guy with plain black hair #and then shattered medallion comes out and it's like ''Oh no he was hot all along''

[wastedawayagaininmargaritaville]

The dr is right I don’t elevate my heart rate like hardly at all so like yes I need to take better care of my body so it can take care of me, but I can’t help but feel 1000% invalidated when I give you an entire medical history and list of symptoms and the only thing you tell me is to exercise and lose weight. Whatever. Going to get strong so I can kill and be harder to kill.

#I am also only like chubby/overweight and get this treatment I can’t imagine what it’s like to actually be fat in healthcare settings #well I can imagine because my mom gets it really badly but only can imagine

[mejomonster]

I wish there were more visible bigger trans men in media idk

#rant #i mean this is a general problem in that MOST people in media arent average weight #which is overweight bmi. u dont see hardly anyone that size in either tv media or social media influencers #tho a few in social media. so like. makes sense trans men that are popular online are also the really skinny people mostly #but like idk. whenever i look for trans men fitness advice they weigh like 120 lbs or less #and i weigh 160. and im like damn does this mean no one would tell me to muscle bulk wtf???? #i will never be that skinny even if i do a cut tho. so wtf when am i supposed to bulk or cut #i guess ultimately it natters little for me personally. since i have the flattest chest i will have #so bulking is fine. ill just go for muscle bulking ToT #but like. idk i imagine its just a skinny is always more popular in media thing #unless most trans men lose weight?? idk. in which case tho does testosterone xause weight loss or what #the weights im seeing are so small

[syntheticpaperd0ll]

need one of those collar chokers with spikes or with the little heart in the middle but cant find anything affordable thats a size higher than skinny fashion model

#and tbf i keep forgetting to even look #the pros and cons of being incredibly easy to distract #its similar with high cut socks #i had sock marks the other day from knee highs #safe to say i will not be trying cheap thigh highs anytime soon thanks to that #it can be similar with bracelets but ive had much less trouble with those #and im not even that overweight or anything #i cant imagine the struggle plus sized ppl go through kudos to you guys if you happen to read this

[sprawlingidioteffigy]

I don’t think my parents like me very much

#it’s not a one off #but like was talking to dyl earlier today n realised they were completely lying abt me being overweight #there’s other stuff but that was like a major tf?? moment 4 me… #ksss imagine encouraging your kid’s self image issues just cause you’re mad he’s not a fucking gymbro #it’s not like they’re ripped or thin r anything either

[shizucheese]

Hey guys, we need to talk. Because a certain little something in TMAGP 8 is causing what is genuinely the most toxic part of the Magpod fandom at large to once again rear its ugly head. So let's talk about podcast character appearance head canons, shall we?

I'm tagging this with the Magnus Archives, TMA and Magpod tags because I am absolutely calling all of you out, but if you don't want spoilers for The Magnus Protocol episode 8 then stop reading right now.

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. Okay, so, Gerry exists in the TMAGP universe. He's happy (or at least acts cheerful). And some people have headcanoned this to mean that he is no longer goth, or at the very least isn't dying his hair black with bad box color. And other people have decided to get seriously agro over this. I have literally seen with my very own eyeballs someone call "un-gothing" Gerry a "hate crime" and calling the person they were talking to "gothphobic."

Let me make this absolutely clear for all of you: podcasts are a purely audio medium and unless a physical trait of theirs is explicitely stated, everyone's headcanon for how a character appears is valid. Goth TMAGP Gerry is valid. But also

Rainbow Goth TMAGP Gerry is valid. Pastel Goth TMAGP Gerry is valid.

Not Goth At All TMAGP Gerry is valid.

Bald Gerry who has actually gotten his brain cancer diagnosed in time and is getting treated for it is valid. Somebody's headcanon of a character that has no canonical description to them, or whose headcanon matches the few crumbs of canonical description we have but otherwise doesn't look the way you imagine them to, is not going to take away from your own headcanon of what a character looks like. If someone imagining or drawing a character looking a different way from how you imagine them looking somehow takes away from your enjoyment of the fandom or otherwise makes you feel like you need to barge in and tell them that they're Wrong and need to conform to your headcanon or else, that is a reflection on you, not them.

And this problem way predates TMAGP, let alone TMAGP 8. The only description we have of John is that he is in his early 30's and has prematurely greying hair.

If someone thinks he looks like the pastiest motherfucker to ever dwell in a basement, an extra-in-the-Adam's Family or Tim Burtan protagonist of a man, let them.

What's that? You want to tell them that John is BROWN and if they don't headcanon him looking that way they're WRONG and RACIST? Back away from the keyboard and go outside.

(Ironically, as someone who started getting grey hairs in my hair in my 20's myself, I'm pretty sure everyone's headcanon of John, with tiny little whisps of grey in his hair, is wrong, because if he was so grey that people were surprised to learn he was "a child of the 90's," he was probably full on salt-and-pepper when he was in his 20's.)

The only description we have for Martin is that he (man who canonically has the self esteem of a used doormat) describes himself as "not the smallest guy", Not-Sasha called him "roomy", Melanie is skinner than him, and Jonny said he imagined him as a "bigger guy" who would beat Alex in a physical fight. If someone decides to take this information and conclude that it means he's tall, broad and has muscle, rather than that he's overweight, fucking let them. If your first instinct to this is to run to your keyboard and call them "fatphobic" or otherwise bash them for it, I once again urge you to back away from your keyboard and go outside.

Someone headcanons Basira not wearing a headscarf? We have exactly 0 canonical physical description of her and the people who headcanon her as having one are basing that purely off of her name alone. Fucking let them. Someone headcanons Melanie and/ or Georgie as a skin color you don't agree with or a hairstyle you don't like? Fucking let them. As long as someone's headcanon of a character's description doesn't contradict the few canonical descriptions we have of a character, why do you care? Them having a different headcanon from you doesn't take away your right to imagine the characters looking however you like, anymore than it should take away their right to do the same. Someone headcanoning John as white (or Black, or Asian, or Mixed, or whatever) isn't going to make all of the fanart of John as brown with long hair suddenly disappear, nor the fanfiction describing him as such (although I do often wonder if the opposite is not true; is the fact that John looks the same in so much of the fanart I see on here really because of fandom "consensus", or is it because people are absolutely awful to anyone who draws him Different?). Someone headcanoning Martin as not fat isn't going to make the mountains of fanart of him as a fluffy little marshmallow vanish into the void (although I do remember hearing about someone getting bullied off the internet for daring to draw Martin as not fat). And someone headcanoning Gerry in TMAGP as not being goth isn't going to take away your preciouse goth TMAGP Gerry headcanon. That should be part of the fun of it, shouldn't it? Seeing what different images people have conjured in their heads of these characters we only get to experience with our ears, and celebrating the differences as well as the similarities? Why are we bullying people into conforming to one appearance of a character when no actual canonical appearance of them exists?

#the magnus archives #tma #the magnus protocol #the magnus protocol spoilers #tmp #tmp spoilers #tmapg #tmagp spoilers #magpod

[hanksthompson]

It's our fat fuck of a Beagle's birthday today so here are some of my favorite pictures of her!

Her name is Lucy, she's three years old, and she will simply perish if she is not cuddled and kissed.

#i love her so much i can not imagine life without her #she's only four pounds overweight but i still call her fat and chunky

[deep-sea-horror]

in my defense i dont go to the doctors because the medical staff around here are thee most awful dogshit ppl you can imagine

#the nurses at my local clinic are the rudest pieces of shit you can imagine #like you go to their review page on google and its nothing but complaints about unprofessional behavior and racism #my mom had this friend and they literally killed her baby through medical neglect :/ #my mom herself went to the hospital once for severe back pain so bad she couldnt walk #just to be told it was because she was overweight #it ended up being several herniated disks #they told me EYE was overweight when i went to get checked #im what 5'2 ish? and i weigh about 130 #like girl you do not get kidney failure at my age just from being overweight fuck you #and thats why i avoid the doctors like the plauge

[fandomsandfeminism]

As we move towards the summer months, this is a healthy reminder that:

BMI is misapplied at best and pseudoscience at worst.

That genetics have far more affect on body type than any other factor.

That a "healthy weight" varies wildly from person to person.

That your body's actual healthy weight shouldn't require constant dieting to maintain.

That some studies have shown that being slightly "overweight" based on BMI actually makes you more resilient against injury and illness.

That unless your weight is actually directly causing you mobility issues or pain, it isn't a problem.

That movement and food should be a source of joy, not self discipline and stress.

That everyone looks better in clothes that fit properly.

That being hydrated and well fed is far more important to your health than you realize.

That fed is best.

That chiseled abs are only really visible if you are dehydrated.

That feeling the sun on your skin and bird song can heal the parts of you that years of dieting and weight watching and self criticism has injured.

That you have no obligation to be sexy or beautiful.

That you should never say things about your own body that you wouldn't say about a friend's or a partner's.

That it is not a moral imperative to be healthy or mobile or skinny.

That the people who judge you for your weight are fighting their own demons.

That People are absolutely terrible at guessing a person's weight. How you dress and carry yourself has far more impact on perception.

That You don't have to be beautiful to enjoy a beautiful day.

Better happy than skinny.

Feeling good is better than looking good.

#anti diet culture #dont hide in baggy clothes #our cultures aversion to nonsexual nudity has really warped our perception of bodies #bodies are weird #feeling good is better than looking good #feminism #this is for men too #women nonbinary genderqueer everyone #please drink water and eat food #food is so good #food is a gift