#overemotional

[cryinginmyroomsposts]

I am simultaneously consumed by the fear of being too much while also dreading not being enough

#anxiety girls win #anxiety sucks #not enough though #gifted kid burnout #gifted kid syndrome #gifted kid problems #gifted kid things #gifted kid shit #will i be enough #too much #ughhhh #overemotional #nothing new #mirrorball girlies

[scrabbleknight]

Apathy and Overemotional: Opposite Extremes?

Out of curiosity, I decided to look up a dumb search, "Apathy vs Too Emotional". I had always wondered why apathy by itself is bad, and how today's society praise overemotional behavior when in past, it was also seen as bad.

Apathy is the lack of care over a subject, and overemotional being too caring over a subject. So they're opposites of each other, in a sense. Which begs the question; do the theory of extremes (horseshoe theory) apply here? Usually, any form of "extreme" is a bad thing and there are rarely, if ever, any exceptions. Both apathy and being overemotional are two extremes of the same slide. I know that horseshoe theory is generally used for politics but I feel like it can apply to a lot of other things including human behavior.

So if applying horseshoe theory here, we find that both apathy and being overemotional are *bad things*. It's hard to tell which is better or worse but the idea states that being somewhere in the middle is usually the better choice -- handling and managing one's emotions in a healthy manner.

Yet, I couldn't actually find anything. Maybe because people treat these two things as separate. Maybe it's because these two groups rarely interact. It's hard to say. Though, I'm still curious.

Why is apathy bad? Why is overemotional behavior good? Can apathy also be good? Can being overemotional be bad? Wouldn't it be better if we taught people to manage their emotions in a healthy and safe manner? Would it be worse?

So many questions but I'm the last person qualified to actually study them. So if there are any psychology or sociology students on this site, here's a thesis idea. Go crazy because I want to see the results :)

#apathy #emotional #emotions #psychology #sociology #apathetic #overemotional #too emotional #scrabble talk #horseshoe theory

[jjelly-donutzz]

Things I hate about my period: crying over stupid shit. I tried to buy an OC (the person I was buying from didn't answer all weekend), and when I spoke to them today, they said they sold it to someone else. Don't worry, I still have my money, but I really wanted the OC and I'm crying over it and I know I'm crying for a stupid fucking reason and that's making me cry even more. Fml.

#afab problems #girl trouble #menstruation #failed trade #ocs #original character #vent post #stupid vent #hormonal #overemotional

[porcelainxbat]

chest too tight and heart too full

#personal #anxiety #overemotional

[sidthecripplinglyanxioussloth]

What is the point of complaining about someone not expressing their feelings!!!! If you get angry with them for expressing their feelings!!!!!!!! You can't expect me to like talking to you if I have to diffuse a bomb every time I express a dislike!!!!!

#i kind of hate people beacuse of this #literally just said i dont want something to happen because it makes me uncomfortable #but now im being #unreasonable #overemotional #and taking things too personally #this is why i don't talk to people

[teatoast-n-tarot]

#gemini #idealization #overemotional #love #temperamental #exaggeratedfeelings #emotionalrescue #victim #saviour #tarot #tarotdaily #tarotdailycard #tarotdailymessage #tarotdailyguidance #tarotdailyoutlook #wintersolstice #christmas (at Liverpool) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmaqUyyqmq4/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#gemini #idealization #overemotional #love #temperamental #exaggeratedfeelings #emotionalrescue #victim #saviour #tarot #tarotdaily #tarotdailycard #tarotdailymessage #tarotdailyguidance #tarotdailyoutlook #wintersolstice #christmas

[multipurposetoolguy]

freaky barber who does freaky barberous things

also muriel ^_^ and my human design for courage..poor little guy in the middle of nowhere just wants to keep his adopted gramma safe

#doodles #courage the cowardly dog #ctcd #human au #human version #cartoon network #freaky fred #muriel bagge #clip studio paint #highly inspired by alganiq's human courage design on deviantart!!!! #hes just a frightful boy to me #instead of the math or science autism he got the scared of everything and overemotional autism

[danandphilcatboys]

one of the older dan and phil vlogs popped up in my youtube recommended and i started thinking about dan and phil's relationship again (as i always do lol) and i'm actually even more jealous of them for having so many memories of theirs documented in videos like living together going out to the city putting up a christmas tree together etc (i think it's obvious what video exactly i'm talking about) and it's also while both of them have their own youtube channels and approaches to them they regularly appear in each other's videos.... so many of us just live our lives, not even thinking about stopping to document some moment in our lives for different reasons and then those moments never come back and we have nothing to remember it with no matter how bad it has been sometimes you cannot deny that they have so much stuff to look back on that literally makes me want to create my own youtube channel and go out looking for my soulmate

#dan and phil #dan and phil games #dnp #dan howell #phil lester #daniel howell #amazingphil #i'm sorry for making everyone emotional #including myself #i deserve eternal sadness for this #i don't want a reputation of making everyone overemotional #writing this when i should be sleeping #i will elaborate on this later #and if requested too #and if i feel inspired too #who cares about having a uni lecture tomorrow am i right #text #text post

[jazze-bee]

guys i just finished reading handplates and i feel so empty it was so good but also everything hurts. god its worse than when i finished act-to-flirt why are these undertale fan series just ripping my beating heart out and shoving it down my throat i cant take this i seriously cant take this theyre finally happy despite everything guys i seriously cant i

#handplates #will probably delete this when im less emotional and realize im being cringe #but holy shit that ending is so... heartfelt? i just felt so much throughout the comic and the CHARACTER WRITING!!? #man if i can create something that rouses even a fraction of the emotion i felt reading this comic i will be fulfilled in life #i would be crying if i didnt feel so empty #i might be overemotional and it hurts :) but its still such a good feeling somehow. what a memorable experience #actually nobody read this post please im ranting because i dont have a journal thanks

[levitatingbiscuits]

I love the idea of Sith Obi-Wan being just as affable as Jedi Obi-Wan. He still banters with his opponents and his allies, he's still on a first name basis with everyone at the restaurants he frequents, he's still very well mannered, and animals still love him. You'd almost be able to forget he's a Sith, if not for the leonine eyes.

But occasionally he'll do something horrific, something measured and calculated to be as cruel as possible, but he'll still be ever so charming and polite. He might even reassure his victims that it's not personal, even if it's too perfectly tailored to what hurts them to be meant for anyone else.

And the thing is, it would be so easy to forget how dangerous he is, when he's so pleasant otherwise. He's nice right up until he's not, but by then it's too late to escape.

#anakin is the overemotional one #the one who cries and screams #who's so selfish that he'll feel sorry for HIMSELF even as he's killing children #but Obi-Wan would be so attentive and interested in his victims #he'd be so interested in learning about them and what makes them tick #whether it's a pleasant conversation or psychological torture #and with him its hard to tell where one ends and the other begins #sith obi wan

[selene-and-the-cold]

Someone who is sick and sneezy? Good! 🥰

Someone who is emotional and crying? Also good! 🥹

Someone who is overemotional when sick, thus is a complete mess, crying and sneezing, and blowing their nose only to cry and sneeze some more? Divine! 🫠😭🥰

Bonus points if there is an SO with a shoulder, neck, or chest to cry and sneeze into.

#snz #colds #crying #snz and crying and being overemotional just works so well 😍 #cold-induced emotional meltdown my beloved

[blueberrysan]

San ✧ Potts Behind Video

#atzsource #ateezedit #ateez #san #choi san #ateez gifs #shaytriestogif #randomsangifs #i missed giffing and decided to do this <3 #he's so cute i cri #it's 2:30 am and i'm being overemotional probably help

[ganondoodle]

post rant clarity.... i really need to shut up about totk and just focus on my projects

sorry :/

#ganondoodles talks #hello overemotional reactions problem #that gets worse the longer i am awake at night #good night #may i not relapse (?) again soon

[truthsinwhispers]

People are soooooooooo quick to shit on people who deal with emotional disregulation it makes me fucking sick. When you express your stress through tears you're a crybaby. When you're quick to frustration, you're either overly dramatic or you're violent and scary. When you have the gall to get too happy, you're childish or straight up crazy.

Living with emotional disregulation comes with having to grow thick skin because people will call you every fucking name under the sun because you have the audacity to express emotions that are constantly ramped up to an eleven no matter which one you're feeling. You're loud, you're sensitive, you're overemotional, you're weak, you're soft, you're childish, you're naive, you're too much you're too much you're too much you're too much you're too much you're a burden because people now have to handle you.

Where do people think they have a right to judge others for feeling? I may be quick to express my emotions, but you're quick to judge and condemn and on a societal level that should be worse.

#my bullies in elementary school knew i had problems regulating my emotions so they'd say things where i could hear them. #they were never overtly mean things but they would say it in a mean tone and then giggle at me. and when i went to tell a teacher #the teachers would just roll their eyes at me. it's not bullying because they're not saying mean things #(even though they're clearly weaponizing something out of your control you don't have the language to describe) #my middle school bully heard my teachers call me overemotional and that stuck to me for all three years. #my coworkers and managers will shit-talk me behind my back for “being so dramatic” it happens no matter where i am. #i'm so used to people looking down their noses at me because clearly i can't be taken seriously. clearly i'm just naive and immature. #i just. my broken bleeding heart keeps weeping into my hands and i can't staunch it. #but i don't even want to staunch it. hearts are supposed to bleed aren't they?

[solarsleepless]

#i'm very normal abt the concept of her getting possessed #kit tanthalos #tanthamore #<- because I NEED them to have an overemotional swordfight!!!!

[trans-cuchulainn]

google search: best gaeltacht course for trans adults

(fucking sick of being misgendered in class. in english as well as irish so it's an effort/respect thing not a language barrier)

#also sick of always being misgendered in the same direction despite literally everything about my gender presentation #personal #got misgendered in class today by someone i thought was sound and now i'm just. pissed off and overemotional