#nonbinary questions

[that-bisexual]

REMINDER THAT THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR GENDER!! You could look like the most feminine person on the world and be a boy. It doesn’t matter. And also even if you prefer to dress like your agab you could be trans/nb/gq/ag/etc. or if you dress different from your agab you could still be cis. The way you dress is gender representation not your actual gender. Clothes shouldn’t be gendered at all but that’s a whole different topic. I think realizing that no matter how I dress my gender won’t be affected is something that helped me a lot with my self discovery. Now I’m not saying to dress different than your gender I’m just saying if you’re questioning focus on how you feel not the way you like to look (although that can be helpful too it’s all about the specific person!!)

#lgbtq #lgbt #pride #queer #lgbt pride #transgender #trans pride #nonbinary #agender #bigender #genderqueer #genderfluid #genderfluid demigirl #gender stuff #queerness #queer stuff #gender things #gender presentation #polygender #demiboy #demigirl #demigender #questioning #trans questions #gender questioning #nonbinary questions #gender questions

[morbidmanatee]

I have a question for people who go by multiple pronouns, especially he/they or she/they! How did you decide you wanted to go by multiple pronouns? Do they feel different? What do you feel like you get from they/them pronouns that you don't get from he/she, and vice versa? Only if you want to answer, of course! I'm just very curious about your experiences.

(Reblogs are appreciated so this reaches more people!)

#nonbinary #nonbinary questions

[derseprinceoftbd]

Weird question about an idea I had for a Homestuck fanfic that I'm concerned might be vaguely transphobic.

So... the idea was that Davesprite would come out as non-binary (inspired partially by Crow Strider AU), and the reason this wouldn't cause their arc to have to be repeated with Dave is that it would be because of the crow they fused with being female, sort of a Davepetasprite scenario but without that character's inherent hypocrisy.

Do you think this is vaguely transphobic, to give an entirely mechanical and external reason for transition? That's my concern anyways.

#homestuck #davesprite #crow strider au #trans questions #nonbinary questions #nonbinary

[queerasaurus-rexx]

slightly weirdly specific question of which i have difficulty finding answers to on ye olde interwebs

so; afab nb/trans folk who've had top surgery, with rib issues before transition: did you find the issues with your ribs lessened after top surgery?

for a bit of context: i cracked a few ribs on the right side of my ribcage when i was ten and i find i have the most pain under my right breast. and i guess i'm wondering if i could

sneak myself into top surgery under the guise of pain management?

further context: i'm agender envy and have always had issues with my breasts, the chest dysphoria is kind of unbearable. but access to gender affirming care is . . . hard where i live. mostly because i'd have to pay for transportation way out of my area and getting to and from psychological gender therapy is going to get expensive fast.

i just want the breasts gone.

i do want to reiterate that i am experiencing pain. i'd consider breast removal even if i wasn't dysphoric.

i guess my curiosity is if i could kill two birds with one stone.

#afab nonbinary #afab trans #trans questions #nonbinary questions #chest dysphoria #radfems dni

[luffyrose]

I have like, a real question I've been wondering about but not really been able to find an answer to-

If ya follow my random ass you probably are aware that I'm enby by now, but like, I am afab wishing I had a more masc body. I don't dislike features that come with a female body, but I have time and time again found it would have been more comfortable/easier for me personally if I had more masc features.

This isn't too big of an issue more often because there are temporary solutions either way like wearing binders when I am uncomfortable with my chest, etc. But I was wondering more so about my voice.

I wouldn't say I have a very feminine voice, but I definitely don't have a masculine one and I would MUCH rather have that.

Not really sure why I want a deeper voice, but the only real solution I have found to getting a permanent deeper voice, not just slightly but I mean deeper altogether, would be going onto T.

I'm NOT against it, but I know I wouldn't want to take it as long as most others, just long enough till my voice felt like it fit better.

My questions are in regards to that- For those that have taken T, whether long or short term, is there a minimum amount of time you have to take it? Or is it until you decide to stop?

I know there are many aspects more than just my voice that will develop and I am curious about those as well, but I know my main goal would be my voice, I don't care so much about whether the other aspects of it do or do not change since I'll be able to handle masc or fem for most other things. It really is just my voice that I don't like.

#gender stuff #gender questions #testosterone #enby #afab #afab enby #nonbinary #lgbtq #lgbtq questions #nonbinary questions #trans questions

[discoverylover]

If a customer called me sir then ma'am then sir then ma'am in the space of an effusive conversation, was I misgendered 4 times or do they balance out?

#i use #they/them #so it's hard to tell #nonbinary questions #non binary #gender queer

[alan-p-49]

if the male version of a succubus is an incubus...what is the nonbinary version of a succubus? a theycubus?

#nonbinary #nonbinary questions

[raineofthedragons]

#lgballt #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqa #nonbinary #trans #lgbtqplus #transgender #ace #asexual #acespec #lgbtq community #bisexual #gender questioning #gender queer #aromantic #queerplatonic #intersex #pansexual #queer pride #lgbt pride #lgbt comic #lgbtqiia+ #guess who had an original thought for once :)

[incognitopolls]

"Noun names" would include atypical names like "Sock" or "Brick" as well as more traditional names like "Rose" or "Hunter."

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #names #chosen names #noun names #trans #nonbinary #polls about people #submitted oct 28

[nonbinary-wyvern]

psa for those who chest bind or are planning to chest bind!! you are only supposed to wear your binder 6-8 hours with breaks!! please take care of yourself!! i know it feels amazing in the moment but chronic chest pain won't!! be careful!! i love you!!

#trans #transmasc #transmasculine #trans umbrella #nonbinary #gender nonconforming #chest binding #non binary #queer #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #agender #questioning #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtq community

[jaygubz]

Sameeeeeee

TW Eye Strain

#transgender #trans #enby #trans nonbinary #nonbinary #non binary #questioning #agender #transmasc #trans masc #trans masculine #transmasculine #demiboy #demi boy #demi girl #demigirl #demigender #questioning gender #gender questioning #trans 🏳️‍⚧️ #🏳️‍⚧️ #trans community #transgender community #nonbinary community #💙💖🤍💖💙 #gender spectrum #transfem #transfeminine #transfemme #eyestrain

[intergalacticgoose]

I wish there was a way someone could diagnose your gender.

Like I wish you could walk into an office and be like “ay doc, I’m AFAB but I have a phantom kibbles and bits, I cried watching ‘Stand By Me’ and relish the anonymity of the internet but when I pick up a romance novel I’m One Of The Girls, I think ‘I wanna be like that guy’ frequently, I want to smell like mesquite and oh, I’m also a raging lesbian. What’s going on” and the doctor goes “hmm, hmm, ah yes” and hands you like a flag or something

#gender #gender questioning #genderqueer #genderfluid #genderfluid lesbian #nonbinary #enby #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #trans masc #trans femme #androgynous #femininity #masculinity #agender #gender nonconforming #gay #hella gay

[yardsards]

think of a character that isn't canonically trans that you headcanon as being trans-masculine. (if you have multiple, just choose one arbitrarily or pick your favourite)

trans-feminine headcanon poll

#eliot posts #polls #trans #trans headcanons #was considering doing trans man trans woman and nonbinary polls but just went with transmasc and transfem #bc was easier to uniformly format the questions like that with just these two options #i know there are trans identities (and trans headcanons) that fall outside of the transmasc vs transfem binary #but i had to limit myself for easier data collection #sorry bout that #may make future polls in the future that are more in depth and encapsulate a greater range of genders

[m-for-now]

As someone who is genderfae (microlabel under genderfluid), I have a lot of different experiences with gender.

I just wish someone told me sooner that it won't go like "today I'm a girl" "today I'm an enby" but more like ,,, "today I am a swamp witch" "today I am a feminine victorian vampire boy" "today I am a forest goblin collecting people's stares about my gender expression like shiny rocks on the ground" "today I'm an androgynous pirate lady"

Like,,, sure, are those real genders? I don't fucking now. If a cisgender person asked me what I identify as that day, would I answer like that? No, definitely not.

But to my genderqueer, trans and genderfluid friends; do you get me? I can't be alone with this, right?

#genderfluid #genderfae #gender expression #genderqueer #transgender #nonbinary #queer #questioning my gender yet again #gender crisis #gender #my gender soup has so many flavours you don't understand #i needed to explain to my friend that when i say i want to dress like the cutest victorian inspired goth vampire prince #it's not actually a male gender #like.. you would really think it is #but that is a very nonbiney gender somehow #don't ask me how #or maybe it does count as male? #but the femininest androgynous male you can think of #like cute pretty let me giggle like a little girl kinda feminine #i don't even know if half of these things make sense #“why don't you just say girl or enby” #because moon witch dark cottagecore female isn't the same #as go out in the sun and enjoy the breeze i command a ship androgynous pirate lady female #anyways

[some---weirdo]

I love not telling anyone my pronouns, not in a transphobic way, but in a "your guess is as good as mine" way

#gender? #nonbinary #transgender #gender?? #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #gender??? #gender questioning #agender #genderless #genderflux #trans #gender #pronouns

[mrmaxdragonx3]

I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.

#positivity #lgbtq #aromantic #asexual #aroace #gay #bisexual #lesbian #pansexual #questioning #nonbinary #queer #queer identity #transgender #no labels #unlabeled #unlabled sexuality #unlabeled gender #lgbtqiia+ #lgbt pride #lgbt #lgbtlove #lgbt positivity