#nerve problems

[disagigglebilities]

Lmao my hand therapist just discovered I have decreased feeling on one side of my ring finger (the one closest to the middle finger)

#nerve problems #decreased feeling

[redysetdare]

I don't think a lot of people realize that lot of their advice to disabled people often boils down to "Get over it." they are trying to be helpful but their idea of helpful is "Just do the thing" because that's what they do. for them they just do things. It comes naturally to just do it.

They don't know how to bridge the gap between you and the task. For them the bridge is already pre-built and stable. For disabled people the bridge is run down, not well kept, it feels unsteady and is hard to get across without being slow and cautious - hell for some people there is no bridge and we need to build it ourselves but we don't have the bridge building tools and no one gives them to us.

"Just cross the bridge." They say before walking over their pre-built bridge. They never gave you the tools to build a bridge to cross.

#text #I hope this makes sense #disabled #neurodivergent #adhd #actually adhd #actuallyadhd #idk how to tag this post really i dont post a lot in disabled spaces... #by disability i mean all disabilities btw #i suffer from ADHD and chronic pain ad many other things #and all of them cause me problems that make it hard to 'just do it' #so hearing 'advice' that is just 'do the thing you're struggle to do' really gets on my nerves #especially when the people giving that 'advice' throw a hissy fit when i say that its unhelpful

[batcavescolony]

just saw someone say Rick Riordan making a TV show is just as bad as anything JKR has done. BFFR you're comparing Rick Riordan trying to make his world more inclusive, changing some parts because of money/time constraints, or just making changes cus he thinks they're needed, to JKR being a terrible person!

#and not to say Ricks work is perfect. ill be the firat to tell you his mistakes. his aspec rep is shit. his minorities rep has problems #he has general time line problems. im not says hes perfect but he tried from a good place #jkr named a character ChoChang. her Scottish character blow stuff up and tried to make alcohol. named a black character Shackelbolt #like damn get over yourself. #percy jackson #percy jackon and the olympians #percy jackson and the olympians #percy series #pjo series #pjo #pjo tv show #pjo tv series #pjo tv adaptation #if you wanna say shit about Rick ok. but be correct about it #how is he just as bad as jkr for not using the book he made in the early 2000s an exact script for the TV show being released in 2024? #and they yall had the audacity to be pissed when he didn't put a song about sex thats literally says `fuck her face° in the background of #LITERAL 12 YEAR OLDS in a place with memory altering properties..... thats whats you wanted. children getting high to a song about sex. #°oH bUt iN tHe mOvIe tHaT i WaTcHeD wHeN i waS tWeLvE' where the actors where like what 18? and weren't 12? that one? 🙄 #some of you are getting on my nerves. yes the show's pacing is eh really thats a reason to curisfy Rick Riordan? thats what you're deciding #this is the line? a tv show thats on its first season and is more accurate then the movies that came out? #good to know

[chronicallyjude]

Really wish doctors cared about undiagnosed chronic health issues, they might be tired of trying to figure out what's wrong with me but imagine how sick of this I am.

#chronic health problems #chronic pain #chronic illness #chronically ill #spoonie #gluten allergy #nerve damage #chronic migraine

[pratchettquotes]

"Mister Lipwig, the world lives between those who say it cannot be done and those who say that it can. And in my experience, those who say that it can be done are usually telling the truth. It's just a matter of thinking creatively. Some people say 'Think the unthinkable,' but that's nonsense--although in your case, sir, I think you have the nerves for it. Now, don't let me detain you."

Terry Pratchett, Raising Steam

#havelock vetinari #moist von lipwig #raising steam #discworld #terry pratchett #uberwald #trains #railroads #train schedule #progress #invention #do or do not #impossible #pressure #deadlines #unthinkable #creativity #creative problem solving #you have the nerves for it

[klausbens]

ray & boston + jealousy

#only friends the series #ofts #neo trai #khaotung thanawat #onlyfriendsedit #only friends #only friends series #boston only friends #ray only friends #thdrama #thaidramaedit #thai bl #thai drama #thdramas #dramas #top is getting on their nerves girl they should make out abt it #like! maybe if you two kiss it'll solve your problems idk try i say #*

[notadsmpblog]

I think this will be my last ever post about this situation on this account unless something brand new and wonderous (/s) happens, but stop acting like people should have seen the signs all along lmao?

Analyze his music and how he left warnings and hints all you want, but don't act like this was something that everyone should have seen coming. No offence but encouraging people to take every single song ever made at face value on the off-chance that the song is actually meant to be taken at face value is crazy. Ntm you guys are reading into things way more than necessary (E-girl Trilogy was just Wilbur making songs and capitalizing off of jokes about simps and Delphine fans, face it)

Also, it feels kind of off-putting because it does feel in the same territory as victim-blaming? I'm saying this as an emotional abuse victim myself btw. Telling people that it was there all along and that if they just tried hard enough they would know... You're seriously setting people up for failure in the future when it comes to these things

I'm not saying that Wilbur's fanbase is a victim of him, that's going a step too far I'd imagine. It's just that doing this sort of thing encourages other fans (who, again face it, are mostly comprised of impressionable teens) to either gain trust issues or be blindly trustful of others because CLEARLY they know better now and can see problems from a mile away

This is a long stupid post I know, but I'm tired of seeing dumbass posts on every single damn social media app about how Your New Boyfriend is "Wilbur's true self and he was telling us all along and we're dumb for not getting it."

#wilbur soot #fuck wilbur soot #// abuse #abuse #tw abuse #abuse tw #There's also problems with how you guys are treating this shit in general #Way too many of you are comfortable with comparing this to the Reynolds Pamphlet and it's getting on my nerves #But these kinds of posts is what got Quackifi harrassed off of Twitter #And though I think I have tough skin I also know that Fi thought they had tough skin too and STILLLL got bullied off of there so #No ty!

[crimeronan]

doctor's appointment today so i have to stay awake even tho i wanna go back to bed so bad. thinking more about luz getting hunter back after going thru hell in the worst timeline i was posting about earlier. luz on the kitchen floor hanging onto him and asking him a million questions about their shared childhood to prove his identity, which hunter assumes is because she's afraid this is an illusion & which is actually more because she's afraid this may be a new grimwalker....

#'if i can't tell the difference between my hunter and a copy of him then aren't i just belos' #toh #princess luz au #princess luz au worst timeline #even though this really isnt the worst timeline when hunter is alive. it's just a very dramatic hurt/comfort timeline #autoimmune tag #re doctor. good news is the leg problem i'm seeing her for is acting up today #bad news is the leg problem i'm seeing her for is acting up today #hoo boy that leg sure can.... crippled and nerve pain

[ganondoodle]

serious question, are there ANY (wired) headsets made today anymore that have seperated plugs for audio and microphone??

usb ones always cause trouble and the only other ones i can find are those with combined audio+mic into one plug, which i dont have the ports on my PC for.............

i tried looking through adapters but the only ones i can find are those that combine seperate ones, id need the reverse (if thats even possible)

(visualization bc i feel like i am losing my sanity trying to explain what i mean, am i stupid? did i halluzinate the two jack/plug thing???? do only cheap garbage ones have this??? is that one of the gaming chair things??? like oh you want a GAMING headset- that means either combined or usb haHA???)

#ganondoodles talks #personal #issue being that the new headset i bought is usb only and- of course- has a background noise that probably only ppl like me hear #im super sensitive to sound #like i hear bats and dog whistles you arent meant to hear #old headset (not the broken one) has a slight static and trouble with very silent sound which it cuts out #hence i got the newer ones (the now broken one) which didnt have that problem but well .. it broke after little use #new one has a weird beeping chirping in the bg #im so tired #(new one is the razer kraken v3- its usb only and any other plugs they have for other models are the damned combined one) #my computer isnt even that old but i literally cant find a single headset with those plugs seperated when i dont have that port #will i ever find a headset that fucking works with no drawbacks???? #(wireless isnt an option bc i hate wireless anything that isnt a controller you can also use wired) #i know it may sound like its not working right but i am 100% certain its one only people like me can even hear #also i got no nerves to try and send anything back to amazon ... for once i bought it there.... #or am i just stupid or did i miss some shit that made it standard to just call it differently or sth #like my pc has an audio port at the front and a mic port- two ports #the plugs (jacks???????) i see are the ones that have it in ONE #and i dont have it

[ace-cf-cups]

Friendly reminder that up until 4B/S5 (so, until writers began to mess her up), Belle has never had problems with Rumple's magic, in Enchanted Forest or Storybrooke. She even liked it.

In fact, her only issue with Rumple in earlier seasons wasn't his use of magic but his reluctance to be completely honest with her / share things with her.

#rumbelle #belle french #I just... I'm thinking a lot about S 1-3 (and even 4A remember her reaction to their transformation for their first dance) version of Belle #these days #and the fact that the writers all of a sudden decided that Belle should have problems with Rumple's magic is getting on my nerves more #and more #so I just want people to remember this. wasn't. the. case. in earlier seasons!

[menlove]

oh you're a lesbian who only listens to female artists and only engages with other women and has never even thought about a man and you want to point this out as something that makes u so very cool and enlightened you must be god's greatest gift to this earth my love do you want your 5 gold stars now

#not that there's anything wrong w centering women esp as a lesbian but my god it's insufferable when ur insufferable abt it #made a post abt how funny it was being a lesbian seeing ppl thirst over men in fandom #and someone goes. I don't have this problem bc I'm only in fandoms with women uwu #GIRL........... IF YOU DONT........ #also SOLELY women? bc I promise you even in fandoms w lots of female characters you're gonna deal w ppl thirsting over the men #anyway. I'm just annoyed it's fine those types of ppl just grate on my nerves so bad

[essektheylyss]

migraine day means sketch time feat. the newest addition to my list of "wizards that live in my head rent-free"

I only noticed today that Suvi has a little smoking incense holder in her hair and I'm not gonna lie, I'm obsessed with it.

#it's the lapsed catholic tbh. yes I WAS an altar server. #spent way too much time on this for how rough it still is but I also didn't really open csp intending to do anything serious so #it's fiiiiine #do not know why I have nO problem sitting doing art for a couple hours with a migraine but writing? forget it lol #worth it tho suvi's design slaps. the cheekbones on this woman. #suvirin kedberiket #worlds beyond number #my art #I know I say it every time I post literally any art but. wild that I could fully be decent at art if I was at ALL capable of consistency #aggressively sitting here like 'do not over-render do not over-render do not over-render—' #gee megs you know how you'd manage that more consistently? ACTUALLY FUCKING DRAWING— #me? posting this during off hours before I lose my nerve? more likely than you'd think #yes I can yeet whatever fic directly onto ao3 but art is SCARY this ain't my medium alright

[itsrocketsurgery]

ngl chilchuck age discourse feels like it’s getting way too close to the idea of being “minor coded”

like yeah, he looks younger than he is but he’s also married, is considered a veteran at his job, has 3 daughters who are all working age, etc.

a real world example would be… uh… me?

i am 22 i turn 23 later this year and according to most people i still look 16

but also i’m a senior in college i have a car and an apartment with my name on the lease i’m responsible for my own debt and i live in a separate city from my parents and any other family members (i have for the past 4 years) and i’m doing just fine taking care of myself

are you saying that despite me being an adult that i should be treated like a teen because i look like one?

#infantilizing adults just bc they are small or baby faced gets on my damn nerves #chilchuck #chilchuk tims #the narrative presents him as an adult #the problem with the ‘1000 year old demon in a child’s body’ is that the narrative presents them as essentially a kid still #meanwhile in canon it’s Weird to treat chil like a kid #dunegon meshi

[otakusheep15]

The user on here calling Trey Clover abusive is actually so hilarious to me. Like, did we even read the same story? Trey is one of the nicest characters in the game besides characters like Kalim and Silver.

He and Cater have a really good friendship, and it's made pretty clear that they care about each other. The most obvious example is that Trey is one of the only people in the school who knows about Cater's hatred of sweets. He even makes food he knows Cater will enjoy, and he uses his special magic to make sweets taste less sweet.

I see most people point out that one card where Trey says he's closer to Riddle as evidence that Trey hates Cater, but that evidence is weak at best. Obviously he'd be closer with Riddle. The two were childhood best friends whereas he's only knows Cater for about two years. However, this does not mean he hates Cater, it just means he's closer with Riddle, which makes sense.

Look, I understand not liking a character. I have a couple of characters from this game I dislike as well. However, going so far as to blatantly mischaracterize a character is uncalled for, and just plain stupid. As I stated before, Trey Clover is one of the kindest characters in-game, and he would never abuse someone, especially Cater.

I'm not going to @ this account, but I do hope they see this, and I do hope they understand that they are wrong. Like I said, there is nothing wrong with disliking a character, but this goes far beyond a mere dislike, and I am genuinely concerned for people who mischaracterize a character this badly.

The worst part is that this isn't the first time. So many characters, including Cater, have been horribly mischaracterized by the fandom simply because they have some personal vendetta against them or something along those lines. It's upsetting to see, but hopefully this post, along with all of the others calling out the problem, will help people to see just how badly they're mischaracterizing certain characters.

#did this post get oddly serious? yes #but it's a problem that's been happening too much lately #and it's getting on my nerves #especially since Trey Clover is one of the least complicated characters in this game #and yet people still manage to mischaracterize him #like how do you even reach this far? #twisted wonderland #trey clover #cater diamond

[opheliabf]

i think one of my biggest problems with batlantern is how uneven the fan content seems to skew. bruce and his life are always the main focus of the ship (e.g. the hundred billion fics of hal meeting the batfam) whereas hal always seems to be the supporting character for angst or fluff or whatever the shipper wants to have happen to bruce.

#i mean there are other problems. there are numerous other problems #but this one really got on my nerves #hal jordan #sam.txt

[goldom]

I have wireless internet but I still can't have wireless body? What a ripoff is this future

5G my fingertips to my brain; no nerves = no nerve impingement, now that's a big-brain idea

This is the ideal human form, cowards:

#first world problems #nerve injury #rayman #chronic pain