#moth vents

[theforesteldritch]

My mom's going back to university to study to become a therapist and her biopsych textbook is... interesting. It straight up states that XX chromosomes=female and XY=male, no variation or exceptions, forget about the existance of monosomy or trisomy of sex chromosomes I guess let alone AIS, Swyer syndrome or de la chappelle syndrome. Oh but wait it gets worse. It later brings up intersex variations as 'exceptions that prove the rule' of bullshit binary ideas about sex and brings up some case studies, one of which is about a woman with CAIS and then proceeds to invite a debate over if she should be told the truth and that she has CAIS. Im going to fucking rip a wall apart, at least my mom has me as the context to know that that's bullshit, but what about people that just take that at face value? People that want to go on to be psychologists or therapists? They're going to fuck any intersex patients up so bad if they think it's debatable if we should be told the truth about our intersex-ness, and not only that but think its ok to surgically 'treat' us without telling us or giving any semblance of informed consent.

I'm reminded of how I read about how one intersex woman had to break into her doctor's office to steal her medical records, because she knew something was up but even as an adult they refused to tell her. And how intersex people are far more likely to have poor physical and mental health, a good chunk of that probably attributable to the fact that shit like this happens and so we're probably more likely to avoid doctors and mental health professionals and not trust them, for pretty good reason. Some of the things I went through during diagnosis and right after and some of the things they did were traumatic and violating. But at least they fucking told me I have CAIS and gave me a say in my plan for treatment/monitoring when I pushed back. The bar is so low that despite how horrible and traumatic some of that and how I was treated was, to the point where I'm still processing certain things almost 3 years later, by other standards I got incredible care. Because at least they fucking told me. That is the bare fucking minimum. No, that's lower than the minimum, or should be, but we've been mistreated by the medical system so much that telling us we're intersex at all is a step in the direction of progress.

But people, supposedly mental health professionals and doctors, want to debate if we should be granted the basic decency of knowing.

#moth rambles #intersex #intersexism #lgbtq #moth vents

[tootheyed]

I think a childhood is smth you never stop grieving for

#traumacore #ventcore #moth vents #my txt #childhood trauma #actuallybpd #actuallyborderline #cluster b #(mothie)

[big-mothy-man]

I don’t CARE if you have a spit kink!!! Stop being weird to food service employees!!!

#this fucking guy!!! #I’m going to spit all in his stupid fucking food!!! #fucking hate capitalism #I hate this job sometimes #moth vents

[rottenjirai]

I hate that people make me sound crazy after they disrespect me and I lash out accordingly why must I be pliant so that you feel good about yourself?

#mothposting #moth talks #jiraiblr #jirai kei #jiraiblogging #jirai danshi #actually bpd #bpd vent #bpd #bpd thoughts

[somequeeralien]

Calico kitty with moths

#artists on tumblr #digital art #digital drawing #art #cat #calico cat #cats of tumblr #moth #surprisingly enough it was a vent art #cute #digital illustration

[artistic-moth-man]

#digital art #art #artistic moth man art #vent art #comic strip

[misty-moth]

The part of me that craves chaos wants Cybird to announce the new release date for ikevil as Monday.

And then just. Not release it.

#i wouldn’t even be mad #april fool’s day is an important Moth event #well… it used to be anyway #i had plans back in november that i never started 🥲 #i don’t have the energy for aaanything these days #this is turning into a vent post 🤨 #siiiiigh #since i’m talking about ikevil i gotta say… i’m grateful it didn’t come out today #due to the lack of energy i mentioned #ikevil #ikemen villains

[i-wiggle-i-squirm-bc-i-am-a-worm]

thank goodness she got the ladybug miraculous

#I mean Gabe sucks but being the moth/butterfly holder is probably made 10x easier when you can afford a whole separate room for ur lil gys #where I live rn we have a sponge moth takeover #it was really bad in the fall but even in the dead of winter these guys are still in my room #this happened to me this morning and I'm still fucking mad abt it #nothing like opening your phone and being jumpscared by moths flying to your phone #also I know it's the butterfly miraculous but I just need to vent abt my moth situation #miraculous lb #marinette dupen chang #miraculeakless #also is the ml fandom safe to join again?? I've been gone for so long I miss it #miraculous au #I guess????? #this is just a dumb little comic idk but yea technically au #wiggly's art

[ghoul--doodle]

Today was a day

#art tag #oc tag #oc: moth #vent art #blood tw #gun tw #i cant catch a break this is so fucking rude

[theforesteldritch]

I was thinking about like. Medical stuff I’ve been through relating to being intersex. And I thought oh it’s not been that bad but looking back so far a lot of it has actually been pretty traumatic and messed up and I just didn’t have the capacity to deal with it at the time. Like how even though it was consensual and the doctor wasn’t bad and was quick and relatively respectful the genital exam I had was horrible, lying there in a hospital gown while a doctor looks at your genitals quickly sucks at the best of times but I’d just gotten the official diagnosis and she told me at the end that my vagina was shorter than usual and asked if I wanted to try dialating. That was horrible to experience. And then the thing that fucks me the most up is while I was having a biopsy done of my gonads apparently the doctor did a genital exam again and I didn’t find out until after, I never said yes to that and my mom asked about it and the doctor said she’d just forgot to tell me and I tried to brush it off at the time because of all the shit I was going through with accepting myself as intersex but again looking back that was a horrible violation of privacy but honestly even if I knew how I don’t think I’d want to do anything about that specific instance because it’s not worth what I’d have to go through to try to figure it out. And then the time the X-ray tech when I was having a bone mineral density scan done repeatedly asked me if I was on hormone blockers when I told her what I was in for even after I told her no I’m just like that. And how I had to fight to even keep my gonads at all and do a biopsy instead because my doctor was recommending a gonadectomy hard and I’m so fucking glad I found the intersex subreddit when I did because they helped me realize that that wasn’t the only option. And how my mom wanted me to get them out too at first (she’s always respected that it’s my descision and is more on board with my plan now but I still. It sucked). And while I was going through all that I was just trying to get through and figure my shit out and didn’t want to deal with the mental side of things and now it’s just all crashing down on me. Holy shit that was fucked up. And the care I’ve gotten could be considered fucking exemplary care compared to what other intersex people face. It’s just. A lot to deal with Just. Never forget that when intersex activists in 1996 protested how the American academy of pediatrics was treating us they were ignored and ridiculed. And today despite all advances in the fight for our rights there’s still so much change that must happen.

#moth rambles #moth vents #intersex #intersexism #lgbtq

[tootheyed]

#moth vents #my img #my art #blood cw #self harm cw #cutting cw #vomit cw #traumacore #ventcore #trauma art #still dunno how to put community labels on things I'm sorry </3 #it's not letting me do it on my computer

[fluffyfairyzz]

no cus if someone is crying and hiding in the corner theres like a 90 percent chance they DONT wanna talk to you, ESPECIALLY if they hide more when you try to talk to them, no you arent some good doing the equivalent of rescuing a puppy of the streets, at best your mildly annoying and at worst your making the situation way worse

#this is heavily aimed btw #ok to reblog #vent #cw personal #cw vent #nerodivergent #nvld #actually neurodivergent #[​🌿];; the moth talks #nd #[🦷];; mossy’s reblobs #ALSO this is talking abt nerotypicals if u cant read social cues due to nerodivergncy you get a pass!!! ily gu #*guys #/p

[rottenjirai]

I have to become pretty how else will I matter to others.

#mothposting #moth talks #jiraiblr #jiraiblogging #bpd vent

[dominickthemoth]

Body image stuff under cut ahhhh

WHY DID I GET CHILD BEARING HIPS OVERNIGHT IM 19 I ALREADY WENT THROUGH PUBERTY WTF

Luckily I wear baggy clothes all the time so my body is hidden BUT STILL WHY

My gender dysphoria is worse now 🗿

#personal #trans guy #moth thoughts #vent post #cw vent

[heavy-metal-l0vr]

Vent under cut

I hate how i just be vibing then all of a sudden i want to cry for no reason i just want to go home but the place(s) i call home doesn't fucking exist iam missing people that don't exist i am lonely and i fucking hate it .i want all of this to end .will it ever end? I am tired oh so very tired...

#🎭 rambles #alterhuman #otherkin #kin stuff #kin shift #fictionkin #therian #demon kin #nonhuman #moth therian #rabbits alterhuman tag #(i think i may also have some kind of bi polar disorder i hope fucking not) #kin vent

[aubrietarose]

My brain and I have this little game we like to play. (Strictly speaking, none of those projects were SUPPOSED to be "draw vent art", but here we are. 😂)

#AubrietaRose #digital art #furry art #anthro art #Aubie #moth #mothgirl #moth furry #anthro moth #fursona #female #antenna #vent art #venting #rant