#its none of your business !

[0brighta]

rper: I don't like female ocs because I KNOW you just want to ship with my male muses!!!! because male muses are the ALPHA!!! women are not important and don't have anything going for them.

brighta, and i:

#. . ◌ ˚ . ℘ 𝐎'𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐄 ❜ › the dumb mortal #im YAWNING #y a w n i n g #arent you tired of being misogynistic?? #you're boring #female muses dont need men to thrive #and if THEY DO #its none of your business #girls can be romantic and still have a purpose #go to sleep and stop being a hater lmao #alpha of what lmao? being a loser? bye

[ellies-enrichment]

me running around the cabin trying to get pictures of ellie but accidentally lighting myself on fire: ow :(

(coughing) (distant groans) (cries of pain)

me: joel this isn’t about you

#dONT ASK ME HOW I DID IT #just... hush #its none of your business

[paradoxical-machine]

Shout-out to the old people sitting 3 feet away from me asking "is it a guy or a girl?" While subtly gesturing to me

#paradoxical talking #on one hand #you dont need to know my gender #its none of your business #but on the other hand #thanks for using my pronouns #it/its gang rise up #ask to tag

[rockaesthetic]

Hazza 🥹💚

#my shuffles #wallpaper #one direction #harry edward styles #harry styles wallpaper #i love harry styles #harry styles #green aesthetic #prince hazza #hazza styles #HARRY FREAKING STYLES #ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS #New York baby always jacked up

[whysoseven]

Hi, I saw one of your posts about being a ‘sociopath’ and was a bit curious.

You mentioned that what that means for you is that you don’t have empathy. I don’t want to presume to know about your personal experience, but ASPD is clinically characterized more by disregard/recklessness than by lack of empathy. Showing signs of a conduct disorder before age 15 is a diagnostic criterion. It’s also a required diagnostic criterion to show “disregard for and violation of others rights since age 15” (DSM-V), showing 3 or more traits along the lines of “failure to conform to social norms concerning lawful behaviors,” “deceitfulness/repeated lying,” “impulsivity,” “irritability and aggressiveness,” “reckless disregard for the safety of self or others,” “consistent irresponsibility,” and “lack of remorse.” Lack of empathy is not a diagnostic criteria (though it can be a risk factor).

I understand that it’s unhelpful to demonize people with ASPD, and that it’s a disorder, not a chosen pattern of behavior. However, I also don’t think it’s helpful to characterize ASPD as simply a lack of empathy, because that can be a sign of something else like autism, NPD, adverse childhood experiences, and even normal human variability.

Sociopath and ASPD are not interchangeable as sociopath is not a diagnosis. I am using it as a reclaimed term, as much of the low/no empathy, high impulsively, low remorse, etc communities have.

And you know what? Let's say I am diagnosed with ASPD for the sake of this argument (I will never ever give my diagnosis out online, as I have stated multiple times, so you will never know what I do and do not have). If someone goes online to talk about one of their demonized symptoms, maybe dont jump their ass for not listing all of their demonized symptoms? If someone is talking about their experience maybe dont jump their ass with "Oh ho ho but my special book says that you, person I don't know, are incorrectly framing it because you didn't list every single thing wrong with you!"

I never once said ASPD is characterized by a lack of empathy, I literally was just talking about a specific symptom I have of a mental illness that is heavily demonized. I even used the term sociopath on purpose because it's not a diagnosis! So people would leave me the hell alone! And instead I get this in my inbox! You and so many others have messaged me, sent asks, or commented on that post with "Well if you have x diagnosis like you say you do then you're doing it wrong" and I literally never claimed to have any of them! And it's a different diagnosis every time! "I don't want to presume to know your experience" and yet you do. You're coming here to school me on a diagnosis I never said I have. You're coming here to dunk and for what? For why? Because a mentally ill person dares say something on the internet about being mentally ill that doesn't perfectly fit what you think it should?

Get off my blog. Go drink some water. Realize that this was pointless and maybe super rude.

#seven speaks #ask #anonymous #anon #literally leave me alone about my diagnosis #its none of your business #literally none #neither are my other symptoms #neither are my experiences #if this was your takeaway #from a post about not demonizing mental illness #then you need to get help maybe

[lazycowboynerd]

#IM HAVING YOUR BABY #ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS #kiwi #harry styles #song rec #Spotify

[carbonatedcacti]

Can I ask about what happened between you and Quinn?

no you cannot

#please leave me alone about this #i was just going to ignore your asks but this is like the fifth one #please stop #its none of your business

[wren-kitchens]

im annoyed and a little pedantic so can i just say as a blanket statement

queerbaiting is when the promotion for a FICTIONAL STORY intentionally hints towards two characters having a romantic relationship, without any intention to follow through in the show, in order to get queer people watching without discouraging the homophobic enjoyers of the show

queerbaiting is NOT:

a celebrity who you think is queer because theyre gnc or they have a 'vibe'. that is a real person and they cannot queerbait

two friends of the same gender pretending to flirt with each other for fun. those are real people and they cannot queerbait

a show with two characters of the same gender who are canonically friends that YOU PERSONALLY think would be better in a relationship. that's not bating, that's shipping, and subject to opinion

there are more but those are the main examples of people misunderstanding what queerbaiting is and being mad at something that isn't actually a problem

#the general rule if youre unsure is to ask yourself 'is that a real person i think is hinting that they are queer' and if the answer is yes #then that cannot be queerbaiting because thats a human person #apparently this is not a known fact anymore but even celebrities are human and have human emotions and human experiences #so sometimes their experiences appear to match yours and if your experience stems from your queer identity then often you can assume that #the celebrity in question is also queer #you may be right but you're probably wrong because you do not know that celebrity and have no way of knowing if they do not explicitly say #also its none of your business #anyway im annoyed at how many people dont know what queerbaiting is anymore #no jimmy solidarity and joel smallishbeans are not queerbaiting because they are FRIENDS and they are allowed to interact with each other #however they like because they are FRIENDS and they are not even remotely trying to hint that they themselves are queer or something #queerbaiting #queer #lgbtq #wren wrambles

[freakinhorse123]

People on tiktok need to learn to ask themselves ‘is it my relationship?’ And if the answer is no then mind your business.

#this also applies to labels #is it your label? #no? #then it doesnt have to make sense to you #its none of your business #its for the person themselves #mind your fucking business.

[intotheelliwoods]

Little PSA

#no #seriously #its none of my business what kind of art other people make #and I am not going to hunt you for sport or harass or police or block you for whatever you like to do #this goes for tcest #proship stuff #whatever other labels you guys have?? #I dont know them all but seriously. I dont care #long as you guys tag your stuff properly and dont interpret my stuff as something it is not then by all means enjoy yourself #and kudos to you for being brave enough to share your individual and unique stories #if you unfollow me and slap a label on me or whatever after this post #by all means go for it #but then can you return back to twitter please? #anyways enjoy the fma meme redraw

[svnflowermoon]

why do people care so much about celebrities' sexualities. like why does it make a difference to you, they're not into you so you have literally no reason to care. stop pressuring them to come out to the whole world. they are not required to come out to you.

#luc posts #lgbtq community #we don't need another kit conner incident guys literally just stop it #kit conner #celebrities #coming out #queer #lgbtqia #gay #lesbian #bisexual #pansexual #aroace #asexual #aromantic #sapphic #its actually none of your business #like shut up you don't know them personally #stop forcing people to come out #unlabelled #unlabeled

[blueskittlesart]

having the time of my life rn

#ignore the matching ruikasa icons its none of your business

[anonymousfandommurmurs]

“A lot of the things that Harry’s experiencing, I knew and understood,” Mescal shares.

“The party culture side to Harry is like a tool that he uses to escape, but in terms of queer culture and in terms of learning…I have a proximity to that in my own life, so it didn’t feel like that part of it wasn’t necessarily eye-opening or anything to me personally.”

#paul mescal #lets stop speculating but also lets stop presuming heterosexuality #all of us strangers #its not straight until proven not because its none of your business

[graye]

DAY 2: Romance

Consistency??? Sorry I've never met her, she sounds nice @owl-bones

#badsansuary #horrortale #horrortale sans #undertale fanart #undertale au #self insert #self ship #x reader #y/n #sorry for the redacted those are spoilers for the fic I'm working on (ir's gonna take me 3848374 years to finish it) #why does he look so different to the literal first post I have of him? None of your business- *sweats* #uhh click for better quality???? tumblr you never was this fickle with photo quality what happened babygirl #once again #sorry for the doodle #it's all i could muster #rendering this looks like a nightmare #hes so baby girl i need him (delusional) #btw this uses a different brush bc I drew this first and i had no idea how to use the program i'm using rn #Graye Draws #program is called krita btw its free and for PC #looks like photoshop #ok ill shut up now

[fettiowi]

Theres just something really cool abt just identifying as aro and not elaboraring it further than that

#best thing when youre trying to figure out your identity is when youre like #'yknow what this is none of your business' #really there isnt anything anyone else needs to know from me #aromantic #its freeing in a way

[technolilly]

This is the funniest comment I've ever seen everyone else go home

#joe keery #yes im watching joe keery interviews what of it #he has a strange sort of openness you dont really see in the entertainment industry #like he says he likes being private and its like !! you are so right king gatekeep your life from us- its none of our business !!! #he has several things going at the same time like hes an actor and a musician and its really inspirational how he didnt only pick one #idk hes just very neat :)))